FabSwingers.com forum: should i tell her?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last weekend i had a 3rd date with this woman i meet on another dating site. she is a nice woman but does have a bit of facial hair above the corner of her lip which i admit has bugged me a little, now considering i have only met with her 3 times so don't know her all that well yet should i say something to her or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last weekend i had a 3rd date with this woman i meet on another dating site. she is a nice woman but does have a bit of facial hair above the corner of her lip which i admit has bugged me a little, now considering i have only met with her 3 times so don't know her all that well yet should i say something to her or not? "

Movember?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Treat her to a spa day which includes a wax treatment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women have hair where they shouldn't, especially dark haired/skinned ladies. The majority have fine hair in places.

She probably already knows about it but chooses to live with it.

I used to have a client with long grey hairs over her chin, if it's like that then you may need to worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checks in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im suprised she hasnt noticed

Im forever checking for things like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant bother you that much if you go back to see her again - im sure she is aware of it maybe it just doesnt bother he

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Treat her to a spa day which includes a wax treatment? "

That's not a bad idea but might seem a bit weird to offer something like that after just a few weeks friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laser treatment vouchers for Xmas ? Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm guessing it doesn't bother her it's hard not to notice. it just keeps catching my eye lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Say something, what could possibly go wrong? If I had three dates with someone and they chose the fourth to point out a small detail about me that bugged them there wouldn't be a fifth.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

doggy..?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Use some razor sharp wit and make a joke about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Say something, what could possibly go wrong? If I had three dates with someone and they chose the fourth to point out a small detail about me that bugged them there wouldn't be a fifth."

That's why i'm not sure if i should say something, she might tell me to bugger off lol it's a long drive home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"doggy..?

Not tried that with her yet

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i remember when i was growing up i found a hair....

i was really excited about it till i pissed out of it.

some things never change

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

wrap Duck tape around your fingers, say she has some food on her face....

go to wipe it, wipe it, pretend to sneeze,

rip like fuck...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Say something, what could possibly go wrong? If I had three dates with someone and they chose the fourth to point out a small detail about me that bugged them there wouldn't be a fifth.

That's why i'm not sure if i should say something, she might tell me to bugger off lol it's a long drive home."

Tell me you aren't serious...

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Take her to one of them eyebrow threading places.. but quietly tell the shop girl to hint at getting her lip done as well..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"doggy..?

Not tried that with her yet

was being ironic..

tmi ty..

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Kryola paint stick, it's useful at hiding beard shadow, then cover with a good liquid foundation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She obviously chooses to live with it and probably won't appreciate someone she met only three times pointing it out to her. You have 2 options: accept it's part of her and get over it OR don't see her a fourth time. Simple

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I think you need to be a bit tactful she probably knows it's there but does not mind it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave a tube of boots sensitive facial hair cream behind..

Or make light of it... All women gave it but blimey pet its a bit tickly...

Or do nowt...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess it's not that big a deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and be subtle - chuck in a few Magnum PI references here and there in general conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

introduce food into your sex, slap a blob of veet on it and tell her its cream?

seriously though i'm sure she has a mirror and knows she has facial hair, i'm guessing the reason it's still there is because she don't want to remove it

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"She obviously chooses to live with it and probably won't appreciate someone she met only three times pointing it out to her. You have 2 options: accept it's part of her and get over it OR don't see her a fourth time. Simple

That saved me some typing.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Put your hand between her legs and ask her to cough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo don't tell her she'll refuse to see you again, just don't shave on your next date and when she complains just say, well you know how I feel now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nooooo don't tell her she'll refuse to see you again, just don't shave on your next date and when she complains just say, well you know how I feel now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might see the fact your on here a bigger issue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, you had the answer from the start. Tell her you are thinking of growing a moustache for November and hey presto you can ask for her _iews on facial hair.

Maybe if that fails you can go on an exclusive caravan based tour of the southern U.S.A. Whilst recording a documentary for channel five and four. Wow the world is your oyster.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Tug it and see if her pants fall down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She might see the fact your on here a bigger issue..."

...You're...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell someone where to go if they pointed out something they saw as a problem after only 3 dates. Personally I think it would be very rude to mention it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is only one polite way to resolve this problem.

Arrange meets late at night, and don't have the light on!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeh why not? Cant see that going wrong for anyone

.. Mrs

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