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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do I find the large amount of verifies on a girl a huge turn on? Beats me why guys don't like this of girls

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Some guys don't like the fact that a lady is enjoying herself and can get more meets than they can.

I love a lady who knows what she wants and gets it, and enjoys doing so !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One guy I saw had this on his status "if you have more than 50 verifications jog along"

I admire a girl who loves variety..it makes me want to impress and show off.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets "

My message rate has dropped since I decided to display all of my verifications. I've had the odd (very odd!) message telling me I put myself around a bit too much.

I must do something about getting some proper meet meat verifications in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a blood sex site, what do people expect ....saints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy I saw had this on his status "if you have more than 50 verifications jog along"

I admire a girl who loves variety..it makes me want to impress and show off."

With an ass like that anytime

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Its a blood sex site, what do people expect ....saints "

Blood sex

Some of us are past all of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a blood sex site, what do people expect ....saints "

We are all saints on here or should that be sinners

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"One guy I saw had this on his status "if you have more than 50 verifications jog along"

I admire a girl who loves variety..it makes me want to impress and show off."

That makes me laugh! I only show a selection of recent veris and as one person put it recently if you went by the ones I do show you'd think I had a coffee fetish!

We can all choose how many and which veris to show as well as whether to show the veri summary so how can he know if someone really has only two veris or actually has a hundred but is just showing two.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One guy I saw had this on his status "if you have more than 50 verifications jog along"

I admire a girl who loves variety..it makes me want to impress and show off.

With an ass like that anytime "

Thanks gorgeous girl

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I use it as a filter - anyone who looks down on me or chooses not to meet me due to the number of verifications I have is not the sort of person I'd want to meet. Saves time all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy I saw had this on his status "if you have more than 50 verifications jog along"

I admire a girl who loves variety..it makes me want to impress and show off.

With an ass like that anytime

Thanks gorgeous girl "

Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use it as a filter - anyone who looks down on me or chooses not to meet me due to the number of verifications I have is not the sort of person I'd want to meet. Saves time all round. "

Good on ya xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters not a jot ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sloppy seconds lol.bad poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters not a jot ....

"

I agree with that, not looking to marry the person, so couldn't care less.

Simple question do I find them attractive? If yes, let's crack on, lots of veris mean they know the score!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters not a jot ....

I agree with that, not looking to marry the person, so couldn't care less.

Simple question do I find them attractive? If yes, let's crack on, lots of veris mean they know the score! "

You asked me to marry you !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters not a jot ....

I agree with that, not looking to marry the person, so couldn't care less.

Simple question do I find them attractive? If yes, let's crack on, lots of veris mean they know the score!

You asked me to marry you !!!!!!"

Only to get you on the meet, once Id had my wicked way I fled the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters not a jot ....

I agree with that, not looking to marry the person, so couldn't care less.

Simple question do I find them attractive? If yes, let's crack on, lots of veris mean they know the score!

You asked me to marry you !!!!!!

Only to get you on the meet, once Id had my wicked way I fled the country"

Casanova there were many after me ...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

depends on time line if I am honest, if they were meeting sexually every day or every second day it would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got a few... but it doesnt show anywhere near the amount of meets I have had.. and I know someone that shows 3...and has meet 100s... but choses not to show the world that.

I love reading veries and if on a single guys profile I always want to show them what I can do..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive got a few... but it doesnt show anywhere near the amount of meets I have had.. and I know someone that shows 3...and has meet 100s... but choses not to show the world that.

I love reading veries and if on a single guys profile I always want to show them what I can do..

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Of course...it makes me wanna stand out from the rest....it drives me wild!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood how lots of veris can go against someone considering the reason most of us are here....to meet people both for sex and socially. I like my men to have many veris...shows they are active and not just dreamers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never understood how lots of veris can go against someone considering the reason most of us are here....to meet people both for sex and socially. I like my men to have many veris...shows they are active and not just dreamers "

What made me start this thread was..a girl that said she didn't want to meet me because I have 10 verifies since I joined 7 weeks ago...that's not unusual is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood how lots of veris can go against someone considering the reason most of us are here....to meet people both for sex and socially. I like my men to have many veris...shows they are active and not just dreamers

What made me start this thread was..a girl that said she didn't want to meet me because I have 10 verifies since I joined 7 weeks ago...that's not unusual is it? "

Not unusual?! It's a bloody miracle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood how lots of veris can go against someone considering the reason most of us are here....to meet people both for sex and socially. I like my men to have many veris...shows they are active and not just dreamers "

Also shows they're less likely to be stalkers to me!!! I'm more than happy to see previous meets get new verifications, shows that they're having fun too.

