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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. " Agree , find something special for your first time as it sounds like your that kinda person otherwise you would have went to a prostitute years ago ..... Lose it with a special person first and then later down the line , start to explore in swinging .... | |||
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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. " Where's the best place to meet people? It's not like I stay at home 24/7 but most places I got ie gym, football there isn't a woman in sight lol. I don't drink so most times when I go out it's with friends for a meal or something | |||
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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. Agree , find something special for your first time as it sounds like your that kinda person otherwise you would have went to a prostitute years ago ..... Lose it with a special person first and then later down the line , start to explore in swinging ...." Thanks. Yeah your right it is something you only loose once and growing up it was always something I wanted to be special. It's just got to the point that it's almost like a burden. This is embarrassing to say but I've never had any sexual contact with a woman. Never even kissed anyone. I'm like a male Susan Boyle without the singing voice haha | |||
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"Thanks to the couple of people who have pm'd me about this. Has bin good to talk about it x" Your as likely to find the right Lady here as anywhere | |||
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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. Agree , find something special for your first time as it sounds like your that kinda person otherwise you would have went to a prostitute years ago ..... Lose it with a special person first and then later down the line , start to explore in swinging .... Thanks. Yeah your right it is something you only loose once and growing up it was always something I wanted to be special. It's just got to the point that it's almost like a burden. This is embarrassing to say but I've never had any sexual contact with a woman. Never even kissed anyone. I'm like a male Susan Boyle without the singing voice haha" never even kissed anyone ?? are you sure!! do u not have any friends that go out and enjoy pulling etc wow ![]() | |||
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"The women on Fab are likely to eat a virgin alive! I'd suggest making a profile on a mainstream dating site to meet people, build up a connection with someone before finally doing the deed, it'll ultimately be a far more fulfilling experience. Good luck" Thanks and thanks for the advice. I think my confidence hinders me as I am on other sites but it is helping to talk about it | |||
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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. Agree , find something special for your first time as it sounds like your that kinda person otherwise you would have went to a prostitute years ago ..... Lose it with a special person first and then later down the line , start to explore in swinging .... Thanks. Yeah your right it is something you only loose once and growing up it was always something I wanted to be special. It's just got to the point that it's almost like a burden. This is embarrassing to say but I've never had any sexual contact with a woman. Never even kissed anyone. I'm like a male Susan Boyle without the singing voice haha never even kissed anyone ?? are you sure!! do u not have any friends that go out and enjoy pulling etc wow ![]() Yes I'm being completely honest I was always just shy and nervous when I went out and I don't have any confidence. I'm also I'd say the worst looking out of a large bunch of mates I go out with. I was also much more into just going to local pubs than out up town or clubbing so it was always the same people I see ect. I think with the kissing thing I just hadn't kissed anyone by the time I was about 18 and I just kept making a bigger and bigger deal out of it so now I see it as this huge deal that I'm 26 and I don't even know what I'm doing | |||
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"Really don't think a swinging site is the way to go to lose your virginity or a way to learn how to have sex and kiss! Losing your virginity should be special and it should be with a special person ( yeah I am old fashioned ) You might find a patient willing lady on here who would be willing to help you out! But I think a dating site, or just socializing more would be a better way for you to find a relationship that you can grow into and naturally lose your virginity " To be honest I'm old fashioned too I'm not just looking for a quick shag to get it out of the way I still want to hopefully find someone who is understanding and I still believe it can be special. I'm on a few dating sites but I never get any msgs or replies to msgs I send x | |||
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"Morning sexy man, stop talking rubbish xx" Rubbish? You know better ![]() | |||
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"Morning sexy man, stop talking rubbish xx Rubbish? You know better ![]() You're not the worst looking out of all your mates ![]() | |||
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"Morning sexy man, stop talking rubbish xx Rubbish? You know better ![]() ![]() You've not seen my mates it's like going out with 10 members of JLS haha. When we go out I think it's takes me 15min max to get ready think it takes them double that just for there fringe ![]() | |||
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"Morning sexy man, stop talking rubbish xx Rubbish? You know better ![]() ![]() ![]() Luckily some women have grown out of boybands ![]() | |||
