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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tin hat on, here goes.

Am I alone in thinking that dressing up as slutty school girls a la St Trinians is slightly wrong. I'm aware that some girls go to school till they are 18 but to be turned on by someone like a school girl bothers me.

Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally hate this look. I find it all a bit creepy. The Britney Spears video made me want to heave.

I bet the Jimmy Savilles and Gary Glitters of the world went through a fuck load of Kleenex watching this sort of stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the OP. Sexualising anything associated with children is, in my opinion, wrong. I just do not get how a grown woman dressing as a child can be seen as erotic or sexually pleasing.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Nothing inherently wrong with it. You were that age once. And fancied girls your age who dressed like that correct? Well, fantasies can stay with you for a long time.

If my school crush dressed up in a schoolgirl outfit now, i'd be weak at the knees. Doesn't mean i find CURRENT schoolgirls sexually attractive in any way, shape or form.

It is purely fantasy informed by your "formative" years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of bollocks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a load of bollocks..."

Which bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing inherently wrong with it. You were that age once. And fancied girls your age who dressed like that correct? Well, fantasies can stay with you for a long time.

If my school crush dressed up in a schoolgirl outfit now, i'd be weak at the knees. Doesn't mean i find CURRENT schoolgirls sexually attractive in any way, shape or form.

It is purely fantasy informed by your "formative" years."

But would you not fancy her equally not dressed as a school girl.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Nothing inherently wrong with it. You were that age once. And fancied girls your age who dressed like that correct? Well, fantasies can stay with you for a long time.

If my school crush dressed up in a schoolgirl outfit now, i'd be weak at the knees. Doesn't mean i find CURRENT schoolgirls sexually attractive in any way, shape or form.

It is purely fantasy informed by your "formative" years.

But would you not fancy her equally not dressed as a school girl."

I'd fancy her dressed as a sexy nun. That doesn't invalidate my point. Both cases are fantasy. It is purely that, and one of many different scenarious.

I could maje the argument that sexualising something religious is also wrong. Plus some girls enter concents at a young age, etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Implying that Adults who choose to dress up as a schoolgirl are pedos in a way.

As for the Britney Spears comments... get a life...

Take it for what it is... dressing up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man in a school uniform would never turn me on. Our uniforms were never short, tiny skirts and unbuttoned blouses. I think it's the playing the innocent child with the man as the authority that attracts men to the look. It makes the woman seem vulnerable and powerless. The opposite to the Domme garments it's an outward display of the inner feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dressed up as a werewolf a few days back , doesn't mean I bark at the moon

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

What a crock Of shit

Millions of people world wide dress up and role play and fantasy play

Doesn't mean for 1 minute they are fantasising about anything illegal

It's purley a visual turn on for some people

Perhaps we should be more worried about real life perverts and weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record, I would dress up like it if I looked good and someone special asked me. I wouldn't think he was a paedo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tin hat on, here goes.

Am I alone in thinking that dressing up as slutty school girls a la St Trinians is slightly wrong. I'm aware that some girls go to school till they are 18 but to be turned on by someone like a school girl bothers me.

Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it. "

No, I know where you are coming from, I personally have mixed feeling about the whole dressing up as a school girl ...Tin helmets on

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar


"Implying that Adults who choose to dress up as a schoolgirl are pedos in a way.

As for the Britney Spears comments... get a life...

Take it for what it is... dressing up..."

Totally agree

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By *ucyhenry69Couple
over a year ago

Hampton


"Tin hat on, here goes.

Am I alone in thinking that dressing up as slutty school girls a la St Trinians is slightly wrong. I'm aware that some girls go to school till they are 18 but to be turned on by someone like a school girl bothers me.

Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a little roll play fun nothing wrong with that. Recently attended a party dressed as such but as a 50 year old I cant imagine anyone having enough imagination to see me as a teenager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing inherently wrong with it. You were that age once. And fancied girls your age who dressed like that correct? Well, fantasies can stay with you for a long time.

If my school crush dressed up in a schoolgirl outfit now, i'd be weak at the knees. Doesn't mean i find CURRENT schoolgirls sexually attractive in any way, shape or form.

It is purely fantasy informed by your "formative" years.

But would you not fancy her equally not dressed as a school girl.

I'd fancy her dressed as a sexy nun. That doesn't invalidate my point. Both cases are fantasy. It is purely that, and one of many different scenarious.

