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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

attentive considerate sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"attentive considerate sexy "

Hey thats me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I feel comfortable with, have met a couple of times and have gotten to known each others bodies. That connection and chemistry that makes you tremble with excitement.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

communication...preferably two ways....or it can be more....

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

Confidence, a wicked sense of humour, the ability to kiss well (this is very important!), an openness to explore, a good body and a nice face

All qualities I've found in one yummy fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May sound boring this but someone who engages me mentally as well as physically.

That and confidence....I find that soo attractive !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence, a wicked sense of humour, the ability to kiss well (this is very important!), an openness to explore, a good body and a nice face

All qualities I've found in one yummy fella! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above, of course, and a huge amount of lust.

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Someone who can turn you on mentally first before they even touch you

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast


"Someone who can turn you on mentally first before they even touch you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag?? "

You already know because you state that you used to have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A brilliant shag!!

Well let's see, someone who seduces my mind first...lights the spark and knows what I want from my body language!

A brilliant shag would leave me out of breath, hot, sweaty and jelly legged

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast


"A brilliant shag!!

Well let's see, someone who seduces my mind first...lights the spark and knows what I want from my body language!

A brilliant shag would leave me out of breath, hot, sweaty and jelly legged "

Jelly legs are vital!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it has to be the kisses and the eye contact.

...the eyes alone can turn me on. But, someone who i can click with, who has a good sense of humour and able to have a laugh is a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer to that is easy it is different for easy one. Roby might think I was the best shag she ever had, but then but might feel disappointed with the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag?? "

Any shag with you would be considered as brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One where you say "fuck me that's good" rather than "fuck you"

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag??

You already know because you state that you used to have one "

And the moral of your story is......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry.

Seriously, its the culmination of so many little bits of attraction between two people that its almost too complicated to analyse, and simply becomes a 'feeling', where everything they say or do seems to chime like the rim of a wine glass or crackle like a battery, and its no longer a matter of whether or not you're going to end up in bed together, its a matter of when, and you then know you can draw it out, before taking a deep breath, leaning in and tasting her lips for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, it has to be the kisses and the eye contact.

...the eyes alone can turn me on. But, someone who i can click with, who has a good sense of humour and able to have a laugh is a winner.

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The eyes tell their own story and the anticipation of a repeat meet knowing you already feel an attraction/connection with a person/s with fewer nerves .

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Not sure I've ever had a brilliant shag.

(Any offers? )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the guy turns up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry, appeal, sense of humour, willingness to try different things, able to communicate, honesty but is able to laugh together.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"If the guy turns up "

Ok that actually just made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a shag

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

This is much more difficult to answer than the crap shag thread, and yet easier in a way cos to me it is just one word but so hard to define/find/understand, CHEMISTRY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is much more difficult to answer than the crap shag thread, and yet easier in a way cos to me it is just one word but so hard to define/find/understand, CHEMISTRY"

OMG you have to drug him!

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"This is much more difficult to answer than the crap shag thread, and yet easier in a way cos to me it is just one word but so hard to define/find/understand, CHEMISTRY

OMG you have to drug him!"

Lol, her, Master here!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Chemistry.

Seriously, its the culmination of so many little bits of attraction between two people that its almost too complicated to analyse, and simply becomes a 'feeling', ,"

There are so many things. Thinking about it it varies so much I cannot put my finger on it. There are lots of basic requirements, but what made that one time brilliant instead of good? What made me cry, or remember it 30 years later as one of the 'best over', or thrill me with a surprise I was not expecting. I cannot say, and I hope next time it's something I have never experienced before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every guy or gal is different .chemistry is the thing and not ticking every box .i don't have a box to tick list i find it far to restrictive .some of the best sex i have ever had has been with people i would not have found it to be possible with but it has been.poppyxx

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag?? "

You being d*unk would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definition will be different for everyone I guess . Whats brilliant for me might not be for someone else .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connecting, comfortable, lusty, human chemistry that draws you together like magnets.... Coupled with a giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry thought this was a tobacco thread, as you were

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By *eno_2004Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

I guess it depends on the person as much as the sex, if you like them in your head that makes for much better sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure I've ever had a brilliant shag.

(Any offers? )"

I bet your inbox is full with offers after that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who can turn you on mentally first before they even touch you "

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

confidence, no hangups about body shape, a sense of fun and keen to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A brilliant shag all depends on your preference to sex. It's an individual journey. Personally it comes after a few times when you've gotten to know what each other likes and know each other's bodies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I feel comfortable with, have met a couple of times and have gotten to known each others bodies. That connection and chemistry that makes you tremble with excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural Chemistry ...it's intoxicating and when it exists (my experience of course) ...everything else fits into place.

Anticipation is another key component

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I feel comfortable with, have met a couple of times and have gotten to known each others bodies. That connection and chemistry that makes you tremble with excitement.

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Well put and very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag?? "

Someone that ticks all the boxes. Unfortunately when that ends it makes it difficult to live up to.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag?? "

When its more than just a 'shag'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the wand is involved

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

By making sure the lady cums first like to get them worked up with fingers and tongue first .so much better when they are screaming at you to get your cock in them when you make sure they are soaking and it feels better sliding it in .also taste so nice

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"By making sure the lady cums first like to get them worked up with fingers and tongue first .so much better when they are screaming at you to get your cock in them when you make sure they are soaking and it feels better sliding it in .also taste so nice"

I will drink to that.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Someone I feel comfortable with, have met a couple of times and have gotten to known each others bodies. That connection and chemistry that makes you tremble with excitement.

