FabSwingers.com forum: Fabswingers strictly paying site?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If Fabswingers was a strictly pay for membership site only, do you think there would be less morons on here and would you become a member?

I must admit, there are a lot of nice and genuine people on here, but there is a very small minority.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

There's plenty of morons on pay sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's plenty of morons on pay sites"

and shes's still on them

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Morons still have money

Obviously, as I love this site, I'd join, but if I were a newbie looking for a swinging site I don't know whether I'd pick this one (probs pick the cheapest, I am a bit of a tightwad

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

morons have money too and oten the 2 are easily parted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's a very valid point guys. Morons do have money.

I suppose it's just life as there are all types of people everywhere, online communities, work place etc.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Nearly all of the swinger/sex sites I have joined over the last 10 years were pay sites (at least for the men!) and it didn't stop fakes and timewasters from being on them.

I think the reason why I like this site is it has a totally different vibe than others. On here its more about the swinging community, not just sex, sex, sex all the time (honestly!). On pay sites the men get quite huffy if you turn them down because they believe that, due to the very high fee they pay, they are entitled to the women on there. Yes, this site suffers from that too but, being free, it happens less, and I feel less guilty turning people down if I don't fancy them.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Also, whilst it may put off the chancers who have nothing to lose by joining and sending the 'fancy a fuck?' messages, it may also put off people who are genuine and dipping their toes.

I've found there are way more genuinely nice peeps on here than morons and even morons can twig on they aren't getting inundated with meets and learn from it.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I think there might be fewer morons, not less

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes I do think there would be less morons.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the 'morons' are usually people choosing to use the site differently from you.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I wouldn't join if it was a paying site. I have been a silver site supporter in the past, and don;t mind that, but wouldn't pay to be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a fiver for 2 months isnt going to stop many though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I misread the thread title and came here looking for tips on how to re-lay my patio.

Does that make me a "moron", or even an idiot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

LOL. Not "paving",

Of course not, but you know what I mean about people who hassle others in general terms

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but it would put many people off from joining up so you would be left with a smaller group of people on the site

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

And granny, Tina and View.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

not sure it would make a great deal if difference

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

You just like being verbally abused now and then

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I know a lot of men use it as a praying site

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

Aw bless ya Steve, I'll have a word with Paddy and Wyrd and we'll arrange a weekend in Brighton and descend on you en masse...you'd better book a holiday to recover

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

And granny, Tina and View.

Bloody hell, I'd better book a minibus

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

And granny, Tina and View.

Thank you darling for letting me be in this shiny new C...Cl...... group

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

And granny, Tina and View.

Bloody hell, I'd better book a minibus

Is there room for crates at the back ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

Aw bless ya Steve, I'll have a word with Paddy and Wyrd and we'll arrange a weekend in Brighton and descend on you en masse...you'd better book a holiday to recover

I'd be up for that!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 10/11/13 20:19:53]

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I know a lot of men use it as a praying site"

preying ....... oh the excitement of all this prescriptive pedantry .... I must have a wank.

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By *icebloke..but filthyMan
over a year ago

Nth. London

A praying site? Like the Wailing Wall?

Just what're we getting into here!?

*rather fetching cassock, since you ask..*

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

And granny, Tina and View.

Thank you darling for letting me be in this shiny new C...Cl...... group

Crikey, I've never been that far South. Will they be able to understand me? I was in Milton Keynes on Friday night and it took 3 attempts before I could be understood there!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

And granny, Tina and View.

Bloody hell, I'd better book a minibus

Is there room for crates at the back ?"

I'm a Cumbrian, there's always room for crates - either for our booze or for my other personality's victims

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fail to see how charging would somehow eliminate the "undesirable" element. I think those who favour it just see it as a way of reducing membership and increasing their chances.

We wouldn't bother staying members if Fab came chargeable. We'd miss the forums but most of our meets are via clubs and the kink scene, this site is only a very small part of our swinging life.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

And granny, Tina and View.