I could maje the argument that sexualising something religious is also wrong. Plus some girls enter concents at a young age, etc"

Such common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Implying that Adults who choose to dress up as a schoolgirl are pedos in a way.

As for the Britney Spears comments... get a life...

Take it for what it is... dressing up...

Totally agree "

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tin hat on, here goes.

Am I alone in thinking that dressing up as slutty school girls a la St Trinians is slightly wrong. I'm aware that some girls go to school till they are 18 but to be turned on by someone like a school girl bothers me.

Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it. "

the last time I made a comment on the school girls thread I got hate mail off a guy for about a week after so on that note im out

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

So playing Devil's Advocate, how does OP like his partners? Shaved or smooth?

Got to be honest, that's always been a little niggle in the back of my mind too.

"It's purely for hygiene purposes..." Okaaaay.

(Puts tin hat on and crouches down beside OP to await the ensuing storm)

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar


"Implying that Adults who choose to dress up as a schoolgirl are pedos in a way.

As for the Britney Spears comments... get a life...

Take it for what it is... dressing up...

Totally agree

Thank you."

Andy would love to see me dressed as a school girl but he doesnt look at school girls that way, only me.

He hates peados with a passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see anything wrong with it myself.

But then I'm perfectly able to differentiate between an adult dressed as a schoolgirl for fun - and a schoolgirl dressed as a schoolgirl because she is one!

I'm far more bothered by schoolgirls dressing as adults tbh - but then I blame the parents for allowing young teenagers to dress as if they were over 18.

Adults understand the concept of dressing to tease and the effect it can have. Children don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't see anything wrong with it myself.

But then I'm perfectly able to differentiate between an adult dressed as a schoolgirl for fun - and a schoolgirl dressed as a schoolgirl because she is one!

I'm far more bothered by schoolgirls dressing as adults tbh - but then I blame the parents for allowing young teenagers to dress as if they were over 18.

Adults understand the concept of dressing to tease and the effect it can have. Children don't! "
you make some very good points in your post Obi x

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"So playing Devil's Advocate, how does OP like his partners? Shaved or smooth?

Got to be honest, that's always been a little niggle in the back of my mind too.

"It's purely for hygiene purposes..." Okaaaay.

(Puts tin hat on and crouches down beside OP to await the ensuing storm)"

Sounds like flamebait to me......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's the person your thinking off who's dressing up no one else ,it's fun nothing else and again the question of smooth or not? Personal preference with how it looks , feel and hygiene comes into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So playing Devil's Advocate, how does OP like his partners? Shaved or smooth?

Got to be honest, that's always been a little niggle in the back of my mind too.

"It's purely for hygiene purposes..." Okaaaay.

(Puts tin hat on and crouches down beside OP to await the ensuing storm)

Sounds like flamebait to me......"

+1 this will go the way of the pear ....I'm out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So playing Devil's Advocate, how does OP like his partners? Shaved or smooth?

Got to be honest, that's always been a little niggle in the back of my mind too.

"It's purely for hygiene purposes..." Okaaaay.

(Puts tin hat on and crouches down beside OP to await the ensuing storm)"

To be honest I prefer a hairy pussy, see thread started yesterday.

I am not in anyway saying people are peados for liking it, it just troubles me. Some people are totally disgusted by my body hair, what makes people tick, is what makes them tick.

It is obviously an emotive subject though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing inherently wrong with it. You were that age once. And fancied girls your age who dressed like that correct? Well, fantasies can stay with you for a long time.

If my school crush dressed up in a schoolgirl outfit now, i'd be weak at the knees. Doesn't mean i find CURRENT schoolgirls sexually attractive in any way, shape or form.

It is purely fantasy informed by your "formative" years."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't see anything wrong with it myself.

But then I'm perfectly able to differentiate between an adult dressed as a schoolgirl for fun - and a schoolgirl dressed as a schoolgirl because she is one!

I'm far more bothered by schoolgirls dressing as adults tbh - but then I blame the parents for allowing young teenagers to dress as if they were over 18.

Adults understand the concept of dressing to tease and the effect it can have. Children don't! "

I concur with the children dressing as adults bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as 50 year old geezer whose regularly asked to dressed up in that style by the people I meet, I've yet to come across anyone who's given me concerns regards their motives for requesting I wear that particular type of outfit for them,,,

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Isn't it more about men remembering their hormones raging when they were teenagers that they want to re create that as they probably didn't get any at the time?