"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry.

Seriously, its the culmination of so many little bits of attraction between two people that its almost too complicated to analyse, and simply becomes a 'feeling', where everything they say or do seems to chime like the rim of a wine glass or crackle like a battery, and its no longer a matter of whether or not you're going to end up in bed together, its a matter of when, and you then know you can draw it out, before taking a deep breath, leaning in and tasting her lips for the first time."

You're a poet - and yes, it's the almost visible and tangible sparking of the synapses. Breathtaking when that happens.

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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

By giving as much pleasure and stimulation to the lady involved licking kissing caressing sucking before even thinking bout your own needs to me is the main thing to a good shag after that everything should fall into place to make it a good shag after including taking and giving of pleasure to each other (mr dee) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I feel comfortable with, have met a couple of times and have gotten to known each others bodies. That connection and chemistry that makes you tremble with excitement.

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+1 perfect discription

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Someone I feel comfortable with, have met a couple of times and have gotten to known each others bodies. That connection and chemistry that makes you tremble with excitement.

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your dead right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By making sure the lady cums first like to get them worked up with fingers and tongue first .so much better when they are screaming at you to get your cock in them when you make sure they are soaking and it feels better sliding it in .also taste so nice"

I'd hate that. Guess I'm odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By making sure the lady cums first like to get them worked up with fingers and tongue first .so much better when they are screaming at you to get your cock in them when you make sure they are soaking and it feels better sliding it in .also taste so nice

I'd hate that. Guess I'm odd. "

No I understand, I've been with ladies who get so wet you actually lose a fair bit of sensation.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"By making sure the lady cums first like to get them worked up with fingers and tongue first .so much better when they are screaming at you to get your cock in them when you make sure they are soaking and it feels better sliding it in .also taste so nice

I'd hate that. Guess I'm odd.

No I understand, I've been with ladies who get so wet you actually lose a fair bit of sensation."

Like trying to hump a bucket of warm water?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

A brilliant shag is one I want again...and again! Colour, height, shape, sex does not matter, its the experience and the ache to have it again, the mental images of what was and what could be again, the warm wetness in between my thighs thinking about it that makes it brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry.

Seriously, its the culmination of so many little bits of attraction between two people that its almost too complicated to analyse, and simply becomes a 'feeling', where everything they say or do seems to chime like the rim of a wine glass or crackle like a battery, and its no longer a matter of whether or not you're going to end up in bed together, its a matter of when, and you then know you can draw it out, before taking a deep breath, leaning in and tasting her lips for the first time."

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By making sure the lady cums first like to get them worked up with fingers and tongue first .so much better when they are screaming at you to get your cock in them when you make sure they are soaking and it feels better sliding it in .also taste so nice

I'd hate that. Guess I'm odd.

No I understand, I've been with ladies who get so wet you actually lose a fair bit of sensation."

That's not why I'd hate it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag?? "

One that leaves you wanting more, over and over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag?? "

would it be the one that starts at the end of the news and your wiping cock on the curtains just as the theme tune for match of the day begins this is after a day on the lash including luxury food such pork pies, black pudding, scratchings and a bag or two of chilli nuts.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag??

One that leaves you wanting more, over and over again "

Ahh you made it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have indeed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I feel comfortable with, have met a couple of times and have gotten to known each others bodies. That connection and chemistry that makes you tremble with excitement.

+1 perfect discription "

+another 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By making sure the lady cums first like to get them worked up with fingers and tongue first .so much better when they are screaming at you to get your cock in them when you make sure they are soaking and it feels better sliding it in .also taste so nice"

Oh yes! That sounds the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I feel comfortable with, have met a couple of times and have gotten to known each others bodies. That connection and chemistry that makes you tremble with excitement.

+1 perfect discription

+another 1"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who can gage my mood and how I want it, and go with how my body (and my mouth at times) responds....doesn't happen often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

vodka

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Where it all starts with the first kiss and I feel my body sink into them...feel their cock grow hard and push against me and me go very slowly from sensual and slow to needing him inside me... Breath ragged, everything out of focus apart from our 2 bodies and minds mingling.

I also live it when it's really funny though and we try new stuff while kissing and laughing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She lets me watch The Wire on Netflix straight after

That's when you know she's a keeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where it all starts with the first kiss and I feel my body sink into them...feel their cock grow hard and push against me and me go very slowly from sensual and slow to needing him inside me... Breath ragged, everything out of focus apart from our 2 bodies and minds mingling.

I also live it when it's really funny though and we try new stuff while kissing and laughing x"

Which one do you like better though? X

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Maybe the first although they are both great in their own way and at a particular time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the first although they are both great in their own way and at a particular time x"

I think personally it doesn't matter as anyone would be extremely happy and gob smacked even if they had either with you x

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag?? "

Think you will find men and women have different ideas about this subject !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes it..li used to see a guy that ticked every box....I've yet to find a replacement but what makes a brilliant shag??

You already know because you state that you used to have one

And the moral of your story is...... "

Just thought you was going to elaborate

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