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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Boss, Best Friend, Life Partner, siblings.

Over to you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cook lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Via food mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice firm open palmed spank on the bum works for me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I assure them that, come the revolution, they are welcome to join me in my bunker.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"A nice firm open palmed spank on the bum works for me. "
And I am sure your Boss appreciates your efforts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assure them that, come the revolution, they are welcome to join me in my bunker."

Pffft... Some of us have an army to lead.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Boss- I do the work without moaning lol

Lodger- I cook for

Partner I don't have one lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I will write long letters (by hand) to those friends/family that are far away.

Those closer, I invite them home and cook them a nice meal and by staying in touch, and caring about them and what is important to in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my best friends...i often send cards that ive taken time over picking to make sure the words are exactly what i need to say ...and cook them a meal when i see them

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I have yet to find anyone I appreciate

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I assure them that, come the revolution, they are welcome to join me in my bunker.

Pffft... Some of us have an army to lead. "

Don't come crying to me when the only food you have left is rat au vin.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Last week I used pickled onions.

So far this week it has been toffee, but tomorrow it will be parkin.

Like others in this thread I cook for people I want to show appreciation to.

There has been one recent variation on this theme when I took someone's car to get a tyre replaced cos getting time off would have Bernard a nightmare for them and all I had planned was wasting time between hospital appointments.

A little thought, time and personal effort go a lot further than just bunging money around - which is a good thing cos I'm time rich and money poor at the moment!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I will write long letters (by hand) to those friends/family that are far away.

Those closer, I invite them home and cook them a nice meal and by staying in touch, and caring about them and what is important to in their lives."

The letter writing is a nice way to stay in touch, I tend to do that with elderly relatives in Eire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving them my time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Tupelo , I try to be a good listener.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I am there for them when they need to talk or a hug. Or when they need to cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will write long letters (by hand) to those friends/family that are far away.

Those closer, I invite them home and cook them a nice meal and by staying in touch, and caring about them and what is important to in their lives.The letter writing is a nice way to stay in touch, I tend to do that with elderly relatives in Eire. "

I know they say you don't do favours for favours, but if someone helps me out. I'll insist on returning it. Maybe go out of my way to do it and say "its done now". Family wise intend to but their favourite item for Christmas too. Regardless of the cost.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Well Tupelo , I try to be a good listener. "
Lol....well you are observant, that's a good start.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I say thank you.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like the surprise anonymous present from ebay, posted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well Tupelo , I try to be a good listener. Lol....well you are observant, that's a good start."

Thanks Honey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I like the surprise anonymous present from ebay, posted to them "
A mischievous one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They know.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?! "
What about others APART from Obi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?! "

I am wondering now and other guys will be too. How to feel appreciated by you

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?! "

I'd say that's above and beyond spoiling him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?! What about others APART from Obi? "

I allow my mother to babysit . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?!

I am wondering now and other guys will be too. How to feel appreciated by you "

I allow (some of) them to join in a MMF, or MMMF, or . . .

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?! What about others APART from Obi?

I allow my mother to babysit . . . "

But you would be up shit creek if she didn't, try harder, no one else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This topic has made me realise no one does jack for me to appreciate them. I'm the one doing it all. I need to dig deep and my brain and find something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?! What about others APART from Obi?

I allow my mother to babysit . . . But you would be up shit creek if she didn't, try harder, no one else? "

I don't really have anyone else, except the child

I show my other babysitter I appreciate her by paying at the end of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?!

I am wondering now and other guys will be too. How to feel appreciated by you

I allow (some of) them to join in a MMF, or MMMF, or . . . "

What about M (being the guys whose being shown your appreciation) and FF or FFF to join them or even a one on one?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

A lovely forumite friend made me jam xx I loved the thought

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"A nice firm open palmed spank on the bum works for me. "

Well, what are you waiting for?? Bend over mister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?! What about others APART from Obi?

