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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just after your thoughts lady's on bigger single guys in clubs??? I'm overweight but i'm 6'3 so i don't think i look to bad lol when i have been to clubs the other single guys seem to be ripped or well built, would you go with the bigger guys?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

And...go where you like it's about confidence....you maybe a ladies ideal man at the club....

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

A 6 pack or "well ripped" man is not always a good thing. I like a bit of chunk in my hunk

Julie x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't get questions like this as the answer will ALWAYS be the same: some will/some won't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The reason for the question is that if all the women said they won't go with fat guy's then i don't think id bother going again, what would be the point? Maybe just to watch?

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I don't get questions like this as the answer will ALWAYS be the same: some will/some won't!

Oh yes I will x

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

And there will be fat ladies too, people of all shapes and sizes, ages, colours.

Go as yourself, respect other people, you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i used to go , there were all types and thats the beauty of it.

Everyone there likes different things and different sizes.

So go and enjoy and stop worry about what other people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always under the impression that most men that go to clubs are middle aged with more than a few pounds extra. I would fuck whoever I found emotionally attractive. The aura a man gives off and his demeanor attracts me. I doubt the ripped men would want me anyway

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By *oecurler69Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Hope for us all!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And there will be fat ladies too, people of all shapes and sizes, ages, colours.

Go as yourself, respect other people, you'll be fine "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm happy you lady's don't discriminate us big guys need some love too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Us big guys don't always look sexy just in our boxers, tbh i would prefer to wear a t shirt with boxers

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

"A 6 pack or "well ripped" man is not always a good thing. I like a bit of chunk in my hunk

Julie x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, as a chubby dude, this is encouraging! Hehe.

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

I will watch this thread with interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well done lady's you are giving confidence to us bigger guys x

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Just after your thoughts lady's on bigger single guys in clubs??? I'm overweight but i'm 6'3 so i don't think i look to bad lol when i have been to clubs the other single guys seem to be ripped or well built, would you go with the bigger guys?"

You say you've been to clubs yet you're asking for the ladies' thoughts on bigger guys. Did you not play in any of these clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not? You are very pretty. I would more than once. X

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

con...fid....ence

I am a big guy... I may not be buffed up like others... I use my personality as much as anything else... I still find way to stand out... I talk to people and am socialable...

there are always going to be people in clubs who will not be attracted to you regardless... but I am a big believer in that the biggest sexual organ i use is the brain....

I turn on people with my personality and that takes me a long way....

but if you go in with a self defeatist attiude from the start, then no one can help you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was always under the impression that most men that go to clubs are middle aged with more than a few pounds extra. I would fuck whoever I found emotionally attractive. The aura a man gives off and his demeanor attracts me. I doubt the ripped men would want me anyway "

I'm not ripped but I would want you. You're a good looking women. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You say you've been to clubs yet you're asking for the ladies' thoughts on bigger guys. Did you not play in any of these clubs? "

I have played once in the three times i have been.

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By *ickD38Man
over a year ago

Preston

I'm the opposite, fairly short and quite skinny, often feel a bit weird in clubs as most of the guys seem a bit taller and bigger built...don't mind though, being short and skinny makes my cock look bigger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the opposite, fairly short and quite skinny, often feel a bit weird in clubs as most of the guys seem a bit taller and bigger built...don't mind though, being short and skinny makes my cock look bigger."

classic, mine just looks like a walnut whip, until it gets hard hahahaha

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By *ickD38Man
over a year ago

Preston

That's why men like slim girls. It's all about perspective and comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been described as well built a big lad most things you'd say apart from fat lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"The reason for the question is that if all the women said they won't go with fat guy's then i don't think id bother going again, what would be the point? Maybe just to watch?"

isn't that a bit of a strange way to base your future activities..?

not everyone on here will go to clubs, let alone at the same time and the same one..

so even if they all went 'yeh we only play with 6 pack guys in clubs' its unlikely to happen..

and anyway who cares what others think is what i'm trying to say..

if you want to and you enjoy it then do it..

don't let other hold you back..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's one thing I have find on here is that 90% on here like BBM's and dont mind how you look as long as your clean and smell great, the rest can go play with them selfs.. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is about confidence and that has to be a personal thing. You can't rely on others telling you this.