Or am I over thinking it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally hate this look. I find it all a bit creepy. The Britney Spears video made me want to heave.

I bet the Jimmy Savilles and Gary Glitters of the world went through a fuck load of Kleenex watching this sort of stuff"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally hate this look. I find it all a bit creepy. The Britney Spears video made me want to heave.

"

yeah she has that effect on me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally hate this look. I find it all a bit creepy. The Britney Spears video made me want to heave.

yeah she has that effect on me too "

Thanks for an inject of humour.

I think I will call quits with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it. "

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the st trinians look, and I'm old enough and happy with my sexuality with its turn ons and offs to be able to differentiate between a hot chick in said outfit as opposed to getting my rocks off on a 'real' school girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it changes when some guys are dads , "protection" mode kicks in ,especially when having a daughter.

Not with all guys but some .

My old dad would have been mortified because he was very protective of his daughters.

As for fantasy dressing in a school girl uniform......well my school uniform was so far from sexy that no one would have fantasised about it,..

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

It is not a look that I find sexy or I would personally dress up in. But then that could be said for a few outfits....

I have photos of me dressed as a nun and some people took offense and found that weird. I hate the saying but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tin hat on, here goes.

Am I alone in thinking that dressing up as slutty school girls a la St Trinians is slightly wrong. I'm aware that some girls go to school till they are 18 but to be turned on by someone like a school girl bothers me.

Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it. "

V feels the same way, tbh.

doesnt get why men seem to be attracted to the school girl look.

i feel a bit uncomfortable when a young looking woman dresses that way as it looks a little too accurate, but for older women i dont mind.

look past the clothing usually anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

"

erm, because jessica rabbit was a grown up, so the look is about someone 'legal'

dressing up as a schoolgirl is, i suppose, about playing to a child fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly not my cup of tea, for all thought saying it's just roll play, what roll is the man playing in this roll play? Is he playing a school boy getting his first fumble with a girl? I think not most of the time he is playing an adult generally an adult of responsibility,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people I worry about with dressing up as a school girl is the ones that see something sinister in it..

It's adults.. not kids. I have 4 school uniforms and one is an adapted proper one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

erm, because jessica rabbit was a grown up, so the look is about someone 'legal'

dressing up as a schoolgirl is, i suppose, about playing to a child fantasy"

"she" was also a rabbit - would it mean you fancy four legged, big eared fur balls if you thought Jessica was a little sexy?

As said before - the issue lies with what's in your mind, not elsewhere.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby


"Don't see anything wrong with it myself.

But then I'm perfectly able to differentiate between an adult dressed as a schoolgirl for fun - and a schoolgirl dressed as a schoolgirl because she is one!

I'm far more bothered by schoolgirls dressing as adults tbh - but then I blame the parents for allowing young teenagers to dress as if they were over 18.

Adults understand the concept of dressing to tease and the effect it can have. Children don't! "
Well said.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Can anyone imagine a St Trinian's movie (schoolgirls, stockings, innuendo etc)being made in the current climate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh re o p as his daughter is 13 trust me fella way teens etc dress today you are in for shock as she gets older when u see em ready to go out its a case of telling em to cover up the school uniform thing does not mean for one min anyone is a pedo what about the females who like to dress up in the uniform.

I wish you well mate as you have years of teenage angst to cope with thank god mine are grown up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

erm, because jessica rabbit was a grown up, so the look is about someone 'legal'

dressing up as a schoolgirl is, i suppose, about playing to a child fantasy

"she" was also a rabbit - would it mean you fancy four legged, big eared fur balls if you thought Jessica was a little sexy?

As said before - the issue lies with what's in your mind, not elsewhere.

"

Sorry to turn your beastophilia bendings, But Jessica was a cartoon woman married to a cartoon rabbit.

I find it a little weird that you are so vociferous in in your attack on those who find dressing as a child normal. But now then now then, each to their own.

I am stepping out of this thread as its one of those ones there people have their thoughts and debate won't change that, and it generally ends up as bun fight when that's the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

erm, because jessica rabbit was a grown up, so the look is about someone 'legal'

dressing up as a schoolgirl is, i suppose, about playing to a child fantasy

"she" was also a rabbit - would it mean you fancy four legged, big eared fur balls if you thought Jessica was a little sexy?

As said before - the issue lies with what's in your mind, not elsewhere.

