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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Do you like being single??? It's the run up to Christmas and this is the time of year where it is a bit pants being single....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...it's easier...

No...cos it's lonely at times...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit gutted since I just broke up with someone I was after for years. But I enjoy spending Xmas with just the friends and family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes...it's easier...

No...cos it's lonely at times..."

Same answer here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being single most of the time, but it can get a bit boring and lonely occasionally.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Mixed feelings tbh but then it doesn't really matter. It is what it is. Next year i could be all loved up & happier than I've ever been but time will tell x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy being single but .... I do miss snuggles and intimacy with that special somebody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy being single, would be happier with someone if it was the right person

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I love being single, I truly can't see me having a "proper" relationship again. I'm also lucky in that my best mate's husband is a non-dom so when he's working, she and I can take off if we want - that's why we'll be in Morocco at Christmas

I have plenty of family and friends local too so on the (very rare) occasions I feel lonely or if I need company then there's always someone around

Worse time for me was last Christmas, I'd had my hip replaced 2 weeks earlier so did feel it a bit, being pretty much immobile but fortunately there were folk around to take my mind off it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i've been single for ages. But i've always had a fb..so not sure if i felt that loneliness.

...not a fan of relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being single, but it's waking upto an empty bed that gets me down .

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By *amie_leighWoman
over a year ago

coventry

It can be a bit lonely somtimes but it can be even lonelier in a bad relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the only single adult in the family at Christmas, I have to put up with witnessing my perfect sister and her perfect boyfriend stuck up each others arses so it is the only time it really bothers me.

Been single for the last 5, saves me money though lol although an old FWB got me a little gift xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily single with no intention of changing the status quo.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"It can be a bit lonely somtimes but it can be even lonelier in a bad relationship "

Very true...I was the loneliest ever in the last coupla years of my marriage...

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I'm the only single adult in the family at Christmas, I have to put up with witnessing my perfect sister and her perfect boyfriend stuck up each others arses so it is the only time it really bothers me.

Been single for the last 5, saves me money though lol although an old FWB got me a little gift xx"

I'm and not a jealous person but my sister has a lovely house a husband that adores her and 2 beautiful children...I look at them and get a prang of I wish that was me....my parents know this and really they spoil me rotten saying that it's because I've got no one to spoil me..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Hmm a bit mixed here.....yes, I am happy being single, I wont or can't say I get lonely at times but I would love to meet someone that I would like to spend the occasional evening with, just a shame it is so hard to bloody find

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"It can be a bit lonely somtimes but it can be even lonelier in a bad relationship "

I agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been single for the last 5, saves me money though lol although an old FWB got me a little gift xx

My Mum likes to rub it in my face, when I was caring for her she would tell me it was my job to do the lions share as my sister has a boyfriend

but then she has always played us against each other.

I'm fairly used to it now though, I don't have to buy presents for anyone lol I do have an old 'friend' who always calls or texts to say 'Happy Christmas' and posts a card x

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Been single for the last 5, saves me money though lol although an old FWB got me a little gift xx

My Mum likes to rub it in my face, when I was caring for her she would tell me it was my job to do the lions share as my sister has a boyfriend

but then she has always played us against each other.

I'm fairly used to it now though, I don't have to buy presents for anyone lol I do have an old 'friend' who always calls or texts to say 'Happy Christmas' and posts a card x"

Aww I'm sorry...my sister can be a nightmare we don't have the best of relationships but she is my sister and I love her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes...it's easier...

No...cos it's lonely at times..."

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Do you like being single??? It's the run up to Christmas and this is the time of year where it is a bit pants being single....

Oh and I have a big birthday next year....do you think I'll be able to arrange some fun for it? Somehow I doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been single for the last 5, saves me money though lol although an old FWB got me a little gift xx

My Mum likes to rub it in my face, when I was caring for her she would tell me it was my job to do the lions share as my sister has a boyfriend

but then she has always played us against each other.

I'm fairly used to it now though, I don't have to buy presents for anyone lol I do have an old 'friend' who always calls or texts to say 'Happy Christmas' and posts a card x

Aww I'm sorry...my sister can be a nightmare we don't have the best of relationships but she is my sister and I love her..."

Tell them closest to you, you love them every day..because if like me...you lose them way to soon

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I enjoy being single, and never get jealous of other peoples relationships. To be honest I miss my daughter much much more than I have ever missed having a regular man in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been single for the last 5, saves me money though lol although an old FWB got me a little gift xx

My Mum likes to rub it in my face, when I was caring for her she would tell me it was my job to do the lions share as my sister has a boyfriend

but then she has always played us against each other.

