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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people send a message saying hi

You message back saying your not interested

They answer saying ok and then proceed to send the same message again half an hour later????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them. x

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough


"Just block them. x"

Aww that's not nice. No wonder guys are always struggling on here. They're just being a bit persistent in a friendly way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them. x

Aww that's not nice. No wonder guys are always struggling on here. They're just being a bit persistent in a friendly way."

No I meant if they say not interested and they keep mailing. Being persistent when someone has said 'no thanks' is not friendly.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Just block them. x

Aww that's not nice. No wonder guys are always struggling on here. They're just being a bit persistent in a friendly way.

No I meant if they say not interested and they keep mailing. Being persistent when someone has said 'no thanks' is not friendly. "

That is so true . Even if you have no block and ask for a specific sort of person you get messages from those who just dont read the profile , they only look at the pictures .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them. x"

would you offer the same advice to a single male who as had the same thing happen to him, however it was a couple, female or a tv/ts who had contacted him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them. x

would you offer the same advice to a single male who as had the same thing happen to him, however it was a couple, female or a tv/ts who had contacted him."

Yes of course. I'm not a man hater at all. x

Couples can be rude too.. and women....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them. x

would you offer the same advice to a single male who as had the same thing happen to him, however it was a couple, female or a tv/ts who had contacted him.

Yes of course. I'm not a man hater at all. x

Couples can be rude too.. and women.... "

sorry i hope didn't think i was insinuating that you were a man hater, it was a genuine question.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

It's about respect, you politely declined, they took it as an 'in' because you responded. It's not about status gender.

I do one thanks but no and delete the; 'but why' 'your loss' 'you're too fat anyways' 'get over yourself' 'my mrs wouldn't touch you anyways' 'I'm not that desperate' returned ones, then I will block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion people are too easily offended by the block button or see it as being mean to block someone. I simply use it as a tool to stop further contact with someone where I'm I'm not interested in any further contact, or they are not interested in me. It's the only solution in my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them. x

Aww that's not nice. No wonder guys are always struggling on here. They're just being a bit persistent in a friendly way.

No I meant if they say not interested and they keep mailing. Being persistent when someone has said 'no thanks' is not friendly. "

See to me if I've said no thanks and they email again a few months later I don't mind, I might well look again at their profile, but some guys email every couple of days and you have to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people send a message saying hi

You message back saying your not interested

They answer saying ok and then proceed to send the same message again half an hour later???? "

They are the "any hole is a goal" bulk mailers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me pins !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's about respect, you politely declined, they took it as an 'in' because you responded. It's not about status gender.

I do one thanks but no and delete the; 'but why' 'your loss' 'you're too fat anyways' 'get over yourself' 'my mrs wouldn't touch you anyways' 'I'm not that desperate' returned ones, then I will block."

a polite thanks but no thanks is the way foward, when i received them i always wish the female/couple the best in the future. i do not see the point being rude, nasty or ignorant of other fabbers wants & desires.

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