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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I cannot confirm this but I'm sure there is a gang working in the Kirk Ella area, I went on a meet about an hour ago, she was telling me how wet she was and needed my cock on here, I was just abouts to knock on her door when I saw car lights coming from down the lane, at this time was wierd. So I ran back to my car and watched this other car, it pulled up outside her house as well, I asked her if she invited anyone else in which she replied no and she is wet and needs me inside her then another 2 cars turned up, the drivers all looked polish or Russian. I told her there was too much activity and was going and she was begging me to just knock on her door. The other cars were circling the block then a fourth car turned up then a fifth. I suspect if I had gone in I would of been beaten and had my wallet phone and prob my car taken. Then all the cars disappeared at the same time I reversed back to her house and all the lights was off then (they was on earlier) she said she was coming to the door and then deleted her profile off here. I left in my car as I was driving away I saw 3 of the cars driving back toward the house again

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

That certainly sounds like you dodged a bullet!

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Unless you have a very good reason not to (embarrassment does not count) I think you should go to the police and tell them what happened...

You may save someones life by doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you have a very good reason not to (embarrassment does not count) I think you should go to the police and tell them what happened...

You may save someones life by doing so. "

Totally agree!! Glad you didn't get mixed up in that! Wow

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By *athfindersCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Very disturbing news indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are lucky you didnt go in... you might have been walking home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot confirm this but I'm sure there is a gang working in the Kirk Ella area, I went on a meet about an hour ago, she was telling me how wet she was and needed my cock on here, I was just abouts to knock on her door when I saw car lights coming from down the lane, at this time was wierd. So I ran back to my car and watched this other car, it pulled up outside her house as well, I asked her if she invited anyone else in which she replied no and she is wet and needs me inside her then another 2 cars turned up, the drivers all looked polish or Russian. I told her there was too much activity and was going and she was begging me to just knock on her door. The other cars were circling the block then a fourth car turned up then a fifth. I suspect if I had gone in I would of been beaten and had my wallet phone and prob my car taken. Then all the cars disappeared at the same time I reversed back to her house and all the lights was off then (they was on earlier) she said she was coming to the door and then deleted her profile off here. I left in my car as I was driving away I saw 3 of the cars driving back toward the house again"

a lesson to everyone, full balls = empty head,

for your own safety, check your meeting, techniques,

message, then cam, then chat on the phone, never never do same day meets, give it a good week, you need that to check things out.

try and meet on neutral territory for first meet,

never go into a strangers house, or meet in the woods, in the dark.

If something sounds too good to be true, it is always dangerous.

People kill for jealousy, passion and money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you have a very good reason not to (embarrassment does not count) I think you should go to the police and tell them what happened...

You may save someones life by doing so.

Totally agree!! Glad you didn't get mixed up in that! Wow"

Please do. This is hugely disturbing and really does need the police to look in to for others safety. Glad you're ok

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

So glad you kept your big head working and managed to avoid trouble. Thank you for sharing this and reminding us all to stay smart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you have a very good reason not to (embarrassment does not count) I think you should go to the police and tell them what happened...

You may save someones life by doing so. "

Thats what you need to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's the same one she looked at me last night but never messaged me ( Nothing new there then ) Only this time I

Am glad she didn't x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I do think its a wise move to go to the police...and get it logged. Don't be embrassed as they have heard it all before...glad you are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very scary!!! I thought it was only us women who had to be really careful. Not so it seems!! Police needed on this, stat!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks just glad your ok.

there are some nasty people in this world.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think another profile will be back soon and will contact you again. You know what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a very worrying post .. They are probably thinking that if they did take all your belongings you would not report it to save the embarrassment of explaining why you was there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very disturbing, I agree with the others-definitely report it to the police.

Also, how did they 'look' Polish or Russian? We don't have two heads and red eyes you know!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It is a very worrying post .. They are probably thinking that if they did take all your belongings you would not report it to save the embarrassment of explaining why you was there "

They will probably target men on other sites too and then move to another area. Take the advice above about meeting socially in a cafe and check out veris and chat awhile too. If the single lady gagging for it really is, then she will wait a week or so at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you pissed amyone off lately? The cynic in me wonders if you were specifically targeted? That seems am awful lot of effort for a random target.

Regardless as everyone elae has said you need to speal to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So glad you kept your big head working and managed to avoid trouble. Thank you for sharing this and reminding us all to stay smart. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Very disturbing, I agree with the others-definitely report it to the police.

Also, how did they 'look' Polish or Russian? We don't have two heads and red eyes you know! "

I agree with all of your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, this very disturbing indeed. I think the police should definitely be involved..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very disturbing, I agree with the others-definitely report it to the police.

Also, how did they 'look' Polish or Russian? We don't have two heads and red eyes you know! "

1. Report to the police. If you hear in the local news that someone was duped and fell for this and ended up injured or dead, you will never forgive yourself.

2. The builders overalls and bottles of vodka gave it away...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

maybe put up a thread asking any police on here advice in how to deal with this

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"maybe put up a thread asking any police on here advice in how to deal with this "

maybe not....I doubt police will take part in task force fab some how.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet there's not many single fems that would meet for a play meet with a stranger at midnight. Might be wrong ....