I'm fairly used to it now though, I don't have to buy presents for anyone lol I do have an old 'friend' who always calls or texts to say 'Happy Christmas' and posts a card x

Aww I'm sorry...my sister can be a nightmare we don't have the best of relationships but she is my sister and I love her..."

I do love her deep down. But get on better with my aunt and cousins x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me xmas was all about family - since the divorce its never been the same - me and the kids have made our own thing we do each year on xmas eve and that will be ours always - anything else is a bonus - kids are now 19 and 22 so not too much of an issue and i offer to work those days now - its a day to get through -

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

"Do you like being single??? It's the run up to Christmas and this is the time of year where it is a bit pants being single....

Oh and I have a big birthday next year....do you think I'll be able to arrange some fun for it? Somehow I doubt it!

Letter fi the queen ?? ...... lol ....

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

No I dislike it. Christmas is always filled with memories and this year will be another difficult one. I loved being in loved and feeling loved.

I would to meet the special one that will love me and my life how it is.

Its true its better and have lost but it hurts like hell remembering how love felt.

I will focus this Christmas on my kids and their happiness. Hopefully happiness will find me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being single too but yes Christmas is very hard I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I dislike it. Christmas is always filled with memories and this year will be another difficult one. I loved being in loved and feeling loved.

I would to meet the special one that will love me and my life how it is.

Its true its better and have lost but it hurts like hell remembering how love felt.

I will focus this Christmas on my kids and their happiness. Hopefully happiness will find me x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shall all us singles meet together? And i can make us all a nice turkey maybe?

...with lots of misteltoes. And yes, misteltoe, not camel toe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been single for over a year now . Was hard at first but am now loving it . I can have plenty of fun without having to sneak around behind someones back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not phased by being alone at xmas..and I particularly hate seeing people get together through it...then new year whooshies by, and the loves all gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just been dumped.

Just my mum in my family....

So don't even ask me how that feels....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will be my 3rd Christmas single unless something miraculous happens.

Its also the 3rd without Dad.

The latter is harder than the former.

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

I recently put a similar post on here.

It can be either a lovely time of year or very very lonely!

Why doesn't somebody organise a 'single swingers' Christmas day?

I would be up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm happy to be single, and have no intentions of changing that, I have the best of both worlds I think, having kids my house is never empty and I never get lonely but I have my freedom to do as I with, just wish I had the time to exercise that freedom

whether I will feel the same when my youngest has grown up and left home only time will tell but by then i'll be told old to be bothered about men anyway lol

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By *odoudoMan
over a year ago

hereford

Spent the last 10 bar one on my own, so used to it now. Did go to a friends once and as nice as the meal and company was I couldn't wait to get home. So I'll be happy to just chill again this year

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I recently put a similar post on here.

It can be either a lovely time of year or very very lonely!

Why doesn't somebody organise a 'single swingers' Christmas day?

I would be up for it."

Great thought...not sure my parents would like the idea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do enjoy being single but .... I do miss snuggles and intimacy with that special somebody "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like being single??? It's the run up to Christmas and this is the time of year where it is a bit pants being single....

Yes for me it is so I've booked a holiday in the sunshine for New Year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well i've been single for ages. But i've always had a fb..so not sure if i felt that loneliness.

...not a fan of relationships.

Yes I get that one but just certain events like Christmas, remind me and I feel aware of my singledom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been dumped.

Just my mum in my family....

So don't even ask me how that feels...."

Aw bless you.

Warm hugs XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last xmas i was loved up.. had my family around me

this year its just me and my daughter. Will be different but just as amazing

Ive plenty of love in my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like being single??? It's the run up to Christmas and this is the time of year where it is a bit pants being single....

Yes for me it is so I've booked a holiday in the sunshine for New Year

Sounds great... I was going to but I've guy something else in the pipeline sons hol can wait...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been single all of 2013 by choice, due to a nasty break up and I don't mind it. Of course, I wouldn't pass up the opportunity if someone great came along, but I'm happy as a single too.

Christmas can be hard but I plan to spend time with friends and family. I won't be lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being single is great. For instance, my dinner tonight was a sandwich left over from lunch, hardly worth making a fab feast for one tho is it. It's Friday night 9:30pm and I'm already thinking about going to bed (obviously alone). Won't bother setting the alarm because it doesn't matter what time I get up and that always helps waste the pointless weekend.

I wonder if anyone at work has noticed I'm always at the back of the 'clocking out' queue, as they dash for the door on a Friday, full of purpose and excitement.

I love being single, love that ever increasing selfish feeling, because everything you do is for yourself.

I recently joined a 'swingers' site to try and improve my non existent social life but it soon became depressingly obvious that it wasn't going to work.

So depressingly obvious in fact, that I now don't even masturbate anymore as it reminds me of what I'm not likely to be getting any time soon.

Can't wait for Christmas.

