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My first real cuddle !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Today I have put my Christmas tree up for my Autistic daughter so I can get her ready for the big day and this has to be done in stages and not WHAM all at once.

She came home school and did not notice it at all, bering in mind that is a 6ft tree.

Later this evening she came back in the room stood and looked at it for ages, then turned and put her arms round me and pulled me into a cuddle. Not wanting to frighten the life out of her, I had a few silent tears until she got fed up and walked away.

I thought WOW I have only waited 15 1/2yrs for that to happen.

I just hope I get another soon and not later.

I hope you dont mind me sharing this milestone with you all, I am still on a high its far far better than taking anti-d's..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Aww that's fantastic...I've work with autistic children and adults and it's amazing feeling times like this x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"Today I have put my Christmas tree up for my Autistic daughter so I can get her ready for the big day and this has to be done in stages and not WHAM all at once.

She came home school and did not notice it at all, bering in mind that is a 6ft tree.

Later this evening she came back in the room stood and looked at it for ages, then turned and put her arms round me and pulled me into a cuddle. Not wanting to frighten the life out of her, I had a few silent tears until she got fed up and walked away.

I thought WOW I have only waited 15 1/2yrs for that to happen.

I just hope I get another soon and not later.

I hope you dont mind me sharing this milestone with you all, I am still on a high its far far better than taking anti-d's.."

that is so heartwarming, hope you get loads more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's so lovely, hopefully now you have many more to come xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the kind of present that no amount of money can buy.

Hope its not as long till your next

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Today I have put my Christmas tree up for my Autistic daughter so I can get her ready for the big day and this has to be done in stages and not WHAM all at once.

She came home school and did not notice it at all, bering in mind that is a 6ft tree.

Later this evening she came back in the room stood and looked at it for ages, then turned and put her arms round me and pulled me into a cuddle. Not wanting to frighten the life out of her, I had a few silent tears until she got fed up and walked away.

I thought WOW I have only waited 15 1/2yrs for that to happen.

I just hope I get another soon and not later.

I hope you dont mind me sharing this milestone with you all, I am still on a high its far far better than taking anti-d's..

that is so heartwarming, hope you get loads more "

She will only ever let me cuddle her if her back is to me, so when she did this face to face I was speechless. I just need her to talk now maybe Santa will sprinkle some magic dust on her for me lol

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By *elshcoup3Couple
over a year ago

rhondda cynon taff

handicapped kids have very different ways of showing their emotions. Our son`s the same in many ways as he has "down`s syndrome".... Milestones are not set in years but in time zones...... Cherish them whenever you get them... xx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my daughter with aspergers don't show emotion much so I understand this completely pleased for ya

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

This brought a few tears to my eyes and that is saying a lot! I'm so happy for you, I can imagine the emotions it brought to you! Hopefully there is more to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this must be so uplifting enjoy the moment hope the next is not so far away for you brilliant xxxxxxxxx

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Thats so lovely..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have put my Christmas tree up for my Autistic daughter so I can get her ready for the big day and this has to be done in stages and not WHAM all at once.

She came home school and did not notice it at all, bering in mind that is a 6ft tree.

Later this evening she came back in the room stood and looked at it for ages, then turned and put her arms round me and pulled me into a cuddle. Not wanting to frighten the life out of her, I had a few silent tears until she got fed up and walked away.

I thought WOW I have only waited 15 1/2yrs for that to happen.

I just hope I get another soon and not later.

I hope you dont mind me sharing this milestone with you all, I am still on a high its far far better than taking anti-d's.."

Thank you for sharing that magic moment. It put a huge smile on my face

Now , thats what christmas is all about

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxxxxxxxxx

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

If carlsberg done cuddles.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw that's so lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 5 year old nephew is Autistic and he keeps asking about christmas and santa. But he's very affectionate. I hope you don't mind me asking but does she go to a special needs school? My nephew was permanently excluded from his mainstream primary school because he's autistic, I myself have dyspraxia, and my uncle has asperges. Good luck!

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Hey, stop making me cry, I'm trying to portray a macho image here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow...wee tear here too, that must have been so special for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind you sharing it at all. Absolutely priceless gift. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WOW! Thats brought a tear to my eye, never thought that would happen on fab!

Very good for you

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Beautiful, thank you for sharing

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By *elmc1Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

What an amazing woman. i do hope you get all the cuddles you deserve. you deserve millions. id give you a massive big hug. take care. xx

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

That must have been a lovely experience i do hope this is the start of affectionate times for you.

Working so hard and loving a child when they dont show they love you in the way other children do. These steps are so important ..

Maybe someone could snatch a camera and take a photo of moments like that.

xsmiles .

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Today I have put my Christmas tree up for my Autistic daughter so I can get her ready for the big day and this has to be done in stages and not WHAM all at once.

She came home school and did not notice it at all, bering in mind that is a 6ft tree.

Later this evening she came back in the room stood and looked at it for ages, then turned and put her arms round me and pulled me into a cuddle. Not wanting to frighten the life out of her, I had a few silent tears until she got fed up and walked away.

I thought WOW I have only waited 15 1/2yrs for that to happen.

I just hope I get another soon and not later.

I hope you dont mind me sharing this milestone with you all, I am still on a high its far far better than taking anti-d's.."

awwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is absolutely lovely, an amazing special moment for you to cherish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one of them moments at work today when one of kids said he can't eat things in threes. Daft as it sounds it's an amazing thing and brought a tear to my eye as well so Ruby I'm so happy for you xx

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Best Christmas story I have heard! I take my daughter's hugs kind of forgranted but love them so that must have been a truly uplifting moment for you. Merry Christmas!

Master x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely event for you to start off your Christmas period with. Hope you and everyone else has a happy Christmas and that we can all experience a moment that means the equivalent as this does to you

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i have tears in my eyes... Happy Christmas xxx

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