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By *ord and lady OP   Couple
over a year ago

around Glasgow

from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think that would be a wee bit extreme as there are a lot of decent single blokes around but we must admit a lot of the others dont read profiles first.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I have a better idea:

In addition to forums, ban them from chat rooms

Ban them from chatrooms

Ban them from socials

Ban them from swing sites

Ban them from clubs.

That should get rid of the hassle and make life easier.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet. "
cant say i agree with this at all......lots of single men are fantastic.........ok shall we just ban couples that dont read profiles also????

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By *enderbycoupleCouple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish

a lot of single guys only have themselves to blame for not getting any meets,,90% of them that message us dont bother to read profile first,,and many write their messages like there talking to a single fem and not a couple,,hence they are added to our very long block list! thankfully there are some genuine guys out there but sadly few and far between.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I have a better idea:

In addition to forums, ban them from chat rooms

Ban them from chatrooms

Ban them from socials

Ban them from swing sites

Ban them from clubs.

That should get rid of the hassle and make life easier."

i agree ban them all

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

ban everyone from everywhere - that way no one can moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's the case then ban single females, ban couples ban those who don't agree with each other... bit silly, for every post that we may have seen time and time again it's still new for many more. Perhaps a forum page of reference with frequently asked questions and answers may be an alternative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree that there are a lot of great single guys around, unfortunately the great ones don’t tend to moan of their lack of success in the forums.

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance

NO I'm Not MOANING

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

The poor ol FAQ is right at the bottom of the page and no-one notices it

There is a section on there about non reply to messages,but does anyone ever read it?........ nope

I agree that not everyone reads the forums before they post a thread asking a question,so how would they know that a question has been done to death

Everyone has a right to post a question,if you don't like the question or have seen it a 1000 times then don't respond

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Just ban everyone you do not agree with.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"The poor ol FAQ is right at the bottom of the page and no-one notices it "

Respectfully point out that it could be a bit bigger/easier to find for half blind buggers like me ...... but then people will still not read it!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"The poor ol FAQ is right at the bottom of the page and no-one notices it

Respectfully point out that it could be a bit bigger/easier to find for half blind buggers like me ...... but then people will still not read it! "

Very true Bumpkin,If you want a rant or a moan the last place you're gonna look at is the FAQ section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets ban bi women they r the ones who dont want guys on here not all guys r the same we love all u guys on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP posted tongue in cheek!

If single blokes were banned you'd have to ban us single, straight gals too as we wouldn't have any one to play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hanging's too good for em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shoot them all!!! drive them underground!!!

i got a nice wee sanctuary here for them he he come here single manny.....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP posted tongue in cheek!

If single blokes were banned you'd have to ban us single, straight gals too as we wouldn't have any one to play with! "

In that case, ban all single men.

swinging is for couples only, do you hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why a series of dynamically driven auto-email follow ups from the site to each category of user cannot be generated maybe fortnightly to assist them in setting up their profile correctly to target the kind of people they wish to meet who are also looking for people like them. It's not that difficult to accomplish as all the neccessary info is already in the database.

This would help single guys who feel like they are pissing in the wind to feel more a part of what's going on here at Fabs and hopefully get a few meets under their belts. It would also assist couples to find the playmates that they are looking for.

Just a thought/suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be fair about this.

Ban men mon/wed/fri.

Ban women tue/thur/sat.

Ban couples sun.

Simples.

Tchch

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By *ylde FloozyWoman
over a year ago

preston

Can't ban them, I'm on here to meet single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont ban the single guys we are not all after married men how about ban all the time wasters.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Well i would ban the FAKE couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the married men pretnding to be single.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"And the married men pretnding to be single."

Yes them as well and the single women who are really married. I seem to have found a few of them

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah bugger it, let's just ban anyone that types

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Ah bugger it, let's just ban anyone that types "

Not everyone just the ones with 12 toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP posted tongue in cheek!

If single blokes were banned you'd have to ban us single, straight gals too as we wouldn't have any one to play with!

In that case, ban all single men.

swinging is for couples only, do you hear. "

Better get down the £ shop and stock up on batteries then!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I think the OP posted tongue in cheek!