Sorry to turn your beastophilia bendings, But Jessica was a cartoon woman married to a cartoon rabbit.

I find it a little weird that you are so vociferous in in your attack on those who find dressing as a child normal. But now then now then, each to their own.

I am stepping out of this thread as its one of those ones there people have their thoughts and debate won't change that, and it generally ends up as bun fight when that's the case."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not our thing but its not illegal I guess. I would wonder more why a guy wants to have sex with a woman who is dressed as a school girl though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone imagine a St Trinian's movie (schoolgirls, stockings, innuendo etc)being made in the current climate?

"

You mean like the two remakes done in 2007 and 2009?

Erm......yep! But can we please not have Russell Brand in the next one!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

This thread has me a little confused - easy done, however.

I was approached a little while ago about a daddy, little girl role play from a woman - is it wrong - not to me - I'm able to distinguish between reality and role play - if there are those on here who can't - I think I'm on the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

erm, because jessica rabbit was a grown up, so the look is about someone 'legal'

dressing up as a schoolgirl is, i suppose, about playing to a child fantasy

"she" was also a rabbit - would it mean you fancy four legged, big eared fur balls if you thought Jessica was a little sexy?

As said before - the issue lies with what's in your mind, not elsewhere.

Sorry to turn your beastophilia bendings, But Jessica was a cartoon woman married to a cartoon rabbit.

I find it a little weird that you are so vociferous in in your attack on those who find dressing as a child normal. But now then now then, each to their own.

I am stepping out of this thread as its one of those ones there people have their thoughts and debate won't change that, and it generally ends up as bun fight when that's the case."

or perhaps you're stepping out of it to avoid having to answer that what you're actually seeking to imply is that if I find an adult woman dressed in a school uniform I'm actually a child abuser in denial?

I hadn't 'attacked' those defending women's right to dress how they wish. I had pointed out the stupidity of the suggestion that adults are not able to separate the behaviours of adults from the sexual depravity of some.

Like most prejudices it says more of the accusers state of mind than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings."

So what is the desire to have sex with someone dressed as a school girl? Fantasy you say so what sort of fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings."

It's funny how emotive issues polarise opinion.

I did actually finish the start of the thread with, perhaps I'm reading too much into this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anybody on here actually remember what your school uniforms looked like,

There's no way I'd ask my wife to wear that, I'd never get it up

however, I'm sure it would be fucking funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tin hat on, here goes.

Am I alone in thinking that dressing up as slutty school girls a la St Trinians is slightly wrong. I'm aware that some girls go to school till they are 18 but to be turned on by someone like a school girl bothers me.

Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it. "

Im with you... Id never do it nor do the schoolgirl roleplay thing ... Each to their own though but i do know where your coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simply an authority type fantasy nothing else or sinister involved. Same as doctor with the sexy nurse. Boss with the secretary. All harmless between consenting adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

erm, because jessica rabbit was a grown up, so the look is about someone 'legal'

dressing up as a schoolgirl is, i suppose, about playing to a child fantasy

"she" was also a rabbit - would it mean you fancy four legged, big eared fur balls if you thought Jessica was a little sexy?

As said before - the issue lies with what's in your mind, not elsewhere.

Sorry to turn your beastophilia bendings, But Jessica was a cartoon woman married to a cartoon rabbit.

I find it a little weird that you are so vociferous in in your attack on those who find dressing as a child normal. But now then now then, each to their own.

I am stepping out of this thread as its one of those ones there people have their thoughts and debate won't change that, and it generally ends up as bun fight when that's the case.

or perhaps you're stepping out of it to avoid having to answer that what you're actually seeking to imply is that if I find an adult woman dressed in a school uniform I'm actually a child abuser in denial?

I hadn't 'attacked' those defending women's right to dress how they wish. I had pointed out the stupidity of the suggestion that adults are not able to separate the behaviours of adults from the sexual depravity of some.

Like most prejudices it says more of the accusers state of mind than anything else.

"

you pointed out a simili between someone dressing as a child, and someone dressing as a cartoon 'woman' that was married to a rabbit.

your simil didnt work, so your argument is flawed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings.

So what is the desire to have sex with someone dressed as a school girl? Fantasy you say so what sort of fantasy? "

You will be very lucky to get an answer to that never mind a honest one.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If you are going to join in the debate please stop being personal.