I allow my mother to babysit . . . But you would be up shit creek if she didn't, try harder, no one else?

I don't really have anyone else, except the child

I show my other babysitter I appreciate her by paying at the end of the night "

And how do you pay her, with money or with other things?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I will write long letters (by hand) to those friends/family that are far away.

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A time to remember the posting date for blueys to Afghanistan and elsewhere must be getting close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I allow Obi into my house - isn't that enough?! What about others APART from Obi?

I allow my mother to babysit . . . But you would be up shit creek if she didn't, try harder, no one else?

I don't really have anyone else, except the child

I show my other babysitter I appreciate her by paying at the end of the night

And how do you pay her, with money or with other things? "

She's just turned 16!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm at the end of the phone in times of laughter, anger and sharing information. I use my professional expertise where possible, I help with lifts... Oh and I give the occasional blow job to those male ones who are special!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at the end of the phone in times of laughter, anger and sharing information. I use my professional expertise where possible, I help with lifts... Oh and I give the occasional blow job to those male ones who are special!! "

I wish the favours I have done for females ended up in that

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I like the surprise anonymous present from ebay, posted to them A mischievous one ? "

Mostly comedy ones to be honest. Or ones that are so mind bogglingly random that they spend weeks trying to work it out. Send 100gm of sweets to a friend for no reason and they are grateful, but puzzled as hell about it all.

I am now regarded as most people I know as a menace to society, due to a creative mind and access to ebay.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

by being opened or inviting

go out together cinema, dinner, a walk

saying you really appreciation ...

fuck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cook and issue foot rubs for good behavior lol

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

*appreciate ...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I will write long letters (by hand) to those friends/family that are far away.

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A time to remember the posting date for blueys to Afghanistan and elsewhere must be getting close."

There is no time like now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why, I stick my cock in them of course.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Why, I stick my cock in them of course."
How very gentlemanly of you, so considerate, what do you do for your family?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boss, Best Friend, Life Partner, siblings.

Over to you.... "

a cuddle and a kiss and the boss gets a firm handshake and a pat on the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, I stick my cock in them of course.How very gentlemanly of you, so considerate, what do you do for your family? "

I don't think I want to hear this answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will write long letters (by hand) to those friends/family that are far away.

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A time to remember the posting date for blueys to Afghanistan and elsewhere must be getting close."

well, if we're talking service men I've shown plenty of them my appreciation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verbally although I have bought flowers for my old boss which got me a puzzled look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boss, Best Friend, Life Partner, siblings.

Over to you.... "

I do what you do!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I tend to bake something that not only tastes nice but looks lovely, and present it nicely in a pretty box with a ribbon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wish i knew how

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Boss, Best Friend, Life Partner, siblings.

Over to you....

I do what you do! "

I fucking hope you don't that's just wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boss, Best Friend, Life Partner, siblings.

Over to you....

I do what you do! I fucking hope you don't that's just wrong! "

Yeah..but I don't even know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smile and tell em ... depending who it is they might get a little gift or a card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the job that gets me the cooked dinner. I always say thankyou for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will write long letters (by hand) to those friends/family that are far away.

.

A time to remember the posting date for blueys to Afghanistan and elsewhere must be getting close.

well, if we're talking service men I've shown plenty of them my appreciation "

Sadly not mine , but now I want to do something for you. So you will give me some appreciation

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Boss, Best Friend, Life Partner, siblings.

Over to you.... "

There's a John Mayer song that has a great title/lyric 'Love ain't a thing, love is a verb'.

I believe our every action can be used to demonstrate how much we love someone - or not.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

after the sudden deah of my dad I have had some very thoughtful mails from people on here I really do appreciate it its helped me so much so thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think of small kindnesses. I remember what people like and then I'll get them a little gift with that in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to give flowers... Or draw sketch them a picture of something special to them.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"... Or draw sketch them a picture of something special to them."
Thats a really lovely thing to do.

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