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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Following on from a previous thread...

If you met someone nothing like their profile...

How would you turn them down without being insensitive or hurtful?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The truthful answer is that I make my excuses and leave and then follow it up with a written message saying they are not for me.

More often than not though I find something I like about them and work with that but it doesn't mean it becomes sexual. Well, not every time.

I would like to say that I have the right words to hand face to face but if I am not sure how someone will respond then I thank them for their time and leave.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I rarely say no even if I don't fancy them oh boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have socials first so makes it easier, I would have a drink and chat then let them know it wouldn't go any further.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Last time it happened I said something like 'I won't be coming home with you but would you like another drink?' He took it pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are the way to do it

Not saying that my socials haven't ended up with a good smooch though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from a previous thread...

If you met someone nothing like their profile...

How would you turn them down without being insensitive or hurtful?"

Nothing like them? I wouldn't recognise them then and would probably get labelled a timewaster and a no show as I'd be too busy strolling round looking for the person I was expecting!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have socials first so makes it easier, I would have a drink and chat then let them know it wouldn't go any further."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're nothing like their profile why make excuses? Tell them the truth. They mislead people. Tell them to sling it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have a drink and say I'm not attracted.

I've said it before more than once

I wouldn't be a dick about it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time it happened I said something like 'I won't be coming home with you but would you like another drink?' He took it pretty well."

I'dve suggested a shag behind the bins in the alley

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Last time it happened I said something like 'I won't be coming home with you but would you like another drink?' He took it pretty well."

I hope that was followed by 'Well get to the bar then'...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Before meeting I always establish that there are no guarantees...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the question..say NO???

I don't think I could ever hurt someone soo deeply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I rarely say ill play with someone I don't know. I always say, we'll have a chat and see what happens.

I think majority of women respect that more anyway.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely say no even if I don't fancy them oh boy"

Doesn't that make you feel like crap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have socials first so makes it easier, I would have a drink and chat then let them know it wouldn't go any further.

This!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I had a social, took it further as I didn't know how to say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have socials first so makes it easier, I would have a drink and chat then let them know it wouldn't go any further.

This!

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I agree xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Last time it happened I said something like 'I won't be coming home with you but would you like another drink?' He took it pretty well.

I hope that was followed by 'Well get to the bar then'..."

LOL no, it was my round. I'm a cheap date.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I have socials first so makes it easier, I would have a drink and chat then let them know it wouldn't go any further."

^^^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have socials first so makes it easier, I would have a drink and chat then let them know it wouldn't go any further.

This!

I agree xx"

Just because I don't fancy them doesn't mean we can't chat and have a drink together

One of my best dates was with a man I didn't fancy in the flesh, ended up joining in with the pub quiz and leaving at closing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have socials first so makes it easier, I would have a drink and chat then let them know it wouldn't go any further.

This!

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Same for me too

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