Discuss the post not attack the poster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simply an authority type fantasy nothing else or sinister involved. Same as doctor with the sexy nurse. Boss with the secretary. All harmless between consenting adults. "

Well that took some though although unless the guy is dressed as a headmaster or such its complete bollocks.

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By *HELONDONCOUPLECouple
over a year ago

london

mrs London dressed at a private party we went to a few years ago, and until now reading this I have never thought about it like the op has put it, so no it must be how the minds work as it never even came into mine.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Don't see anything wrong with it myself.

But then I'm perfectly able to differentiate between an adult dressed as a schoolgirl for fun - and a schoolgirl dressed as a schoolgirl because she is one!

I'm far more bothered by schoolgirls dressing as adults tbh - but then I blame the parents for allowing young teenagers to dress as if they were over 18.

Adults understand the concept of dressing to tease and the effect it can have. Children don't! you make some very good points in your post Obi x"

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Never really thought about the schoolgirl thing before, but the 'fully shaved' thing certainly makes me feel uneasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you pointed out a simili between someone dressing as a child, and someone dressing as a cartoon 'woman' that was married to a rabbit.

your simil didnt work, so your argument is flawed"

I think either poorly explained or poorly understood but not flawed.

The suggestion is that adults that fancy adults dressed in school uniforms are harbouring inappropriate thoughts towards children.

My analogy was to illustrate that fancying a cartoon rabbit would not imply beastiality. Or cartoonafillia for that matter.It wasn't to do with age - but it is of interest that it is age that people have become fixated upon, not simply that an adult wearing any choice of clothing is still an adult. Likewise a child wearing adult clothing is still a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simply an authority type fantasy nothing else or sinister involved. Same as doctor with the sexy nurse. Boss with the secretary. All harmless between consenting adults.

Well that took some though although unless the guy is dressed as a headmaster or such its complete bollocks. "

V wanted to try that, but i felt a little uneasy about it.

the teacher putting the school girl in detention and using her for his pleasure.

just seemed a little wrong

and i dont have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought, I'm wondering how many girls school uniforms consist of a very short skirt, stockings, high heels and tight tops ?

So this arguement could be flawed ? It's not the fantasy of sleeping with someone who dresses as a school girl as they don't actually wear that attire , so could it simply be a case of that that particular outfit being a turn on for the person whos switch gets flicked by said outfit?

For me I don't mind if the girl is 20 or 50 as long as she looks hot in it, and in all honesty as I prefer the older lady I never see a problem with this debate as in my mind its the polar opposite to the op's concerns.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Personally I found jessica rabbit very sexy...... Is that wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really thought about the schoolgirl thing before, but the 'fully shaved' thing certainly makes me feel uneasy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings.

So what is the desire to have sex with someone dressed as a school girl? Fantasy you say so what sort of fantasy?

You will be very lucky to get an answer to that never mind a honest one."

Really? Well how's about the fantasy to fuck a sexy woman dressed in a short skirt and a tight blouse?

The other night I dressed as a pumpkin. My OH sucked my cock for some pumpkin juice. Didn't make her vegetarian.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

fantasy and reality are two different things

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

people dressing up at a club on a themed night or in private, consensual etc is down to them and not a problem..

rolling about on a sheepskin rug dooes'nt necessarily mean someone fancies a live sheep after all..

the sexualisation of young girls wearing 'playboy' type logo's etc is more disconcerting tbh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simply an authority type fantasy nothing else or sinister involved. Same as doctor with the sexy nurse. Boss with the secretary. All harmless between consenting adults.

Well that took some though although unless the guy is dressed as a headmaster or such its complete bollocks.

V wanted to try that, but i felt a little uneasy about it.

the teacher putting the school girl in detention and using her for his pleasure.

just seemed a little wrong

and i dont have kids"

There are plenty of other outfits to dress up as I get it if everyone is dressed the same for a party or an event but for bedroom play its a non starter for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the sexualisation of young girls wearing 'playboy' type logo's etc is more disconcerting tbh.. "

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did actually mean the headmaster schoolgirl roleplay,my mistake if any confusion. It happens a lot in the CP or spanking scene and certainly with no perverts involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simply an authority type fantasy nothing else or sinister involved. Same as doctor with the sexy nurse. Boss with the secretary. All harmless between consenting adults.

Well that took some though although unless the guy is dressed as a headmaster or such its complete bollocks.

