FabSwingers.com forum: put off

By *ickedxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Are you put off by profile names?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, as they tell you a lot about the people who write them. Perhaps some guys like the hotslut/cumwhore/masterslittlebitches in the swinging scene, but personally if I see a name like that I'm not even gonna click on the profile.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes. Some are a bit scary.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Yes, profile names can be a turn off. I really like well thought out, clever profile names.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Are you put off by profile names? "

Very definitely Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol not sure what r name says about us they r just r niknames but I don't think someone's name put us of

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Probably not the best place to admit this but I rarely look at the username on messages. I don't remember them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Names with words like dom or master in them put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

I don't wanna meet ANYONE who has sluts/cum/fanny/cock in their username - I find it a real turn off

Also profiles with phrases such as 'filthy sex' n 'dirty fuckers'

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

"Yes, profile names can be a turn off. I really like well thought out, clever profile names.

Ah...... I'll get me coat.....

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By *ansa87Couple
over a year ago

louthish

"Yes, profile names can be a turn off. I really like well thought out, clever profile names.

I agree . I had a little chuckle at one called nicely hung

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes some can

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes, anything to crude does put me off!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not just put off sometimes I avoid altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, as they tell you a lot about the people who write them. Perhaps some guys like the hotslut/cumwhore/masterslittlebitches in the swinging scene, but personally if I see a name like that I'm not even gonna click on the profile."

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Yes, anything to crude does put me off!

Think it is about that... we are all different in what puts us off but some names, words... connotations kind of make me shudder and I dont mean that in a nasty way. It is just me and I happily accept that what I migyht find distasteful could be really sexy to the next person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a no from me too, but can't judge a book by it's cover I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes anything with 69 in it puts me off as does illuding to be great at oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely

I don't wanna meet ANYONE who has sluts/cum/fanny/cock in their username - I find it a real turn off

Also profiles with phrases such as 'filthy sex' n 'dirty fuckers'"

I'd look, just to see if I can tell if the photos were stolen off a porn site and if I can tell the 'dirty fucker' who wrote it is just a bloke trying it on...hours of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes some of them are daft.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"yes anything with 69 in it puts me off as does illuding to be great at oral

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Could not agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it has done quite a few times

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Doesn't really bother me tbh. I just laugh.

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By *ickedxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Just had one from a guy and to be fair it's a nice message, complimenting our profile ,and pictures very polite, profile name analspunk ....nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had one from a guy and to be fair it's a nice message, complimenting our profile ,and pictures very polite, profile name analspunk ....nice

that would put me off.

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By *ickedxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not just us then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had one from a guy and to be fair it's a nice message, complimenting our profile ,and pictures very polite, profile name analspunk ....nice

Oh larks!

Well of course I had to look up the profile - nice pic tho

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Yes, anything to crude does put me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes anything with 69 in it puts me off as does illuding to be great at oral

That's us out then although we are both good with oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had one from a guy and to be fair it's a nice message, complimenting our profile ,and pictures very polite, profile name analspunk ....nice

Here's a thought. There's lots of ladies out there who enjoy anal sex, and I also reckon that, assuming the trust is there, there's plenty of women who enjoy the feeling of a mans semen inside them too, so its probably not too much of a long shot to assume that plenty of women would entertain the idea of receiving a mans cum anally. BUT only the ones who they have taken the time to get to know a more about, have decided they find him attractive, and are turned on enough by him to allow him to penetrate them anally and climax in such an intimate area. If the guy is basically implying through his username however that 'I cum in ladies arses and they LOVE it!', where's the subtlety? Does she get a say in this?

I'm not gonna suggest for one moment that the softly softly approach is the best for every woman, and reckon sometimes it is best for a guy to be a little bit bolder and assert himself, but he still he has to do it within reasonable bounds and show some respect for the women in question, otherwise he's only gonna succeed in scaring them off.

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By *ickedxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Just had one from a guy and to be fair it's a nice message, complimenting our profile ,and pictures very polite, profile name analspunk ....nice

Oh larks!

Well of course I had to look up the profile - nice pic tho

I didn't look before I do is it a cock ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes anything with 69 in it puts me off as does illuding to be great at oral

99 is good. I love ice cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - a body shot

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By *ickedxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Just had one from a guy and to be fair it's a nice message, complimenting our profile ,and pictures very polite, profile name analspunk ....nice

Oh larks!

Well of course I had to look up the profile - nice pic tho

I didn't look before I do is it a cock ?

Wow how wrong was I, Well I think I've just give him some free air time!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Yes very put off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea some have the ability to put you off imediately

had to have a long think before i decided against theodore bundy

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some are counter-productive. A nice witty one can make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put off what? My dinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can put me off and has done in the past x

My loss probably xx

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

If it's incredibly crude it could put me off, but mostly I just think they made something up in a hurry when they signed up to the site, and there isn't that much to read into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps something more subtle like an ecuddle?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I am not just put off sometimes I avoid altogether.

^^^^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still pondering on a username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol not sure what r name says about us they r just r niknames but I don't think someone's name put us of "

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I look at profile names and think....thats a bit odd. But still look

Does a play on initials and year of birth county as clever?

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over a year ago

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Are you put off by profile names? "

Yes, surprisingly often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a profile name is the parties choice, as they say never judge a book by its. over.

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just changed my name yesterday because I thought it was to vulgar I think it must make a difference have a better name

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about imperatives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about imperatives? "

You mean those little crumbly mints?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah sometimes can't help thinking ~ really, eeuuuww!!

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