FabSwingers.com forum: does anyone talk to newbies!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am pretty fresh on here and need some tips as maybe its just me

but I am not getting any luck at all.... help me????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shouldn't make a difference if you're new or not. If I like the look then I'll chat regardless. Some control freaks on here mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No luck at all? You have 3 veris after 3 months. Some guys would be happy that.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I know I just don't get what I am doing wrong I send nice message instead of winks even trying the forums!!! Aghhh oh well keep trying

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By *bacusMan
over a year ago

Walton on Thames

Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.

Anyone want to help me out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol no they are people I bumped into at eurekas and started chatting and the guy is with the one woman so counts as two verification

and yeah I am straight he has separate profile not as a couple??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U have had 4 meets wiv 3 sets of people (admittedly 2 at a club) I woulda thought for 3Months on here that isn't a poor return

The unable to accom may b a sticking point perhaps tho I see u explain why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.

Anyone want to help me out?"

Webcam veri?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No web cam!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I know I just don't get what I am doing wrong I send nice message instead of winks even trying the forums!!! Aghhh oh well keep trying "

But as someone else has already pointed out you have 3 verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol no they are people I bumped into at eurekas and started chatting and the guy is with the one woman so counts as two verification

and yeah I am straight he has separate profile not as a couple??

I meant at least you have veris which is half the battle on here. Maybe relax and take things as they come. No pun intended btw.

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By *bacusMan
over a year ago

Walton on Thames

"Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.

Anyone want to help me out?

Webcam veri?"

Thats an idea but does that count?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah two off same person one off her bloke and other there friend lol so only two really! Yeah I will keep trying but not really getting anywhere thought it may be my pics or my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.

Anyone want to help me out?"

Oh dear!

YOU do seem to have been unlucky altho I note u haven't used the site much in the year u have been on. No veri's doesn't look good for that length of time n maybe folks don't bother even reading the profile?

If me was you i 'd probably delete my account n rejoin to start afresh

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What confidential stuff have you got at home? I'd probably have it locked away so then you would be able to accommodate. Sounds like you leave confidential stuff lying about.

3 veris in 3 months is good going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.

Anyone want to help me out?

Webcam veri?

Thats an idea but does that count?"

It proves that your photos are of you which is the main concern for women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't use everyday see as I work and is awkward what are verify? So u need to use frequently to get this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do security and close protection work so I can't have people stay its hard to explain on here lol but no don't leave stuff around and also have two 12 stone rottweilers living in house that are security trained so not good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah its all me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What confidential stuff have you got at home? I'd probably have it locked away so then you would be able to accommodate. Sounds like you leave confidential stuff lying about.

3 veris in 3 months is good going. "

I have confidential client information at home too: doesn't stop me meeting as I've discovered this thing called cabinets, and they have locks too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes true! So do I

anyway does that really have the main reason why I don't get much luck as I can't accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Some control freaks on here mind

Ya foooka!... your not wrong there mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah two off same person one off her bloke and other there friend lol so only two really! Yeah I will keep trying but not really getting anywhere thought it may be my pics or my profile? "

Have you considered that it could be your chosen user name?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But that has meaning to me so put it bear ( my dog) 82 I was born!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes true! So do I

anyway does that really have the main reason why I don't get much luck as I can't accommodate? "

Probably. A few gals might take your 'confidential papers' to mean a marriage certificate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry meant 409 end of my old army no!! Not 82 it wouldn't let me do that one! See even mess that up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No!!! I said I do close protection I can't have people in my house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No!!! I said I do close protection I can't have people in my house

But what's close protection got to do with a lass being in your home? Is it fear of a honeytrap?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No Aghhh I can't explain its complicated as said I do close protection as in security for very famous people etc I can't put anymore on here as more than my jobs worth. Its ok I will just wait thanks anyway

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"No!!! I said I do close protection I can't have people in my house

So, have you thought about where you plan on meeting people??

The "cant accommodate" will not be the only thing stopping you getting meets, but it's part of it and will be the reason for some people. I for one will not have anyone in my house who won't have me in there's

Also agree on the username... If I saw that on a search or something on here I would assume you were looking for men not women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I will change name! And can travel and meet in hotel or public place etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No Aghhh I can't explain its complicated as said I do close protection as in security for very famous people etc I can't put anymore on here as more than my jobs worth. Its ok I will just wait thanks anyway "

Was just asking! Even James Bond had the odd bird back at his place!

