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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would most people say, is the most important thing about a persons profile here to spark your initial interest in them?

Personally, for me its usually a womans pics, and most specifically her avatar. Whilst I do of course seek out women with attractive personalities, and consider them essential for a great meet, I personally need that initial 'ooh hello!' feeling from a womans profile, and the best way to get that is from a great avatar - I never search for profiles without pics.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'd agree. Before seeing their profile their avatar either draws you in or repels you. Next to that I would say your profile name. If it's one of those "I'mgonnaripuapart" names then I won't look or reply.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I can see where you are coming from and pictures are important - that said, an interesting, well written profile text can also be very attractive. Ideally you get both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics for me too

if I don't fancy someone i'm not going to chat to them to see if we get on

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I can see where you are coming from and pictures are important - that said, an interesting, well written profile text can also be very attractive. Ideally you get both. "

What makes you read the profile? Something has to get you through to opening the profile. I have seen an interesting picture and then had the disappointment of a nothing profile but I am unlikely to find an interesting profile without something to draw me in.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I can see where you are coming from and pictures are important - that said, an interesting, well written profile text can also be very attractive. Ideally you get both.

What makes you read the profile? Something has to get you through to opening the profile. I have seen an interesting picture and then had the disappointment of a nothing profile but I am unlikely to find an interesting profile without something to draw me in.

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Quite agree. If somebody, male or female posts something interesting in the forums I would be looking at pics and read their profile. If I am looking for a playmate I would instantly discard one liner profiles as I feel that we would not have a lot in common - even if their pics are fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics first , I'm always on the phone so the avatars arent always that clear. As said above profile names can put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures to start with then the profile, the forums are great so you can get an idea of the persons personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can see where you are coming from and pictures are important - that said, an interesting, well written profile text can also be very attractive. Ideally you get both.

What makes you read the profile? Something has to get you through to opening the profile.

"

Indeed, and its the exact same thing with sending mails - you can write the most intelligent, witty and delightfully promising message to a woman on here, but if she doesn't feel inspired to open and read it, then you may aswell have written 'hi fancy a fuck' (omission of question mark intentional).

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I'd agree. Before seeing their profile their avatar either draws you in or repels you. Next to that I would say your profile name. If it's one of those "I'mgonnaripuapart" names then I won't look or reply.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'd agree. Before seeing their profile their avatar either draws you in or repels you. Next to that I would say your profile name. If it's one of those "I'mgonnaripuapart" names then I won't look or reply.

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Agree. Off putting username, cock avatars, I ignore.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can see where you are coming from and pictures are important - that said, an interesting, well written profile text can also be very attractive. Ideally you get both.

What makes you read the profile? Something has to get you through to opening the profile. I have seen an interesting picture and then had the disappointment of a nothing profile but I am unlikely to find an interesting profile without something to draw me in.

"

This!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Pics then profile text, then location, then age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what people think of my profile? Is it inviting or rather repelling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems that eyecatching pics are considered pretty universally to be the most important feature - I may have to try gold plating my penis.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Seems that eyecatching pics are considered pretty universally to be the most important feature - I may have to try gold plating my penis."

That's gonna cost you a fortune fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics of a gorgeous body part do help, but it is usually witty banter (on cam, on forum or by message) that seals the deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pics for me too

if I don't fancy someone i'm not going to chat to them to see if we get on "

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

If i'm just browsing, then a profile pic that isn't a closeup of genitalia is a good start. Usually a nice body shot, or a sexy bum.

Normally, forum posts can get me curious (both positively and otherwise)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree a good avatar pic will draw our interest then we would look at the the other pics then read the profile :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures to start with then the profile, the forums are great so you can get an idea of the persons personality. "

I agree although someones avatar as changed from my favorite one again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their title heading which hopefully gives some indication of what type of person(s),they are seeking.

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

If i may add my three pennyworth. For blokes, well me anayway, i guess its an avatar that hooks you in to read the profile. We are sooo shallow and horny!!(but then you ladies know that)

I am alwasy staggered by the number of people and couples who just cannot be bothered to put up an avatar and have no pictures at all and a profile that reads "hot couple looking for fun"....I just ignore them now.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It's all about the hamburger shot.

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