Only time anyone has taken issue with how many veri's I have is usually after I've knocked them back...odd how I wasn't too promiscuous when they asked if I 'fancied a fuck'!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never understood how lots of veris can go against someone considering the reason most of us are here....to meet people both for sex and socially. I like my men to have many veris...shows they are active and not just dreamers

Also shows they're less likely to be stalkers to me!!! I'm more than happy to see previous meets get new verifications, shows that they're having fun too.

Only time anyone has taken issue with how many veri's I have is usually after I've knocked them back...odd how I wasn't too promiscuous when they asked if I 'fancied a fuck'! "

Ooo hello you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends on time line if I am honest, if they were meeting sexually every day or every second day it would put me off.

"

Totally agree with this.

I don't give two hoots how many veris a lass has/hasn't got. But, if she has loads, and they are given daily, then no, i wouldn't want to meet her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood how lots of veris can go against someone considering the reason most of us are here....to meet people both for sex and socially. I like my men to have many veris...shows they are active and not just dreamers

Also shows they're less likely to be stalkers to me!!! I'm more than happy to see previous meets get new verifications, shows that they're having fun too.

Only time anyone has taken issue with how many veri's I have is usually after I've knocked them back...odd how I wasn't too promiscuous when they asked if I 'fancied a fuck'!

Ooo hello you x"

Lol...hello to you too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit im put off by loads of verifications. Some people like to collect them like some kind of trophy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood how lots of veris can go against someone considering the reason most of us are here....to meet people both for sex and socially. I like my men to have many veris...shows they are active and not just dreamers

Also shows they're less likely to be stalkers to me!!! I'm more than happy to see previous meets get new verifications, shows that they're having fun too.

Only time anyone has taken issue with how many veri's I have is usually after I've knocked them back...odd how I wasn't too promiscuous when they asked if I 'fancied a fuck'! "

Yes you kind of get the idea that they know what it's all about....they aren't looking for anything more, and aren't going to become possessively jealous while you go out meeting others after them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah..less inclined to become clingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah..less inclined to become clingy"

Nothing worse

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets "

You shouldn't need to justify yourself. This is a swinging site - what the fuck do people think we are here for?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

You shouldn't need to justify yourself. This is a swinging site - what the fuck do people think we are here for?"

The knitting tips.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Having not read all the thread, I'm going to blindly trust in the others to have pointed out, just because you dont like something doesn't mean others do not.

If you dont like the idea of women having fun from a swinging site, maybe you should try virgin dating or something

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

You shouldn't need to justify yourself. This is a swinging site - what the fuck do people think we are here for?"

Coffee ! (most of my meet veris are social - although some are not)

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

too many verifications and ones from the same people would put me off a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never ceases to amaze me how so many people don't seem to 'get' the verification system.

Someone gives you a verification, but it's up to you whether you publish it. So the person showing 2 veris might actually have 102! Someone showing a verification from 2 years ago might actually have 3 veris from last week, but simply don't show them!

The verification system is useful, but it should only be taken at face value!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It never ceases to amaze me how so many people don't seem to 'get' the verification system.

Someone gives you a verification, but it's up to you whether you publish it. So the person showing 2 veris might actually have 102! Someone showing a verification from 2 years ago might actually have 3 veris from last week, but simply don't show them!

The verification system is useful, but it should only be taken at face value!

"

the flipcoin to that is:

If people are unsure of ur meeting status, they will move on to the next profile.

It amazes me, that newly verified people hide theirs, then start complaining they arent getting responses.Most often than not one verify in a short or long period of time doesnt instill me with confidence the person is either who they say they are or that they will meet.Its pretty much how I've worked the system for about 6yrs, I cant really complain it hasnt helped me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets "

Do people honestly do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

Do people honestly do that?"

er yes lol...or you have slept with far too many people

It was once suggested the women I met were on drugs..........

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

Do people honestly do that?

er yes lol...or you have slept with far too many people

It was once suggested the women I met were on drugs.........."

Only for the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

Do people honestly do that?

er yes lol...or you have slept with far too many people

It was once suggested the women I met were on drugs..........

Only for the first meet "

I'm a highly addictive substance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I find the large amount of verifies on a girl a huge turn on? Beats me why guys don't like this of girls "

beats me why you would come on a sex site and get turned off by women with lots of verifications

what do you want to find on here?

if sexually open women arnt for you maybe your on the wrong site

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

Do people honestly do that?

er yes lol...or you have slept with far too many people

It was once suggested the women I met were on drugs..........