V wanted to try that, but i felt a little uneasy about it.

the teacher putting the school girl in detention and using her for his pleasure.

just seemed a little wrong

and i dont have kids

There are plenty of other outfits to dress up as I get it if everyone is dressed the same for a party or an event but for bedroom play its a non starter for us. "

thats the thing.

she wasnt even dressed in a school uniform, just short skirt, tight blouse and knee socks

i just felt it wrong to play that kind of game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings.

So what is the desire to have sex with someone dressed as a school girl? Fantasy you say so what sort of fantasy?

You will be very lucky to get an answer to that never mind a honest one.

Really? Well how's about the fantasy to fuck a sexy woman dressed in a short skirt and a tight blouse?

The other night I dressed as a pumpkin. My OH sucked my cock for some pumpkin juice. Didn't make her vegetarian."

Well you have hardly answered the question just been aggressive with others. And a sexy woman dressed in a tight blouse and short skirt is not the same as dressed as a school girl the implications are not the same. By no means is this illegal but enlighten me what do you get out of having sex with a woman in a schoolgirl outfit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings.

So what is the desire to have sex with someone dressed as a school girl? Fantasy you say so what sort of fantasy?

You will be very lucky to get an answer to that never mind a honest one.

Really? Well how's about the fantasy to fuck a sexy woman dressed in a short skirt and a tight blouse?

The other night I dressed as a pumpkin. My OH sucked my cock for some pumpkin juice. Didn't make her vegetarian.

Well you have hardly answered the question just been aggressive with others. And a sexy woman dressed in a tight blouse and short skirt is not the same as dressed as a school girl the implications are not the same. By no means is this illegal but enlighten me what do you get out of having sex with a woman in a schoolgirl outfit?"

orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did actually mean the headmaster schoolgirl roleplay,my mistake if any confusion. It happens a lot in the CP or spanking scene and certainly with no perverts involved."

Buy in the majority of situations there is no guy dressed as a headmaster round a woman dressed in a schoolgirl outfit its a non starter 99% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings.

So what is the desire to have sex with someone dressed as a school girl? Fantasy you say so what sort of fantasy?

You will be very lucky to get an answer to that never mind a honest one.

Really? Well how's about the fantasy to fuck a sexy woman dressed in a short skirt and a tight blouse?

The other night I dressed as a pumpkin. My OH sucked my cock for some pumpkin juice. Didn't make her vegetarian.

Well you have hardly answered the question just been aggressive with others. And a sexy woman dressed in a tight blouse and short skirt is not the same as dressed as a school girl the implications are not the same. By no means is this illegal but enlighten me what do you get out of having sex with a woman in a schoolgirl outfit?

orgasms"
Under what pretense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings.

So what is the desire to have sex with someone dressed as a school girl? Fantasy you say so what sort of fantasy?

You will be very lucky to get an answer to that never mind a honest one.

Really? Well how's about the fantasy to fuck a sexy woman dressed in a short skirt and a tight blouse?

The other night I dressed as a pumpkin. My OH sucked my cock for some pumpkin juice. Didn't make her vegetarian.

Well you have hardly answered the question just been aggressive with others. And a sexy woman dressed in a tight blouse and short skirt is not the same as dressed as a school girl the implications are not the same. By no means is this illegal but enlighten me what do you get out of having sex with a woman in a schoolgirl outfit?

orgasms Under what pretense?

"

They're real - I never need to fake em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real schoolgirls don't dress up for roleplay the same way adults do,there is no connection. Dare I say it's the OP that perhaps has some issues here ?

What 2 consenting adults do is their business only and fuck all to do with anybody else.

Some people really need to educate themselves about the difference between fantasy and reality,the 2 things are worlds apart for normal sane human beings.

So what is the desire to have sex with someone dressed as a school girl? Fantasy you say so what sort of fantasy?

You will be very lucky to get an answer to that never mind a honest one.

Really? Well how's about the fantasy to fuck a sexy woman dressed in a short skirt and a tight blouse?

The other night I dressed as a pumpkin. My OH sucked my cock for some pumpkin juice. Didn't make her vegetarian.

Well you have hardly answered the question just been aggressive with others. And a sexy woman dressed in a tight blouse and short skirt is not the same as dressed as a school girl the implications are not the same. By no means is this illegal but enlighten me what do you get out of having sex with a woman in a schoolgirl outfit?

orgasms Under what pretense?