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"not necessarily the wrong place for a virgin however its the wrong place for someone that isnt confident or fears intimacy, as those are the 2 things this place requires in bucket loads. some women like shy guys, but if you are gonna run away the second a woman suggests getting close, then you arent going to be much good to anyone" A couple of years ago I would have very much bin like that but I've bin having therapy to help my anxiety and in turn it has help my confidence a little. I no longer run a mile anytime a woman tries to talk to me x | |||
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"Don't think of 'THE' place that you try to find sex. Think of yourself and the person you are going to have sex with. It will be just like 'losing it' in your teens or even better in many ways. It cannot be any worse. It may be a let down, a disaster, a laugh ... just realise that it's still the case for those experienced sexually with a thousand notches on their belt. Everyone here will have a tale to tell of their horrific early sexual encounters and they will tell it through laughter. So will you in time. This is EXACTLY the place to meet a women who want nsa sexual encounters. You can gain the experience without the obligation to have to listen to it replayed verbally every time you are late home for dinner ![]() Great and informative post. Thank you ![]() | |||
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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. Where's the best place to meet people? It's not like I stay at home 24/7 but most places I got ie gym, football there isn't a woman in sight lol. I don't drink so most times when I go out it's with friends for a meal or something " There's not a women in sight at your gym??? Really where are you looking? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. Where's the best place to meet people? It's not like I stay at home 24/7 but most places I got ie gym, football there isn't a woman in sight lol. I don't drink so most times when I go out it's with friends for a meal or something There's not a women in sight at your gym??? Really where are you looking? ![]() ![]() I go to a proper powerlifting dirty hole in the wall type gym. I've been going on and off for about 8 years and in that time I've probly seen 3 women in there two of them trained whit there partners. A leisure centre or somewhere like that wouldn't be any good for me weight wise | |||
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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. Where's the best place to meet people? It's not like I stay at home 24/7 but most places I got ie gym, football there isn't a woman in sight lol. I don't drink so most times when I go out it's with friends for a meal or something There's not a women in sight at your gym??? Really where are you looking? ![]() ![]() There's plenty of "lesiure" gyms that have heavy weights for power lifting, obviously not 24hour gyms but I'm sure there's a gym around you were you can lift heavy enough I'm always chatting to women at my gym but to be fair they are mostly old haha | |||
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" Losing your virginity should be special and it should be with a special person " No any hole is a goal...apparently. ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Losing your virginity should be special and it should be with a special person No any hole is a goal...apparently. ![]() ![]() Haha think the OP just got an offer ![]() | |||
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"Probably the wrong place for a virgin. But you never know. Think you need to also take your own advice and get out into the real world. It's pretty good out there. Where's the best place to meet people? It's not like I stay at home 24/7 but most places I got ie gym, football there isn't a woman in sight lol. I don't drink so most times when I go out it's with friends for a meal or something There's not a women in sight at your gym??? Really where are you looking? ![]() ![]() Haha don't even get older women in my gym. I've been to just about every gym in my area and there is one that's got a good mix of cardio and heavy lifting equipment but it's almost double the price I pay monthly and the two areas are separate. Plus there dumbbells only go upto 50kg I'm currently pressing 60's ![]() | |||
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"Firstly the women on here don't eat men alive. The other thing that screams out from your original post is that you describe yourself almost entirely in negative terms....stop doing that, if you think like that and talk in those terms to women that is the impression they will get of you. Women aren't creatures from another planet we understand insecurities, we mostly know that men have an insecurity or two and we don't expect them to be experts sexually with huge amounts of confidence. I have my doubts as to whether what you want is available here if you want it to be special that implies some form of romantic attachment and I wonder what thought process led to you looking here for that sort of experience, but of course it is possible and I really hope you find what you're after." What I ment by special is some form of connection to be honest. A lot of women write on hear that they want a social meet and to see if there's a spark that's what I'm after. I understand that joining a swinging site looking for romance wouldn't be the best idea ![]() | |||
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" Losing your virginity should be special and it should be with a special person No any hole is a goal...apparently. ![]() ![]() ![]() Errr yeah ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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