If single blokes were banned you'd have to ban us single, straight gals too as we wouldn't have any one to play with!

In that case, ban all single men.

swinging is for couples only, do you hear.

Better get down the £ shop and stock up on batteries then! "

Battery's are no good for us men Its off to the fruit and veg man for a melon then

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I am equal ops hater....

I just hate everyone!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I really do need an eye test I think....I thought the OP avatar was a giant boob and nipple, when on closer inspection it is a wall with something on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a lot of single guys only have themselves to blame for not getting any meets,,90% of them that message us dont bother to read profile first,,and many write their messages like there talking to a single fem and not a couple,,hence they are added to our very long block list! thankfully there are some genuine guys out there but sadly few and far between."
i agree (joe)

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

pmsl @ rugby spit me coffee all over keyboard when reading that then lol

There are so decent single men.. we cannot put them all in the same boat . so to speak. Also same for single fems and couples.. As my gran used to say "would not do for us all to be the same"

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I think the OP posted tongue in cheek!

If single blokes were banned you'd have to ban us single, straight gals too as we wouldn't have any one to play with!

In that case, ban all single men.

swinging is for couples only, do you hear.

Better get down the £ shop and stock up on batteries then!

Battery's are no good for us men Its off to the fruit and veg man for a melon then "

You would never fit a melon up your ass....be serious!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I think the OP posted tongue in cheek!

If single blokes were banned you'd have to ban us single, straight gals too as we wouldn't have any one to play with!

In that case, ban all single men.

swinging is for couples only, do you hear.

Better get down the £ shop and stock up on batteries then!

Battery's are no good for us men Its off to the fruit and veg man for a melon then

You would never fit a melon up your ass....be serious!"

ahhhhhh but we all know a certain man who can (allegedly )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP posted tongue in cheek!

If single blokes were banned you'd have to ban us single, straight gals too as we wouldn't have any one to play with!

In that case, ban all single men.

swinging is for couples only, do you hear.

Better get down the £ shop and stock up on batteries then!

Battery's are no good for us men Its off to the fruit and veg man for a melon then

You would never fit a melon up your ass....be serious!"

Lol, if you walked into a room and that was the end of the conversation that you caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP posted tongue in cheek!

If single blokes were banned you'd have to ban us single, straight gals too as we wouldn't have any one to play with!

In that case, ban all single men.

swinging is for couples only, do you hear.

Better get down the £ shop and stock up on batteries then!

Battery's are no good for us men Its off to the fruit and veg man for a melon then

You would never fit a melon up your ass....be serious!"

Oh I dunno I could teach him some relaxation techniques and start with a cantalope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get more grief from the male half of the couples wanting to meet on their own without wifey than from singles, why not only allow couples profile to be used when both online lolol but then again where do we draw the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really do need an eye test I think....I thought the OP avatar was a giant boob and nipple, when on closer inspection it is a wall with something on it "

Rugby hun, you've been putting it off for a while. I thought you needed a quick trip to Spec Savers when you thought some poor bloke had a blue knob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I

Battery's are no good for us men Its off to the fruit and veg man for a melon then

You would never fit a melon up your ass....be serious!"

I once had a Melonie up the ass. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pmsl @ rugby spit me coffee all over keyboard when reading that then lol

There are so decent single men.. we cannot put them all in the same boat . so to speak. Also same for single fems and couples.. As my gran used to say "would not do for us all to be the same"

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did your gran used to swing? That was very modern of her!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I really do need an eye test I think....I thought the OP avatar was a giant boob and nipple, when on closer inspection it is a wall with something on it

Rugby hun, you've been putting it off for a while. I thought you needed a quick trip to Spec Savers when you thought some poor bloke had a blue knob! "

You have to admit, it did look like a blue knob lol

But yes, defo make a call to specsavers tommorow !

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

so true kitten.. where do we draw the line..

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"If that's the case then ban single females, ban couples ban those who don't agree with each other... bit silly, for every post that we may have seen time and time again it's still new for many more. Perhaps a forum page of reference with frequently asked questions and answers may be an alternative. "

I'm hopefully going to team up with Laine so we won't need yo feckers anyway!

