FabSwingers.com forum: Self importance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We come across all type of people in our lives, but more who pretend to be someone who they are not. They make themselves look bigger in every aspect ie:-

I drive X Y Z

I have X Y Z properties

I have X Y Z businesses

wearing 20K watches etc etc, you get the idea

What I have found is that ones who brag are generally the ones who don't have any of these things, or if they do, it's on loans and credits.

I for example don't look at or judge people by what they drive, what type of watch they are wearing etc, as this doesn't really tell me the true story about the person.

I'm not interested in anything else other than the person who I am speaking with.

Whether they have money/possessions or not, it makes absolutely no difference to me as what is important to me is the person and nothing else.

The world is full of liars and wannabees, some a lot bigger than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im far too busy to respond right now......Ill have my PA do it later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im far too busy to respond right now......Ill have my PA do it later "

You mean Personal Assistant or your pa?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I wish more thought like you. I wouldn't feel so daft when I rock up in my Reliant Robin (plastic pig)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of wealthy people where we live, just down to earth nice people.

then you get some who have bought their council house who are always bragging about one thing or another.

lots of people judge people by how much money they have got, people like to feel superior, everyone does it a bit, its human nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im far too busy to respond right now......Ill have my PA do it later

You mean Personal Assistant or your pa?

Sshhhhh im being important!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

How can anyone wear 20,000 watches FFS!? It's Mad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im far too busy to respond right now......Ill have my PA do it later

You mean Personal Assistant or your pa?

Sshhhhh im being important!

Hmph, when I couldn't get an erection was the last time I was important (did I spell that right?).

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Since I am obviously vastly superior to everyone else it doesn't bother me when people brag. It's only natural they want to seem as great as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I for example don't look at or judge people by what they drive, what type of watch they are wearing etc, as this doesn't really tell me the true story about the person.

I'm not interested in anything else other than the person who I am speaking with.

Whether they have money/possessions or not, it makes absolutely no difference to me as what is important to me is the person and nothing else.

The world is full of liars and wannabees, some a lot bigger than others."

So are you judging these people or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can anyone wear 20,000 watches FFS!? It's Mad."

I paid £100 for my watch, its pink and doesnt need a battery.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

self importance rules ya bass.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and I am happy to do charitable shags with the less important ( cock size dependant )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have said you were robbed you can get them for a fiver in bangkok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why care .......... Why let it worry you.? Everyone is different in life and thank god for that ...... I never look at others think oooo I hate you because you have this and that ........ no as if I wished to have it I would work some how to get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

@Soxy.

NO, not judging them in any.

I have no right to judge and neither do I judge anyone based on anything.

But what my point is, these people WANT to be judged based on what they say, or have/not have if you see what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@Soxy.

NO, not judging them in any.

But what my point is, these people WANT to be judged based on what they say, or have/not have if you see what I mean"

But surely that’s a judgmental assumption on your part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just on my way to my New York office and will reply fully soon

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"How can anyone wear 20,000 watches FFS!? It's Mad.

I paid £100 for my watch, its pink and doesnt need a battery.

Is this a wind up? {------- see what I did there.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Deciding someone is a liar or a wannabe with nothing to back it up isn't judging?

OP, to be honest it sounds as though you are quite insecure; otherwise you wouldn't let this bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@Soxy.

NO, not judging them in any.

I have no right to judge and neither do I judge anyone based on anything.

But what my point is, these people WANT to be judged based on what they say, or have/not have if you see what I mean"
I say let people be who they wish too be .. We cant like everyone and people are different in there likes ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money hasn't changed me. Just ask my helicopter pilot or butler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I'm no fan of materialism, I really don't link it directly to wealth and certainly not to self importance.

To be honest this thread smacks of jealousy. People can spend their money as they choose and I'm not going to judge them.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"@Soxy.

NO, not judging them in any.

But what my point is, these people WANT to be judged based on what they say, or have/not have if you see what I mean

But surely that’s a judgmental assumption on your part

I agree but I think you're on a loser trying to get this point across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can anyone wear 20,000 watches FFS!? It's Mad.

I paid £100 for my watch, its pink and doesnt need a battery.

Is this a wind up? {------- see what I did there."

