FabSwingers.com forum: no shows!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????"

For some yes. sorry it happend to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse of all are the ones that message you as you are virtually on their door step to say they cant make it cos they are ill or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worse of all are the ones that message you as you are virtually on their door step to say they cant make it cos they are ill or something"

Ring the doorbell with your cock out and give their unexpectedly home early spouse a fun surprise :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????"

Sorry to hear its happend to you. A simple text or phone call is all that's required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to be the worst feeling in the world.......easy to lash out with a vicious text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????"

Some people are really scary and I can understand people not being brave enough to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????"
Some people live in a fantasy world, maybe thats why they are not honest and not say they are not going to turn up? Luckily I have never had that problem, but I can understand the frustration.

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

"Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????"

They get their jollies from messing folk around...just a shame they can't be perminantly banned off here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have over sixty no shows in less than a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????Some people live in a fantasy world, maybe thats why they are not honest and not say they are not going to turn up? Luckily I have never had that problem, but I can understand the frustration."

I'm not surprised you haven't had people cancel on you! Stunning pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

dont understand???

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I have over sixty no shows in less than a year"

i've had hardly any in 4 years - maybe you had my share, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is ok Evie I have just taken the view that they won't turn up and it is a surprise when they do

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I have over sixty no shows in less than a year"

checks and balances.....

I don't meet people who haven't passed all my checks... be that talking to them, and on the phone, getting a contact number, texting before they/i leave, ect ect....

if something doesn't quite feel right, I don't meet until it does.. so i keep going thru the checks and balances...

sometime some people (not saying you personally) in the headlong rush to get meets will sacrifice checks for a leg over......

i know its going to sound harsh.... but if you have had 60 no shows in a year.. that says to me you need to change the way you go about your process....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????"

Did you chat on the phone or text when arranging the meet.

If you have a number, suggest you ring or text them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

met him before and text regularly even up to the time he should have been here but now nothing although he has managed to come on line!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am very thorough with my check list like you Fabio and whilst there are never guarantee's, it is worth it in the end and sometimes you have to take risks in life.I have had some brilliant spontaneous meets.

But if the biggest one being instinct says no, then it won't happen.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Is it really so difficult to be honest and say you are not going to turn up?????"

It shouldn t be,,

shows a lack of respect,

delete block,,,

have fun looking and finding someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"met him before and text regularly even up to the time he should have been here but now nothing although he has managed to come on line!!!"

Very very rude and ignorant. Send him a message on Fab, then block him.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"met him before and text regularly even up to the time he should have been here but now nothing although he has managed to come on line!!!"

As this is about a specific member rather than a general question Im closing this sorry

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