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"Aren't cougars supposed to be better off older women who actively prowl after young studs? I am an older women who prefers to meet younger men but I am not well off, and I don't actively prowl. " Thats the way I read it ![]() | |||
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"Society leads you to believe 'cougars' exist, admittedly by society I basically mean porn. " You don't want to believe what society or porn tells you to believe ![]() | |||
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"Personally, I would simply define a cougar as older and experienced. Every young lad dreams of the perfect cougar to take advantage of their naivety, and ofcourse fuck their brains out. Its mentally stimulating beyond that of a one night stand, because its a fantasy. I see wealth as irrelevant. If I was in York, i would more than happily let my naivety take hold." I hear this so many times! Yet when the guy finally gets his wish (ie a meet with me ![]() | |||
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"It all falls to naivety. I want to believe it, and I think although extremely rare, they do exist. I've slept with older women, but its never really felt like the fantasy scenario." it takes two to make a fantasy reality and usually at least one needs to have the ability to suspend their disbelief even for a short while. What you're after is achievable but not quickly or easily, I wish you good luck anyway ![]() | |||
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"Aren't cougars supposed to be better off older women who actively prowl after young studs? I am an older women who prefers to meet younger men but I am not well off, and I don't actively prowl. " When you say actively prowl why do I imagine someone dressed all in black peeking round corners and scurrying across open spaces... Nothing personal..just generalising! | |||
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"Personally, I would simply define a cougar as older and experienced. Every young lad dreams of the perfect cougar to take advantage of their naivety, and ofcourse fuck their brains out. Its mentally stimulating beyond that of a one night stand, because its a fantasy. I see wealth as irrelevant. If I was in York, i would more than happily let my naivety take hold. I hear this so many times! Yet when the guy finally gets his wish (ie a meet with me ![]() Agree 100% I can't even begin to imagine why a fit young guy would want to meet me for sex, unless he's imagining some fantasy scenario which just isn't me. I've seen that look of disappointment and I hate it. | |||
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"Personally, I would simply define a cougar as older and experienced. Every young lad dreams of the perfect cougar to take advantage of their naivety, and ofcourse fuck their brains out. Its mentally stimulating beyond that of a one night stand, because its a fantasy. I see wealth as irrelevant. If I was in York, i would more than happily let my naivety take hold. I hear this so many times! Yet when the guy finally gets his wish (ie a meet with me ![]() I don't expect Cameron Diaz, I wouldn't complain but who would? I accept and relish those few little discrepancies! Who wants everything to look photoshopped, every woman is beautiful in some way, well almost every woman. To make my past point clearer, the older women I've slept with have been one night stands, really d*unk and just not memorable. I want a woman to take control, not so much beat me with a stick but basically to show me their experience. To sound very feminine, I always want a woman I am sleeping with to feel stunning, if you're mid shag and the womans self conscious it can be plain boring. So I want the woman I'm with completely let go! Lose themselves upon my cock. | |||
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"Society leads you to believe 'cougars' exist, admittedly by society I basically mean porn. Yes, there is the odd older women that is inclined towards younger men. I've came a cross and spoke to a few, who all seem to be a little too far away. Cougars, show yourselves. Men, opinions and comments appreciated. " Are we all odd then ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Personally, I would simply define a cougar as older and experienced. Every young lad dreams of the perfect cougar to take advantage of their naivety, and ofcourse fuck their brains out. Its mentally stimulating beyond that of a one night stand, because its a fantasy. I see wealth as irrelevant. If I was in York, i would more than happily let my naivety take hold. I hear this so many times! Yet when the guy finally gets his wish (ie a meet with me ![]() that's you and just about every man in existence. You are very articulate and get your point across well I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for ![]() | |||