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A friend of mine learnt the hard way not to let his little head rule his big one. He was off work ill and decided to arrange a meet and gave his address out to someone who turned out to be three men who beat him and robbed him!

Arranging a quick coffee meet even if it's just around the corner from your house could be if not a life saver then a health saver! And if they won't meet you in a public place then walk away, no matter how horny they (and you) are.

Men often forget that we are all vulnerable, it doesn't matter how big and tough you are if you're outnumbered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Regardless as everyone elae has said you need to speal to the police. "

To be fair that is logic talking..However. ..

...the police will do jack shit.

All the police will say is "we cannot do anything unless they actually do something".

Whichnis a ridiculous policy.

How far do you let someone go before it constitutes police investigation? ..

Also. .

...I'm similar to the OP. I'm quite streetwise and I just know when something ain't right.

And it also helps that whilst being pretty handy myself I have pretty handy mates too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See this is what happens, gangs like that rely on men who think with their balls and not their heads. It never fails to amaze me at how many people arrange immediate meets with people they don't know anything about.

I get offers to go and visit men at theirs within the first message and wouldn't dream of it. When I say I only meet for a social at first it isn't me being picky, regardless of them being verified.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Very scary!!! I thought it was only us women who had to be really careful. Not so it seems!! Police needed on this, stat!!"

I have on my profile anyone who wants to meet me now is a nut and I don't meet nuts. I make it plain I don't play nice. I have brackets, restraints etc and outweigh my meets. What kind of damned fool would think it a good idea to come calling at night?

Sorry, anybody daft enough to go off to meet strangers at night especially without any thought for their own wellbeing gets no sympathy from me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I bet there's not many single fems that would meet for a play meet with a stranger at midnight. Might be wrong ...."

My point exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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...I'm similar to the OP. I'm quite streetwise and I just know when something ain't right.

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I'd question just how streetwise the OP is based on the fact he turned up at a random house to meet a random person at around midnight...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"See this is what happens, gangs like that rely on men who think with their balls and not their heads. It never fails to amaze me at how many people arrange immediate meets with people they don't know anything about.

I get offers to go and visit men at theirs within the first message and wouldn't dream of it. When I say I only meet for a social at first it isn't me being picky, regardless of them being verified."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only echo others' thoughts. Public meets are the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you have a very good reason not to (embarrassment does not count) I think you should go to the police and tell them what happened...

You may save someones life by doing so. "

Totally agree

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I meet socially when meeting.....in a very public place. There are men pretending to be women on here...some will just use sites like this to target people to rob etc.....you have to be so careful in this day and age..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP the others in here are right, a report to the police should be made. Although technically no crime has been committed a report can be made. This would be more likely in the form of an intelligence report for the local police letting them know what you believe was about to happen. If there is any reluctance I speak to police about as you may feel embarrassment, they have seen and heard a lot worse before. But to get around this just go onto the crime stoppers website and email them all the details that you know including Address if the house and sets if cars. This will find its way to the local police very quickly

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I meet socially when meeting.....in a very public place. There are men pretending to be women on here...some will just use sites like this to target people to rob etc.....you have to be so careful in this day and age.."

And they count on the embarrassment factor to stop their victims reporting it.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

This is not the first time I have heard a story like this and I personally know a woman who had all her personal affects stolen and it was from someone she chatted too quite a bit. I don't think slating the OP is needed or called for here. I think its brave of him to speak about it if only to remind us all of the dangers.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I also know of someone who had her purse stolen by a meet. She didn't realise till after he'd gone. Not only did he get a shag but he got paid for it!

So keep valuables out of sight and somewhere safe even if you think all is well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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...I'm similar to the OP. I'm quite streetwise and I just know when something ain't right.

I'd question just how streetwise the OP is based on the fact he turned up at a random house to meet a random person at around midnight... "
To be fair to the op I would of probably gone too . I am a big lad and know the area he is talking about so would not of had no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree police need to be involved because the next person may not be so lucky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you (OP) give out any personal details?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If whoever it is is doing it on many sites or have done it on here before then police may already have had reports so it is worth letting them know.

It also shows everyone needs to be safe when meeting up. It is also worth remembering if it sounds too good to be true it probably is.

As the person has left the site obviously you can't report it, but I would let Admin know the name of the person and some details just incase they can do any digging.

You can do this from the CONTACT button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op as people have said you should report it to the police asap for the next person might not be so lucky x

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Very scary!!! I thought it was only us women who had to be really careful. Not so it seems!! Police needed on this, stat!!"

"Stat"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky escape..good job you didn't arrive early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must point out .. Hull is a very nice place to come and meet . Also have some very sexy mature gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must point out .. Hull is a very nice place to come and meet . Also have some very sexy mature gentleman "

Can I have their username please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must point out .. Hull is a very nice place to come and meet . Also have some very sexy mature gentleman "

Can I have their username please

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Holy shit , sounds like a scene from a movie !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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...I'm similar to the OP. I'm quite streetwise and I just know when something ain't right.

I'd question just how streetwise the OP is based on the fact he turned up at a random house to meet a random person at around midnight... To be fair to the op I would of probably gone too . I am a big lad and know the area he is talking about so would not of had no worries "

So getting your end away with anything that has a pulse is more important than basic safety?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"

...I'm similar to the OP. I'm quite streetwise and I just know when something ain't right.

