FabSwingers.com forum: why put yourself up for that?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see a lot of people posting kiss fuck avoid thread on here why do that cos reading them your just putting yourself up for rejection ridicule and abuse why pit yourself through that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Becaue they lack the self awareness to envisage the thread going in that direction

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

And for others any attention is better than none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why denigrate someone's chosen form of amusement?

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Dare set foot on those threads.

Wtf we have so many buggers me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its generally the poor guys that get the abuse........they must love it!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

pass lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

in the hope that the word 'fuck' may actually lead to a skin to skin/rubber one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To sell a product that people don't need, you have to advertise,

The second step is to get people to look at your advert.

Kiss, pass, fuck threads, get people to look at your advert/ profile.

Although posters on the thread wont admit it, the profile may interest them, so the thread has been an ice breaker,

The OP may even get a sympathy shag, after everyone has been nasty to her, or him.

So its a win, win situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes some people need attention of any kind. Just a possible explaination and not a critisism of anyone we're all human.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"pass lol"
Fair play it took till the fifth post to get that reply although it did contain a lol bit predictable though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend has a whole subforum devoted to "naval lint" threads, those that are seemingly pointless but fun to those who indulge, for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To sell a product that people don't need, you have to advertise,

The second step is to get people to look at your advert.

Kiss, pass, fuck threads, get people to look at your advert/ profile.

Although posters on the thread wont admit it, the profile may interest them, so the thread has been an ice breaker,

The OP may even get a sympathy shag, after everyone has been nasty to her, or him.

So its a win, win situation."

What a clever man you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might just want a general appraisement of themselves, if people want to be nasty ignore them if they offer constructive criticism though it can be an opportunity for self improvement.

This.I of all the people who look but don't message you, it would be nice to know why, it might be that there's something that you put across unintentionally that puts people off and it's actually just a misunderstanding you can fix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They might just want a general appraisement of themselves, if people want to be nasty ignore them if they offer constructive criticism though it can be an opportunity for self improvement.

LOL if you think people on a sex site can make you a better person, You need to get a reality check!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"pass lol Fair play it took till the fifth post to get that reply although it did contain a lol bit predictable though!

it s like the fuck or pass thread... just a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To sell a product that people don't need, you have to advertise,

The second step is to get people to look at your advert.

Kiss, pass, fuck threads, get people to look at your advert/ profile.

Although posters on the thread wont admit it, the profile may interest them, so the thread has been an ice breaker,

The OP may even get a sympathy shag, after everyone has been nasty to her, or him.

So its a win, win situation.

What a clever man you are.

Not clever, just spent a fortune on advertising for my business, that didn't get any new business, till I realised my mistake.

Now I go for shock tactics,

Valentines window in my flower shop.

A bed, a dummy of a woman, who looks like she has taken an overdose, empty pill bottles and vodka bottles on table at side of bed.

Sign read, " He didn't send me flowers! "

Half page in Manchester evening news ( free )

protests outside shop, bomb threat, and on Granada reports.

Fantastic advertising, fantastic sales,

not sure how I can beat it next year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

getting a no doesnt bother me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To sell a product that people don't need, you have to advertise,

The second step is to get people to look at your advert.

Kiss, pass, fuck threads, get people to look at your advert/ profile.

Although posters on the thread wont admit it, the profile may interest them, so the thread has been an ice breaker,

The OP may even get a sympathy shag, after everyone has been nasty to her, or him.

So its a win, win situation.

What a clever man you are.

Not clever, just spent a fortune on advertising for my business, that didn't get any new business, till I realised my mistake.

Now I go for shock tactics,

Valentines window in my flower shop.

A bed, a dummy of a woman, who looks like she has taken an overdose, empty pill bottles and vodka bottles on table at side of bed.

Sign read, " He didn't send me flowers! "

Half page in Manchester evening news ( free )

protests outside shop, bomb threat, and on Granada reports.

Fantastic advertising, fantastic sales,

not sure how I can beat it next year!"

I like it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"To sell a product that people don't need, you have to advertise,

The second step is to get people to look at your advert.

Kiss, pass, fuck threads, get people to look at your advert/ profile.

Although posters on the thread wont admit it, the profile may interest them, so the thread has been an ice breaker,

The OP may even get a sympathy shag, after everyone has been nasty to her, or him.

So its a win, win situation."

"The quickest way to kill a bad product is through good advertising"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see a lot of people posting kiss fuck avoid thread on here why do that cos reading them your just putting yourself up for rejection ridicule and abuse why pit yourself through that?

It's in the vague hope that someone will convince them they are still half fuckable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see a lot of people posting kiss fuck avoid thread on here why do that cos reading them your just putting yourself up for rejection ridicule and abuse why pit yourself through that?

It's in the vague hope that someone will convince them they are still half fuckable."

Now that made me smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They might just want a general appraisement of themselves, if people want to be nasty ignore them if they offer constructive criticism though it can be an opportunity for self improvement.

LOL if you think people on a sex site can make you a better person, You need to get a reality check!"

Where did I say better person I said it can be useful for self improvement, in relation to appearance mostly or in profile writing.

And why because people are on a sex site are they useless for "making you a better person" I've met people off sites like this who've become good friends and that I've talked about all sorts with, definitely helped me broaden my horizons in some areas and made my life much better.

