FabSwingers.com forum: No face pic no reply

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I the only one who finds it annoying when people choose to demand a face pic for a reply , many without verifications . The fact that this is a swinging site were people come to meet similar people to try new things because I'n everyday life you can't just walk up to someone and ask this kind of stuff , so it's not a good tag line to ask someone to expose there faces without them even knowing wether or not your a fake,messer or down right loony . The end lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one who finds it annoying when people choose to demand a face pic for a reply , many without verifications . The fact that this is a swinging site were people come to meet similar people to try new things because I'n everyday life you can't just walk up to someone and ask this kind of stuff , so it's not a good tag line to ask someone to expose there faces without them even knowing wether or not your a fake,messer or down right loony . The end lol"

but what if you chat for ages and then find out the other person is ugly??? Has no teeth ?? Looks like a serial killer?? Wears the wrong colour lipstick for their skin tone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone ask me for pics and I already have some on show. She didn't have any so I ask for one so she tells me she's not into games and blocks me

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

but what if you chat for ages and then find out the other person is ugly??? Has no teeth ?? Looks like a serial killer?? Wears the wrong colour lipstick for their skin tone?? "

Send them one and ask for one by return, if they don't have one on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no face pics, but DO have then on our profile to send when we need to. That's due to our professions though.

Face pics should be available any time, to any normal person. The second they don't want to send it, it all gets fishy... The idea that they may be shy is odd... On a site where you arrange sexual activities.

the worst, I find, is when people get angry about you wanting verification of some form. We always say, a cam, a pic with our names on it, a call etc etc but then they always say "oh the cams broke" or some excuse.

Who would meet without a face pic or being verified in some way?!!? C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have no face pics, but DO have then on our profile to send when we need to. That's due to our professions though.

Who would meet without a face pic or being verified in some way?!!? C x"

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Because they can. Next question....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send face pic with my first message even if profile asks for one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't disagree that faces must be seen , but only once youv spoke and at least got an ounce of trust rather than just send them willy nilly to pic hunters or fakes , and yes it's a site for sex but also a place for discretion , and since youv no face pics that are public due to your professions you fall into that category

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Dont buy a car with out seeing it do you .so we dont meet with out seeing the goods on offer .did once never agine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have pics on my profile due to my profession but I am happy to swap as I've got pics just not public.

But I know what you mean. I must of sent of been block twice as much as a replay.

It's only fair we share!!! Lol

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I would only send face pic to someone who is verified, and to who I have messaged or chatted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many on here of such diverse type that the ladies can most likely demand anything and stop drown in the noise of a million messages.

As someone else said, because they can.

I use the verifications to get an idea of whether they are reasonable to reach out too. But then some single blokes pretend to be couples or female and post their own verifications ... Pity we have to suffer such people.

Best meet people at forum socials or clubs, they get to see your face and know your for real and not looking for a free brothel.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If I send a first message I include a face picture. I expect the same courtesy in return. Otherwise I won't chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Lucky enough to b able to just put Mine in my public gallery which frankly saves people all the bother of sending any messages who have seen it n thort 'Na, ugly fucker'

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"If I send a first message I include a face picture. I expect the same courtesy in return. Otherwise I won't chat. "

Seems fair enough that.

Have sent face pucs to verified people and get the "not for me reply"

I really must try to look more like Johnny Depp

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

And of course that should have said

pics

me and my fat fingers

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't have a face pic in public but do in private. No issue about sending it to people who ask. I don't want sex with someone who a) I haven't seen and b) who interest me by chatting for a while.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Doh! Who DON'T interest me by chatting!

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"ol

Someone ask me for pics and I already have some on show. She didn't have any so I ask for one so she tells me she's not into games and blocks me

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"If I send a first message I include a face picture. I expect the same courtesy in return. Otherwise I won't chat. "

This

If it's a good message and profile then we might reply and ask to see a face pic. If they refuse or message again without one then we won't reply.

We like to see early on who we are chatting with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I send a first message I include a face picture. I expect the same courtesy in return. Otherwise I won't chat. "

I personally would never send a face pic on the initial first message.

But I do expect one before I will engage conversation as I like to know who I'm tslking to!

There is a difference between initial "small talk" and "conversation".

I expect a face pic well in advance, before it gets to the point of "shall we meet?".

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If I send a first message I include a face picture. I expect the same courtesy in return. Otherwise I won't chat. "

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I see the need for face pics however wouldn't demand one on the first couple of messages. I would expect one before a meet though.

When we first joined someone asked to communicate via email which was fine until the second email asked for full frontal & side view pics of me naked. I know I was new to swinging but I am not new to life!

Julie x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I don't disagree that faces must be seen , but only once youv spoke and at least got an ounce of trust rather than just send them willy nilly to pic hunters or fakes , and yes it's a site for sex but also a place for discretion , and since youv no face pics that are public due to your professions you fall into that category"

Yes, I like to exchange a few messages and if it looks likely to go further will send a face pic, but not at first.

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london

Yes, I like to exchange a few messages and if it looks likely to go further will send a face pic, but not at first."

completely agree. Especially when they have no pics. Verified or not.

We both have pics in the public gallery and a full detailed description on the profile. Why should we send our pics when they refuse to send or put one up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a face pic and will also ask to see the other persons before i decide whether or not to meet.it saves a lot of time,as we cud find there is no attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One woman wants to meet me but is delaying uploading a pic. She has not a single pic in all the 6 months she's been here. No vari either but did say it's because the person left the site. I can't be arsed to go on blind meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well don't mail them its as simple as that. People asking is another filter in a way and a perfectly respectable way of explaining why they don't reply to people who mail without sending one. Fake profiles? If you think you have found one report it for admin to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone to their own, never had a face pic on here and will never send one either.

We attend parties, socials and clubs which gets us known face to face.

Happy if people don't want to meet without one, just won't be us your meeting. After pics were copied and posted on facebook we won't risk it. Besides if your innocent face pic turns up on another non swinging site alongside some naughty ones without your knowledge it's not too difficult for people to start making connections!!

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Everyone to their own, never had a face pic on here and will never send one either.

We attend parties, socials and clubs which gets us known face to face.

I can see that working on local meets. But doubt people would do blind meets without knowing who they are seeing

Julie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone to their own, never had a face pic on here and will never send one either.

We attend parties, socials and clubs which gets us known face to face.

I can see that working on local meets. But doubt people would do blind meets without knowing who they are seeing

Julie xx"

You have a point julie as we have meets further afield in birmingham but that is mainly driven by going to chameleons there. Having said that we have had blind meets in norfolk, essex and the south coast (when it fits in with our travels) and they have been great too. Perhaps just lucky

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By *preadeagleCouple
over a year ago

hull

Iv been on here a few years now mybold profile was open with face pics the lot until I was stopped by a friend (a good friend thank feck) another mutsl friend had joined the site and thought it was appropriate to show everyone so now its private if im chatting to people and arrangingca meet ill send it but im not going to have it for all to see again . There are some pretty silly peopke on here who dobt know what the word discretion is !!!

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