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Are all the guys really total cocks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen so many things written on women's profiles and indeed posts on the forum about guys constantly sending the same message, bombarding women with messages and generally being douchebags. Ladies, is this a genuine big issue on here and if so, how does a decent guy manage to get noticed in amongst all the crap and guys, seriously? If you don't get a reply, you're not what she is looking for. Where has gentlemanly behavior and decent manners gone?

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

Nope. I find the vast majority to be friendly and non pushy - Dickheads are in the minority (in my experience)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked single guys as I was sick of stupid messages now I look forward people that may interest me in forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority are really nice why do you ask? Without being rude it does a little bit look like you are trying to say you are a nice guy and better than the rest although I'm sure that's not your intention.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

if you are asking of all men are cocks surely that would make you a cock, are you a cock? i think you have your answer

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't think guys are cocks. I like cocks anyway.

Some men on here struggle with the concept of the site. That is, they think its a site full of women permanently dressed in lingerie waiting with open legs for their one-liner message demanding we suck their cocks. But they tend not to last long or do well. The ones that READ PROFILES, and tailor their messages do better. It's not guaranteed to get a reply, but it's more likely to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough one. The vast majority of guys that message us haven't read our profile and don't match what we're looking for. Shame really as it makes it hard work for decent guys to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just me I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you are asking of all men are cocks surely that would make you a cock, are you a cock? i think you have your answer "

Are you a cock OP?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It's just me I believe. "

Are you the guy that gives all other guys a bad name? If so, shame on you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy to remember everyone you message or talk to. If I say no thanks and keep getting message I will block. Men I talk to and have met have been lovely. Women are whinging bitches if you ask me. Always moaning about something or other a single man has said or done. If I was a man with my sex drive I'd be doing the same

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

We met a single guy from here in a social and we message quite a lot, he is a really nice guy but just cant get a meet, we have had our fair share of muppets but the majority of singles we have spoken to are ok

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think the douchebags make the decent guys stand out a mile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just me I believe. "

Prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they most certainly are not all cocks.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I prefer men to have cocks but not think or write with them.

As an aside, why is douche bag used as an insult? Shower and bath aren't insults are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess the trouble is, how many ways are there of saying "hello"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were reading all these profiles in-depth like you seem to be suggesting, I'm sure you'd probably of gathered that having a pic of your cock as a profile pic isn't particularly going to do you any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm NOT a total cock! I have my little protruding tum tum n a pair of chubby thighs n legs,little size 7 feet , arms, hands etc etc

I guess I'm just cuddly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer men to have cocks but not think or write with them.

As an aside, why is douche bag used as an insult? Shower and bath aren't insults are they?

"

What is a douche bag anyway?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If you were reading all these profiles in-depth like you seem to be suggesting, I'm sure you'd probably of gathered that having a pic of your cock as a profile pic isn't particularly going to do you any favours "

i like cock pics

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I prefer men to have cocks but not think or write with them.

As an aside, why is douche bag used as an insult? Shower and bath aren't insults are they?

"

i think the answer relates to something that could get the thread closed

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I prefer men to have cocks but not think or write with them.

As an aside, why is douche bag used as an insult? Shower and bath aren't insults are they?

What is a douche bag anyway?"

Not something I would use - I believe the vagina is like a self-cleaning oven. Maintenance and no harsh substances.

It's for squirting liquids into sensitivity cavities to 'wash' them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we really aren't all Cocks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority are really nice why do you ask? Without being rude it does a little bit look like you are trying to say you are a nice guy and better than the rest although I'm sure that's not your intention. "

Yes, this does seem about as subtle as a kick in the ......... - but there's one born everyday, I guess!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess the trouble is, how many ways are there of saying "hello"..."

Well the sooner people realise that, fancy a fuck isn't one of them, the better...

I think the ones that get called cocks or worse are the ones that get nasty or spiteful when they don't get the lady, there have been quite a few threads where after being knocked back they have sent nasty messages. Be nice, introduce yourself, say what you like about them and be prepared to be ignored or rejected... you'll get replies just not off of everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard being a penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some really nice guys on here and some total twats but same goes for couples and women, some great some not so great, luckily I've been fortunate enough to know some of the really great ones and I'm thick skinned enough not to get upset by the few that can't accept a polite no thanks and get abusive because of it, takes all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer men to have cocks but not think or write with them.

As an aside, why is douche bag used as an insult? Shower and bath aren't insults are they?

What is a douche bag anyway?