Its a citizen watch i bought it six years ago with the money my dad left me.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it allows me to arrange meets with people that I am not fully attracted to and ask my hired help to shag them...

a verification is a verification after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And op you are judging people putting them into boxes things you like and don't like in a person.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"@Soxy.

NO, not judging them in any.

I have no right to judge and neither do I judge anyone based on anything.

But what my point is, these people WANT to be judged based on what they say, or have/not have if you see what I mean"

The fact you have referred to them as liars and wannabes and written a post about it might suggest you are judging them

End of the day we choose who we have in our lives, if boasters aren't who you want around you then move away from them.

We all have choices..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was only a discussion, not generalising or assuming or judging.

Feck it, I'll just jump in my Bentley and F off! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money hasn't changed me. Just ask my helicopter pilot or butler "

you only have the one pilot? How lower class..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was only a discussion, not generalising or assuming or judging.

Feck it, I'll just jump in my Bentley and F off! LOL

What colour is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wish to look at Rich people with loads of money to spend on jets and all things that's cost the earth . Meet the Russians on sky TV was on last night . It will open your eyes . lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people's attitude towards money varies according to their character but also according to how long they've been wealthy.

Old money tends to be much more discreet than new money (think Kardashians and footballers).

But I would not judge someone just from the net worth of what they are wearing / driving .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We come across all type of people in our lives, but more who pretend to be someone who they are not. They make themselves look bigger in every aspect ie:-

I drive X Y Z

I have X Y Z properties

I have X Y Z businesses

wearing 20K watches etc etc, you get the idea

What I have found is that ones who brag are generally the ones who don't have any of these things, or if they do, it's on loans and credits.

I for example don't look at or judge people by what they drive, what type of watch they are wearing etc, as this doesn't really tell me the true story about the person.

I'm not interested in anything else other than the person who I am speaking with.

Whether they have money/possessions or not, it makes absolutely no difference to me as what is important to me is the person and nothing else.

The world is full of liars and wannabees, some a lot bigger than others."

I'm sorry but I shall be unable to instruct any of my serried ranks of staff to respond. On the basis I don't truck with the lower orders

(hehehehehe)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no cash, never had any, however I am rich in so many other ways, 3 rescue dogs, 3 horses, food in the barn and a roof over my head.

I have 2 arms, 2 legs and a couple of brain cells, what more could I possibly need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no cash, never had any, however I am rich in so many other ways, 3 rescue dogs, 3 horses, food in the barn and a roof over my head.

I have 2 arms, 2 legs and a couple of brain cells, what more could I possibly need."
well said your a very Rich person xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no cash, never had any, however I am rich in so many other ways, 3 rescue dogs, 3 horses, food in the barn and a roof over my head.

I have 2 arms, 2 legs and a couple of brain cells, what more could I possibly need."

Sounds good to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no cash, never had any, however I am rich in so many other ways, 3 rescue dogs, 3 horses, food in the barn and a roof over my head.

I have 2 arms, 2 legs and a couple of brain cells, what more could I possibly need."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"While I'm no fan of materialism, I really don't link it directly to wealth and certainly not to self importance.

To be honest this thread smacks of jealousy. People can spend their money as they choose and I'm not going to judge them. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"While I'm no fan of materialism, I really don't link it directly to wealth and certainly not to self importance.

To be honest this thread smacks of jealousy. People can spend their money as they choose and I'm not going to judge them. "

Jealousy?

Err I don't think so.

First off, we don't know what positions we are all in and if we want it, we go out and get it. I don't know what you have or do and neither do you know what anyone else has

It's not about jealousy it's about people portraying themselves as something they're not

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

" People can spend their money as they choose and I'm not going to judge them.

First off, we don't know what positions we are all in and if we want it, we go out and get it. I don't know what you have or do and neither do you know what anyone else has

agree with the first point..

but the 2nd point looks like its based on a perspective where materialism is pretty relevant to the poster..

notwithstanding the basic needs we all have, shelter, food etc..

what is 'it' btw..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who brag about their sex lives and how good they are, just as daft.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think you're missing the point here, or maybe I'm not explaining it correctly.

What I am saying is people who portray to be something they are not in order to be liked or judged on what they have.

What I am asking why is it that a lot of people feel that materialistic things matter

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