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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isn't it amazing how a bit of bad news can change so much! After weeks of waiting and being prodding and poked by doctors and nurses and specialists of all kinds, I received all my results, diagnosis or whatever you wanna call it, and all my worst fears have come true again

Fucking hate hospitals, and I fucking hate bad news!

Sorry about the rant guys, kinda going it alone in 'nilla land and needed to vent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no hope you're ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awe that doesn't sound so good...sorry to hear you've had some what sounds like very bad news.

Wishing you all the best with it all

Xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

vent away x

although it sounds bad at the moment surely it will be better in the long run to regain your health.

be strong x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope whatever is ailing you can be treated in the least invasive way. Best wishes and lots of positive waves xxx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Huggles xoxox

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks lovelies! It's an old problem that's returned, so a bit of a kick in the teeth. I'm not ok atm, but I'm sure I will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks lovelies! It's an old problem that's returned, so a bit of a kick in the teeth. I'm not ok atm, but I'm sure I will be "

its not any business of mine however i wish you all the very best and fight the good fight xxxx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Sorry to hear it, virtual hugs and some jelly babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your among friends here so don't be worried about venting anytime!!

Big hugs to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thanks lovelies! It's an old problem that's returned, so a bit of a kick in the teeth. I'm not ok atm, but I'm sure I will be

its not any business of mine however i wish you all the very best and fight the good fight xxxx"

Thankyou! Business or not, your words help as does everyones support!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really hope the understandable trauma your feeling right now soon passes and is replaced with an air of determination and optimism that will see you through to a full and speedy recovery ….

Xxx((((HUGS))))

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear it, virtual hugs and some jelly babies "

Oh! I love jelly babies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

family is important at times like these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMA my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks lovelies! It's an old problem that's returned, so a bit of a kick in the teeth. I'm not ok atm, but I'm sure I will be

its not any business of mine however i wish you all the very best and fight the good fight xxxx

Thankyou! Business or not, your words help as does everyones support! "

sorry i forgot the hugs and kisses xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"family is important at times like these"

That depends on your family ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending virtual hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"family is important at times like these"

It's something I'd rather just get on with without involving them, unless I have to. I've dealt with it before, and I just find it easier if everyone around me is normal.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Had a resenably serious accident myself a yr or so ago smashed my nose to bits an broke my skull also punctured my brain sack obviously not quite the same but had to go threw it alone so sort of know where your coming from. Now all the opps are over im pretty much back as I was except its changed me compleatly as 1 of the last things the the plastic sergeant told me was if I get another punch to the nose its will more than likely kill me. Its deffo stopped this gobby manc in his tracks. The thought of leaving my little girl scares the living shit out of me way more than death itself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"family is important at times like these

That depends on your family ...

"

was gonna say phone ur mum but dont know the circumstances. i phone my mum when im having a sh!t time of it

i assume she has some family support

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"family is important at times like these

That depends on your family ...

"

never a truer word spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PMA my dear "

+1 chin up tits out and hope whatever it is buggers off sharpish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a resenably serious accident myself a yr or so ago smashed my nose to bits an broke my skull also punctured my brain sack obviously not quite the same but had to go threw it alone so sort of know where your coming from. Now all the opps are over im pretty much back as I was except its changed me compleatly as 1 of the last things the the plastic sergeant told me was if I get another punch to the nose its will more than likely kill me. Its deffo stopped this gobby manc in his tracks. The thought of leaving my little girl scares the living shit out of me way more than death itself x"

Certainly puts things into perspective! The first time was hard, I have a feeling this time round will be harder, but there's worse off than me, just gotta get on with it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"family is important at times like these

It's something I'd rather just get on with without involving them, unless I have to. I've dealt with it before, and I just find it easier if everyone around me is normal."
I look at it like this .. We can give up and go down hill or We can be positive in our mind and think we will not let it get us down ... I have had some crap stuff go on too and I am going to get over all this and get strong mind and body and be positive. xxxHUGS XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"family is important at times like these

It's something I'd rather just get on with without involving them, unless I have to. I've dealt with it before, and I just find it easier if everyone around me is normal.I look at it like this .. We can give up and go down hill or We can be positive in our mind and think we will not let it get us down ... I have had some crap stuff go on too and I am going to get over all this and get strong mind and body and be positive. xxxHUGS XX"

I hope to feel that way in a few days! Atm, I'm just a bit bewildered and angry. Hugs to you too! I hope everything works out for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs and kisses for you princess x take each day as it comes. Keep your chin up and i hope you get well soon.

...and because i'm lovely. I have a tin of spinach and some chicken with your name on it.

@}--

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hugs and kisses for you princess x take each day as it comes. Keep your chin up and i hope you get well soon.

...and because i'm lovely. I have a tin of spinach and some chicken with your name on it.

@}--"

Thankyou sweetie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it privately, but I'll say it here too. I'm here if you want to chat. Big hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums will keep you on track - don't disappear, keep talking - we are family now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"family is important at times like these

It's something I'd rather just get on with without involving them, unless I have to. I've dealt with it before, and I just find it easier if everyone around me is normal.I look at it like this .. We can give up and go down hill or We can be positive in our mind and think we will not let it get us down ... I have had some crap stuff go on too and I am going to get over all this and get strong mind and body and be positive. xxxHUGS XX

I hope to feel that way in a few days! Atm, I'm just a bit bewildered and angry. Hugs to you too! I hope everything works out for you! "
And I hope things work out for you too. Right now things feel bad time helps I find. x xx x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The forums will keep you on track - don't disappear, keep talking - we are family now xx"

I'm not going anywhere, I've had so much support already, it's just what I needed! And of course, there's a handful of my forum friends who are going out of their ways to help and be supportive! All your comments help and mean so much!

And thanks to all of you who have messaged me privately, you have no idea how much it means!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big squeezy hugs and you know where I am gorgeous xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Big squeezy hugs and you know where I am gorgeous xxxxxxx "

Thanks doll! xmwahx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Take it easy. Allow yourself this moment to get to grips with the challenge and then get kitted out to tackle it head on.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take it easy. Allow yourself this moment to get to grips with the challenge and then get kitted out to tackle it head on.

Good luck.

"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs curvy. Xx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

everyone here has summed it up.... the forumites do help in any crisis .... be strong ...... hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your anger in a positive way, we will all send love and energy to you xxx

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Wish you a very speedy recovery. X

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Loads of snuggley hugs and sloppy kisses xxxxxxxxx wishing u very well soon xxxxxxxx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"The forums will keep you on track - don't disappear, keep talking - we are family now xx"

They kept me sane after a major diagnosis and all through a series of hospital stays.

I found waiting to find out was more stressful than actually knowing. Once I knew there was a plan of action to follow which was easier to cope with.

Good luck honey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone!

Today would've been a lot harder without all your support! Thankyou for all your private messages and texts too! xxxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

all the best

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