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Looking for people aged 18 to 99?

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By *udie_Girl OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

Really? The number of profiles I've seen this age range on always makes me smile. Especially on younger members in their early 20's. I really am not ageist so please don't misconstrue what I'm saying but would a 22 year old guy really fancy someone who might easily have lived through the london blitz?

(I've no idea how old the oldest active site member is, but I really do wish them well.)

Michelle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 18-99 specified as my age range, simply because I have no age range (within legal reason of course), if I find a person attractive then chances are I've already decided this before I know how many years they've been around.

For the record however I've checked for any 99 year olds on here and the only ones that came up I suspect either made a typo or have one SERIOUS fitness and diet routine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its probably just been overlooked when first joining, and never noticed it, tbh, its not as if its in huge typeset on a page.

its only because im quite thorough that ours was set, otherwise it would be the same lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I agree its either overlooked or to indicate that they're open minded where age is concerned which is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are hoping for an 18 year old but a 90 year old will do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"they are hoping for an 18 year old but a 90 year old will do."

There's hope for us all then

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

I think leaving the age limit 18 to 99 is a good idea...

I (and I guess many much younger guys) would much rather play with someone like Debbie Harry or Joanna Lumley than some of the 20 odd year old females here. And I am sure that there are many Ladies who would say the same about a Sir Ranulph Fiennes lookalike than some of the younger guys on the site.

After all its not hard to press the no thanks or delete buttons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that when you google either Helen Mirren or Joanna Lumley, 'hot' shows up as a search option proves that age and beauty are not mutually exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy, chances lowered bi guy, chances lowered, not all that good looking, chances significantly lowered, I'm not lowering my chances again by putting an age range that would be just daft lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that when you google either Helen Mirren or Joanna Lumley, 'hot' shows up as a search option proves that age and beauty are not mutually exclusive."

this.

have said before.

there are some trully beautiful older people around, and some lovely mature younger ones too.

we have an age limit on ours, but its not set in stone, very little is, more a guide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that when you google either Helen Mirren or Joanna Lumley, 'hot' shows up as a search option proves that age and beauty are not mutually exclusive."

Not that many ordinary women look like them though do they?

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By *udie_Girl OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

All true words spoken here (well, written actually). But I for one am in the process of looking at my own attitudes to different ages. I said in my OP that I'm not ageist, but I do have certain moral qualms, which IMHO arent quite the same thing. For instance, I'm a 50 year old cross dresser who butters his bread on both sides, and am perfectly ok with someone who is old enough to be my son. In fact I have a mild crush on another cross dresser who is that age. But I would certainly think very hard before an encounter with someone old enough to be my grandchild.

(yes, I know this is a different direction from my OP, but threads do go off at tangents, so why should this be any different?)

Michelle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that when you google either Helen Mirren or Joanna Lumley, 'hot' shows up as a search option proves that age and beauty are not mutually exclusive.

Not that many ordinary women look like them though do they?"

True but most 52 year old males don't look like George Clooney either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that when you google either Helen Mirren or Joanna Lumley, 'hot' shows up as a search option proves that age and beauty are not mutually exclusive.

Not that many ordinary women look like them though do they?

True but most 52 year old males don't look like George Clooney either."

You were talking about women though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that when you google either Helen Mirren or Joanna Lumley, 'hot' shows up as a search option proves that age and beauty are not mutually exclusive.

Not that many ordinary women look like them though do they?

True but most 52 year old males don't look like George Clooney either.

You were talking about women though."

That doesn't matter, my point is that some people, fortunate ones perhaps, are not only able to hold onto their good looks but rather they actually seem to get BETTER looking as time marches on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"All true words spoken here (well, written actually). But I for one am in the process of looking at my own attitudes to different ages. I said in my OP that I'm not ageist, but I do have certain moral qualms, which IMHO arent quite the same thing. For instance, I'm a 50 year old cross dresser who butters his bread on both sides, and am perfectly ok with someone who is old enough to be my son. In fact I have a mild crush on another cross dresser who is that age. But I would certainly think very hard before an encounter with someone old enough to be my grandchild.

(yes, I know this is a different direction from my OP, but threads do go off at tangents, so why should this be any different?)

Michelle

x"

I think we all have an "age attitude" to a certain extent, it isn't so much whether you would meet someone of a certain age but more how you treat them. I notice that very young men often get a rough ride when asking why they aren't getting meets, their profiles usually reflect their age and inexperience...why wouldn't they we've all been young....but they often aren't treated with the respect we demand that they show us.

This has gone off on another tangent sorry

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By *udie_Girl OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale


"I think we all have an "age attitude" to a certain extent, it isn't so much whether you would meet someone of a certain age but more how you treat them. I notice that very young men often get a rough ride when asking why they aren't getting meets, their profiles usually reflect their age and inexperience...why wouldn't they we've all been young....but they often aren't treated with the respect we demand that they show us.

This has gone off on another tangent sorry "

No apologies necessary hun! X

You're right in what you say. I suppose young is just another way of saying inexperienced. I think I'm going to have a minor daydream about educating a young person..

Michelle

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By *udie_Girl OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

Err... Just read my last post and its struck me that some people might misconstrue what I meant. By young, I'm talking 18, 19, 20ish. I'm NOT having a saville moment here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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No apologies necessary hun! X

You're right in what you say. I suppose young is just another way of saying inexperienced. I think I'm going to have a minor daydream about educating a young person..

Michelle"

I am going to shamelessly plagiarise your post "I butter my bread on both sides" is a phrase I will use often from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? The number of profiles I've seen this age range on always makes me smile. Especially on younger members in their early 20's. I really am not ageist so please don't misconstrue what I'm saying but would a 22 year old guy really fancy someone who might easily have lived through the london blitz?

(I've no idea how old the oldest active site member is, but I really do wish them well.)

Michelle"

I am on an intergenerational sex/ dating site, the youngest member is 19 the oldest is 92/93,

and every age in between, age to many is just a number, for sex, especially on a swinging site, it isn't about fancying or liking someone, its about a pole and a hole, age isn't something many consider.

I mean if you have your age preference set at 25 to 35.

Would you expect a birth certificate or driving license as proof.

No one could tell the difference between a 23 yr old and a 25 yr old, age is just a number, it is like everything else on a sex site, fantasy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Really? The number of profiles I've seen this age range on always makes me smile. Especially on younger members in their early 20's. I really am not ageist so please don't misconstrue what I'm saying but would a 22 year old guy really fancy someone who might easily have lived through the london blitz?

(I've no idea how old the oldest active site member is, but I really do wish them well.)

Michelle

I am on an intergenerational sex/ dating site, the youngest member is 19 the oldest is 92/93,

and every age in between, age to many is just a number, for sex, especially on a swinging site, it isn't about fancying or liking someone, its about a pole and a hole, age isn't something many consider.

I mean if you have your age preference set at 25 to 35.

Would you expect a birth certificate or driving license as proof.

No one could tell the difference between a 23 yr old and a 25 yr old, age is just a number, it is like everything else on a sex site, fantasy."

yea but they'd have no problem telling teh difference between me and a 23 year old

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By *udie_Girl OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale


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Michelle

I am going to shamelessly plagiarise your post "I butter my bread on both sides" is a phrase I will use often from now on "

Well thats my good deed for the day sorted then!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that when you google either Helen Mirren or Joanna Lumley, 'hot' shows up as a search option proves that age and beauty are not mutually exclusive."

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