FabSwingers.com forum: Haters

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Why is this word so bandied around now if people just say they don't like something.

I rarely hate but I keep getting called a hater.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think it is more active than passive in meaning.

A hater is someone who goes out of their way to tell everyone their opinion on a matter, whereas a person who dislikes something will just shrug their shoulders and tut, then move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that a Yank saying ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be an apatheticer then?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Is that a Yank saying ?"

I see it on here a fair bit and it has been appearing in speech much more.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Can I be an apatheticer then?"

Why not? Can you be bothered though?

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

It's just someone you don't agree with. It's just a term of abuse to shut someone up because you don't want to have to consider what they are saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it been picked up from certain TV programmes? eg Geordie Shore, Towie and the likes.

The young uns seem to use "hater" and many other words out of original context.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Same as timewaster. Some feel the need to apply a negative label to anyone who doesn't behave or think like they think they should. It makes it all the fault of the dissenter and means that there is no need to examine their beliefs or accept that others feel differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think haters have always been around just another way of saying someone is jealous or has the green eyed monster about something.

Not a phrase I use though.

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

Well said Virago

"Same as timewaster. Some feel the need to apply a negative label to anyone who doesn't behave or think like they think they should. It makes it all the fault of the dissenter and means that there is no need to examine their beliefs or accept that others feel differently."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haters gonna hate

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Sounds to me like a label designed to discredit anyone who does not agree with whatever proposition is being put forward by the PC brigade and dismiss their opinion.

Neat trick really.

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

"Sounds to me like a label designed to discredit anyone who does not agree with whatever proposition is being put forward by the PC brigade and dismiss their opinion.

Neat trick really.

A way to not have to think of someone else's point of view - and feel morally superior at the same time.

It can now be enforced in law and the 'hater' can end up in jail.

Pretty unpleasant really. Whatever happened to debate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is this word so bandied around now if people just say they don't like something.

I rarely hate but I keep getting called a hater."

You are possibly being over sensitive different people use different words in different ways.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

A word used by those who don't get their own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A word used by those who don't get their own way."

Or see it from there point of view

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Is that a Yank saying ?"

Yes: Jay-z even made a song about Haters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just one of those words thats popular at the moment,the meanings of words like that are never meant or taken literally because fitting it into a sentence to appear trendy means more than the actual word does

A few years ago when people started using the word "pants" to describe things they did'nt like I really thought I had moved into a mad parallel universe and then all of a sudden it became that I did'nt find it weird at all

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

That and sycophant seem to be the buzz words of the last six months or so. Once a word is used and noted, the world and his wife use it, even out of context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always hated Celery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word troll comes up often when people have a difference of opinion. Or, as you state OP, the word hater or forum police etc. Its often used when people can't come back with a reasoned response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That and sycophant seem to be the buzz words of the last six months or so. Once a word is used and noted, the world and his wife use it, even out of context."

I agree that certain words and statements seem to be latched onto and used time and time again.

The term 'is it Thursday yet' is used to make mockery of some people's posts and, the term I really dislike, 'I guess I'll be shot down in flames' as if stating those words will somehow protect from a different response or, if people do respond differently, the onus can be transferred onto them as being deliberately difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate is such a strong word and used far too liberally IMO

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Is that a Yank saying ?

Yes: Jay-z even made a song about Haters."

There is a song!?

It is more prevalent than I thought then.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"That and sycophant seem to be the buzz words of the last six months or so. Once a word is used and noted, the world and his wife use it, even out of context.

I agree that certain words and statements seem to be latched onto and used time and time again.

This, and others.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hate is such a strong word and used far too liberally IMO

Love and hate both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate is such a strong word and used far too liberally IMO

Love and hate both."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate is such a strong word and used far too liberally IMO

Very true, though some people just get off "hating" sad really

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Haters be hatin on buzz-words like haters yo.

That's a line for Jay Z I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haters gonna hate, lovers gonna love, I don't even want, none of the above I want to piss on you.

Soon as I saw this, Chapelles show popped right into my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haters be hatin on buzz-words like haters yo.

That's a line for Jay Z I believe.

Look funkey, show me your ass anyday

but not that bloody mask....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haters be hatin on buzz-words like haters yo.

That's a line for Jay Z I believe.

Look funkey, show me your ass anyday

but not that bloody mask....

ermmmm i mean "funky"

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Haters be hatin on buzz-words like haters yo.

That's a line for Jay Z I believe.

Look funkey, show me your ass anyday

but not that bloody mask....

ermmmm i mean "funky"

Peaches you my spell my name anyway you like, I often get called fubky because of the position of b and n and I have become quite attached to that also.

FYI that isn't a mask. It's a picture of my soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must say, i always thought it was a term used by those that are in the wrong,against those that dont agree with them doing wrong, to deflect an incorrect attitude, ie haters that tell cheaters its not right and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haters be hatin on buzz-words like haters yo.

That's a line for Jay Z I believe.

Look funkey, show me your ass anyday

but not that bloody mask....

ermmmm i mean "funky"

Peaches you my spell my name anyway you like, I often get called fubky because of the position of b and n and I have become quite attached to that also.

FYI that isn't a mask. It's a picture of my soul."

she would prefer your R soul lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Haters be hatin on buzz-words like haters yo.

That's a line for Jay Z I believe.

Look funkey, show me your ass anyday

but not that bloody mask....

ermmmm i mean "funky"

Peaches you my spell my name anyway you like, I often get called fubky because of the position of b and n and I have become quite attached to that also.

FYI that isn't a mask. It's a picture of my soul.

she would prefer your R soul lol"

Hhehehehehehehhhehhheee I see what you did there lols

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haters = jealousy

Just ignore them. Either own lives are too boring in which case they comment on others or they have many faults of their own and talk about others to draw attention away from themselves

Ever hear the saying "you can see the dust in my eye but not the splinter in your own"

Feck em

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Haters gonna hate, lovers gonna love, I don't even want, none of the above I want to piss on you.

Soon as I saw this, Chapelles show popped right into my head

I think I prefer being called a hater to being pissed on.

This wasn't about my personal feelings - people call me all sorts of things - but about language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that a Yank saying ?"

Hip Hop slang just like bling,phat,etc

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

I hate Mandys ex with a passion so i'm a hater

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