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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no, I celebrate the dust........

just like Quentin Crisp

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By *obbobeanMan
over a year ago

dagenham

Forget the good girl stuff Miss CC, go out and explore your dirty side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently ....

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By *or Fox SakeCouple
over a year ago

Thornaby

Do you ever feel

The need to feed someone into a wood chipper?

Yes. Frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Do you ever feel

The need to feed someone into a wood chipper?

Yes. Frequently. "

I would not quite go that far lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I've put myself on the shelf!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol "

I feel I'm not having enough fun sometimes but I know it's because I'm not able to put enough effort in to finding it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps "

Lol I thought the same....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent the entirety of my late teens early 20s in a relationship and will admit to feeling a tad on the shelf when it comes to finding others now.

Just a chance to re evaluate myself in a positive way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is this shelf and do you think I could reach it ? Lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps

Lol I thought the same.... "

Mmmm I think gift wrapped in a nicer thought

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I spent the entirety of my late teens early 20s in a relationship and will admit to feeling a tad on the shelf when it comes to finding others now.

Just a chance to re evaluate myself in a positive way!"

You can share my shelf...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I haven`t got enough time to get on the shelf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol "

yep, like that old can of chick peas that you thought would come in handy when they were on special offer, but keep getting shoved around and moved behind the shiny new Heinz beans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is someone for everyone although doubt you would find them on this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Felt very much left on the shelf a few weeks back

Decided to take myself off the shelf and have fun again

Happy littlebird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps

Lol I thought the same.... "

paper bag anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps

Lol I thought the same....

paper bag anyone "

I prefer a Mc D's one please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when someone comes along with a price gun and marks you up for £0.10 as you're only good for another day that things are really bad lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps

Lol I thought the same....

paper bag anyone

I prefer a Mc D's one please "

women are so fussy

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By *XimagesCouple
over a year ago

north liverpool

Nothing wrong with being on a shelf..

As long as its the Top Shelf

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps "

Are you going to blow it up and burst it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps

Are you going to blow it up and burst it?"

No stick it on me head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol

yep, like that old can of chick peas that you thought would come in handy when they were on special offer, but keep getting shoved around and moved behind the shiny new Heinz beans "

Google a good Spanish chickpea recipe and you may be pleasantly suprised at how good chickpeas are.... There is a metaphor in that statement...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

People aren't left on the shelf...... they climb on it themselves.

And just as our choices can put us on a shelf, they can get us off of it too.

To use an apt quote.... if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got.

Having observed many people on this site I have come to believe...when this place becomes someone's primary source of social interaction and entertainment, it also becomes their shelf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be on a shelf next to the Marmite and the oil-lamp wicks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but me and me biscuits are having a lovely time

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"People aren't left on the shelf...... they climb on it themselves.

And just as our choices can put us on a shelf, they can get us off of it too.

To use an apt quote.... if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got.

Having observed many people on this site I have come to believe...when this place becomes someone's primary source of social interaction and entertainment, it also becomes their shelf."

So very true polo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the shelf but it doesn't bother me as long as every now n again someone comes along takes me off n gives me a dusting down

I'm usually to be found somewhere at the back of the shelf behind the tinned sprouts and the chilli custard

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps

Are you going to blow it up and burst it?

No stick it on me head "

Don't use super glue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading another thread I've come to the conclusion that as I'm on the shelf I must be unattractive

I'm off to find a paper bag see if that helps

Lol I thought the same.... "

Me too but my paper bag is bigger than yours na na na na

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I suppose it's about taking yourself off the shelf and doing something about it...

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By *XimagesCouple
over a year ago

north liverpool


"I suppose it's about taking yourself off the shelf and doing something about it... "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm on a shelf in a locked cupboard. It's less dusty. The lock is on the inside and I've swallowed the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on the shelf but it doesn't bother me as long as every now n again someone comes along takes me off n gives me a dusting down

I'm usually to be found somewhere at the back of the shelf behind the tinned sprouts and the chilli custard "

Do sprouts actually come in a tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose it's about taking yourself off the shelf and doing something about it... "

You know you want to Cheeky. Go make your own fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be on a shelf next to the Marmite and the oil-lamp wicks... "

I'd find your, I love Marmite and we keep having power cuts

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I suppose it's about taking yourself off the shelf and doing something about it...

You know you want to Cheeky. Go make your own fun "

First things first I got to do my roots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fancy a game of old maid.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

For all of you that think you are on the shelf, I say it's up to you to climb down and get out and mingle. Have you thought of doing something about it, evening classes, maybe volunteering. There is a load of things that can be done to bring new friends into your life.