Thank you darling for letting me be in this shiny new C...Cl...... group

Crikey, I've never been that far South. Will they be able to understand me? I was in Milton Keynes on Friday night and it took 3 attempts before I could be understood there!

Who is Milton ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I fail to see how charging would somehow eliminate the "undesirable" element. I think those who favour it just see it as a way of reducing membership and increasing their chances.

We wouldn't bother staying members if Fab came chargeable. We'd miss the forums but most of our meets are via clubs and the kink scene, this site is only a very small part of our swinging life."

C'mon ... tsk .... All wealthy people are sweethearts.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I know a lot of men use it as a praying site"

It's because god help them

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I know a lot of men use it as a praying site

preying ....... oh the excitement of all this prescriptive pedantry .... I must have a wank."

Do it quietly granny. There are little ears around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

And granny, Tina and View.

Thank you darling for letting me be in this shiny new C...Cl...... group

Crikey, I've never been that far South. Will they be able to understand me? I was in Milton Keynes on Friday night and it took 3 attempts before I could be understood there!

Who is Milton ?"

Isn't he the one who lost paradise?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'd go on the same one as Blondecaz and _yrdwoman and keenfuck even though I've never met any of them and very rarely venture beyond London.

You've been to London? When did that happen?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Who is Milton ?

Isn't he the one who lost paradise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, there are plenty of morons with money. I wouldn't pay to be on here. Probably leaving soon anyway.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

money and paying doesn't mean someone changes, its a sex site in cyber space, not real life, so it attracts all sorts.

without the numbers of free members the site wouldn't exist. Advertisers need numbers.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Nearly all of the swinger/sex sites I have joined over the last 10 years were pay sites (at least for the men!) and it didn't stop fakes and timewasters from being on them.

Apart from feeling guilty about saying no thanks: this!

Even I've been put off meeting some men on the paid sites. Their angry postings at not getting their sacs emptied on a regular basis makes you wonder how they'd be face to face.

They pay exorbitant subs and feel entitled to a meet.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It is the high volume of users that keep fab healthy, with more choice. Less people would be far less attractive as a site and wouldnt work so well. It needs a good load of new users regularly joining to keep things fresh and to increase choice as well as improve opportunities for compatible meets. We just need to get better at spotting the morons and reporting trouble etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I misread the thread title and came here looking for tips on how to re-lay my patio.

Does that make me a "moron", or even an idiot?

Had to scroll back to the title

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already pay but can be a moron sometimes, have screwed up many a possible longterm friendship but hopefully am less moronic now. I realise what guys don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree even morons and time wasters still will pay , but if paying a small fee discourages even 10% not to join it may mean 100 or so not joining up . That's a 100 less than before who spoil the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I already pay but can be a moron sometimes, have screwed up many a possible longterm friendship but hopefully am less moronic now. I realise what guys don't want

Tied up and battered?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"If Fabswingers was a strictly pay for membership site only, do you think there would be less morons on here and would you become a member?

I must admit, there are a lot of nice and genuine people on here, but there is a very small minority."

Of course there would, but there'd also be a lot less genuine people as well. I don't think the percentages would change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's morons every where paying for a site won't stop that lol I pay for site and just delete or block the morons and keep the good guys around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunately there more nice genuine folk on any site than there are morons.those you don't like just block them,they may get the message then and move to another site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fortunately there more nice genuine folk on any site than there are morons.those you don't like just block them,they may get the message then and move to another site."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If Fabswingers was a strictly pay for membership site only, do you think there would be less morons on here and would you become a member?

I must admit, there are a lot of nice and genuine people on here, but there is a very small minority."

Its a great Idea in principle however the reality is you would loose a huge percentage of users and someone else would set up another free site.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Numpties have cash too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Numpties have cash too "

lend me a tenner

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"Numpties have cash too

lend me a tenner"

Sorry I've only got English 20's

Foxy had some of that 'legal tender' last time we went out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I already pay but can be a moron sometimes, have screwed up many a possible longterm friendship but hopefully am less moronic now. I realise what guys don't want

Tied up and battered?

Nope. They don't want emotional attachment or anything else along those lines. I learnt that lesson last year

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