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"Personally, I would simply define a cougar as older and experienced. Every young lad dreams of the perfect cougar to take advantage of their naivety, and ofcourse fuck their brains out. Its mentally stimulating beyond that of a one night stand, because its a fantasy. I see wealth as irrelevant. If I was in York, i would more than happily let my naivety take hold. I hear this so many times! Yet when the guy finally gets his wish (ie a meet with me ![]() I understand what you're after, but older women do not want to have to teach men or take control. To me a younger man is just a man, but younger. Not a panacea for getting old, or a desperate attempt to regain my youth. I like how younger men look (mostly), and the fact they tend not to come with as much emotional baggage as older people, but each person is different. I could meet an immature rude 50 year old, and an interesting and charming 30 year old, or it could be vice versa. I meet people who can hold a conversation and who want what I want, regardless of how old they are. I don't want to be a tick on someones list or a surrogate mother. | |||
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"If the man you're with is making you feel crap, that's the point where they get to look at your arse as you walk away. I can't understand how a man could be disappointed with any of whom who have commented, some of you may be getting on (no offence), some of you may have those extra wobbly bits (also, no offence) but you're still stunning, and the point in swinging for me, is to help you make yourselves realise that! I can guarantee all of you could give me the night of my life! So stop worrying about others, begin to think of yourselves, its about how you feel not them. " What is this getting on you speak of? ![]() | |||
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"Are we all odd then ![]() ![]() ![]() Odd in the sense of rarity! | |||
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"If the man you're with is making you feel crap, that's the point where they get to look at your arse as you walk away. I can't understand how a man could be disappointed with any of whom who have commented, some of you may be getting on (no offence), some of you may have those extra wobbly bits (also, no offence) but you're still stunning, and the point in swinging for me, is to help you make yourselves realise that! I can guarantee all of you could give me the night of my life! So stop worrying about others, begin to think of yourselves, its about how you feel not them. " at the risk of soundiong patronising towards you young man! I have absolutely no issues about my body which even if I do say so myself is in pretty good nick for 57, I don't rely on any man, old young or in between to make me feel good about myself...I am married to a guy who adores my body anyway ![]() | |||
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"If the man you're with is making you feel crap, that's the point where they get to look at your arse as you walk away. I can't understand how a man could be disappointed with any of whom who have commented, some of you may be getting on (no offence), some of you may have those extra wobbly bits (also, no offence) but you're still stunning, and the point in swinging for me, is to help you make yourselves realise that! I can guarantee all of you could give me the night of my life! So stop worrying about others, begin to think of yourselves, its about how you feel not them. What is this getting on you speak of? ![]() If anyone has taken offence, it was simply a typo. The entire sentence. If no one has, as much as I feel I shouldn't have added that now (thanks). Age | |||
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"If the man you're with is making you feel crap, that's the point where they get to look at your arse as you walk away. I can't understand how a man could be disappointed with any of whom who have commented, some of you may be getting on (no offence), some of you may have those extra wobbly bits (also, no offence) but you're still stunning, and the point in swinging for me, is to help you make yourselves realise that! I can guarantee all of you could give me the night of my life! So stop worrying about others, begin to think of yourselves, its about how you feel not them. What is this getting on you speak of? ![]() I was joking, fill ya boots OP. ![]() | |||
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" at the risk of soundiong patronising towards you young man! I have absolutely no issues about my body which even if I do say so myself is in pretty good nick for 57, I don't rely on any man, old young or in between to make me feel good about myself...I am married to a guy who adores my body anyway ![]() I am certain he isn't the only one who adores your body, I meant it more in a general sense. Why someone would have any issues, to make another feel put down is beyond me. Unless its the case of a man saying he's 23 and turning up with a zimmer having got on the bus for free. | |||
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"I am not a cougar, but they certainly exist, I saw it on a television show. ![]() Animal Planet? ![]() | |||
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" at the risk of soundiong patronising towards you young man! I have absolutely no issues about my body which even if I do say so myself is in pretty good nick for 57, I don't rely on any man, old young or in between to make me feel good about myself...I am married to a guy who adores my body anyway ![]() Stay in the forums a bit longer, see the threads about larger ladies, women with pubic hair, women who's labia aren't neat and tidy, read about women's genitals referred to as a wizards sleeve (I know that there are threads about men's bodies too)there's a lot of pressure to conform to a certain stereotype, that is a massive put down and it's going on all the time. | |||
