FabSwingers.com forum: Longest Period of Time without Having Sex

By *imply_Sensual OP Man
over a year ago

warrington

This is really a follow up to a recent thread about how often we have sex with partners etc. There were a lot of 'never' answers and it made me think how often people on here can go without sex, realistically.

For me, I dont have a partner, and although I have had a few meets from here, I also have a couple of 'buddies' who are open to a bit of fun when times are barren - so i would say 3-4 weeks is the longest I have gone without over recent years.

How about you guys, how long is too long to go without?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Do you mean longest ever or longest since joining Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

days,but not too many

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Four years ... Crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months and I was still living with my ex at the time

Since I've been single it was 55 days...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

3 and a half years

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

not too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my daughters were much younger. I went several years without..

It's now been 4 month! (via choice I may add)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

over 25 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go months without sex at times, I haven't had sex since march, yes it is hard but being single. working full time, having a young daughter, not being able to accommodate and not driving not a lots stacked in my favour when it comes to meeting

so I meet when I can and sometimes that takes a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

32 years of celibacy, by choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is really a follow up to a recent thread about how often we have sex with partners etc. There were a lot of 'never' answers and it made me think how often people on here can go without sex, realistically.

How about you guys, how long is too long to go without?"

After a not so nice break up some yrs ago.....i went 11yrs without sex and it didnt bother me one bit...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

As people are going with the outside of Fab... it was 14 years. Since Fab the longest has been 3 months (the perils of being picky).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Five years after my marriage break up.

Since joining fab I can go 2 or 3 months, its quality over quantity for me.

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By *imply_Sensual OP Man
over a year ago

warrington

Wow, some long periods here

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

It's been ages, what is sex?? Ha ha

At this moment in time I have not had sex for just over a year and this is the longest ever for me!

God I need some very soon!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

About nine months after I split with my ex husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four months and counting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 3or 4 months when I was single .... I had sex on the brain I turned every coment or convo into something sexually related and felt I was constantly looking for a buddy or victim lol . In my relationship only about week is prob the longest ... After a knee op

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

About 8 months I think x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

A very long time during a marriage....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months i believe.

...distance, time and work have been an issue. But i make up for it when i finally meet. A weekend away seems to do the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I almost made a move on a work college the other week, that's when you know its been to long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before fab 18 months

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I find the longer I wait the less I'm bothered. It's when I get some I want more and more and more! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 months then 6 months straight after....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read this tag line and underneath it said serendipity just this minute lol made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a question I really couldn't answer honestly as full penetrative sex is, just one small aspect of my healthy sex life.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

3 1/2 yrs 'nilla life

7 months fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a question I really couldn't answer honestly as full penetrative sex is, just one small aspect of my healthy sex life."

I took the question as meaning no sexual contact at all not just not fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19.5 month and counting i chose some time ago i did not want anything for a while then when i chose i wanted it i couldnt get any haha thats karma.i have no idea how to get on in the "dating scene" and all the bs that goes with it just want a woman who admits her desires are as high as mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26yrs and counting

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding

3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 years"
omg i dont want to wait that long im not in jail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up to one year for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im joining the church

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

21 1/2 years...

Started late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"21 1/2 years...

Started late

"
haha maybe i was too early lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years for me

and even since joining Fab Im picky so not often

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding

"Im joining the church"

I already did, can't get any there either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im joining the church

I already did, can't get any there either!"
hahaha we should all meet and lose our cherry one more time i think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was almost 2years, after falling pregnant and becoming single I just didn't have time to meet people. I really didn't care about it then! As someone else said, it's when I get it I want more and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before fab days longest was 2yrs, just out of long relationship with no confidence, but now, longest is 16 days, was tough going, and that was really trying to see how long i could last, i was really moody, short tempered and stoooopidly horny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months and 14 months, back in the day I did " proper dating" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh if horny is stoopid get my dunce cap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 years 6 months ish from the ages of 0 to 18 years and 6 months. After that it might even have been another 3 years.

It might just be me but the less I have the less I feel the need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets form a meet for anyone who isnt getting any haha

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Lets form a meet for anyone who isnt getting any haha"

A non orgy orgy of moans about our sex-less lives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once went 2 years without having sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than a couple of weeks I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An orgy of moans hahahaha made me smile thankyou

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I once went 2 years without having sex!

No halo so it must be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once went 2 years without having sex!

No halo so it must be true.

Yes believe it or not lickety it is totally true

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"I find the longer I wait the less I'm bothered. It's when I get some I want more and more and more! X"

Yeh I'm the same!!!! Lol

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I went 5 years by choice!! Wasn't bothered at all til I started having sex again about a year ago!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nine days short of two years with my ex wife, i even kept a bloody diary it got so bad lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Two years before I started hooking up on the net. But my mum had died and I'd gotten divorced so needed the time to get my shit together.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I find the longer I wait the less I'm bothered. It's when I get some I want more and more and more! X

Yeh I'm the same!!!! Lol"

I read somewhere that when women have it less often they want it less often. But the more they have the more they want. So sounds normal to me.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Longest without in real life, was over 2 years! (Split from ex but still living together)

On here, about 3 months......It's not always easy for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive not had sex for over a year now, nearly blind

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