If you treat it as just a place to get a quick fuck that's all you'll get, treat it as a place to meet great interesting people and also explore sexual things and you'll get a damn sight more out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They might just want a general appraisement of themselves, if people want to be nasty ignore them if they offer constructive criticism though it can be an opportunity for self improvement.

LOL if you think people on a sex site can make you a better person, You need to get a reality check!

Where did I say better person I said it can be useful for self improvement, in relation to appearance mostly or in profile writing.

I am not looking for interesting friends or people, im looking for and getting shags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well I am and I've found a good few, each to their own though, if you just want sex that's your choice but I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to make some great friends to have great sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see only as a bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about the advertising, you can't do the whole establishing attraction part unless you get them to notice you first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well I am and I've found a good few, each to their own though, if you just want sex that's your choice but I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to make some great friends to have great sex with

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I see a lot of people posting kiss fuck avoid thread on here why do that cos reading them your just putting yourself up for rejection ridicule and abuse why pit yourself through that?

It's in the vague hope that someone will convince them they are still half fuckable."

*Giggles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a bit of lighthearted fun isnt it ? It's not meant to be serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the problem with those threads is, no matter what the real feelings of the posters, they will either fit in with the general consensus (ie, if its a single blokes posted, and the general trend is to pass, others will follow) and posters are also too afraid to upset females that post, for fear of being shown up to be shallow and limiting their chances of meeting yet further.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I almost always post because I'm a 'pass' and 'avoid' collector. Plus, recently I've had the big hoot of posting after Toshn so I can gleefully make 'deliverence' jokes.

Small things, eh?

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By *uncouple31Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

"I see only as a bit of fun."

same here no planning behind it to be noticed or get pity compliments just to get involved and have a little giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see a lot of people posting kiss fuck avoid thread on here why do that cos reading them your just putting yourself up for rejection ridicule and abuse why pit yourself through that?

They are for me a giggle and laugh not real life don't see anyone getting hurt and mores to the point very very easy to pass by when I don't want to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I almost always post because I'm a 'pass' and 'avoid' collector. Plus, recently I've had the big hoot of posting after Toshn so I can gleefully make 'deliverence' jokes.

Small things, eh?

Kiss fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the problem with those threads is, no matter what the real feelings of the posters, they will either fit in with the general consensus (ie, if its a single blokes posted, and the general trend is to pass, others will follow) and posters are also too afraid to upset females that post, for fear of being shown up to be shallow and limiting their chances of meeting yet further.

I'm so thick cos I don't think about anything other than it being a giggle. I really must try harder to think things through before posting.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't think about it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see a lot of people posting kiss fuck avoid thread on here why do that cos reading them your just putting yourself up for rejection ridicule and abuse why pit yourself through that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More often than not I'm sure it's for the attention..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so thick cos I don't think about anything other than it being a giggle. I really must try harder to think things through before posting. "

nothing to do with being thick.

you can post something and ask for private messages about it, and from the 30 messages you get, you probably get 29 different responses.

when there is no crowd to follow, people offer their own true opinions.

when there is, then most tend to lean towards getting accepted.

it also proves different people can see different things in the same post.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I almost always post because I'm a 'pass' and 'avoid' collector. Plus, recently I've had the big hoot of posting after Toshn so I can gleefully make 'deliverence' jokes.

Small things, eh?

Kiss fuck

Toshn! Your hairstyle looks different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so thick cos I don't think about anything other than it being a giggle. I really must try harder to think things through before posting.

nothing to do with being thick.

you can post something and ask for private messages about it, and from the 30 messages you get, you probably get 29 different responses.

when there is no crowd to follow, people offer their own true opinions.

when there is, then most tend to lean towards getting accepted.

it also proves different people can see different things in the same post."

Oh do you know what I'm going to carry on thinking no more about it than I do normally. Some people just love to draw the fun out of something that in reality if they don't like them there is no need to ever read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I almost always post because I'm a 'pass' and 'avoid' collector. Plus, recently I've had the big hoot of posting after Toshn so I can gleefully make 'deliverence' jokes.

Small things, eh?

Kiss fuck

Toshn! Your hairstyle looks different!

Oi last time I looked I didn't have balls. Still fuck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so thick cos I don't think about anything other than it being a giggle. I really must try harder to think things through before posting.

nothing to do with being thick.

you can post something and ask for private messages about it, and from the 30 messages you get, you probably get 29 different responses.

when there is no crowd to follow, people offer their own true opinions.

when there is, then most tend to lean towards getting accepted.

it also proves different people can see different things in the same post.

oh please, dont take me the wrong way.

i sometimes find them a hoot, and join in with them also.

i find people being shot down hilariously funny, but you really do se a pattern when you look at them often enough, and the same people posting lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I see a lot of people posting kiss fuck avoid thread on here why do that cos reading them your just putting yourself up for rejection ridicule and abuse why pit yourself through that?

its not like someone splashing a dtink in your face, so who could actually give a shit. As no - they are not the best of threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose if you were that fragile or shallow you probably wouldn't post I just don't see the point but then I don't give a fuck what people say or think about me I know I'm not brad Pitt I don't need anyone to tell me

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