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By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

If two people are together years and the man cannot make the woman orgasm they go separate ways and she meets someone who can? If the woman goes back to the man that can't after the woman's new sexual experiences would she orgasm with the long term partner after the new man made her orgasm. anyone experience of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing specifics!

Why would she want to go back to someone who cant satisfy her?

If she couldnt orgasm with the first partner, and can with the second, then there is something the first partner is doing wrong.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

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"Without knowing specifics!

Why would she want to go back to someone who cant satisfy her?

If she couldnt orgasm with the first partner, and can with the second, then there is something the first partner is doing wrong."

Ok I, personally, disagree with this,

She might love him, it's not all about the big 'O'

and I disagree that the first partner is doing something wrong also.

Sometimes it is a mental block that prevents Orgasm, so her self discovery could help in that sense.

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Without knowing specifics!

Why would she want to go back to someone who cant satisfy her?

If she couldnt orgasm with the first partner, and can with the second, then there is something the first partner is doing wrong."

Not necessarily. My mate and his ex-wife couldn't have children, they split up and both had children with their new partners. Sometimes it's just chemistry, or a mental block.

The new guy could have been doing the same as the old guy but she was more mentally receptive. If she then went back to the old guy with the new mental attitude, she may well orgasm with him too.

I'm no doctor though...

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Without knowing specifics!

Why would she want to go back to someone who cant satisfy her?

If she couldnt orgasm with the first partner, and can with the second, then there is something the first partner is doing wrong.

Ok I, personally, disagree with this,

She might love him, it's not all about the big 'O'

and I disagree that the first partner is doing something wrong also.

Sometimes it is a mental block that prevents Orgasm, so her self discovery could help in that sense. "

Ya beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you have been with someone a long time and never had a orgasm it down to you both, the man not knowing how to satisfy the women and the woman not knowing her body well enough to show him how

If the woman found another partner that did manage to make her cum she could learn by that experience so if she did go back to the first partner she could then show/tell him what made her cum with someone else which could enable him to change his approach to her and in return make her orgasm so I think it could be possible yes

not being able to make a woman cum isn't always down to the guy, some just need a guiding hand but you need to know to body to give that

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By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

"Without knowing specifics!

Why would she want to go back to someone who cant satisfy her?

If she couldnt orgasm with the first partner, and can with the second, then there is something the first partner is doing wrong.

Ok I, personally, disagree with this,

She might love him, it's not all about the big 'O'

and I disagree that the first partner is doing something wrong also.

Sometimes it is a mental block that prevents Orgasm, so her self discovery could help in that sense.

Ya beat me to it!

Your not far out... Been seeing someone 5 weeks and she's still in love with her ex. So dumped me because her hearts wanting him but is in limbo because what we had... She's been seeing him since school and been with him on and off between her other two long term relationships. The guys a twat but he loves her and promises to change the usual story!!

She always goes back to him sex wise she has to finish herself off yet with me she orgasms in different ways very intensly and also gushes ect not something she's known in the past none of it .. She's been honest all the way and she's wanting to go with him again but not wanting to lose what we have and don't want me with anyone else? I can tell all she's saying is true and it leaves me thinking what's going to happen she loves him but also don't want to sleep with him due to how it is with us... Her heads totally fucked up we taxt lots but she won't do love triangle or open relationship.

She loves him but we had something good for 5 weeks with amazing sex. I'm thinking you see if she goes with him again would it be shit like useual learning from the experience with me..

Her most intense orgasms come through oral sex but it takes time this way some women come quicker than others this way as you all probably know I'd say it takes her 30 mins to blow her mind!!! The guys not got this skill from what I gather I'm thinking if they sleep together again and she performs like with me it will knock the guy for 6 and he will not want to lose her in bedroom we do everything this guy just shags like a rocking horse for hours totally different concept further advse please on what will happen next in your opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without knowing specifics!

Why would she want to go back to someone who cant satisfy her?

If she couldnt orgasm with the first partner, and can with the second, then there is something the first partner is doing wrong.

Ok I, personally, disagree with this,

She might love him, it's not all about the big 'O'

and I disagree that the first partner is doing something wrong also.

Sometimes it is a mental block that prevents Orgasm, so her self discovery could help in that sense. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V says she never O'd with her husband, did so with her ex, and does with me, so it may well be a mental thing with her.

unfortunately for you, 5 weeks of good sex doesnt replace many years of good feelings and 'happiness'

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By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

"V says she never O'd with her husband, did so with her ex, and does with me, so it may well be a mental thing with her.

unfortunately for you, 5 weeks of good sex doesnt replace many years of good feelings and 'happiness'"

Thank you.

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