There are all shapes and sizes at clubs

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The reason for the question is that if all the women said they won't go with fat guy's then i don't think id bother going again, what would be the point? Maybe just to watch?"

That's never going to be the case though is it? Are you telling me you find every single woman you see attractive? Of course not!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"When i used to go , there were all types and thats the beauty of it.

Everyone there likes different things and different sizes.

So go and enjoy and stop worry about what other people think

My point exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say when we have gone to clubs on single guy nights that there have been people who are overly fat there or overly ripped to be honest as they would have caught our eye. Just normal people. Did see a gigantic man on a couples night though and he was quite happy to walk about naked without a care in the world and was last seen playing away on the big bed at Libs.

We would not play with a larger male as it's not what we are looking for. We prefer a different body type but we are firm believers in that there is something for everyone in this game if you go out and find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the extent of over weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're talking Orca fat than I reckon you'd struggle, what woman wants a gut resting in her head as she sucks you off. But then again, I've seen some huge women be very popular at clubs. Each to their own I guess.

A huge cock would probably make it more likely, if it's nature's cruellest joke (fat bloke, micro penis) I reckon you'd struggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're talking Orca fat than I reckon you'd struggle, "

funny but when I think of fat animals a dolphin just don't spring to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bit of a belly on me but I'd be more freaked out as I've never been to a club before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a bit of a belly on me but I'd be more freaked out as I've never been to a club before. "

if you can still see your cock in your reflection your fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're talking Orca fat than I reckon you'd struggle,

funny but when I think of fat animals a dolphin just don't spring to mind

how about a whale then ?

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"I have a bit of a belly on me but I'd be more freaked out as I've never been to a club before.

if you can still see your cock in your reflection your fine

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

You say you've been to clubs yet you're asking for the ladies' thoughts on bigger guys. Did you not play in any of these clubs?

I have played once in the three times i have been."

big/large/fat confidence issues aside you need to understand that going to a club is not a g'tee to playing regardless of 'issues'.

I've seen guys with 'ripped' bodies get knocked back through being over confident and perhaps bordering on arrogance..

You should go with no expectations and view as a social event sometimes with 'benefits.

Clearly as in vanilla life swingers clubs as with any club people come in all shapes and sizes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you've been to clubs yet you're asking for the ladies' thoughts on bigger guys. Did you not play in any of these clubs?

I have played once in the three times i have been.

big/large/fat confidence issues aside you need to understand that going to a club is not a g'tee to playing regardless of 'issues'.

I've seen guys with 'ripped' bodies get knocked back through being over confident and perhaps bordering on arrogance..

You should go with no expectations and view as a social event sometimes with 'benefits.

Clearly as in vanilla life swingers clubs as with any club people come in all shapes and sizes.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And there will be fat ladies too, people of all shapes and sizes, ages, colours.

Go as yourself, respect other people, you'll be fine

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By *ancs30Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

from your pics, I think all men would want you...mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, most men in clubs are not middleaged and heavy .

All sorts of niceness and all sorts of builds all over the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you'd be surprised

I've been in clubs many times and had really good looking guys with good bodies come over and talk to me, I've had to look round on more than a few occasions to see if they are talking to someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I bet the big ones got more chance than me as women dont go for lads with a 6-pack and a big ego hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you'd be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it seeing fat men in clubs, gross, so I look a bit thinner and have more chance pulling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This fat and thin, tall or small gets on my tits. Just be yourself no matter what size .BE HAPPY YOU'RE ALIVE and well .No one can be perfect .. its them little things that are not that makes people special .

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By *ingerjo_leeCouple
over a year ago

swinton

answer to your question for me jo is Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This fat and thin, tall or small gets on my tits. Just be yourself no matter what size .BE HAPPY YOU'RE ALIVE and well .No one can be perfect .. its them little things that are not that makes people special ."

Dont let it get on ya tits jo...