I'd question just how streetwise the OP is based on the fact he turned up at a random house to meet a random person at around midnight... To be fair to the op I would of probably gone too . I am a big lad and know the area he is talking about so would not of had no worries "

really is a random shag really worth it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be named and shamed too..for the sake of others

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should be named and shamed too..for the sake of others

Nette"

No they shouldn't. This thread could be pure fantasy

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Brings a whole New meaning to the phrase 'safe sex,,!'

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

...I'm similar to the OP. I'm quite streetwise and I just know when something ain't right.

I'd question just how streetwise the OP is based on the fact he turned up at a random house to meet a random person at around midnight... "

this..

would definitely report the whole thing..

the 'gang' or whomever they were may well change their tactics as they nearly had the OP when he knocked on the door..

they may grab the next person after they get out of their car next time..

all predicated that this is actually true of course..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

five car loads of guys seems really excessive for 1 guy. sounds iffy on so many levels tho

you done the right thing leaving

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you (OP) give out any personal details?"

No wouldn't do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

...I'm similar to the OP. I'm quite streetwise and I just know when something ain't right.

I'd question just how streetwise the OP is based on the fact he turned up at a random house to meet a random

person at around midnight... "

I know the area well of course I do and the reason I went is cos I've done it before and met some great people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you pissed amyone off lately? The cynic in me wonders if you were specifically targeted? That seems am awful lot of effort for a random target.

Regardless as everyone elae has said you need to speal to the police. "

Well I did think that it could of been somebody messing around but when I put this on I've had others in the local area message me and say they was on there way there, same address and that.

I saved my own ass and a lot of people's last night, who have thanked me. I've been on this site on and off for over two years and never experienced it before!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"five car loads of guys seems really excessive for 1 guy. sounds iffy on so many levels tho

you done the right thing leaving"

Turned out it wasn't just me I've had 3 couples message saying they was going round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"five car loads of guys seems really excessive for 1 guy. sounds iffy on so many levels tho

you done the right thing leaving

Turned out it wasn't just me I've had 3 couples message saying they was going round"

Glad nothing happened to you what a horrid experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's the case. Further to my previous post. It needs to be reported in some form or the other. At the very least a message to the crime stoppers website. Will take you just a few minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So isn't it increasingly likely that all these cars arriving at the same time were all these people turning up so someone could have a bloody good laugh at you all?

If it looks too good to be true it probably is. Modify your selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean if I was going to get a bloke round to rob him, I'd have the heavies waiting IN the house/flat to do it. Not turning up Sweeney style and frightening the victim off in the nick of time.

More likely Miss "my pussy is so wet for your cock" was just seeing how many Sunday night desperados she could get in one place at the same time. He/she was probably in a house down the street pissing themselves.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"So isn't it increasingly likely that all these cars arriving at the same time were all these people turning up so someone could have a bloody good laugh at you all?

If it looks too good to be true it probably is. Modify your selection process.

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I think this is probably more the case too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is true . Why would she just not let him in and then quick text to her heavys to come round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could also be someone being vindictive toward a neighbour , who in the right mind gives out their address under these circumstances?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has to be the worst criminal gang in history. Five cars , let's presume one person per car. The most the OP would be carrying is £100 that's a lot of effort to get £20 each. Stolen phones are absolutely worthless so no point going to all that effort for a phone. Oh and they've given out their address. Mugging some random person off the street would've been less hassle for them and probably more profitable.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So isn't it increasingly likely that all these cars arriving at the same time were all these people turning up so someone could have a bloody good laugh at you all?

If it looks too good to be true it probably is. Modify your selection process.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I mean if I was going to get a bloke round to rob him, I'd have the heavies waiting IN the house/flat to do it. Not turning up Sweeney style and frightening the victim off in the nick of time.

More likely Miss "my pussy is so wet for your cock" was just seeing how many Sunday night desperados she could get in one place at the same time. He/she was probably in a house down the street pissing themselves. "

Crossed my mind too!

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By *rumCoupleCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Funny, no one has asked if the original profile was verified ?

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By *ranny SueTV/TS
over a year ago

folkestone

Indeed Public meets are safer. As for me I am very very well kitted out when I go for walks in woods. My motorhome has cameras on the outside covering every angle and time dating and recording any thing moving close within 10 metres. I don't do house meets or hotel meets, not unless I know the person very well which means having met them outdoors on several occasions and that my own instinct verifies the person.

But if I ever had a problem in the woods I can almost guaranteed that the offender would not be leaving the woods until someone finds them.

My TGirl appearance can be most deceiving

Sue x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has to be the worst criminal gang in history. Five cars , let's presume one person per car. The most the OP would be carrying is £100 that's a lot of effort to get £20 each. Stolen phones are absolutely worthless so no point going to all that effort for a phone. Oh and they've given out their address. Mugging some random person off the street would've been less hassle for them and probably more profitable. "

Not if they are robbing more than one person a night course it's profitable

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

and like I keep saying - listen to your gut!!

but you were very lucky

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By *ockofsteelMan
over a year ago

Hull

That's really odd and a bit scary I live in kirkella Woukd have thought this Woukd be the last place to suspect such a thing ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean if I was going to get a bloke round to rob him, I'd have the heavies waiting IN the house/flat to do it. Not turning up Sweeney style and frightening the victim off in the nick of time.

