FabSwingers.com forum: A friends request

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My fwb has asked me to be Dom as she wants to explore her sub side, she wants to be dominated compleatly but I find that I run out of ideas quite quickly when it comes to this kind of thing, so far I have discussed a couple of rules

1 she will never stand above me even when I am sitting

2 she will not look me in the eye unless told to do so

3 she will answer me with "sir yes sir" or "sir no sir"

At this point I'm at a loss, she has trusted me to be part of this experience and I don't want to ruin it by being all wimpy and her having to tell me to man up lol, any tips ?

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Blindfold her

Cuff her

Use ice

Use clamps

Use a crop

Pull her hair

Tell her to thank you after everything

All still mild stuff....

By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

try the mind games build her up slowly all day by telling her what tasks or punishments she will recieve when you get together ?

best one i did with lily who was being a brat all night at a fetish event was tell her every time she missbehaved it was another stroke on the list whilst toying with a cane .

got home in the door bent over nickers round her ankles her shivering and wet through in antisipation . me gently run finger down her bum cheek "one stroke " again " two stroke " had her shouting in anger at not getting it .

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"try the mind games build her up slowly all day by telling her what tasks or punishments she will recieve when you get together ?

best one i did with lily who was being a brat all night at a fetish event was tell her every time she missbehaved it was another stroke on the list whilst toying with a cane .

So set tasks on say Thursday and Friday before we meet on Friday night ?