FabSwingers.com forum: vanity vs desperation

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which is more off putting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation

Vanity is harmless as long as it doesn't develop into conceitedness

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Vanity, as arrogance is a huge turn off and frankly the amount of vain profiles with no pics astounds me. I want to judge if they are God's gift to the world myself

Desperation is just irritating, unless they've messaged me thrice that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Desperation

Vanity is harmless as long as it doesn't develop into conceitedness"

Said the guy posing with his top off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on their cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all vain to a degree,,,,

Every business depends on vanity, and how people values themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Desperation

Vanity is harmless as long as it doesn't develop into conceitedness

Said the guy posing with his top off"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Desperation. I know some desperately vain guys who are still hot as hell, and good fun to boot!! They make me laugh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't choose both very annoying

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Desperation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vanity, as arrogance is a huge turn off and frankly the amount of vain profiles with no pics astounds me. I want to judge if they are God's gift to the world myself

Desperation is just irritating, unless they've messaged me thrice that day. "

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Vanity can be harmless as long as it doesnt turn into arrogance, we are all vain to some degree because we all want to look good or be our best.

Desperation on the other hand, can mean that you are willing to deviate from your own standards. And if someone is desperate to be with someone else, then how desperate have they been in the past and what have they succumbed to?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation... See it often on the chat rooms lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Desperation... See it often on the chat rooms lol "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are all vain to a degree,,,,

Every business depends on vanity, and how people values themselves."

Especially so as we construct our identity according to what we consume (buy): 'I shop therefore I am' and all that. Maybe especially pertinent at Christmas (Santa smiley / emocon if I know how)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say desperation. I can never get my head round first messages that tell me how sexy I am and how they'd luv to meet up. All I have on my profile is a pic of my legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on their cock size

Everything is cock , cock , cock with you isn't it

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I'd say desperation. I can never get my head round first messages that tell me how sexy I am and how they'd luv to meet up. All I have on my profile is a pic of my legs

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Yes but they are fabulous legs.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"I'd say desperation. I can never get my head round first messages that tell me how sexy I am and how they'd luv to meet up. All I have on my profile is a pic of my legs

But they are great legs

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Desperation.... Makes me cringe if I've chatted to someone about maybe meeting up if I get some free time then they mail 10 times a day it ask if I'm free, there's a difference between having half hour to browse forums and having time to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation. Especially in the chatrooms. It's totally cringe worthy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narcissism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on their cock size

Everything is cock , cock , cock with you isn't it

Erm........guilty as charged!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say desperation. I can never get my head round first messages that tell me how sexy I am and how they'd luv to meet up. All I have on my profile is a pic of my legs

Yes but they are fabulous legs.

Ta!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Desperation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on god in reality i'd stay away from both but if I have to choose id say vanity

Some desperate people can be nice, sometimes its their own perception of themselves which makes them desperate where as I have never met a nice vain person, being up ones own arse is no good for me, nowhere to put my strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation, it's the one to watch out for vanity at least one of you has a good time pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with vanity, if you've genuinely got something to be vain about and not just trying to fish for compliments.

Desperation is a complete pain in the arse, and the best way to get blanked at a club or via profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanity

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

your so vain

you probably think this thread is about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desparation to me, you will either be preyed on, or become so needy you have no personality ..nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Desparation to me, you will either be preyed on, or become so needy you have no personality ..nette

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