More likely Miss "my pussy is so wet for your cock" was just seeing how many Sunday night desperados she could get in one place at the same time. He/she was probably in a house down the street pissing themselves. "

We are all assuming the guys in the cars where heavys, they could of been more people wanting a meet, the person with the profile could of been waiting inside with heavys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has to be the worst criminal gang in history. Five cars , let's presume one person per car. The most the OP would be carrying is £100 that's a lot of effort to get £20 each. Stolen phones are absolutely worthless so no point going to all that effort for a phone. Oh and they've given out their address. Mugging some random person off the street would've been less hassle for them and probably more profitable.

Not if they are robbing more than one person a night course it's profitable"

They would have to deduct the rent for the house and moving costs from any profits as they wouldn't be able to return there. Unless they had murder in mind. Then it's a more sinister case than first imagined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell, guess i need to go back to the gym!!

...a quick fumble is not worth all this hassle.

Stay safe everyone

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Very disturbing, I agree with the others-definitely report it to the police.

Also, how did they 'look' Polish or Russian? We don't have two heads and red eyes you know! "

i have worked on big construction sites in london & other cities and just by going into changing rooms or canteen you can pick out just by looking who are the polish,russian,rumanians just like we have always been able to pick out the scots,welsh & irish.

its not a particular science you know?,just a familarity

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over a year ago


"Very disturbing, I agree with the others-definitely report it to the police.

Also, how did they 'look' Polish or Russian? We don't have two heads and red eyes you know!

i have worked on big construction sites in london & other cities and just by going into changing rooms or canteen you can pick out just by looking who are the polish,russian,rumanians just like we have always been able to pick out the scots,welsh & irish.

its not a particular science you know?,just a familarity"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some of the people on here should be working for the immigration service.

Able to pick out nationalities by simply looking round a room.

Able to pick Russian/Polish guys sat in cars in the dark.

Maybe they have unbelievable powers of observation or similar imaginations.....

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

its a risk any bloke takes turning up at a strangers door glad you are ok

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

We are all assuming the guys in the cars where heavys, they could of been more people wanting a meet, the person with the profile could of been waiting inside with heavys"

tbh most of our assumptions (puts own hands up) have been based on your rather graphic description of events..

equally this could have been some kids sat across the road from some old dear having a laugh..

the 'heavies' may not even have existed and as stated by others the other cars could have been others 'on a promise' also..

just a thought..

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

While we have many other reasons as well, the thought of something like this is one of the reasons we much prefer to meet in clubs.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if your gut feeling says don't then listen to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its a risk any bloke takes turning up at a strangers door glad you are ok"

Thanks I'm glad no one actually went

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some of the people on here should be working for the immigration service.

Able to pick out nationalities by simply looking round a room.

Able to pick Russian/Polish guys sat in cars in the dark.

Maybe they have unbelievable powers of observation or similar imaginations.....

"

Don't talk soft I for one can tell if one looks Eastern European I work with them and one of my best mates is polish, they do have a certain look about them. As for in the dark my car was parked near a street light which lit up everything as they went past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very disturbing, I agree with the others-definitely report it to the police.

Also, how did they 'look' Polish or Russian? We don't have two heads and red eyes you know!

i have worked on big construction sites in london & other cities and just by going into changing rooms or canteen you can pick out just by looking who are the polish,russian,rumanians just like we have always been able to pick out the scots,welsh & irish.

its not a particular science you know?,just a familarity

Exactly "

I grew up in a house full of Poles and I couldn't tell one just by looking! In fact, my aunt could pass as a Spaniard if you went on looks!...

Are you sure it wasn't Adrian Chiles whobwas messaging you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the first post we are lead to believe that five car loads of polish / Russian men were circling the house and were possibly heavys. Further down the thread we are asked to assume the heavys, of no particular ethnic persuasion, could have been inside the house and the polish / Russian men could've been victims also. That must of been some task force in the house.

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over a year ago


"

We are all assuming the guys in the cars where heavys, they could of been more people wanting a meet, the person with the profile could of been waiting inside with heavys

tbh most of our assumptions (puts own hands up) have been based on your rather graphic description of events..

equally this could have been some kids sat across the road from some old dear having a laugh..

the 'heavies' may not even have existed and as stated by others the other cars could have been others 'on a promise' also..

just a thought.."

couple of bored kids having a laugh at all the hards-ons circling.

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over a year ago


"In the first post we are lead to believe that five car loads of polish / Russian men were circling the house and were possibly heavys. Further down the thread we are asked to assume the heavys, of no particular ethnic persuasion, could have been inside the house and the polish / Russian men could've been victims also. That must of been some task force in the house. "

Read things properly ffs

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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over a year ago


"In the first post we are lead to believe that five car loads of polish / Russian men were circling the house and were possibly heavys. Further down the thread we are asked to assume the heavys, of no particular ethnic persuasion, could have been inside the house and the polish / Russian men could've been victims also. That must of been some task force in the house.

Read things properly ffs"

Enlighten me on what you think ive missed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you report to the police the goings on of last night?

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over a year ago


"In the first post we are lead to believe that five car loads of polish / Russian men were circling the house and were possibly heavys. Further down the thread we are asked to assume the heavys, of no particular ethnic persuasion, could have been inside the house and the polish / Russian men could've been victims also. That must of been some task force in the house.

