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By *ustfun7788 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Ok right, kinda embarrassing, but on a break from work today with the girl i was working with, we have kissed a few times in the past, heat of the moment kinda thing, but recently we been distant (think she likes me more than,she says) but yeah watching a dvd to pass the time, one thing led to another and she's massaging my cock, i went down on her, came back up to stick it in...and yeah....dead.... After a bit more fooking around he was awake again and i got him in, after about 5 mins he started to die again, talk about embarrassing, luckily i was due back at work so managed to spare anymore embarrassment, this problem has happened a few times recently when ive slept with someone new for the first time, it normally works out after a few sessions, so has / does anybody else have this problem? And what can i do if im lucky enough to get round 2?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe the excitement and pressure of fear in being caught at work. Maybe more foreplay and take some of the pressure away when meeting new people.

good luck,

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Either a) get some little blue pills, or 2) try not to think about it in case it's a self-fulfilling prophecy (i.e. the Golem effect)

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By *ustfun7788 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

It wasn't at work, was at her house, i think that's the problem since the day i met her ive wanted her, and i think just looking at her i couldn't believe i was fucking her at last and i couldn't get that off my mind

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Try again when you have more time and it's less rushed. Good luck

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By *ustfun7788 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Thanks, just hope it doesn't happen again, its worse the fact ive got to work with her or it wouldn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

next time try making it an evening full of each others company, not just sex.

go out for a drink and meal.

take it slow.

take away the pressure of having to perform

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By *ustfun7788 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Just sex in fine with, never any problems, its just when its with people,i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't think your alone with that, think most guys have suffered that issue at least once and if they say they haven't their lying. it happened to me a few weeks ago i just spent the rest of the time with my head inbetween her legs to make sure she was satisfied. just don't dwell on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should give up the fags mate. They definitely do not help down there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i don't think your alone with that, think most guys have suffered that issue at least once and if they say they haven't their lying. it happened to me a few weeks ago i just spent the rest of the time with my head inbetween her legs to make sure she was satisfied. just don't dwell on it."

call me a liar if you so wish, but i have nver had an erection problem when being with someone i WANT to do anything with.

only have it when im not really into it

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By *ustfun7788 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"i don't think your alone with that, think most guys have suffered that issue at least once and if they say they haven't their lying. it happened to me a few weeks ago i just spent the rest of the time with my head inbetween her legs to make sure she was satisfied. just don't dwell on it.

call me a liar if you so wish, but i have nver had an erection problem when being with someone i WANT to do anything with.

only have it when im not really into it"

see in the opposite, if its the first time im gettin on a girl i really really wanna, im thinking too much into it, like too busy thinking wow cant believe ive actually got her, and i dno, i cant relax, but after the novelty has worn off its fine

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"i don't think your alone with that, think most guys have suffered that issue at least once and if they say they haven't their lying. it happened to me a few weeks ago i just spent the rest of the time with my head inbetween her legs to make sure she was satisfied. just don't dwell on it."

hmmm maybe I could assist you with that

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By *ustfun7788 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

It works fine i just don't know how to stop thinking and get on with it that first time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sounds like you need more time together and not have time pressure. As above, more foreplay and let things progress in a more natural manner.

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By *ustfun7788 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Cheers dude, will see how tonight goes

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