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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Often thought about going to a club. Though not to play to just look see what its all about. Would this piss people off if we said thanks but no thanks.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

No. Some people go just to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's perfectly normal ....if it's a new environment for you to be in its only natural to be observing what's going on around you and if you feel comfortable then play with whoever takes your fancy ....no pressure whatsoever ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people just watch, even cpls...as long as u are friendly its all good... the glum fucks are more annoying than anything

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"lots of people just watch, even cpls...as long as u are friendly its all good... the glum fucks are more annoying than anything"

You've had a glum fuck at a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lots of people just watch, even cpls...as long as u are friendly its all good... the glum fucks are more annoying than anything

You've had a glum fuck at a club?"

shUrrrit lol x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, read the club reviews and decide which one you feel best suits you and then give it a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, read the club reviews and decide which one you feel best suits you and then give it a go."

and give me a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it. I've never been anywhere where there is pressure to play. Some even have social nights which may be if interest as a first time.

I was so nervous the first time we went anywhere, but those nerves soon disappear. I guess it will depend on the type of club you go to, but some are just like nightclubs and no one would bat an eye if you didn't play.

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By *eisenberg2Man
over a year ago

Rochester

You will get pple try convince u to play though, that miss piss u off. Otherwise, it's worth a try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We got as far as the car park once. then bottled it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got as far as the car park once. then bottled it.."

I dont understand that lol, seeing ur pics, ur brave enough for outdoor fun....but not in a club(its a much more safe comfy environment)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You will get pple try convince u to play though, that miss piss u off. Otherwise, it's worth a try. "
I think thats what puts us off

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)


"You will get pple try convince u to play though, that miss piss u off. Otherwise, it's worth a try. I think thats what puts us off"
...in a decent club, if you say no it will be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it. I've never been anywhere where there is pressure to play. Some even have social nights which may be if interest as a first time.

I was so nervous the first time we went anywhere, but those nerves soon disappear. I guess it will depend on the type of club you go to, but some are just like nightclubs and no one would bat an eye if you didn't play. "

Try the Lodge on Wednesday evenings as I think that is strictly a social and no play, check out their website or post a comment on the clubs forum and ask the question

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