Read things properly ffs"

Why are you ffs-ing people?

In your OP you said there were 5 cars with Russians or Poles in driving around the house. Then you said that WE are all assuming the afore-mentioned Russians are the heavies. This is only because you heavily implied that. Then in your other post you have thought about it and now think they have nothing to do with it.

I think Mr/Mrs Polk has read everything exactly as you have written it.

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over a year ago


"In the first post we are lead to believe that five car loads of polish / Russian men were circling the house and were possibly heavys. Further down the thread we are asked to assume the heavys, of no particular ethnic persuasion, could have been inside the house and the polish / Russian men could've been victims also. That must of been some task force in the house.

Read things properly ffs

Why are you ffs-ing people?

In your OP you said there were 5 cars with Russians or Poles in driving around the house. Then you said that WE are all assuming the afore-mentioned Russians are the heavies. This is only because you heavily implied that. Then in your other post you have thought about it and now think they have nothing to do with it.

I think Mr/Mrs Polk has read everything exactly as you have written it."

I said ffs I never called anyone a name I'm trying to raise awareness and frankly anything could of happened, all I'm getting is jip I do right for doing wrong I already said I made a mistake told what had happened and what I thought it may have been, everyone else has made there assumptions. Like I said I know and Eastern European when I see one, I couldn't say one or all 5 was defo Russian or Polish that's why I put Russian/polish (either or) !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what I think the OP is saying is this....... he turned up for a meet never having met or spoken to the "female" who invited him to a house late at night. On seeing other cars also turn up and circle the house as he was doing he thought hang on, I'm not alone, he got a fright and left, justifying it in his own mind by thinking they were all robbers out on the make. Not that someone could be watching all the goings on and having a laugh at every-ones expense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And I don't think I used the word heavies first I may be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what I think the OP is saying is this....... he turned up for a meet never having met or spoken to the "female" who invited him to a house late at night. On seeing other cars also turn up and circle the house as he was doing he thought hang on, I'm not alone, he got a fright and left, justifying it in his own mind by thinking they were all robbers out on the make. Not that someone could be watching all the goings on and having a laugh at every-ones expense. "

I may of agreed with that if no one else had messaged saying they had the same messages and were also on there way when the profile was deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I don't think I used the word heavies first I may be wrong"

In your status update you are warning people that there is a gang of robbers at large in Hull and are asking people to mail you for details.

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over a year ago


"So what I think the OP is saying is this....... he turned up for a meet never having met or spoken to the "female" who invited him to a house late at night. On seeing other cars also turn up and circle the house as he was doing he thought hang on, I'm not alone, he got a fright and left, justifying it in his own mind by thinking they were all robbers out on the make. Not that someone could be watching all the goings on and having a laugh at every-ones expense.

I may of agreed with that if no one else had messaged saying they had the same messages and were also on there way when the profile was deleted"

Ask yourself,

Were all the messages to others sent out over the same few days or weeks apart?

Was this the first time the culprit had gotten the desired effect?

Why do you think the profile was deleted when so many had turned up and just before the "female" answered the door?

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over a year ago


"And I don't think I used the word heavies first I may be wrong

In your status update you are warning people that there is a gang of robbers at large in Hull and are asking people to mail you for details. "

At that time is what I thought and about the time I got back home it doesn't say it in this thread, am I wrong for warning people is that what your saying? Should of left it as it was god knows what would of happened to people it may of been good it may of been bad but yeah I was at at six and forgot about my status so I shall remove it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a warning is not a bad thing, but I'd be inclined to think about warning others of a malicious prankster or ex out to make trouble for whoever lives there, or for fab users in general. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what I think the OP is saying is this....... he turned up for a meet never having met or spoken to the "female" who invited him to a house late at night. On seeing other cars also turn up and circle the house as he was doing he thought hang on, I'm not alone, he got a fright and left, justifying it in his own mind by thinking they were all robbers out on the make. Not that someone could be watching all the goings on and having a laugh at every-ones expense.

I may of agreed with that if no one else had messaged saying they had the same messages and were also on there way when the profile was deleted

Ask yourself,

Were all the messages to others sent out over the same few days or weeks apart?

Was this the first time the culprit had gotten the desired effect?

Why do you think the profile was deleted when so many had turned up and just before the "female" answered the door? "

I know she only joined that night, and the messages exchanged that night, I have never been in this situation meeting like that that's why I was suspicious. I asked her had she given her address to anyone else she said no, so I asked the people who was going to meet her earlier and she had given her address to all of them, so how was she not expecting people at her door?

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over a year ago


"So what I think the OP is saying is this....... he turned up for a meet never having met or spoken to the "female" who invited him to a house late at night. On seeing other cars also turn up and circle the house as he was doing he thought hang on, I'm not alone, he got a fright and left, justifying it in his own mind by thinking they were all robbers out on the make. Not that someone could be watching all the goings on and having a laugh at every-ones expense.

I may of agreed with that if no one else had messaged saying they had the same messages and were also on there way when the profile was deleted

Ask yourself,

Were all the messages to others sent out over the same few days or weeks apart?

Was this the first time the culprit had gotten the desired effect?