It will spoil the view for many a man ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont let it get on ya tits jo...

It will spoil the view for many a man ..

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xx if a person is tall or shorts fat or thin thay are as good as the rest .. I hate people thinking they are not as good ,There is so much more to people then all this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont let it get on ya tits jo...

It will spoil the view for many a man ..

xx if a person is tall or shorts fat or thin thay are as good as the rest .. I hate people thinking they are not as good ,There is so much more to people then all this."

Though some believe that only the body beautiful should be swingers and attending clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're talking Orca fat than I reckon you'd struggle,

funny but when I think of fat animals a dolphin just don't spring to mind

how about a whale then ?

I was thinking the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont let it get on ya tits jo...

It will spoil the view for many a man ..

xx if a person is tall or shorts fat or thin thay are as good as the rest .. I hate people thinking they are not as good ,There is so much more to people then all this.

Though some believe that only the body beautiful should be swingers and attending clubs

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well I hate to tell them .. Mr Mrs beautiful now come in all sizes and most are just normal everyday people a good mix just how it should be no one should feel they don't fit in no matter of size at clubs . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont let it get on ya tits jo...

It will spoil the view for many a man ..

xx if a person is tall or shorts fat or thin thay are as good as the rest .. I hate people thinking they are not as good ,There is so much more to people then all this.

Though some believe that only the body beautiful should be swingers and attending clubs

well I hate to tell them .. Mr Mrs beautiful now come in all sizes and most are just normal everyday people a good mix just how it should be no one should feel they don't fit in no matter of size at clubs . xx"

I blame forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True

And my opinion is that those who can be so derogatory about another person (man or woman) because of size, have no place in swinging ...

but thats just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

G and I are hardly thin, in our prime, six pack showing models. But who gives a shit. If thats what somebody wants, good for them.

Theres somebody for everybody, regardless of size of dick, tits, abs or what have you. Theres people on here I wouldn't touch with a bargepole who have more verifications than I've had hot dinners! So why the hell shouldn't those people have fun? Everybody is entitled to enjoy life, and while we all have our own likes/dislikes, it shouldn't stop you doing that.

I wouldn't batter an eye lid at a fat bloke in a swingers club no more than I would a black bloke. Its just different likes and tastes, thats all. You can't be wrong on that. C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"G and I are hardly thin, in our prime, six pack showing models. But who gives a shit. If thats what somebody wants, good for them.

I wouldn't batter an eye lid at a fat bloke in a swingers club no more than I would a black bloke. Its just different likes and tastes, thats all. You can't be wrong on that. C x"
Well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not always the look of a body, it's the person inside that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i look like i have decended from john merrick himself with a body like a big bag of spuds and a cock the size of a AAA battery and the personality of a traffic warden and i seem to be doing..........................................................

awful and i can't see were i am going wrong

just be yourself mate and some will want you and some won't just as in life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow this has taken off, i think i will be going back to a club very soon, good advice thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a bit of a belly on me but I'd be more freaked out as I've never been to a club before.

if you can still see your cock in your reflection your fine

Okay, errrrrrrrm ........... do they sell. costic soda behind the bar?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All that checked my profile, their is now a pic of how big i am!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All that checked my profile, their is now a pic of how big i am!!!"

Stick a towel round ya waist and go mingle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will be doing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own some will not like me as I'm a larger woman but if we all liked the same would be no good . I personally like the larger bloke skinny men do nothing for me I like a big guy in more than one way lol I also feel more confident in myself with a bigger guy not scared I will hurt him etc lol

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

Which clubs are these guys at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All that checked my profile, their is now a pic of how big i am!!!"

Hot stuff!!

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over a year ago

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london

"A 6 pack or "well ripped" man is not always a good thing. I like a bit of chunk in my hunk

Julie x

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Each to there own some will not like me as I'm a larger woman but if we all liked the same would be no good . I personally like the larger bloke skinny men do nothing for me I like a big guy in more than one way lol I also feel more confident in myself with a bigger guy not scared I will hurt him etc lol"
This

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