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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do people think the more graphic they are in the first message the more you'll want to talk to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they truly believe its instashag on here and are to ignorant to realise manners still count.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too graphic too soon is off putting for me. I like to get to know someone a bit before they get carried away about my bits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

especially when you've not even decided if you want them near your bits yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's because of the anonymity of the site, people just come out with all sorts of shit, that they would never dream of saying to someone in person. I think it gives them a bit of a kick even if it doesn't get them anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" especially when you've not even decided if you want them near your bits yet"

Exactly! It makes the decision much easier lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's because of the anonymity of the site, people just come out with all sorts of shit, that they would never dream of saying to someone in person. I think it gives them a bit of a kick even if it doesn't get them anywhere."

I agree and I don't even bother opening the message. Block and delete x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

They don't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


" do people think the more graphic they are in the first message the more you'll want to talk to them?"

They're horny when they write it whereas you perhaps aren't horny when you read it.

Plus a lot of guys find graphic messages a turn on and can't compute that a lot of women don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" do people think the more graphic they are in the first message the more you'll want to talk to them?

They're horny when they write it whereas you perhaps aren't horny when you read it.

Plus a lot of guys find graphic messages a turn on and can't compute that a lot of women don't. "

even when I am these messages can really ruin the mood lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's flattering when someone tells you they want to fuck you, but a bit creepy when they send you 2 paragraphs of exactly how.

I'd be happier with a 'You look very nice. Would you fancy checking out my profile and maybe meeting up with me?'

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" especially when you've not even decided if you want them near your bits yet"

YES!!!! Some men so need to get this - until a lady has decided you're potentially a molester!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" especially when you've not even decided if you want them near your bits yet

YES!!!! Some men so need to get this - until a lady has decided you're potentially a molester!"

do you think they'd object if we pointed that out to them every time we get these messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't."

They don't what

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


" do people think the more graphic they are in the first message the more you'll want to talk to them?"

Each to their own i guess. Some people enjoy it some dont

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" especially when you've not even decided if you want them near your bits yet

YES!!!! Some men so need to get this - until a lady has decided you're potentially a molester!

do you think they'd object if we pointed that out to them every time we get these messages?"

I have explained once or twice - head, brick wall, hit...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they truly believe its instashag on here and are to ignorant to realise manners still count....... "

Possibly this. I never get first time graphic messages

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