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over a year ago

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I talk to newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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hell I would yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get chatted to from time to time..i wondering if " the master and sub" thing frightens people..we are what we are..be interested in your views...nette

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Get chatting then send me a message : )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would too!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am not scared so start using me

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"I do security and close protection work so I can't have people stay its hard to explain on here lol but no don't leave stuff around and also have two 12 stone rottweilers living in house that are security trained so not good

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Close protection and security and can't have people in your house, but happy to have your face picture on view. May just take a pinch of salt with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close protection and security and can't have people in your house, but happy to have your face picture on view. May just take a pinch of salt with that

Security guard at Asda who takes his work home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close protection and security and can't have people in your house, but happy to have your face picture on view. May just take a pinch of salt with that

Security guard at Asda who takes his work home?

Isn't that shoplifting?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Close protection and security and can't have people in your house, but happy to have your face picture on view. May just take a pinch of salt with that

Security guard at Asda who takes his work home?

Isn't that shoplifting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah u got it I do security at Asda!! Wow u must of seen me there its proper hard core and loads of close protection work with all the dole addicts lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Take this how u want and prob I will get abuse!! But why do some people on this site feel the need to try to belittle others? Is it cause they feel bad about themselves and think they can say what they want as its a computer but bet majority wouldn't do it to your face!!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

yep all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah u got it I do security at Asda!! Wow u must of seen me there its proper hard core and loads of close protection work with all the dole addicts lol "

Hey, dn't worry about it mate! After all, the carrots need protection from those aubergines!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few people will do yes.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I can imagine that there will be a lot of single blokes who will be saying "2 meets in 3 months...... lucky chap!!!

so it does make me ask the questions "what were your expectations??"

in the end, the site is only one part of the jigsaw, clubs for example as you have been to them is another......and there are others things out there that will open avenues....

we were all new once, but it is a case of learning along the way.. and only you can do that, that can't be spoonfed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah u got it I do security at Asda!! Wow u must of seen me there its proper hard core and loads of close protection work with all the dole addicts lol

Hey, dn't worry about it mate! After all, the carrots need protection from those aubergines!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - You're not a newbie! 3 months on site, 3 veris.

Your profile is ok but doesn't stand out from the crowd and if you approached me and I was interested - I'm not btw - then I would ask you lots of questions about why you can't accommodate. The security thing doesn't add up. I too have confidential stuff at home - doesn't stop me having friends back.

Enjoy fab, chill out a bit and make friends on the forum. They won't bite - well not all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers mate

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Take this how u want and prob I will get abuse!! But why do some people on this site feel the need to try to belittle others? Is it cause they feel bad about themselves and think they can say what they want as its a computer but bet majority wouldn't do it to your face!!

The posts you don t like my suggestion ignore them or develop a thicker skin,, its an open forum people will and can post things we find irksome, if they break site rules mrs rugby or jezebel will be along to sit them on the naughty step,,

I thought I d read on one of your posts you lived with family because you worked away, if thats thecase be upfront about it, if iI ve got that wrong apologies,

Have fun, Don t take things too seriously,,

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I agree that something doesn't add up about the not accommodating thing.

You don't have to accommodate, not everyone does but a lot of women will suspect it means married and cheating. If the explanation sounds dodgy they are unlikely to meet.

OP, you're getting teased a bit about the security thing but really, look at what you've written and consider whether you should be surprised. You are coming over as having a bit of a "I could tell you but then I'd have to shoot you" top secret spy fantasy.

Something doesn't add up and my gut would say avoid. I just don't need confusion or complications and if I'm meeting someone I need to feel I can trust them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol no they are people I bumped into at eurekas and started chatting and the guy is with the one woman so counts as two verification

and yeah I am straight he has separate profile not as a couple??

I meant at least you have veris which is half the battle on here. Maybe relax and take things as they come. No pun intended btw.

hehehe

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I love to read & recently enjoyed a series of books by the author JD Nixon about a big strapping security boss called Heller, who in the first few books screwed an array of beauty's always in hotels. Nobody was allowed to bring women back to the place he lived with others (& was work base too).

Anyway I digress. You're a nice looking bloke who could score at any swingers club, so get your muscular butt in a few.

Happy shagging

Julie x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Cheers mate "

Are you seriously 31.. ?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No luck at all? You have 3 veris after 3 months. Some guys would be happy that."

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.

Anyone want to help me out?"

I would, but you're a bit far away x

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Not new but as yet unverified which is as bad.

Anyone want to help me out?

I would, but you're a bit far away x"

looks like you're almost sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were all new once

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"No web cam!!

you can pick one up for under a £10 note in any large Asda, Tesco or if you dont have one near you a quick Ebay search will find you one with mike for £4.99 (free postage, buy it now).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah why do I look 51?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah why do I look 51?

what's wrong wiv being 51 ??

I remember it........... Vaguely

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