Only for the first meet

I'm a highly addictive substance lol"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

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He doesn't. He says its a turn ON, not off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use it as a filter - anyone who looks down on me or chooses not to meet me due to the number of verifications I have is not the sort of person I'd want to meet. Saves time all round. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

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He's not. He likes it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

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He likes gals with lots of veris. Not put off.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

100 verifications from the same person is a little unnerving. I wouldn't meet the man for fear of him bringing some possessive, territory marking stalker to my door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

He doesn't. He says its a turn ON, not off."

oh yeah i really should put my glasses on, i take back everything i said and kiss the OPs feet as a way of apology

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

Do people honestly do that?

er yes lol...or you have slept with far too many people

It was once suggested the women I met were on drugs.........."

Wow! Some people have too much time on their hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100 verifications from the same person is a little unnerving. I wouldn't meet the man for fear of him bringing some possessive, territory marking stalker to my door! "

I'd like to see a woman do that....squatting down pishing on ur doorstep..

please video it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

He doesn't. He says its a turn ON, not off.

oh yeah i really should put my glasses on, i take back everything i said and kiss the OPs feet as a way of apology "

Don't apologse! The lucky bastid has had 7 meets in a month!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

Do people honestly do that?

er yes lol...or you have slept with far too many people

It was once suggested the women I met were on drugs.........."

Rohypnol?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"100 verifications from the same person is a little unnerving. I wouldn't meet the man for fear of him bringing some possessive, territory marking stalker to my door! "

That's why I often don't leave veri as I seem to attract the podding up the lamp posts brigade

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"100 verifications from the same person is a little unnerving. I wouldn't meet the man for fear of him bringing some possessive, territory marking stalker to my door!

I'd like to see a woman do that....squatting down pishing on ur doorstep..

please video it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets

Do people honestly do that?

er yes lol...or you have slept with far too many people

It was once suggested the women I met were on drugs..........

Rohypnol? "

that wasnt her name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets "

Gosh that's awful! I don't ask for or need a veri from everyone I meet. I do sometimes look at the increasing number and think.. "Ooo-errr". It won't stop me though.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dont verify everyone we meet and dont receive veris from all we meet either ...dont see the need for them but if others do it wouldnt put us off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

"

Who's OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

Who's OP?"

You as opening post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus just to point out OP you have 7 verifications for the month alone so i don't see how you can be put off by women who meet a lot

Who's OP?"

you, i did apologise for my fuck up though so don't shoot me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahahaha you are immediately forgiven xxx

Yeah to clarify....lots of verys equals lots of experience..huge huge turn on!!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets "

what a cheeky sod

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

A lot of our veries are from people we have met at parties but have not played with but had a good night with anyway ..

Wouldn't worry about what others think anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear your veri's with pride

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wear your veri's with pride "

There nothing to be ashamed of are they...it just shows how much fun your having x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear your veri's with pride

There nothing to be ashamed of are they...it just shows how much fun your having x"

I ain't ashamed

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I got a message calling me a slag for the amount of verification I have...however 99.99% of them are from social meets "

You only have 34. That's nothing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few veri's on here... A few on my other profile.... A load on other sites... people in real life... people I shag behind the bins at Tesco's............

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a few veri's on here... A few on my other profile.... A load on other sites... people in real life... people I shag behind the bins at Tesco's............

"

That was you at wigan tesco then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wear your veri's with pride

There nothing to be ashamed of are they...it just shows how much fun your having x

I ain't ashamed"

Neither will I when I meet you next week xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having not read all the thread, I'm going to blindly trust in the others to have pointed out, just because you dont like something doesn't mean others do not.

If you dont like the idea of women having fun from a swinging site, maybe you should try virgin dating or something "

spat out my coffee - pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having not read all the thread, I'm going to blindly trust in the others to have pointed out, just because you dont like something doesn't mean others do not.

If you dont like the idea of women having fun from a swinging site, maybe you should try virgin dating or something

spat out my coffee - pmsl"

She misunderstood..I love girls having fun x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Too many 'precious' people who make judgements. I am here to fuck - simple as. I can have copious amounts of coffee with real friends so I don't tend to do socials. I may sit and chat over a brew to get a feel for someone - but my expectation is that some naughty fun will come of it. Mostly it does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too many 'precious' people who make judgements. I am here to fuck - simple as. I can have copious amounts of coffee with real friends so I don't tend to do socials. I may sit and chat over a brew to get a feel for someone - but my expectation is that some naughty fun will come of it. Mostly it does."

Haha love it...your a star xxx

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