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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like to start a meet? Chatting first or just get on with it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what type of meet is expected, if already done a social or icebreaker and they are happy to just jump to it. Or will chat and have drink to relax before moving forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on what type of meet is expected, if already done a social or icebreaker and they are happy to just jump to it. Or will chat and have drink to relax before moving forward"

I spose. I get so nervous when i know its a meet for fun. Chatting doesnt help id rather be in bed waiting lol

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

If my OH has arranged a hotel meet then I'm usually naked and my OH will have told me to assume a certain position ready for when the guys come in the room. We'll chat after the first few mins but mostly they'll just have their way with me, then chat. If at a club then it's always chat first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer to have a chat and a drink first. seems so cold just to drag him up the stairs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If my OH has arranged a hotel meet then I'm usually naked and my OH will have told me to assume a certain position ready for when the guys come in the room. We'll chat after the first few mins but mostly they'll just have their way with me, then chat. If at a club then it's always chat first. "

Yeh thats how id like to be lol x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just get on with it...

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I much prefer to have a chat and a drink first. seems so cold just to drag him up the stairs "

I agree

Julie x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

open door tongue in mouth and upstairs fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel room I strip and jump in the shower. Their place I strip and jump in the shower. My place.....doesn't have a shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blindfolded in dark playroom, arse in the air, lubed and ready, the danger of the unexpected gets the adrenilyn going. Just hope he doesn't have an axe!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Like to start a meet? Chatting first or just get on with it?! "

Depends on the type of meet but 95% of the time we like to have a chat and giggle first. But then we enjoy the social side as much as the sex.

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

Chatting here first, we will not invite morons to our house then chatting when they come around, just our thing

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

A cup of tea coffee and a good old chit chat to break the ice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I much prefer to have a chat and a drink first. seems so cold just to drag him up the stairs

I agree

Julie x"

same here.

need to have a chat and a drink first

no guarantee of playing just by exchanging messages.

need to 'get to know them' first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to start a meet? Chatting first or just get on with it?! "

i find its always better to meet somewhere neutral for a drink and a chat and just take things from there, if all compatible then great and make plans to take things further

if not then all you have lost is a couple of hours out of your lives

wish each other all the best and be on your merry way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single or a couple private meet always has to be a drink & chat if we haven't met before. At a venue chat is not always necessary as we're all there for some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it depends very much on the connection with a meet, on how much I fancy him lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it depends very much on the connection with a meet, on how much I fancy him lol! "

there has to be a spark

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It went very well thank god!! Thanks all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It went very well thank god!! Thanks all x"

excellent

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