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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or does it appear a lot of people lose their manners on sites like this. Some of the messages I get I think if you walked up to someone in a bar and asked that you'd get a slap but on here its fine

yes I understand this is I sex site but there's talking about sex once you have a little banter going and there's getting a message asking how you like your pussy licked with not even a howdy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does it appear a lot of people lose their manners on sites like this. Some of the messages I get I think if you walked up to someone in a bar and asked that you'd get a slap but on here its fine

yes I understand this is I sex site but there's talking about sex once you have a little banter going and there's getting a message asking how you like your pussy licked with not even a howdy! "

fancy a shag.hi

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some have, some don't

some like explicit, some don't

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

One can be polite when talking about rude bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After so long on here you get used to it ... you don't like it but it becomes second nature to delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I end up thinking I know I am a lady on a sex site but I am a lady none the less!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I end up thinking I know I am a lady on a sex site but I am a lady none the less! "

I agree ... but its like asking everyone in the world to be polite - it wont happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I end up thinking I know I am a lady on a sex site but I am a lady none the less! "

A lady with a fabulous bottom.

Manners are just one of many yard sticks used to measure people, on here and in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I end up thinking I know I am a lady on a sex site but I am a lady none the less!

I agree ... but its like asking everyone in the world to be polite - it wont happen "

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"After so long on here you get used to it ... you don't like it but it becomes second nature to delete and move on "

I get messages everyday from guys wanting to pound my pussy and fill me up - and my profile states soft swing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The power of anonymity the internet provides is just too much for dickheads to handle.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Is it just me or does it appear a lot of people lose their manners on sites like this. Some of the messages I get I think if you walked up to someone in a bar and asked that you'd get a slap but on here its fine

yes I understand this is I sex site but there's talking about sex once you have a little banter going and there's getting a message asking how you like your pussy licked with not even a howdy! "
thats awful some people "howdy fancy a fuck" now thats how its done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I end up thinking I know I am a lady on a sex site but I am a lady none the less! "

Choose to talk to the decent ones, and ignore the rest. My experience is that even if you introduce yourself nicely to a lady, in most cases you get ignored anyway, so I can see why some guys just resort to 'to the point' messages. Thats not an excuse for them doing that, but i can see why it comes down to that unfortunately.

I'm even now getting to the point of 'if it happens it happens, and if it doesn't then thats life' but will be leaving the site before resorting to the 'fancy a fuck' messages.

Rod. XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is sad my manners is lacking big time on site like this.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You have to have a thick skin on here and learn to just ignore! I used to think the same thing, but I just let it wash over me now

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Nice messages dont appear to work. So perhaps guys tend to resort to directness too quickly.

Just my opinion, from a guy determined to stick with nice messages.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I delete and move on and have a chuckle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does it appear a lot of people lose their manners on sites like this. Some of the messages I get I think if you walked up to someone in a bar and asked that you'd get a slap but on here its fine

yes I understand this is I sex site but there's talking about sex once you have a little banter going and there's getting a message asking how you like your pussy licked with not even a howdy! "

Damn that's what I've been doing wrong when I meet girls out at a bar...sometimes I don't even howdy, sometimes I don't even ask if they want to have their pussy licked, I just wink put my head up her skirt and go at it hammer and tongs (or thongs ;p)....was wondering why my success rate was 0% and my slap rate was 100% ...I really need to work at my bar ettiquette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does it appear a lot of people lose their manners on sites like this. Some of the messages I get I think if you walked up to someone in a bar and asked that you'd get a slap but on here its fine

yes I understand this is I sex site but there's talking about sex once you have a little banter going and there's getting a message asking how you like your pussy licked with not even a howdy! thats awful some people "howdy fancy a fuck" now thats how its done "

You had me at howdy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete and move on and have a chuckle lol "

Aye this is the best way. Often chuckling here

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Often I find that the more explicit messages I receive tend to be typed using a cock rather than fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Howdy!

*types private message ...........

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As most know I 1st joined this site as a couple so no full well what you mean. Its 1 of the main reason I very rarely msg any 1 in the 1st instance. The way I see it if someone's sean me on here they will see im not that type an if they like me they will get in touch but its sad we all get tethered with the same brush but hey lifes a bitch as they say

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Often I find that the more explicit messages I receive tend to be typed using a cock rather than fingers."

pmsl I'll have to give that a try hmmmm gona need a bigger phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Often I find that the more explicit messages I receive tend to be typed using a cock rather than fingers."

Now listen here D89 Queen, - have you any idea of the years of practice & dedication that it takes? ..........& then you've the sticky keys to contend with!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One can be polite when talking about rude bits. "

Okay, which one? Name him & shame him, I say!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I end up thinking I know I am a lady on a sex site but I am a lady none the less!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Dear madam,

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If you could take time out of your busy schedule and RSVP me ASAP I would appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a sex site, not sunday school, me things some people have high expectations, sex is dirty, crude, basic and messy. it isn't about afternoon tea or impressing your parents.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Is it just me or does it appear a lot of people lose their manners on sites like this. Some of the messages I get I think if you walked up to someone in a bar and asked that you'd get a slap but on here its fine

yes I understand this is I sex site but there's talking about sex once you have a little banter going and there's getting a message asking how you like your pussy licked with not even a howdy! "
Be realistic.

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