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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

the strap on thread - guys, would you please explain to an unassuming female what you get out of having an object, albeit a fake penis, inserted into your backside?

I am not judging - I am asking. I want to understand - please be instrumental in helping me understand. Ladies... your experience is valued as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the strap on thread - guys, would you please explain to an unassuming female what you get out of having an object, albeit a fake penis, inserted into your backside?

I am not judging - I am asking. I want to understand - please be instrumental in helping me understand. Ladies... your experience is valued as well

i bloody wouldn't like it as it would hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On using a strapadicktome on a man or having one used on me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what I don't get, as a straight guy, I don't see what the difference is between a woman and a strap on and a guys knob, if a guy uses a dildo on another guy isn't that the same thing

But then again, I'm not interested in anything going up my jacksy

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I have tried this with a fwb. To me it was the intimacy and trust in her to do this. The fact it's not 'normal' for a straight guy also made it more pleasureable and kinky.

I would do it again but only with someone i trust who wasn't going to punish my arse

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Sorry I was perhaps not clear - I am interested in what a (straight) man gets from having a strap on up his inner sanctum. Is it about the physical sensation? Is it about submission? Or???

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

maybe for a straight male its the ultimate role reversal..?

handing over control etc..

not sure tbh but thought in the interests of debate I would take a stab in the dark..

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have tried this with a fwb. To me it was the intimacy and trust in her to do this. The fact it's not 'normal' for a straight guy also made it more pleasureable and kinky.

I would do it again but only with someone i trust who wasn't going to punish my arse

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Thank you! I am not worried about it being normal or not... I am curious what it actually does for a man.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"maybe for a straight male its the ultimate role reversal..?

handing over control etc..

not sure tbh but thought in the interests of debate I would take a stab in the dark..

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That is what I was wondering.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I have tried this with a fwb. To me it was the intimacy and trust in her to do this. The fact it's not 'normal' for a straight guy also made it more pleasureable and kinky.

I would do it again but only with someone i trust who wasn't going to punish my arse

but what is 'normal'..?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Personally from a female who doesn't enjoy anal penetration, I'd imagine it was the same thing? As females who enjoy it? Just a thought

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have tried this with a fwb. To me it was the intimacy and trust in her to do this. The fact it's not 'normal' for a straight guy also made it more pleasureable and kinky.

I would do it again but only with someone i trust who wasn't going to punish my arse

but what is 'normal'..?"
Absolutely- what is normal?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Personally from a female who doesn't enjoy anal penetration, I'd imagine it was the same thing? As females who enjoy it? Just a thought

I can see where you are coming from. I am just wondering whether there is an element of role reversal and power exchange or whatever ?

Now dont get me wrong - it is what it is. Fun is there to be had without a need to justify it. I am just curious what it does to the guys - thats all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its horny,erotic and very empowering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does a female like it up the arse ?

Because it feels good for them I don't see why it is any different for a male ?

Stating the straight male is really irrelevant and quite ignorant, anal play isn't exclusive to bi/gay males.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Why does a female like it up the arse ?

Because it feels good for them I don't see why it is any different for a male ?

Stating the straight male is really irrelevant and quite ignorant, anal play isn't exclusive to bi/gay males."

So what you are saying is that it is about the sensation rather than any associated power play of submission/ domination?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a combination of physical and mental stimulation. There can be a sense of indulging in 'the forbidden' that can augment the feelings of pleasure. To have a woman give that stimulus can enhance that guilty pleasure even more.

I gather this from talking with a bi-curious/flexible man.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Why does a female like it up the arse ?

Because it feels good for them I don't see why it is any different for a male ?

Stating the straight male is really irrelevant and quite ignorant, anal play isn't exclusive to bi/gay males."

PS I am not ignorant. I am asking a question in order to understand. Please do not assume anything. Thank you.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"It's a combination of physical and mental stimulation. There can be a sense of indulging in 'the forbidden' that can augment the feelings of pleasure. To have a woman give that stimulus can enhance that guilty pleasure even more.