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

lets all ban one another lol.. we could set a new trend... National Banning Day

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

no one meets off here anyway apparently so dont matter if everyone is banned or not

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I

Battery's are no good for us men Its off to the fruit and veg man for a melon then

You would never fit a melon up your ass....be serious!

I once had a Melonie up the ass. Does that count? "

Noooo you don't put it up the ass. You bore two holes, one for your pecker to go in and one on the top like a whale spout. The melon has to be a bit ripe though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really do need an eye test I think....I thought the OP avatar was a giant boob and nipple, when on closer inspection it is a wall with something on it

Rugby hun, you've been putting it off for a while. I thought you needed a quick trip to Spec Savers when you thought some poor bloke had a blue knob!

You have to admit, it did look like a blue knob lol

But yes, defo make a call to specsavers tommorow !"

Even when squinted at, it was more my balls that were the blue half. But I won't split hairs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that there are some utter w*nkers among the single guys - but we aren't all bad!

It does annoy me though that those that don't read profiles and fill inboxes spoil things for the rest of us.

Maybe we should have a stricter reporting option - single guys who blantantly don't read profiles could be reported and be given "3 strikes and you're out"?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I really do need an eye test I think....I thought the OP avatar was a giant boob and nipple, when on closer inspection it is a wall with something on it

Rugby hun, you've been putting it off for a while. I thought you needed a quick trip to Spec Savers when you thought some poor bloke had a blue knob!

You have to admit, it did look like a blue knob lol

But yes, defo make a call to specsavers tommorow !

Even when squinted at, it was more my balls that were the blue half. But I won't split hairs... "

I stand corrected lol xxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I agree that there are some utter w*nkers among the single guys - but we aren't all bad!

It does annoy me though that those that don't read profiles and fill inboxes spoil things for the rest of us.

Maybe we should have a stricter reporting option - single guys who blantantly don't read profiles could be reported and be given "3 strikes and you're out"?"

lol and if it was applied to everyone, there might only be a few people left on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what gives you the right to decide what people should and shouldn't talk about in the Forum Section . . .

I agree that 'openly complaining' doesn't do the 'complainer' any favours - however, everyone has a right to say what they want to in here . . . Or where does it stop - do we start banning people with Ginger Hair or those with big boobs simply because some people might not find what they have to say attractive or of any interest . . . . .

Think about it . . . . Someone might actually take offence to Scottish Couples Dictating what can and can't be said and they might call for them to be banned?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that's the case then ban single females, ban couples ban those who don't agree with each other... bit silly, for every post that we may have seen time and time again it's still new for many more. Perhaps a forum page of reference with frequently asked questions and answers may be an alternative.

I'm hopefully going to team up with Laine so we won't need yo feckers anyway! "

OI, That's my plan too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet. "

if some ppl had there way there

be alot of banning an its no just

single guys that complain on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that there are some utter w*nkers among the single guys - but we aren't all bad!

It does annoy me though that those that don't read profiles and fill inboxes spoil things for the rest of us.

Maybe we should have a stricter reporting option - single guys who blantantly don't read profiles could be reported and be given "3 strikes and you're out"?"

Some blokes only manage 3 strokes and they're out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet. "

if u dont like a post..its easy

dont answer it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Stunna,

I you don't like what is posted bin it and move on.

We all receive negative posts either on the forums or personal messages from dimwitted people, and not just single guys.

If they are that thick then block them and move on.

Learn form these experiences, just because a handful of morons piss you off doesn't mean you have to block na entire genre of people ie Mass blocking of Single people/couples that you find frequently all over the site

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

so have we come up with an answer yet.... are we banning single guys then, because I have the theme tune to "the littliest hobo" ready as my out music!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would serve more purpose banning the fools and idiots be they single or a couple. Maybe people should have to perform an on line intelligence test to receive a key enabling them to post. The numptys would be kept off then by the lack of their own abilities and not status.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Let the single men moan!

Let the single women moan!

Let the couples moan!

Let EVERYONE moan and gripe their socks off!

