FabSwingers.com forum: does anyone else get the same?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I upgraded yesterday ( dont know why). Anyway all I see is man after man _iewing me? I put I am straight.. least before I couldn't see now if I look I get pic of a cock lol when I want to see a nice lady

Rant Over!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I upgraded yesterday ( dont know why). Anyway all I see is man after man _iewing me? I put I am straight.. least before I couldn't see now if I look I get pic of a cock lol when I want to see a nice lady

Rant Over!!

They can't see you are straight till they look at your profile tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

Get a lot of fabs off men but I don't mind because I'm all about the numbers

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Filter single men if it bothers you that much. They'll still look but you won't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

and do most the blokes have profile pics of there cock not face? ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its not that guess its just no women or couples

me being moody as working lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

and do most the blokes have profile pics of there cock not face? ?

Some do. Not everyone wants their face on display. Personally I'd prefer a torso/bum etc pic than cock but it's their profile/their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9% do lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

its not that guess its just no women or couples

me being moody as working lol "

Lots of women and couples _iew profiles in stealth mode.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Now you'll see who has had a peek at you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sneaky!!

like a fox!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Sneaky!!

like a fox! "

Not really. Just saves the 'oh I saw you looked at me' messages. Yep I did and if I was interested I would of sent YOU a message. Doh!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

had to b someone lol made me chuckle mate

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think OP what hottie says is true, no man can see what you've put as your sexuality until they look at your profile. Also, your user name has the word 'bear' in it which is a gay term for one of those moustachioed big guys who use twinks. So maybe that could be a reason. Also, I'm in stealth mode so are loads of other people so for every one person who you know looked, more looked without you knowing.

Don't sweat it and enjoy your day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filter single men if it bothers you that much. They'll still look but you won't know "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never said nothing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to leave 'show that I've been on their profile' thing on

It's like leaving my little footprints on their page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't catch gay, so don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never said nothing!!

That, young man, is a double negative

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does bear mean that lol well I can't change have tried! Oh well no prob I get it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not that guess its just no women or couples

me being moody as working lol

Lots of women and couples _iew profiles in stealth mode. "

guilty! I don't want people to know how nosey I am

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"You can't catch gay, so don't worry."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok ok stop double teaming me lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Does bear mean that lol well I can't change have tried! Oh well no prob I get it now

You should be able to now you are a site supporter

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Does bear mean that lol well I can't change have tried! Oh well no prob I get it now

Haha! Try 'bare' instead and you can change your user name if you become a site supporter.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

nice cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say with a username like bear409 I'd automatically assume you were gay. As someone said it's a common discription in the gay community.

Think you'll also find that a high percentage of women browse on stealth mode as already said.

I'm happy for anyone to look at my profile, doesn't worry me if they are what I'm looking for or not as they can only message me if they meet my filters x

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Does bear mean that lol well I can't change have tried! Oh well no prob I get it now

Haha! Try 'bare' instead and you can change your user name if you become a site supporter. "

Don't do bare!! That'll open up a whole other lot of people thinking he's into bareback. Unless he is. In which case go for it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Better!"

thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aghhhhhhh done now lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Aghhhhhhh done now lol"

You can change 3 times a year I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok got to wait 7 days

my luck and for the record NO not into bare back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is typical me haha I have no luck

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Aghhhhhhh done now lol

You can change 3 times a year I think "

And it resets when the year changes so you'll have (potentially) 3 more changes in a few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but for now instead of being seen as gay I now do bareback lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but for now instead of being seen as gay I now do bareback lol

Hahahahahaha it's not going well is it lol. Oh well gives you a week to calmly think of something else but WHATEVER you choose don't select TWINK or CUB or u will be back where you started hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might change my name to 'HotMeat4U' purely because it makes me smirk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might change my name to 'HotMeat4U' purely because it makes me smirk"

Well I've perved it a fair few times in stealth mode n can't disagree wiv that description

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks like u pulled!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rant Over!!

You need to add 'not looking for single guys' to your preferences etc etc otherwise some males may 'assume' u are among the 'secret' bi group that seems to flourish on here. Oh n cute pix by the way

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rant Over!!

You need to add 'not looking for single guys' to your preferences etc etc otherwise some males may 'assume' u are among the 'secret' bi group that seems to flourish on here. Oh n cute pix by the way

lol"

Or just set your mail filter to not allow messages from males as we all know. No one actually reads what's on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not that guess its just no women or couples

me being moody as working lol

Lots of women and couples _iew profiles in stealth mode. "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"You can't catch gay, so don't worry."

Not what it says in Teddy bears picnic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe checking the competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok got to wait 7 days

my luck and for the record NO not into bare back

That's exactly what we would think...if we met single men, we wouldn't even look at your profile because of the name...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad I put this post as explains a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glad I put this post as explains a lot

It does but when you think that only a tiny minority of the site use the forums, the majority of your target audience will be going purely on their first impression of you which is your user name...

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