They're real - I never need to fake em"

I said pretense not pretend but you are obviously not going to answer why you like the school girl thing and will be obtuse or aggressive so I will formulate my own opinions on you on this subject and leave ti at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is at best hilarious and at worst worrying .

As one poster suggested - perhaps we are on the wrong site !

We have regularly attended parties such as St Trinians and never once questioned ours or anyone elses motives . Nor will we .... this is something we enjoy as adults and some of the suggestions on the thread are childish and ridiculous .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

erm, because jessica rabbit was a grown up, so the look is about someone 'legal'

dressing up as a schoolgirl is, i suppose, about playing to a child fantasy

"she" was also a rabbit - would it mean you fancy four legged, big eared fur balls if you thought Jessica was a little sexy?

As said before - the issue lies with what's in your mind, not elsewhere.

Sorry to turn your beastophilia bendings, But Jessica was a cartoon woman married to a cartoon rabbit.

I find it a little weird that you are so vociferous in in your attack on those who find dressing as a child normal. But now then now then, each to their own.

I am stepping out of this thread as its one of those ones there people have their thoughts and debate won't change that, and it generally ends up as bun fight when that's the case.

or perhaps you're stepping out of it to avoid having to answer that what you're actually seeking to imply is that if I find an adult woman dressed in a school uniform I'm actually a child abuser in denial?

I hadn't 'attacked' those defending women's right to dress how they wish. I had pointed out the stupidity of the suggestion that adults are not able to separate the behaviours of adults from the sexual depravity of some.

Like most prejudices it says more of the accusers state of mind than anything else.

"

I would never imply something like that on a public forum.

Just out of interest, can you not see the irony that you are pointing the Saville finger at others for not liking women dressed as children? Dont you find that just an itsy bitsy bit odd?

Each to there own. I hate it, you like it. Different stokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it.

No perhaps about it - definitely!

If you view adults dressing up as offensive the issue lies with you, not them.

Why not pose a similar question about Jessica Rabbit?..

erm, because jessica rabbit was a grown up, so the look is about someone 'legal'

dressing up as a schoolgirl is, i suppose, about playing to a child fantasy

"she" was also a rabbit - would it mean you fancy four legged, big eared fur balls if you thought Jessica was a little sexy?

As said before - the issue lies with what's in your mind, not elsewhere.

Sorry to turn your beastophilia bendings, But Jessica was a cartoon woman married to a cartoon rabbit.

I find it a little weird that you are so vociferous in in your attack on those who find dressing as a child normal. But now then now then, each to their own.

I am stepping out of this thread as its one of those ones there people have their thoughts and debate won't change that, and it generally ends up as bun fight when that's the case.

or perhaps you're stepping out of it to avoid having to answer that what you're actually seeking to imply is that if I find an adult woman dressed in a school uniform I'm actually a child abuser in denial?

I hadn't 'attacked' those defending women's right to dress how they wish. I had pointed out the stupidity of the suggestion that adults are not able to separate the behaviours of adults from the sexual depravity of some.

Like most prejudices it says more of the accusers state of mind than anything else.

I would never imply something like that on a public forum.

Just out of interest, can you not see the irony that you are pointing the Saville finger at others for not liking women dressed as children? Dont you find that just an itsy bitsy bit odd?

Each to there own. I hate it, you like it. Different stokes for different folks."

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

From my point of view,

I have at different times in my life, liked and tried different things.

Now I'm not going to dress up as a school girl for a party, nor feel comfortable when men approach me (If I did it)

That's my preference. I have 2 girls at school. Now a few years ago, I don't think I would have given it much thought, and just thrown on a short black skirt. I also have zero interest in 'daddy/baby girl' things. I dont care what others do, so I just leave them too it. I wouldn't actually go online and attack them though, it's THEIR choice.

Our lives/likes/dislikes and fantasies are not static, and the world is not the same place it was when I was a kid.

If the op, has had a change in his circumstances, which he already stated he did, then on here, I would have hoped that he would be allowed to ask the opinion of like minded adults; without getting abuse or other narrow minded responses.

Discuss the post but not the person.

Many have already said they agree with the op. I do now question so much more (age or technology, is another debate) in the light of what we know now; owing to media coverage of everything, bar a tweet every time the PM or queen farts. (I'm sue someone will launch the toilet flush app soon)

I'm not saying people that do enjoy dressing up or those dressing up are wrong or anything. I am simply saying with life as it is, is it not right that we all pay more attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quirky, thank you.