And cheeky is a great girl, rather tall but a friendly funny and witty girl all the same.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm on the shelf but it doesn't bother me as long as every now n again someone comes along takes me off n gives me a dusting down

I'm usually to be found somewhere at the back of the shelf behind the tinned sprouts and the chilli custard

Do sprouts actually come in a tin "

I hope not. Sounds revolting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on the shelf but it doesn't bother me as long as every now n again someone comes along takes me off n gives me a dusting down

I'm usually to be found somewhere at the back of the shelf behind the tinned sprouts and the chilli custard

Do sprouts actually come in a tin

I hope not. Sounds revolting! "

Now I love little bubbles of wind but I have to agree with you , tinned sprouts sound revolting

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

How have we got onto sprouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all of you that think you are on the shelf, I say it's up to you to climb down and get out and mingle. Have you thought of doing something about it, evening classes, maybe volunteering. There is a load of things that can be done to bring new friends into your life.

And cheeky is a great girl, rather tall but a friendly funny and witty girl all the same. "

I would love to do an evening class as want to teach IT for beginners but it's £6,000 and I don't have that kind of money nor could I borrow it

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast


"People aren't left on the shelf...... they climb on it themselves.

And just as our choices can put us on a shelf, they can get us off of it too.

To use an apt quote.... if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got.

Having observed many people on this site I have come to believe...when this place becomes someone's primary source of social interaction and entertainment, it also becomes their shelf."

How very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How have we got onto sprouts "

Wasn't me , I just asked a question

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"For all of you that think you are on the shelf, I say it's up to you to climb down and get out and mingle. Have you thought of doing something about it, evening classes, maybe volunteering. There is a load of things that can be done to bring new friends into your life.

And cheeky is a great girl, rather tall but a friendly funny and witty girl all the same.

I would love to do an evening class as want to teach IT for beginners but it's £6,000 and I don't have that kind of money nor could I borrow it

"

You looked into organizations that help to retrain or even a bridging course plus the OU do loads of course with student loans

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"People aren't left on the shelf...... they climb on it themselves.

And just as our choices can put us on a shelf, they can get us off of it too.

To use an apt quote.... if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got.

Having observed many people on this site I have come to believe...when this place becomes someone's primary source of social interaction and entertainment, it also becomes their shelf."

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I'm single by choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol "

I so want to give you a hug . We have talked and you seem a really warm and genuine person , and from the pictures you have shared , you are very very pretty . Be confident , get yourself out there and fill your life with activities where you meet people . I do think this isn't the site to find " the one" however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been off the shelf twice, it's much better being on it!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol

I so want to give you a hug . We have talked and you seem a really warm and genuine person , and from the pictures you have shared , you are very very pretty . Be confident , get yourself out there and fill your life with activities where you meet people . I do think this isn't the site to find " the one" however "

Lol I am not looking for the one on here and in fairness when I've finished a 50 odd hour working week doing anything during the week kills me...I do have a great social life when money allows me...however thanks for the lovely comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol "

Ive been collecting dust for years now...so im used to shelf life .

Its not to bad as you can see loads from up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be on a shelf next to the Marmite and the oil-lamp wicks...

I'd find your, I love Marmite and we keep having power cuts "

Phwarrrrr I like this thread,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single,happy and having a ball. I don't need a man to complete me or make me happy. They don't. I just want men to use for an hour or two for my pleasure. No shelves for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How have we got onto sprouts

Wasn't me , I just asked a question "

It was ME, ME, ME - can u not see me waving? I'm behind the tinned sprouts n next to tinned eggs - it's a parallel world here!

The bottled radishes have all started sneezing due to the excessive dust on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I choose to live happily as a single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my older sister was a feminist when she was in her twenties had a boyfriend, nothing much to look at but he was very generous, she dumped him probably thinking she would find someone better, then met someone else then dumped him.

now she is in her sixties lives alone and says she wish she would of stayed with her first boyfriend because he was nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol "

Think we sometimes need to look at why we are up on that shelf ! Is it maybe because we have made our self out of reach !!!! I'm sure you get more than your fair share of offers on here for a good dusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I choose to live happily as a single."

me too, I've never been so happy since I became single, I have no intentions of ever being in a relationship again, I neither need nor want a man in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polo nailed it (once again).

For me personally? Not really. I'll go get what I want when I'm ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That you are being left on the shelf?...l have been sitting here being a good girl now I'm collecting dust....lol "

You sure it ain't dried cum?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well that's my roots sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my older sister was a feminist when she was in her twenties had a boyfriend, nothing much to look at but he was very generous, she dumped him probably thinking she would find someone better, then met someone else then dumped him.

now she is in her sixties lives alone and says she wish she would of stayed with her first boyfriend because he was nice."

Can't wait for the film to come out!!!!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"People aren't left on the shelf...... they climb on it themselves.

And just as our choices can put us on a shelf, they can get us off of it too.

To use an apt quote.... if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got.

Having observed many people on this site I have come to believe...when this place becomes someone's primary source of social interaction and entertainment, it also becomes their shelf."

sooo soo true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How have we got onto sprouts "

Cos they devil food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the shelf by choice especially after this week

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