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FFS! I need someone to take the piss out of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ya wanna ban anyone ban me, I m a wanker so I vote for me, if I won't leave I will help you kick my own head in lmao? ( right I'm off to beat myself up cuz I'm a single guy and us kind aim wanted round here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is tammy tim's split personality ex misses, well just helped to give tim a slap as he's a single man and apparantly some people don't like single men on here , but while doing so we fell back in love so tim's allowed back on as not single now, as he has me, an I him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doh im so happy for you shall i add tammy to our guest list is she coming out to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet. "

Yeah, everyone grab a pitchfork and a burning torch and lets get the moaning bastards!!!! Oh, hang on.......

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By *ord and lady OP   Couple
over a year ago

around Glasgow


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet.

Yeah, everyone grab a pitchfork and a burning torch and lets get the moaning bastards!!!! Oh, hang on....... "
i dont think you will have far to travel to meet with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one really owns anybody so really no one is taken,, you may lay claim to someone but if you swop and share then ways the difference??? If a single man nails the wife or a married man, no one is god on this site and can say who or who can't be on here if you have a problem then take a hike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took the OP's post to be a tongue in cheek poke at the whiney threads by single men yesterday: whoa some people are missing a funny bone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one really owns anybody so really no one is taken,, you may lay claim to someone but if you swop and share then ways the difference??? If a single man nails the wife or a married man, no one is god on this site and can say who or who can't be on here if you have a problem then take a hike"

I bet the messages come flooding in after that post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took the OP's post to be a tongue in cheek poke at the whiney threads by single men yesterday: whoa some people are missing a funny bone!

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I took it the same way to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet.

Yeah, everyone grab a pitchfork and a burning torch and lets get the moaning bastards!!!! Oh, hang on....... i dont think you will have far to travel to meet with me "

I actually meant get the single guys who were moaning they couldn't get a meet, not you guys....sarcasm ambiguity on my part there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't ban them, I'm on here to meet single guys "

To all Single Guys.

Take a Look ....They're not just a myth, they really exist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please dont ban me !!

I am to busy having fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet. "

got to admit, there has been a few threads on here recently..all relating to "can't get a meet"

or complaining about "lack of meet" ( that's what my ex accused me of..lol) but you've got to understand how sensitive and pathetic the male ego can be ( I speak from my own experience..lol) it must be quite frustrating emailing the ladies and taking time to make sure the emails are well thought out, & then get none back, not even a thanks but no thanks..must be quite demoralising..maybe we shouldban the ones who don't reply?

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By *ord and lady OP   Couple
over a year ago

around Glasgow


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet.

got to admit, there has been a few threads on here recently..all relating to "can't get a meet"

or complaining about "lack of meet" ( that's what my ex accused me of..lol) but you've got to understand how sensitive and pathetic the male ego can be ( I speak from my own experience..lol) it must be quite frustrating emailing the ladies and taking time to make sure the emails are well thought out, & then get none back, not even a thanks but no thanks..must be quite demoralising..maybe we shouldban the ones who don't reply?

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all the single guys admit to sending out mail to ladies etc and you hear ladies and couples getting loads and loads of mail,could you imagine how many replies they would have to reply to,it doesnt leave them manymessages left from there daily quota to try and get a meet of there choice,also ive read mail from guys that have put a lot of effort into a message looking for a meet that day and ive read it very carefully immediately then read there profile and they are off line,in fact stayed off line till next day.therefor didnt even bother there arses to wait for a reply.how many have noticed this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from posting on the forums because they cant get a meet.

got to admit, there has been a few threads on here recently..all relating to "can't get a meet"

or complaining about "lack of meet" ( that's what my ex accused me of..lol) but you've got to understand how sensitive and pathetic the male ego can be ( I speak from my own experience..lol) it must be quite frustrating emailing the ladies and taking time to make sure the emails are well thought out, & then get none back, not even a thanks but no thanks..must be quite demoralising..maybe we shouldban the ones who don't reply?

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It's the ones that put effort into messages, (with effort I mean, read the profile, realise they fit the persons criteria, and message with thought) that actually do get meets, eventually. lol

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