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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

A very emotive situation...someone goes missing not wanting to be found..l think it must take an awful lot to cut yourself off and go missing. I went off the radar for a while I was in a bad place...the pain I put my parents through is something I live with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very emotive situation...someone goes missing not wanting to be found.."

Fuck me I used to do that all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. When you hear about people who've been gone years and years it makes me wonder if they'd like to go back but feel its been too long. Some sad stories id imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough stress and doubt to make responsibilities fit to drop. You feelin okay Cheeky?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My cousin basically moved and disappeared from our lives for many many years. We missed him terribly. Luckily he found his way back to us and we are so happy to have him back and his other half. We are just so very glad to have him back x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Enough stress and doubt to make responsibilities fit to drop. You feelin okay Cheeky?"

I'm sound as a pound.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have thought about it in the past but would want to have savings to back my choice up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enough stress and doubt to make responsibilities fit to drop. You feelin okay Cheeky?

I'm sound as a pound..... "

Good to hear, it's a rough time for some people right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could sometimes

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Enough stress and doubt to make responsibilities fit to drop. You feelin okay Cheeky?

I'm sound as a pound.....

Good to hear, it's a rough time for some people right?"

For some yes...I'm one of the lucky ones. I have a great family and friends etc life is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very emotive situation...someone goes missing not wanting to be found..l think it must take an awful lot to cut yourself off and go missing. I went off the radar for a while I was in a bad place...the pain I put my parents through is something I live with. "

very very emotive

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Wish I could sometimes "

Trust me you don't it's a lonely place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just upped and left when I was 15, struggled but never looked back, my relationship was always strained with my mother, but I would be beside myself if my children ever put me through, anything like I put mine through..... Although I don't think they ever would, my relationship with my kids, all in their 20,s now bar one... Yes I have a five year old!! Is absolutely poles apart from the relationship I had with my mother

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I think for someone to disappear and cut themselves off from family and friends without a trace they have to be in a truly desperate place but it is sometimes the only way for them to get past that black place!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

One man's lonely is another man's peaceful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it depends upon the circumstances in which people up and leave although having never done it i may be wrong i usually am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for someone to disappear and cut themselves off from family and friends without a trace they have to be in a truly desperate place but it is sometimes the only way for them to get past that black place!!"

This ^^^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I could sometimes

Trust me you don't it's a lonely place "

I like being alone well apart from when plans go tits up twice in one day and you don't find out till you are at meeting place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for someone to disappear and cut themselves off from family and friends without a trace they have to be in a truly desperate place but it is sometimes the only way for them to get past that black place!!"

Seriously, I used to do it all the time.

I've never been depressed in my life.

It's good for the soul bro!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true, some people thrive alone. But when you drop your life and disappear, you're dropping all the luxuries you dont recognise until they're gone. It's too easy to romanticise leaving everything behind and hitting the road, but the reality is that there is nowhere to go when you're homeless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's true, some people thrive alone. But when you drop your life and disappear, you're dropping all the luxuries you dont recognise until they're gone. It's too easy to romanticise leaving everything behind and hitting the road, but the reality is that there is nowhere to go when you're homeless."

How very true

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There was a success story which is always nice to see when people do what to be found...it some cases it's better that they are never found..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's true, some people thrive alone. But when you drop your life and disappear, you're dropping all the luxuries you dont recognise until they're gone. It's too easy to romanticise leaving everything behind and hitting the road, but the reality is that there is nowhere to go when you're homeless.

How very true"

And I ended up in bootle... From glorious Yorkshire... I don't wonder I'm a little odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planning it for a while but just working out when

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Planning it for a while but just working out when"

Lol you always go on the missing list....I've known you years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planning it for a while but just working out when"

i don't know you and i a not judging you however do you think its the right thing to do in relation to your family and friends

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Planning it for a while but just working out when

i don't know you and i a not judging you however do you think its the right thing to do in relation to your family and friends"

Jigs he is joking!!! He is slightly warped in the sense of humour category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a success story which is always nice to see when people do what to be found...it some cases it's better that they are never found.."

I was never found, you would have to be looked for to be found, i reunited with my mum 3yrs ago, 6mnths before she died...I am glad she got to see her grandchildren....albeit they where grown up... But she was an old lady... Very lovely and Very different from what I remember. I went to her funeral and It was very Hard i knew nobody there including my brother He promised me faithfully he would be in contact when they scattered her ashes ??? I'm still waiting years later... Guess he hasn't and won't ever forgive me for dissapearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planning it for a while but just working out when

i don't know you and i a not judging you however do you think its the right thing to do in relation to your family and friends

Jigs he is joking!!! He is slightly warped in the sense of humour category "

and here was me offering a ear

i feel a right c*** now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In situations of domestic abuse and violence, sometimes it has to be done, my house mate did it about 45yrs ago,

Luckily she found a hostel in Chiswick, run by Erin Pitsy. She had to leave 3 young daughters, and everything except what she stood up in.

After a name change, identity change and living in an isolated cottage in mid wales for 5 yrs. she established a new life.

During her stay in The hostel in Chiswick, she became friends with Joanna Lumley, who was at the time a volunteer their, and they have remained friends for life.

Her 3 daughters are in touch, but haven't forgiven her for abandoning them. Luckily the guy died and the 3 kids have gone on to do amazingly well.

It is hard to imagine her desperation at walking out and not going back, she knows she would of been killed if she hadn't.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"There was a success story which is always nice to see when people do what to be found...it some cases it's better that they are never found..

I was never found, you would have to be looked for to be found, i reunited with my mum 3yrs ago, 6mnths before she died...I am glad she got to see her grandchildren....albeit they where grown up... But she was an old lady... Very lovely and Very different from what I remember. I went to her funeral and It was very Hard i knew nobody there including my brother He promised me faithfully he would be in contact when they scattered her ashes ??? I'm still waiting years later... Guess he hasn't and won't ever forgive me for dissapearing. "

Well you saw her and that's the main thing your brother was wrong but I suppose he made his mind up....you ain't turned out bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a success story which is always nice to see when people do what to be found...it some cases it's better that they are never found..

I was never found, you would have to be looked for to be found, i reunited with my mum 3yrs ago, 6mnths before she died...I am glad she got to see her grandchildren....albeit they where grown up... But she was an old lady... Very lovely and Very different from what I remember. I went to her funeral and It was very Hard i knew nobody there including my brother He promised me faithfully he would be in contact when they scattered her ashes ??? I'm still waiting years later... Guess he hasn't and won't ever forgive me for dissapearing.

Well you saw her and that's the main thing your brother was wrong but I suppose he made his mind up....you ain't turned out bad "

Ha I have my moments.. Oh delish pics btw x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I ran away at 15 and lived on the streets. Thing is, the longer you leave it the harder it is to go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went missing for 9 days many years ago and it was surreal and I didn't like the solitary experience even if I was being paid for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After Dad died, my brother went missing for a few days. It was the scariest time for Mum and I ever. After about 36 hours he contacted his best mate to say he was alive and with friends and needed time. I don't blame him for what he did, he won't forgive himself and feels like he abandoned Mum and I. But you in my opinion you can't judge someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes.

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