FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging or your family first??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Chatting with a friend and we both agreed family always come first ... But have known some to put swinging first .. Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live on my own with the pets, and they never complain about what I get up to.

Bliss!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I live on my own with the pets, and they never complain about what I get up to.

Bliss!

Hahaaa was thinking more in the way of children .. But know my cats never utter a word lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family first for me. Even though it made me look a right knob the last few days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well my sons living with us so i have to wait till he goes out, i like to be here to get his meals, he would think it was funny otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everysingle person that posts on this thread is obviously going to say family first or else they'll get ripped to shreds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seriously can't see anyone saying anything other than they will put family first. Anyone that would put swinging first would be no friend of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everysingle person that posts on this thread is obviously going to say family first or else they'll get ripped to shreds "

Yes they would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everysingle person that posts on this thread is obviously going to say family first or else they'll get ripped to shreds "

Good point. Plenty do put swinging/ sex before family. Frequently seen on other threads.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

wait for the school holidays.... after 2 days people will be desperate as they have had to stop their meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get fed up not being able to meet men when i want to but do like having my son around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everysingle person that posts on this thread is obviously going to say family first or else they'll get ripped to shreds "

Lol true. Then again there are some "brave" people on here.

Definately family for us everytime and never ever begrudge not being able to play because of this.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Family."

It's been bugging me for some time... What on earth is hanging from your head in your main profile pic?

As the pic is not in your public photos I can't click to enlarge it on my phone and thus solve the mystery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Family.

It's been bugging me for some time... What on earth is hanging from your head in your main profile pic?

As the pic is not in your public photos I can't click to enlarge it on my phone and thus solve the mystery. "

hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id put a lot of things before swinging...my family would come before anything....my mates next then id also put work or anything to do with my real life before swinging....swinging is a hobby as such....i like sex and i like meeting people and having fun but i also have a life which has to come first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put sex before my family.. it's when I realised that my addiction was out of control xx

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By *or Fox SakeCouple
over a year ago

Thornaby

"Chatting with a friend and we both agreed family always come first ... But have known some to put swinging first .. Thoughts? "

Family. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live on my own with the pets, and they never complain about what I get up to.

Bliss!

Me too!It has its advantages!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live on my own and my son in the usa so no problems for me...

Though if either of my brothers had a problem or my neice.....swinging would be put on the back boiler

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Chatting with a friend and we both agreed family always come first ... But have known some to put swinging first .. Thoughts? "

Family first always!! & if anyone i meet can't understand or accept that then i wouldn't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my maw last nite for an mmf, so its no problem

we're on JK next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live on my own with the pets, and they never complain about what I get up to.

Bliss!

Me too!It has its advantages!

Yes it certainly does have its advantages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family are my world they COME FIRST.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there is only me and the little spider that lives in the left hand corner of my ceiling . Don't think hes that bothered

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

"I live on my own with the pets, and they never complain about what I get up to.

Bliss!

Me too!It has its advantages!

me too mind good job they cant talk or they would have many a tale to tell

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

family every time

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By *S_PennyTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Well I'd say family. But seeing as I only see my kids on weekends, I suppose I can say swinging as long as it's mid week. In fairness though I have negotiated one weekend a month off so I can have some weekend socialising and that generally means going to a swing club to see friends. So does that mean I've put swinging first? Don't think so.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Depends what family members you are talking about!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Well I'd say family. But seeing as I only see my kids on weekends, I suppose I can say swinging as long as it's mid week. In fairness though I have negotiated one weekend a month off so I can have some weekend socialising and that generally means going to a swing club to see friends. So does that mean I've put swinging first? Don't think so. "

Means you are simply giving yourself some social time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chatting with a friend and we both agreed family always come first ... But have known some to put swinging first .. Thoughts? "

Family first every time I'm a person who 'swings' it's not my whole life , it's a lifestyle choice ... But a very nice choice

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Family.

It's been bugging me for some time... What on earth is hanging from your head in your main profile pic?

As the pic is not in your public photos I can't click to enlarge it on my phone and thus solve the mystery.

hair.

Lol I'm referring to Sexycouple548's pic. It certainly doesn't look like hair on my phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in Devon and Norfolk don't have this dilemma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person who put sex over family I think needs to look really hard at themselves . kids come first in all things in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People in Devon and Norfolk don't have this dilemma"
I am here in Norfolk my older girl in hospital broken her leg 3 places ........ she come first .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Family.

It's been bugging me for some time... What on earth is hanging from your head in your main profile pic?

As the pic is not in your public photos I can't click to enlarge it on my phone and thus solve the mystery.

hair.

Lol I'm referring to Sexycouple548's pic. It certainly doesn't look like hair on my phone. "

its pink ribbon for breast cancer charity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People in Devon and Norfolk don't have this dilemmaI am here in Norfolk my older girl in hospital broken her leg 3 places ........ she come first ."

Poor thing, yes of course she comes first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People in Devon and Norfolk don't have this dilemmaI am here in Norfolk my older girl in hospital broken her leg 3 places ........ she come first ."

oi thank yoo moight av missed tha joke moi luv-a-lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People in Devon and Norfolk don't have this dilemmaI am here in Norfolk my older girl in hospital broken her leg 3 places ........ she come first .

Poor thing, yes of course she comes first."
she comes first and if I could take her pain away I would even if it killed me .

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Family.

It's been bugging me for some time... What on earth is hanging from your head in your main profile pic?

As the pic is not in your public photos I can't click to enlarge it on my phone and thus solve the mystery.

hair.

Lol I'm referring to Sexycouple548's pic. It certainly doesn't look like hair on my phone.

its pink ribbon for breast cancer charity."

Aaah, thank you, Ena

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People in Devon and Norfolk don't have this dilemmaI am here in Norfolk my older girl in hospital broken her leg 3 places ........ she come first .

oi thank yoo moight av missed tha joke moi luv-a-lee"
ha ha xx I am not in no mind for jokes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A person who put sex over family I think needs to look really hard at themselves . kids come first in all things in life."

Hear, hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging. Mind you I havn't spoken to my family for 5 years so they oome behind everything in order of priority!

crystal's family always come first though. In fact, although we are pretty active, swinging is rarely given much of a priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family always .... That's why I don't get out much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course everyone is going to say family first ... that's a no brainer !

It's not necessarily so cut and dried though for all of us though .

When we got together 3 years ago , my wifes son lived with her ex . He was 3 and despite our best efforts she only got to see him weekends . We have been swinging for2 years and her ex got fed up of him handing us custody of her son a year ago .

So our life changed enomously from that moment .

Of course he comes first , but we do all we can to get our time for fun . At least once a week and twice if we can . Some may say this is not putting him first as we feel our time is just as important . However he always has a responsible babysitter and we have no desire to change things .

Infact , for a period of time we had no sitter and had people over ... but that's another story for the judgemental to get their teeth into

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

There are quite a few things that come before swinging, family being at the top of the list. It is just a very small but enjoyable part of our life.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Chatting with a friend and we both agreed family always come first ... But have known some to put swinging first .. Thoughts? "

Their life their choice. Simple as that.

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