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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

How often, if ever do you send the first contact message to a guy or couple? And, it would be interesting if any couples or single guys can say how often they get a first contact message from a single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only ever made first contact twice, didn't get a reply from either

i think i set my sights to high on the guys i message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only ever made first contact twice, didn't get a reply from either

i think i set my sights to high on the guys i message lol"

Their loss

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have a few times and had maybe ended up conversing with half x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the time I've been on here have sent three winks and one message and got replies from them all. In fairness though they where people who I had had a bit of banter on Irish forum

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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Ive only ever made first contact twice, didn't get a reply from either

i think i set my sights to high on the guys i message lol"

Or they was so shocked they fell over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent a few first contact messages,most memorable is my current fb sent first message to him and still going great

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never kept count... quite a few times though..

2 guys I have been meeting regularly for over a year, I made initial contact with..

Have had non replys and not interested, but it wouldnt stop me contacting anyone I was interested in..

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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I've sent a few first contact messages,most memorable is my current fb sent first message to him and still going great "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only ever made first contact twice, didn't get a reply from either

i think i set my sights to high on the guys i message lol

Or they was so shocked they fell over "

yeah we'll run with that one

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

When I was hunting most of the guys I met were ones where I had made the first contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made first contact with a few lovely guys on here then again I have to as I have blocked single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent a few first messages, usually off the back of a forum post.

Those I searched for and mailed (3) I ended up meeting all 3

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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Ive only ever made first contact twice, didn't get a reply from either

i think i set my sights to high on the guys i message lol

Or they was so shocked they fell over

yeah we'll run with that one "

Well like someone who's already posted, it's there loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes make first contact but it rarely gets me anywhere

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Very rare for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have made first contact with a few lovely guys on here then again I have to as I have blocked single guys "

^^^^ this, I choose who I message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never sent a message first to anyone but I think I winked once.

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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I sometimes make first contact but it rarely gets me anywhere "

????

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

All of my first contacts have come from them. I think so anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of my first contacts have come from them. I think so anyway. "

Is that cause your to busy eating snacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have made first contact with a few lovely guys on here then again I have to as I have blocked single guys

^^^^ this, I choose who I message "

Exactly

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"All of my first contacts have come from them. I think so anyway.

Is that cause your to busy eating snacks "

Yes. Plus I normally have sticky fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of my first contacts have come from them. I think so anyway.

Is that cause your to busy eating snacks

Yes. Plus I normally have sticky fingers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only ever made first contact twice, didn't get a reply from either

i think i set my sights to high on the guys i message lol"

Their loss from what I can see. Di

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes make first contact but it rarely gets me anywhere

???? "

I know, unbelievable, right?!

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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I sometimes make first contact but it rarely gets me anywhere

????

I know, unbelievable, right?! "

Yes very!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Virtually never - I fab pics occasionally and wink once in a blue moon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent 2 in total

Got 2 replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send mails if someone interests me ... can't think of how many times as I didn't know Id be taking a test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it lots and a few meets have resulted from doing so

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

errmm never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a wink once!! It was a Tuesday that was a good day

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

6. I've sent 6 messages, to other site users re a possible meet.

Hundreds, I've sent hundreds of pm's re the forums

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I dont think I have been messaged first, but I have had winks which I have responded to, then started conversations that way. Usually though, its me making the first contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not been here for many weeks,, but have sent a fair few messages , if I see a profile I like,, i send a message,, sometimes a wink as well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few from ladies/couples, usually in response to some insane rambling in a forum thread

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By *ohngillerMan
over a year ago

Near Town

Rarely get anything back!!

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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I got a wink once!! It was a Tuesday that was a good day"

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% of the time I mailed first but often got no response so I pretty much gave up.

These days I rarely mail on this profile. Last week I mailed nearly 50 guys for a meet, only a handful replied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few times, usually a wink but if something really catches my eye then I message. There are a huge amount of timewasters and those who don't even bother to read my profile before jumping in and asking for a meet. I'm looking for sex, same as everyone else on here but it ain't happening if there isn't a click of chemistry. And rarely happens instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not received a first contact message form a woman. Perhaps they already know me?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when a female/couple have instigated the first contact via email with me i have never assumed that it will end up in a meet/playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the time I've been on here have sent three winks and one message and got replies from them all. In fairness though they where people who I had had a bit of banter on Irish forum "

There are some nice people there

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

in 3years on here think ive had about 4 contact me first bit sad sex equality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just turn up at the door, normally they have pampas grass above the door and the fabswinger logo on the windows..knock knock "fancy a fuck"

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By *oecurler69Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

If anyone contacts me first I think it's a wind up!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone contacts me first I think it's a wind up!!! "

I meant what I said

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I just turn up at the door, normally they have pampas grass above the door and the fabswinger logo on the windows..knock knock "fancy a fuck""

And I've told you the neighbours have started to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just turn up at the door, normally they have pampas grass above the door and the fabswinger logo on the windows..knock knock "fancy a fuck"

And I've told you the neighbours have started to talk "

orgy in the close YaY

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I have made first contact with a few lovely guys on here then again I have to as I have blocked single guys "

any guy you have made contact with im sure was grateful for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have made first contact with a few lovely guys on here then again I have to as I have blocked single guys

any guy you have made contact with im sure was grateful for it"

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I have made first contact with a few lovely guys on here then again I have to as I have blocked single guys

any guy you have made contact with im sure was grateful for it

"

and is still grateful you keep contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I have had single girls contact me and has indeed led to having fun. I think it is brilliant, restores your faith in FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have made first contact with a few lovely guys on here then again I have to as I have blocked single guys

any guy you have made contact with im sure was grateful for it

and is still grateful you keep contact"

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I am kind of shy and have only made the initial move once by commenting on someone`s photos, but we met and it turned out rather well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often have done in the past and had good results tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never sent a first message...thrown a few winks and fabbed pics but other than that I'm reactive rather than proactive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 2 or 3 instances of couple/women contacting me first, I guess its so low coz my profile isnt very revealing but I cant have it anymore revealing pic wise due to work reasons, but Im not complaining! it is nice to get a first contact tho!

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By *avin77Man
over a year ago

camberley

Had plenty of winks but only a couple of proper 1st contacts.

I'm a friendly chap as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often, if ever do you send the first contact message to a guy or couple? And, it would be interesting if any couples or single guys can say how often they get a first contact message from a single women. "

I do it quite often I would far rather contact people I like the look of than have to pick through only the ones who mail me that juast seem silly settling for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often, if ever do you send the first contact message to a guy or couple? And, it would be interesting if any couples or single guys can say how often they get a first contact message from a single women.

I do it quite often I would far rather contact people I like the look of than have to pick through only the ones who mail me that juast seem silly settling for that."

I've just noticed..

keenfucktographer

and

Cinderfuckingrella

really go well together..I better mail her

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By *rAdventurerMan
over a year ago

Richmond

It's rare for sure - Since i've been on here (about 2 years now) 2 or 3 women making first contact - saying that I'm not on here all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened once and i mailed her asking if she had made a mistake lol

When she said no, my jaw hit the desk but it led to the one of the best meets ive ever had.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

have done quite often not necessarily because i want to meet them but just to be nice

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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"have done quite often not necessarily because i want to meet them but just to be nice"

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

All my best meets usually start by being contacted by others. It is always good to receive a PM off someone nice

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

We're still living in hope.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havnt had any Messages from single ladies yet and most of those we have had were aimed at Nette..the Randy Gits

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By *ickedxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We've been on for 8 months and had one msg from a single lady. Guys we get loads and a few from couples, we still live in hope for that single lady to pop up and say "fancy a 3sum"

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