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Lonely Christmas?

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By *elaxedsexyfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Northants

Having been single for 7 months I am not particularly looking forward to Christmas this year.

We always hosted all the joint families and I will miss it hugely this year.

I am not looking for sympathy but wondered if anyone knows of any 'singles Christmas events' or I quite fancy going away on a bit of a holiday.

Any help would be much appreciated.

Thank you fabers.

Gaz x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Could always volunteer somewhere. A lot of people in nursing homes have no visitors over Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1st ever xmas alone and cannot say im looking forward to it xxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There are things to do. Go away or plan lots of activities. Or plan to pamper yourself in whatever way works for you. Volunteer. Enjoy the peace. Do a house swap with someone wanting a cheap break away.

I have family on Christmas Day but usually everyone leaves London on Boxing Day and I see them all again on NYE. It's not grim being on your own unless you want to make it feel grim.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....Or take my place when my crowd invade Edinburgh.

Ffs this year will be fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could always volunteer somewhere. A lot of people in nursing homes have no visitors over Christmas "

I volunteered at a nursing home after my first divorce, it was an amazing experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be wanting to be on my own by lunch time on Boxing day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll be wanting to be on my own by lunch time on Boxing day "

Yes exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll be wanting to be on my own by lunch time on Boxing day

Yes exactly! "

You can stop at mine on your way back down for some alone time

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By *elaxedsexyfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Northants

Thank you all.

I may look into doing some charity work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll be wanting to be on my own by lunch time on Boxing day

Yes exactly!

You can stop at mine on your way back down for some alone time "

Yes exactly!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Thank you all.

I may look into doing some charity work.

"

Do it sooner rather than later. The popular gigs go very quickly so if you want some choice then look now. Also, don't be offended if they turn you down - they do try and place the right people for the roles.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'll be wanting to be on my own by lunch time on Boxing day "

I'll be wanting to be on my own by lunch time Christmas day!

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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I would love to be left alone at Xmas.

Especially if it it meant I could volunteer somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could always volunteer somewhere. A lot of people in nursing homes have no visitors over Christmas "

That's a lovely idea, so many older people would be glad to see someone.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'll be wanting to be on my own by lunch time on Boxing day "

I'm wishing for solace a couple hours after they arrive Christmas eve!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget though it's not just about one day or time of year you can volunteer all year round. I've done charity work for over 6 years now and it's the best thing I've ever done.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

been like that for the last few years ,i got use to it now , see my son for some of xmas then im on my own , as not spoke to my family in years,so wont go see and visit them , so hows that song go, its gona be lonely this christmas

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Don't forget though it's not just about one day or time of year you can volunteer all year round. I've done charity work for over 6 years now and it's the best thing I've ever done. "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Aww all of you come round for dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could always volunteer somewhere. A lot of people in nursing homes have no visitors over Christmas "

Blimey Evie

Not read the rest of the thread but you said what id do

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ok I've been homeless as on rough sleeping over Christmas I went to a soup kitchen and got fed...I've helped out in the same place on Christmas Day. I hate seeing anyone lonely at Christmas

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

In term of volunteering get in early as they have to do CRB checks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no family what so ever except my daughter and she may be away Christmas day this year

I think to myself - is that as bad as sleeping rough under covers made out of old clothes and papers ???

No ... See I've had much worse ones

Hospitals ..nursing homes ...homeless shelters - all need volunteers ..

Failing that plenty of holidays available im sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could sleep the whole day away. Can't volunteer as don't want to see or hear everyone saying happy Christmas. It died for me 4 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im working xmas day, it actually falls on my day off but as my big two have moved out to go to uni and my youngest ones off to her dads I thought I may as well go to work for double time than sit in the house alone so offered to work it

I don't have any family besides my children so xmas has never been a big event in my house, without my kids here its just another day really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all.

I may look into doing some charity work.

"

Think I might join you on that!

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Put a "Bah Humbug" sign on the door climb under the duvet and spend the day in bed!

Its what I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im probably going to be working over xmas as a punishment for having the summer off sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're looking for a bit of swinging at Xmas to avoid family so maybe we could arrange a group meet ??

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I've spent the past six Christmases alone, its only a big deal if you let it be. I sleep in late, get up and slob about in my PJs all day, watch telly, cuddle my cats..give them presents and make them Christmas dinner........get some cats and you will never be lonely, mad maybe but not lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm working Xmas day for second year running.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

sounds like it'll be a rave on here if you all play nicely and remember no only fun, fun, fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im working xmas day, it actually falls on my day off but as my big two have moved out to go to uni and my youngest ones off to her dads I thought I may as well go to work for double time than sit in the house alone so offered to work it

"

Triple time here

I'm working Xmas eve, Xmas day, Boxing Day.

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By *hynewguy2012Man
over a year ago

dartford

I'm going to be working all the xmas shifts too.

But I do plan to be on here too to hopefully brighten the days

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Don't forget though it's not just about one day or time of year you can volunteer all year round. I've done charity work for over 6 years now and it's the best thing I've ever done. "

Well said . I've been doing voluntary work for 6 years .infact 3 voluntary roles and just applied for childline

Unless people try volunteering they wil never understand the benefits not only to others but themselves !

Do it today ... If you want I can send you a great link . Let me know

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Or is there an elderly neighbour who will be alone? You could offer to cook dinner for them.

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