Why do you think the profile was deleted when so many had turned up and just before the "female" answered the door?

I know she only joined that night, and the messages exchanged that night, I have never been in this situation meeting like that that's why I was suspicious. I asked her had she given her address to anyone else she said no, so I asked the people who was going to meet her earlier and she had given her address to all of them, so how was she not expecting people at her door?"

.......... this explains things a lot more ...... see answer above. xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Whatever reason the OP had for leaving, it was the right one.

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over a year ago


"I think a warning is not a bad thing, but I'd be inclined to think about warning others of a malicious prankster or ex out to make trouble for whoever lives there, or for fab users in general. xx"

The only way to do that on a large scale is on a forum

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over a year ago


"In the first post we are lead to believe that five car loads of polish / Russian men were circling the house and were possibly heavys. Further down the thread we are asked to assume the heavys, of no particular ethnic persuasion, could have been inside the house and the polish / Russian men could've been victims also. That must of been some task force in the house.

Read things properly ffs

Why are you ffs-ing people?

In your OP you said there were 5 cars with Russians or Poles in driving around the house. Then you said that WE are all assuming the afore-mentioned Russians are the heavies. This is only because you heavily implied that. Then in your other post you have thought about it and now think they have nothing to do with it.

I think Mr/Mrs Polk has read everything exactly as you have written it.

I said ffs I never called anyone a name I'm trying to raise awareness and frankly anything could of happened, all I'm getting is jip I do right for doing wrong I already said I made a mistake told what had happened and what I thought it may have been, everyone else has made there assumptions. Like I said I know and Eastern European when I see one, I couldn't say one or all 5 was defo Russian or Polish that's why I put Russian/polish (either or) !!!"

I didn't comment on you knowing Russians from Germans, or about your decision to warn people. My point was that telling someone

"Read things properly ffs" is quite rude and a tad aggressive when they actually had read everything you had written correctly. I don't think there was a need to swear at people, abbreviated or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did'nt the Expendables all just wait in a room in the house? When she lured you upstairs the 5 car loads of blokes would then have you trapped?

It seems a bit far fetched to go to all that trouble and you could have had a £5 on you.

Sorry I am not buying it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why did'nt the Expendables all just wait in a room in the house? When she lured you upstairs the 5 car loads of blokes would then have you trapped?

It seems a bit far fetched to go to all that trouble and you could have had a £5 on you.

Sorry I am not buying it."

Nobody is asking you to I'm sick of having to explain it I'd agree if it was just me they was trying to get round

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over a year ago


"In the first post we are lead to believe that five car loads of polish / Russian men were circling the house and were possibly heavys. Further down the thread we are asked to assume the heavys, of no particular ethnic persuasion, could have been inside the house and the polish / Russian men could've been victims also. That must of been some task force in the house.

Read things properly ffs

Why are you ffs-ing people?

In your OP you said there were 5 cars with Russians or Poles in driving around the house. Then you said that WE are all assuming the afore-mentioned Russians are the heavies. This is only because you heavily implied that. Then in your other post you have thought about it and now think they have nothing to do with it.

I think Mr/Mrs Polk has read everything exactly as you have written it.

I said ffs I never called anyone a name I'm trying to raise awareness and frankly anything could of happened, all I'm getting is jip I do right for doing wrong I already said I made a mistake told what had happened and what I thought it may have been, everyone else has made there assumptions. Like I said I know and Eastern European when I see one, I couldn't say one or all 5 was defo Russian or Polish that's why I put Russian/polish (either or) !!!

I didn't comment on you knowing Russians from Germans, or about your decision to warn people. My point was that telling someone

"Read things properly ffs" is quite rude and a tad aggressive when they actually had read everything you had written correctly. I don't think there was a need to swear at people, abbreviated or otherwise."

I was swearing to my self so what you think don't matter and if I offended mr and mrs Polk I apologise

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We think it is quite right and proper that you mentioned this story, regardless of how concrete it may or may not be, we fully accept that you felt the situation wasn't right and you were better off not going in. The people you saw could have had equally iffy motives in mind to abuse the person who posted the profile / Ad, however we doubt that was the case, otherwise why was the profile taken off.

Those people that were members of another UK swinging site some years back, may also remember there was a couple going round doing something similar about 5 years back, now these incidents also happened in and around the Hull area, ironic, so perhaps one half of them has resurfaced? They were known for meeting people at dogging sites and robbing them, they also use to meet couples in their homes, and while the girl distracted the couple sexually, the guy would say he needed the toilet with an iffy tummy, and at the same time ransack the house for valuables. So people can laugh about the above story, but these things can and do does happen. the story of the robbing couple only came to light when one couple actually went to the police and they wrote about it on the forum, and there were several people who came foward who had met these guys. They bank on the embarassment factor, clearly, to continue the crime wave uncharged, and if it works once, they assume it will again, so you MUST report it.