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"Society leads you to believe 'cougars' exist, admittedly by society I basically mean porn. Yes, there is the odd older women that is inclined towards younger men. I've came a cross and spoke to a few, who all seem to be a little too far away. Cougars, show yourselves. Men, opinions and comments appreciated. " Is there a positive name for the male equivalent of 'cougar'? Is it only socially acceptable when Mrs Robinson is pursuing Benjamin and not the other way round. | |||
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"Society leads you to believe 'cougars' exist, admittedly by society I basically mean porn. Yes, there is the odd older women that is inclined towards younger men. I've came a cross and spoke to a few, who all seem to be a little too far away. Cougars, show yourselves. Men, opinions and comments appreciated. Is there a positive name for the male equivalent of 'cougar'? Is it only socially acceptable when Mrs Robinson is pursuing Benjamin and not the other way round. " I know of no positive male equivalent name (I don't see cougar as positive either but that's another story). I'm not sure either scenario is socially acceptable but one is viewed more indulgently than the other perhaps. | |||
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"Society leads you to believe 'cougars' exist, admittedly by society I basically mean porn. Yes, there is the odd older women that is inclined towards younger men. I've came a cross and spoke to a few, who all seem to be a little too far away. Cougars, show yourselves. Men, opinions and comments appreciated. " There are older women on here who like younger guys, there are older women who feel uncomfortable with younger guys and there are women who are unhappy with the term cougar. Best advice I can give is not to treat people as in a group, don't make age an issue in wanting to meet them and try and look at the individual what you like about her profile and dwell on that its kind of nice to like someone and want to play with someone for who they are not what they are. Good luck though with it on here. ![]() | |||
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" Is it only socially acceptable when Mrs Robinson is pursuing Benjamin and not the other way round. " Oh I totally disagree, no way I would pursue young men, they do all the chasing. | |||
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" I understand what you're after, but older women do not want to have to teach men or take control. To me a younger man is just a man, but younger. " Exactly so. I have no desire to take advantage of naivity - on the contrary, I would find naivity a turnoff, I like my men to be men whatever their age. | |||
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"Personally, I would simply define a cougar as older and experienced. Every young lad dreams of the perfect cougar to take advantage of their naivety, and ofcourse fuck their brains out. Its mentally stimulating beyond that of a one night stand, because its a fantasy. I see wealth as irrelevant. If I was in York, i would more than happily let my naivety take hold. I hear this so many times! Yet when the guy finally gets his wish (ie a meet with me ![]() Ok, so I'm just basing this on the photos and not having met you in the flesh, but you look fantastic. You also seem dead confident which is incredibly sexy. | |||
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" Is it only socially acceptable when Mrs Robinson is pursuing Benjamin and not the other way round. Oh I totally disagree, no way I would pursue young men, they do all the chasing." I understand that but Mrs Robinson definitely did the pursuing. | |||
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" Is it only socially acceptable when Mrs Robinson is pursuing Benjamin and not the other way round. Oh I totally disagree, no way I would pursue young men, they do all the chasing. I understand that but Mrs Robinson definitely did the pursuing." Sure, but I find that socially unacceptable, for me anyway. I do not identify with her or her character one jot, she was gross. | |||
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" Is it only socially acceptable when Mrs Robinson is pursuing Benjamin and not the other way round. Oh I totally disagree, no way I would pursue young men, they do all the chasing. I understand that but Mrs Robinson definitely did the pursuing. Sure, but I find that socially unacceptable, for me anyway. I do not identify with her or her character one jot, she was gross." I suspect that'd put you in the minority. Mrs Robinson - yes or no? Anne Bancroft - same question. | |||
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" Is it only socially acceptable when Mrs Robinson is pursuing Benjamin and not the other way round. Oh I totally disagree, no way I would pursue young men, they do all the chasing. I understand that but Mrs Robinson definitely did the pursuing. Sure, but I find that socially unacceptable, for me anyway. I do not identify with her or her character one jot, she was gross. I suspect that'd put you in the minority. Mrs Robinson - yes or no? Anne Bancroft - same question." I am not talking about whether Ann Bancroft is attractive or not, I am talking about the cold-hearted, self-centred, cheating seductress she played - not the type of character I admire! | |||
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