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By *eeBee67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Like first day at high school.

All the other kids have been there longer and know each other.

Newkid cant get a word in and sits quietly in the corner hoping someobe will say hi.

Going to persevere you never know if I hang around long enough someone else may become the newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatroom or forum?

We were all newbies once, even those that were here 5 years ago had to start somewhere.

Just join in with threads, enjoy the banter and I'm sure you wont feel like the newbie for much longer. I know when I first joined the boards 18 months (ish) ago I was quickly made to feel welcome.

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By *eeBee67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Ruby

Thanks for replting, forums are good.

I enjoy it in here.

Chatrooms have so many people in its so hard to strike up a conversation, and feel rude butting in. Imagine a real room full of 170 people you dont know talking, and the lights are out so you cant see them all.......daunting.

Still as I said, sticking it out, Im a stubborn so and so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi and welcome, like Ruby Sophis just join in and try and have fun. A lot of the time you will just be ignored, try not to let in bother you. It is imposable for every to reply to what every post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the same but I was lucky in the fact I just kept making stupid comments and got noticed. The more I went in the more people spoke to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go ahead and butt in. Laugh cry rant, saying your piece and showing your personality will soon get you noticed.

just remember to stay within the forum rules, controversial can be fine but try not to cause offence.

happy fabbing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never did get spoken to in the chat rooms so gave up in the end

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By *eeBee67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Kenny

I am doing both

Join in on threads that interest me, dont want to be a forum hog and reply or comment for sake of it.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Ruby

Thanks for replting, forums are good.

I enjoy it in here.

Chatrooms have so many people in its so hard to strike up a conversation, and feel rude butting in. Imagine a real room full of 170 people you dont know talking, and the lights are out so you cant see them all.......daunting.

Still as I said, sticking it out, Im a stubborn so and so "

Try the regional rooms rather than the directing rooms, they have fewer people in them and go at a slower pace.

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By *eeBee67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Cheers one and all.

As I said Im stubborn so Im going to persevere, if you ever go in and see me in corner. ...Say hi to the shy guy

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By *innamon ChallengeMan
over a year ago

London


"Like first day at high school.

All the other kids have been there longer and know each other.

Newkid cant get a word in and sits quietly in the corner hoping someobe will say hi.

Going to persevere you never know if I hang around long enough someone else may become the newbie "

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