We also hear of similar things happening on the gay scene all the time from our friends on that. Usually its Theft etc of money at parties, or more often drugs which are more heavily used on the gay sex scene. One story which did make the press some time ago, was that a young gay guy in his twenties, Met someone on Gaydar, rich guy who paid for him to travel to the USA to meet a group of men for some kind of heavy BDSM session. Something went wrong, and the guy actually died, the men panicked and buried him in the woods, but they were not able to erase the internet footprint of their contact with him through Gaydar, so they were traced, arrested, pleased guilty to manslaughter and were convicted. Now this is an extreme case, but I think it shows you should never be totally complacent and always exercise sensible caution (Plus dont travel to the USA to meet someone off the net you haven't met before)

Its always better to meet someone in a club or in public before going to or inviting them back to your home. If its a club with proper membership systems in place then they can at least be traced if something untowards happens. Needless to say when entertaining at home, never leave any vaulables in plain site, put them in a room your not going to use and lock the door.

Just remember though (Crimewatch voice) Serious crime is actually not that common in the UK, so sleep well, and don't have nightmares. Goodnight.

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over a year ago


"Why did'nt the Expendables all just wait in a room in the house? When she lured you upstairs the 5 car loads of blokes would then have you trapped?

It seems a bit far fetched to go to all that trouble and you could have had a £5 on you.

Sorry I am not buying it."

In the future I'll just let it happen then and you read about it talk about incenseative

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over a year ago


"We think it is quite right and proper that you mentioned this story, regardless of how concrete it may or may not be, we fully accept that you felt the situation wasn't right and you were better off not going in. The people you saw could have had equally iffy motives in mind to abuse the person who posted the profile / Ad, however we doubt that was the case, otherwise why was the profile taken off.

Those people that were members of another UK swinging site some years back, may also remember there was a couple going round doing something similar about 5 years back, now these incidents also happened in and around the Hull area, ironic, so perhaps one half of them has resurfaced? They were known for meeting people at dogging sites and robbing them, they also use to meet couples in their homes, and while the girl distracted the couple sexually, the guy would say he needed the toilet with an iffy tummy, and at the same time ransack the house for valuables. So people can laugh about the above story, but these things can and do does happen. the story of the robbing couple only came to light when one couple actually went to the police and they wrote about it on the forum, and there were several people who came foward who had met these guys. They bank on the embarassment factor, clearly, to continue the crime wave uncharged, and if it works once, they assume it will again, so you MUST report it.

We also hear of similar things happening on the gay scene all the time from our friends on that. Usually its Theft etc of money at parties, or more often drugs which are more heavily used on the gay sex scene. One story which did make the press some time ago, was that a young gay guy in his twenties, Met someone on Gaydar, rich guy who paid for him to travel to the USA to meet a group of men for some kind of heavy BDSM session. Something went wrong, and the guy actually died, the men panicked and buried him in the woods, but they were not able to erase the internet footprint of their contact with him through Gaydar, so they were traced, arrested, pleased guilty to manslaughter and were convicted. Now this is an extreme case, but I think it shows you should never be totally complacent and always exercise sensible caution (Plus dont travel to the USA to meet someone off the net you haven't met before)

Its always better to meet someone in a club or in public before going to or inviting them back to your home. If its a club with proper membership systems in place then they can at least be traced if something untowards happens. Needless to say when entertaining at home, never leave any vaulables in plain site, put them in a room your not going to use and lock the door.

Just remember though (Crimewatch voice) Serious crime is actually not that common in the UK, so sleep well, and don't have nightmares. Goodnight. "

Thank you I appreciate your reply I will report it and I will meet differently in the future

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

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So how do people "look Russian or polish" ??

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

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"Why did'nt the Expendables all just wait in a room in the house? When she lured you upstairs the 5 car loads of blokes would then have you trapped?

It seems a bit far fetched to go to all that trouble and you could have had a £5 on you.

Sorry I am not buying it.

I agree. Over active imagination comes to mind

In the future I'll just let it happen then and you read about it talk about incenseative "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So what I think the OP is saying is this....... he turned up for a meet never having met or spoken to the "female" who invited him to a house late at night. On seeing other cars also turn up and circle the house as he was doing he thought hang on, I'm not alone, he got a fright and left, justifying it in his own mind by thinking they were all robbers out on the make. Not that someone could be watching all the goings on and having a laugh at every-ones expense. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good god just logged in after bein out all day. it's like Cluedo meets Midsummer in here.

Ok I'm in the kitchen I'll bagsy miss scarlet oh and there's knives in the drawer so watch it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Maybe it was rod hull and emu who set up the whole thing....

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Possibly, but sadly Rod Hull is dead.

Emu was sold for some scary amount of money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it was rod hull and emu who set up the whole thing...."

Grotbag was the honey trap....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it was rod hull and emu who set up the whole thing....

Grotbag was the honey trap...."

Was croc driving the get away car?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how do people "look Russian or polish" ??"

anyone who looks like they could be a bond villain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

......When do we get the next chapter?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Maybe it was rod hull and emu who set up the whole thing....

Grotbag was the honey trap....

Was croc driving the get away car?"

Keith and Orville were the look outs

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm amazed a single man would honestly think a "woman", five minutes after joining would give out her address and be gagging for it. I mean...come on now!

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over a year ago


"We think it is quite right and proper that you mentioned this story, regardless of how concrete it may or may not be, we fully accept that you felt the situation wasn't right and you were better off not going in. The people you saw could have had equally iffy motives in mind to abuse the person who posted the profile / Ad, however we doubt that was the case, otherwise why was the profile taken off.