Anyway, bet that's cheered everybody up.

I'm of to my biscuit crumb infested bed now, see ya later.

XXX

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you like being single??? It's the run up to Christmas and this is the time of year where it is a bit pants being single....

Loneliest time in my life: Christmas before I left my husband. Never felt lonely being single, I have children, step children and family to eat me out of house and home and drive me crazy...I love Christmas, I take a month off work every year to prepare and get over it.

I love being single at the moment, I think it's because I'm never alone, my adult children haven't left home yet. Do I want to remain single for ever? No: still have time for husband number two!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes...it's easier...

No...cos it's lonely at times..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being single is great. For instance, my dinner tonight was a sandwich left over from lunch, hardly worth making a fab feast for one tho is it. It's Friday night 9:30pm and I'm already thinking about going to bed (obviously alone). Won't bother setting the alarm because it doesn't matter what time I get up and that always helps waste the pointless weekend.

I wonder if anyone at work has noticed I'm always at the back of the 'clocking out' queue, as they dash for the door on a Friday, full of purpose and excitement.

I love being single, love that ever increasing selfish feeling, because everything you do is for yourself.

I recently joined a 'swingers' site to try and improve my non existent social life but it soon became depressingly obvious that it wasn't going to work.

So depressingly obvious in fact, that I now don't even masturbate anymore as it reminds me of what I'm not likely to be getting any time soon.

Can't wait for Christmas.

Anyway, bet that's cheered everybody up.

I'm of to my biscuit crumb infested bed now, see ya later.

XXX "

no wanking?

ok I can relate to the rest but you really need to sort that bit out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if anyone at work has noticed I'm always at the back of the 'clocking out' queue, as they dash for the door on a Friday, full of purpose and excitement.

I love being single, love that ever increasing selfish feeling, because everything you do is for yourself.

I recently joined a 'swingers' site to try and improve my non existent social life but it soon became depressingly obvious that it wasn't going to work.

So depressingly obvious in fact, that I now don't even masturbate anymore as it reminds me of what I'm not likely to be getting any time soon.

Can't wait for Christmas.

Anyway, bet that's cheered everybody up.

I'm of to my biscuit crumb infested bed now, see ya later.

XXX "

Awwww I'm sure there must be someone out there x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It can be even lonelier in a bad relationship "

Oh isn't that the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they say you can be in a room full of people and be lonely

I think that's very true, if you are in a unhappy marriage its more lonely than being alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be even lonelier in a bad relationship

Oh isn't that the truth!

everyone keeps beating me to my posts today

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

My family are abroad again, will be me & the dogs.

Indian takeaway, the TV and vimto.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It can be a bit lonely somtimes but it can be even lonelier in a bad relationship

Very true...I was the loneliest ever in the last coupla years of my marriage...

Think a few of us can relate to that!

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'd think it would be different if I had kids...but when it's just you...it's a bit pants lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"i'm happy to be single, and have no intentions of changing that, I have the best of both worlds I think, having kids my house is never empty and I never get lonely but I have my freedom to do as I with, just wish I had the time to exercise that freedom

whether I will feel the same when my youngest has grown up and left home only time will tell but by then i'll be told old to be bothered about men anyway lol"

Pretty much this!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I wonder if anyone at work has noticed I'm always at the back of the 'clocking out' queue, as they dash for the door on a Friday, full of purpose and excitement.

I love being single, love that ever increasing selfish feeling, because everything you do is for yourself.

I recently joined a 'swingers' site to try and improve my non existent social life but it soon became depressingly obvious that it wasn't going to work.

So depressingly obvious in fact, that I now don't even masturbate anymore as it reminds me of what I'm not likely to be getting any time soon.

Can't wait for Christmas.

Anyway, bet that's cheered everybody up.

I'm of to my biscuit crumb infested bed now, see ya later.

XXX "

Good thing I don't drink...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

they say you can be in a room full of people and be lonely

I think that's very true, if you are in a unhappy marriage its more lonely than being alone "

It was awful: a truly desolate time. Never been miserable on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be me and the dog, camping in a canvas tent, 6 miles from home, and I have planned it that way.

Bliss!!!

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Im fine with it lots of good friends n fab of course xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First year being single since I was 17. Just me and my teenage daughter, gotta admit I'm a bit scared. But I have a couple of friends nearby, and my mum, so hopefully I'll make it through.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I think I may just drink cocktails over Christmas and have a laugh with the kids x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Yes...it's easier...

No...cos it's lonely at times..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont say it too loud but i love being single at this time of year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so much more easier an stress free

but no its shit because it lonely :/ need a gf haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes get lonely at times mostly in the middle of the night

but prefer being single than being with wrong person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes...it's easier...

No...cos it's lonely at times...

Same answer here

yep same here

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