Not something I would use - I believe the vagina is like a self-cleaning oven. Maintenance and no harsh substances.

It's for squirting liquids into sensitivity cavities to 'wash' them."

ah, not something I would use either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you find a cock is someone's ideal playmate.

Just putting it out there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I find the vast majority to be friendly and non pushy - Dickheads are in the minority (in my experience) "
same here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The majority are really nice why do you ask? Without being rude it does a little bit look like you are trying to say you are a nice guy and better than the rest although I'm sure that's not your intention. "

Sorry, yeah it's not the most subtle thing I've ever written, it's just a general impression I seem to get and both wondered if it could really be as bad as it sometimes appears and what exactly is causing the annoyance. Happily it seems that my impression was almost totally wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard being a penis"

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh


"Tough one. The vast majority of guys that message us haven't read our profile and don't match what we're looking for. Shame really as it makes it hard work for decent guys to stand out. "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my short experience on fab, I have found all the messages I have received to be complimentary, most are of course about meeting for sex, which is the purpose of the site,

Some are about topics in the forum, from people who will never want sex with me, all in all a great experience.

Just remember men think with their balls rather than their head, so if a man has full balls, he will have an empty head, so don't expect too much

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By *olyGentMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"The majority are really nice why do you ask? Without being rude it does a little bit look like you are trying to say you are a nice guy and better than the rest although I'm sure that's not your intention.

Sorry, yeah it's not the most subtle thing I've ever written, it's just a general impression I seem to get and both wondered if it could really be as bad as it sometimes appears and what exactly is causing the annoyance. Happily it seems that my impression was almost totally wrong."

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I don't think guys are cocks. I like cocks anyway.

Some men on here struggle with the concept of the site. That is, they think its a site full of women permanently dressed in lingerie waiting with open legs for their one-liner message demanding we suck their cocks. But they tend not to last long or do well. The ones that READ PROFILES, and tailor their messages do better. It's not guaranteed to get a reply, but it's more likely to."

My feelings too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of men that send messages to me are decent and polite,they far outweigh the ones that really don't have a clue

Its just that people much prefer to have a good old whinge about guys than commend the ones that get it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of men that send messages to me are decent and polite,they far outweigh the ones that really don't have a clue

Its just that people much prefer to have a good old whinge about guys than commend the ones that get it right"

I agree with what they say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just me I believe. "

Boooooo, boo this man

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"The majority of men that send messages to me are decent and polite,they far outweigh the ones that really don't have a clue

Its just that people much prefer to have a good old whinge about guys than commend the ones that get it right

I agree with what they say! "

I always agree with you

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

the good ones and the ones who "get it" will always find a way to stand out... the probably dont just rely on the site as such, and use it as part of a bigger "swinging jigsaw" so to speak......

it is an old adage... but you do get out what you put in....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"The majority of men that send messages to me are decent and polite,they far outweigh the ones that really don't have a clue

Its just that people much prefer to have a good old whinge about guys than commend the ones that get it right

I agree with what they say! "

Me too

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Are all the guys really total cocks?"

No

The people who complain about single men could always use their filters and look for themselves instead.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"the good ones and the ones who "get it" will always find a way to stand out... the probably dont just rely on the site as such, and use it as part of a bigger "swinging jigsaw" so to speak......

it is an old adage... but you do get out what you put in.... "

I like to put mine in and then out,,

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


""Are all the guys really total cocks?"

No

The people who complain about single men could always use their filters and look for themselves instead.

"

But then what would they have to moan about!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Bingo !

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some are and they are unlikely to change behaviour over a few ranty words on a forum.... that is, if they even read the forums.

filters, blocking, reporting are all the best defence.

that is if the rant is truly aimed at changing behaviours of the masses rather than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"some are and they are unlikely to change behaviour over a few ranty words on a forum.... that is, if they even read the forums.

filters, blocking, reporting are all the best defence.

that is if the rant is truly aimed at changing behaviours of the masses rather than anything else.

"

I worded this very poorly, it was intended less of a rant and more of a question. I'm quite new to this site and have heard a bit of negativity towards single guys, that's understandable on a swingers site, particularly if they are pushy. I just wanted to get peoples thoughts on single guys on here in general and I'm very happy to hear that, like with most bad things in any society or group, it's a tiny minority who just get a disproportionate amount of publicity, which I realise this topic is just adding to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

It's for squirting liquids into sensitivity cavities to 'wash' them."

Like a cheapo Kärcher then?

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