Those people that were members of another UK swinging site some years back, may also remember there was a couple going round doing something similar about 5 years back, now these incidents also happened in and around the Hull area, ironic, so perhaps one half of them has resurfaced? They were known for meeting people at dogging sites and robbing them, they also use to meet couples in their homes, and while the girl distracted the couple sexually, the guy would say he needed the toilet with an iffy tummy, and at the same time ransack the house for valuables. So people can laugh about the above story, but these things can and do does happen. the story of the robbing couple only came to light when one couple actually went to the police and they wrote about it on the forum, and there were several people who came foward who had met these guys. They bank on the embarassment factor, clearly, to continue the crime wave uncharged, and if it works once, they assume it will again, so you MUST report it.

We also hear of similar things happening on the gay scene all the time from our friends on that. Usually its Theft etc of money at parties, or more often drugs which are more heavily used on the gay sex scene. One story which did make the press some time ago, was that a young gay guy in his twenties, Met someone on Gaydar, rich guy who paid for him to travel to the USA to meet a group of men for some kind of heavy BDSM session. Something went wrong, and the guy actually died, the men panicked and buried him in the woods, but they were not able to erase the internet footprint of their contact with him through Gaydar, so they were traced, arrested, pleased guilty to manslaughter and were convicted. Now this is an extreme case, but I think it shows you should never be totally complacent and always exercise sensible caution (Plus dont travel to the USA to meet someone off the net you haven't met before)

Its always better to meet someone in a club or in public before going to or inviting them back to your home. If its a club with proper membership systems in place then they can at least be traced if something untowards happens. Needless to say when entertaining at home, never leave any vaulables in plain site, put them in a room your not going to use and lock the door.

Just remember though (Crimewatch voice) Serious crime is actually not that common in the UK, so sleep well, and don't have nightmares. Goodnight. "

Excellent advice . you could end up in a bath ....in a bag !....sneaky fackin Russians

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"We think it is quite right and proper that you mentioned this story, regardless of how concrete it may or may not be, we fully accept that you felt the situation wasn't right and you were better off not going in. The people you saw could have had equally iffy motives in mind to abuse the person who posted the profile / Ad, however we doubt that was the case, otherwise why was the profile taken off.

Those people that were members of another UK swinging site some years back, may also remember there was a couple going round doing something similar about 5 years back, now these incidents also happened in and around the Hull area, ironic, so perhaps one half of them has resurfaced? They were known for meeting people at dogging sites and robbing them, they also use to meet couples in their homes, and while the girl distracted the couple sexually, the guy would say he needed the toilet with an iffy tummy, and at the same time ransack the house for valuables. So people can laugh about the above story, but these things can and do does happen. the story of the robbing couple only came to light when one couple actually went to the police and they wrote about it on the forum, and there were several people who came foward who had met these guys. They bank on the embarassment factor, clearly, to continue the crime wave uncharged, and if it works once, they assume it will again, so you MUST report it.

We also hear of similar things happening on the gay scene all the time from our friends on that. Usually its Theft etc of money at parties, or more often drugs which are more heavily used on the gay sex scene. One story which did make the press some time ago, was that a young gay guy in his twenties, Met someone on Gaydar, rich guy who paid for him to travel to the USA to meet a group of men for some kind of heavy BDSM session. Something went wrong, and the guy actually died, the men panicked and buried him in the woods, but they were not able to erase the internet footprint of their contact with him through Gaydar, so they were traced, arrested, pleased guilty to manslaughter and were convicted. Now this is an extreme case, but I think it shows you should never be totally complacent and always exercise sensible caution (Plus dont travel to the USA to meet someone off the net you haven't met before)

Its always better to meet someone in a club or in public before going to or inviting them back to your home. If its a club with proper membership systems in place then they can at least be traced if something untowards happens. Needless to say when entertaining at home, never leave any vaulables in plain site, put them in a room your not going to use and lock the door.

Just remember though (Crimewatch voice) Serious crime is actually not that common in the UK, so sleep well, and don't have nightmares. Goodnight.

Excellent advice . you could end up in a bath ....in a bag !....sneaky fackin Russians "

Pmsl this made me nearly wet myself

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over a year ago


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I know she only joined that night, and the messages exchanged that night, I have never been in this situation meeting like that that's why I was suspicious. I asked her had she given her address to anyone else she said no, "

Are you shitting me?...

Pmsl!!

It was probably a wind up mate.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Good god just logged in after bein out all day. it's like Cluedo meets Midsummer in here.

Ok I'm in the kitchen I'll bagsy miss scarlet oh and there's knives in the drawer so watch it "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe it was rod hull and emu who set up the whole thing....

Grotbag was the honey trap....

Was croc driving the get away car?

Keith and Orville were the look outs "

Now this is getting plain silly!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Next you will be saying it was flintstones cars

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Next you will be saying it was flintstones cars "

Don't encourage them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other guys were all driving Travant`s......

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Next you will be saying it was flintstones cars

Don't encourage them! "

Come to think of it ...Barney was blonde and very eastern looking ....and was his surname Rubble ...or Ruble ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think making people aware that there may have been a scammer on the site....I think it is probably more a wind up and although some of us are cynical in how we view things, others may be more trusting. That isn't a bad thing, it just means you learn the hard way.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah now reading the rest of it...it is getting silly now so I think this has run it's course now.

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