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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please can someone tell me what gives people the right, and what kicks do people get out of desicrating a dead babies grave. I went to the cemetery earlier today to visit my baby and when I got there some scumbag has smashed up his headstone and totally trashed his resting place. There is not a single thing they havnt smashed. Im devastated how can people be so vile and cruel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry to read that and I can't begin to understand how you feel. Big hug hun x

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I have no words xxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

People have no soul at times....I can't imagine what it is like...x

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By *uud 4-funMan
over a year ago

Dartford

This needs to be reported to the police. 'hope theh things that did it do get caught....

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Omg thats disgusting. Sending a virtual hammer to hurt them just as bad.

Speechless...so sorry that someone would do that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughts are with you x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

That is awful. There is never a sensible or sane answer to mindless vandalism of the things people hold dear.

I'm sorry you have to feel to so awful because of this mindless act.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I'm so sorry to hear this - if someone did that to my son's grave I'd be beside myself with grief and anger!

What vile scumbags these people are. Do report it though - there may be other incidents and the police might be able to compile evidence and catch the utterly despicable bastards who did this.

Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe in karma. There turn will come. So sorry to see this. Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my god that is vile and disgusting. Hope they catch the scrum responsible need stringing up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to my nephews grave couple year back i will not say what happened when i found who did it. You have my sympathies someone will let slip who it was eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I can't imagine how you must feel.

That is utterly disgusting, hope they catch them and march them through the streets with a plackard round their neck saying what they've done.

Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckin idiots they're not human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please can someone tell me what gives people the right, and what kicks do people get out of desicrating a dead babies grave. I went to the cemetery earlier today to visit my baby and when I got there some scumbag has smashed up his headstone and totally trashed his resting place. There is not a single thing they havnt smashed. Im devastated how can people be so vile and cruel. "

There isn't a place for scumbags like that other than a short rope, very sad to hear about the damage and loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F@@kin scum. Very sad individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can not even try to imagine what you feel like right now hun .. Massive hugs xxx

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By *iceguy 1966Man
over a year ago

in pa postcode

They are total scum.

Take solace in the fact that they may have smashed your boys headstone but they can NEVER smash the love that his mother has for him.

Take care xxx

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Speechless my thoughts are wiv u xx

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

that is terrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SICK,our thoughts and hugs are with you

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By *cldnCouple
over a year ago

watford

Please report it to the police only one place for people like that. Thoughts with you.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Omg that is horrendous so sorry xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(((((((Hugs)))))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lump in my throat! thats just awful,im so sorry you had to find that,I can't imagine how you must feel right now

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

scum that's what they are ....... sorry to hear what happened

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No words to describe such vileness. Thoughts are with youxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what to say, sending you my love xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm lost for words what on earth go's through a persons mind when they are doing something as vile and disgusting as this . i hope they catch the person or persons who did this

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

I can't believe I've just read that.

I couldn't feel more hurt for you! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's disgusting. Hope they find who did such a terrible act. They are animals.

Big hugs to you. Be strong xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

oh my goodness . how awful for you ... big big hugs all my love xxx really really feeling for you hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hunni, some people are total scumbags, I know how hard it is to bury your own baby that's hard enough without thoughtless idiots doing this sending you big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you reported this to the police?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words fail me to think there are people out there who would do such a thing, Sorry for your loss.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Sadly there are scum like that in this world who do things like that because they have no respect for themselves or others.

And until the law stops being soft on them they will always be around.

Hope you reported it to the police.

Thoughts are with you I cant begin to appreciate how you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are so sorry to hear that wish we were closer and able to help xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hugs!! I know how id feel if this was my baby boys grave. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to read that, all I can say is I hope there are found and dealt with

Have a virtual Hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you find the culprits ask Funky to take them back to 1975 in The Isle of Man , have them administer 10 blows with a brine dipped ' Dartmoor ' Birch ....Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That must be such a shock.

I wonder if you could face going to your local paper as well as reporting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its because these morons havent got the balls to go up against someone thats alive.

its fcuking disgusting.

the lowest of the low.

its one of the reasons all of our family have been cremated. after one of the relatives graves were similarly destroyed.

feel your pain.

must have been heartbreaking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you reported this to the police? "

Yes reported it with the police but im not hopeful they will do a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so sorry to hear this x

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

omg, totally speechless xx

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"That must be such a shock.

I wonder if you could face going to your local paper as well as reporting it.

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agree that you may well get more positive action from a local newspaper than you will get from the police ...hope you have a good support network around you ...this truly is the lowest of the low ...my heartfelt wishes go out to you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuckin idiots they're not human "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please can someone tell me what gives people the right, and what kicks do people get out of desicrating a dead babies grave. I went to the cemetery earlier today to visit my baby and when I got there some scumbag has smashed up his headstone and totally trashed his resting place. There is not a single thing they havnt smashed. Im devastated how can people be so vile and cruel. "
That's so sad hunny I'm sorry that's broke my 3 what has the world come to my mom would kick my ass if I even peed on a church wall

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your kind messages in the forum and the private messages i recieved. Your words mean a lot to me and helped me get through a difficult time. Just an update really. Not yet found out who did this as there was no cctv but now the council are looking into it putting some in as this has happened again and a lady was also mugged there a couple of weeks ago. I have been told i will recieve £100 compensation and that i shall donate to charity for premature baby unit. I have now ordered a new stone but sadly connot be laid till the new year but a very kind man who i met off this site and meet quite regular very kindly suprised me the other day with a stone teddy bear with my babies name etc on it to put on his grave till stone is laid. Again i would like to thank you all for the support you gave me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for your kind messages in the forum and the private messages i recieved. Your words mean a lot to me and helped me get through a difficult time. Just an update really. Not yet found out who did this as there was no cctv but now the council are looking into it putting some in as this has happened again and a lady was also mugged there a couple of weeks ago. I have been told i will recieve £100 compensation and that i shall donate to charity for premature baby unit. I have now ordered a new stone but sadly connot be laid till the new year but a very kind man who i met off this site and meet quite regular very kindly suprised me the other day with a stone teddy bear with my babies name etc on it to put on his grave till stone is laid. Again i would like to thank you all for the support you gave me "

His a kind man and a true friend. My thoughts are with you having lost a child during pregnancy x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Just unbelievable.

I'm so sorry for the upset this must have caused you.

Sending comfort

X

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I was absolutely disgusted to have read this. What is the matter with people?

Anyway, what goes round comes round - and it does. This guy may do it to another grave and get caught... I dread to think what communal reaction would be and what would happen to him if people found out.

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