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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was greatly humbled today by the amount of people that came forward offering me a reference.

It turns out that the last official referee in my existing paid employment history died last week, which was shocking and also symbolised the past in many ways, as most places I worked at failed sometime after I left.

Now I have a bunch of references... from New Jersey and California lol they are official (some of them). So, has anyone ever been in that situation? Out of a job and without a pot to piss in?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yes...I have you will get there in the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes...I have you will get there in the end "

I'm liking that my negative experiences are few lately and that can turn them into positive ones. Like I said, humbling. So many people offered to help. I even have a reference from an irish nun lol true story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of my previous employers will not give references except to confirm I was employed by them for a specified period, and the number of days off work due to sickness.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yep, been there. You'll feel such a sense of achievement when you claw your way back up though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also been there.

Tough times are character building and you learn a lot about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A number of my previous employers will not give references except to confirm I was employed by them for a specified period, and the number of days off work due to sickness.

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LOL been there too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Times certainly are trying, as for character building, I'd be next to Sears Tower by now if I got the job. hopefully very soon. Dont want a second "Welfare Christmas"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes...I have you will get there in the end

I'm liking that my negative experiences are few lately and that can turn them into positive ones. Like I said, humbling. So many people offered to help. I even have a reference from an irish nun lol true story!"

How do you even go about getting a reference from an Irish nun ??? Wasn't one of them naughty ones was it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes...I have you will get there in the end

I'm liking that my negative experiences are few lately and that can turn them into positive ones. Like I said, humbling. So many people offered to help. I even have a reference from an irish nun lol true story!

How do you even go about getting a reference from an Irish nun ??? Wasn't one of them naughty ones was it? "

LOL she is very naughty. Smokes like a trooper, drinks a lot of gin, swears like Father Jack and hates Popes. I cater for her functions and decorate her house

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A number of my previous employers will not give references except to confirm I was employed by them for a specified period, and the number of days off work due to sickness.

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You can't get sued for sticking to facts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A number of my previous employers will not give references except to confirm I was employed by them for a specified period, and the number of days off work due to sickness.

You can't get sued for sticking to facts."

Sometimes cant get far enough with them dragging you down either, unfortunately

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A number of my previous employers will not give references except to confirm I was employed by them for a specified period, and the number of days off work due to sickness.

You can't get sued for sticking to facts.

Sometimes cant get far enough with them dragging you down either, unfortunately"

That can be a bummer too.

There's a Scots saying 'facts are chiels that winna ding'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A number of my previous employers will not give references except to confirm I was employed by them for a specified period, and the number of days off work due to sickness.

You can't get sued for sticking to facts.

Sometimes cant get far enough with them dragging you down either, unfortunately

That can be a bummer too.

There's a Scots saying 'facts are chiels that winna ding'."

Lol sorry Onny, I've been ill a few days, what does that saying mean?

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