It's amazing the path that what is effectively thinking out loud can lead to.

I have no qualms whatsoever in what consenting people get up to in the legal sphere, but it's interesting how this topic has drawn quite raw emotion.

I think as fab forumites we would make a great body of civil liberty campaigners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never imply something like that on a public forum.

Just out of interest, can you not see the irony that you are pointing the Saville finger at others for not liking women dressed as children? Dont you find that just an itsy bitsy bit odd?

Each to there own. I hate it, you like it. Different stokes for different folks."

Yet you did.

I haven't made any accusation with regard to peoples preference for how others dress - quite the opposite.

It seems to me the issue lies with those making accusations. They perhaps presume others share their thoughts when in fact they're seeing things for what they are, not the sick things that some are suggesting albeit behind very flimsy veils.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said pretense not pretend but you are obviously not going to answer why you like the school girl thing and will be obtuse or aggressive so I will formulate my own opinions on you on this subject and leave ti at that. "

And this illustrates my previous point perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never imply something like that on a public forum.

Just out of interest, can you not see the irony that you are pointing the Saville finger at others for not liking women dressed as children? Dont you find that just an itsy bitsy bit odd?

Each to there own. I hate it, you like it. Different stokes for different folks.

Yet you did.

I haven't made any accusation with regard to peoples preference for how others dress - quite the opposite.

It seems to me the issue lies with those making accusations. They perhaps presume others share their thoughts when in fact they're seeing things for what they are, not the sick things that some are suggesting albeit behind very flimsy veils."

your needle is well and truly stuck!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dressed up as a werewolf a few days back , doesn't mean I bark at the moon "

So if I had found you looked sexy and turned me on dressed as such would that mean it was wrong as it would link to bestiality??

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

Ok here goes .. I enjoy school girl role play for me its about master and control and being submissive in a fun way ...tom enjoys it as a master not as an old man perving at a young school girl ..

We are adults !! and enjoy role play I can see nothing wrong x

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

As you say in your post, "dressing up". That's exactly what it is, a woman dressed up in an identity that isn't her normal persona.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So in my simplistic mind, having read all this, what we are saying then is that it is wrong to get turned on by a woman who chooses to wear a short skirt, a shirt/blouse, stockings and knickers?

Everything else be it school girl, Secretary, office worker is just a scenario put in place to have sexy fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone imagine a St Trinian's movie (schoolgirls, stockings, innuendo etc)being made in the current climate?

"

There was very recently two new ones made lol

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can anyone imagine a St Trinian's movie (schoolgirls, stockings, innuendo etc)being made in the current climate?

There was very recently two new ones made lol"

The most recent I can find is about 5 years ago. That's a long time in social attitudes.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Can anyone imagine a St Trinian's movie (schoolgirls, stockings, innuendo etc)being made in the current climate?

There was very recently two new ones made lol

The most recent I can find is about 5 years ago. That's a long time in social attitudes."

There's a new one due next year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone imagine a St Trinian's movie (schoolgirls, stockings, innuendo etc)being made in the current climate?

There was very recently two new ones made lol

The most recent I can find is about 5 years ago. That's a long time in social attitudes."

thats recent enough.

iirc they were awful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see any problem with and adult dressing as a naughty school girl, as most people have said their school uniform wasn't sexy and to me roleplaying is not reality, its a game a bit of fun. What about the men who said who's your daddy? Does that mean they want to have sex with their kids? Or the domantrix who utters the words, you been a very bad BOY, does that mean she is a pedo because it can be taken as she implied that she is punishing a BOY and not a MAN. Or am I missing the whole point of fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah yes Gemma Arterton in school uniform

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester


"Tin hat on, here goes.

Am I alone in thinking that dressing up as slutty school girls a la St Trinians is slightly wrong. I'm aware that some girls go to school till they are 18 but to be turned on by someone like a school girl bothers me.

Perhaps I'm the boring dad of a 13 yr old reading too much into it. "

With you 100% but understand it doesn't mean those that are turned on by dressing up or enjoy having fun with those that do represent a threat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda get where the OP is coming from, but that said I do get turned on by the image of a woman in schoolgirl uniform as I found it incredibly sexy in my school years - I stand by the same rules of engagement as I did then... if there is grass on the pitch then game on. If not then I find the whole scenario a little too "realistic" for me and I'm no longer turned on. Now is it wrong to get turned on by Sexy Santa Helper Girls?

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