I gather this from talking with a bi-curious/flexible man."
Ah now that makies a lot of sense to me. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its something different,I'm not really for it to be honest

and it is only about the sensation...it doesnt 'feel' good, and I wouldnt be paying attention to it(i.e looking at it going in and out my arse)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it either.

I didn't even realise there was more than one way a guy could have his arse fucked with a strapon other than bent over due to obvious FEM/male compatibility issues.

Men are defo not as flexible as women.

As a straight male its not for me.

I think it is a very very submissive thing for a straight male to do. for a fem to have that level of control over me.

I find it odd for a straight guy to ever want that.

Bi sexual guy..yeah I can understand that. But not straight.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"its something different,I'm not really for it to be honest

and it is only about the sensation...it doesnt 'feel' good, and I wouldnt be paying attention to it(i.e looking at it going in and out my arse)"
You would need to be an owl to be able to do see it

Thanks - I am trying to understand what it is about.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I don't get it either.

I didn't even realise there was more than one way a guy could have his arse fucked with a strapon other than bent over due to obvious FEM/male compatibility issues.

Men are defo not as flexible as women.

As a straight male its not for me.

I think it is a very very submissive thing for a straight male to do. for a fem to have that level of control over me.

I find it odd for a straight guy to ever want that.

Bi sexual guy..yeah I can understand that. But not straight.

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Thanks - interesting that you, too, make the distinction so I was not all that wrong about asking the question?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

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"Why does a female like it up the arse ?

Because it feels good for them I don't see why it is any different for a male ?

Stating the straight male is really irrelevant and quite ignorant, anal play isn't exclusive to bi/gay males."

don't see it as irrelevant and ignorant is ott and probably uncalled for..

its a question from a straight fem about an aspect of sex that some straight males participate in..

as the title suggests..

clearly the OP has a lack of knowledge but that's not ignorant..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its something different,I'm not really for it to be honest

and it is only about the sensation...it doesnt 'feel' good, and I wouldnt be paying attention to it(i.e looking at it going in and out my arse)You would need to be an owl to be able to do see it

Thanks - I am trying to understand what it is about.

seen enough pics on fab to know that anal doesnt have to be done in the beastwithtwobacks style..regardless of which sex is getting pumped lol

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I have tried this with a fwb. To me it was the intimacy and trust in her to do this. The fact it's not 'normal' for a straight guy also made it more pleasureable and kinky.

I would do it again but only with someone i trust who wasn't going to punish my arse

but what is 'normal'..?Absolutely- what is normal? "

i suppose 'normal' with respect to the topic would be a guy penetrating a woman. It's the sensation, trust, control and empowerment for me. Its not something i'd do on a whimsy.

But to reverse roles and have your partner enter you is very erotic and entering a straight guys 'no entry' zone can be just as erotic for a woman regardless of their orientation

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

For some it's a submission thing, for some it's purely that it feels good, (it stimulates the prostate which can feel amazing for some men), and sometimes it's both. There are also aspects such as it feeling taboo that can come into play.

Due to the prostate stimulation, some men can orgasm through strap-on play.

I know several men who are very much not submissive who enjoy strap-on play.

And the difference between men and women for a straight guy? Seriously? It may feel the same from another man but if the guy isn't attracted to him (because he's straight) then he's now going to want it from the man.

Sex with a lot of the men on this site would feel more or less the same (in the same way that any woman with a strap-on would feel the same as any man giving anal) but I only want it with the ones I am attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does a female like it up the arse ?

Because it feels good for them I don't see why it is any different for a male ?

Stating the straight male is really irrelevant and quite ignorant, anal play isn't exclusive to bi/gay males.

PS I am not ignorant. I am asking a question in order to understand. Please do not assume anything. Thank you. "

In this case the word was used correctly - ignorance means 'lacking knowledge', which is nothing to be shamed of - after all, you wanted to rectify that lack. The fact that the original meaning has shifted to 'willful ignorance' (which is stupidly ignoring all available facts) is unfortunate.

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