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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone recommend a herbal remedy to boost my non existant sex drive. Seriously sooner goto bed with a good book.

Suppose it could be the dreaded change of life lol. Genuine replies would be appreciated as hubby is not impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red checked one to left and striped one held vertical then...

Oh sorry, I thought you wanted to know how to spell Sex Drive in semaphore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find Crystal Meth does the trick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try adding a single male to the mix. Now if only I could think of one...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, very helpful lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right, serious answer. It might well be that you are just plain over-tired but you do not realise it. If you are skipping a good amount of sleep it can knock your libido. Modern life is very harsh on our sleep patterns.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Jim, certainly a grain of truth in that. Life is stressful. x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

The but not too much or you'll fall asleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you got another bedroom you can use to change your "routine"?

Failing that I suggest a hotel for a night - a local Premier Inn, whatever. I bet within five minutes of you both flopping on the bed you've got his cock in your mouth. So to speak...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ginseng is known as an adaptogen, which means it increases resistance to physical, chemical, and biological stress and builds energy and general vitality.. might be worth a try!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join a swingers site and meet some hot blokes or women or even couple, works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the input, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does sould like a change of pace might work, we sometimes get a last min deal in a country house hotel for a weekend, you can get some cheap deals always works for us when lifes getting to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Herbal tea's with ginseng are great at pepping you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice trip down here to Cornwall will work wonders

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By *wned EmCouple
over a year ago

nuneaton

If its recent change it may be worth getting a check up at you GP. He may check your blood to make sure you're not lacking anything which may affect your sex drive such as iron.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Raising the heart rate with physical exercise is a decent, chem free tonic. Any drugs or stims may have a short term effect but will probably cause issues later.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Also feeling like you have to perform is a sure fire way of turning you completely off

I only say that as you say hubby is'nt impressed,and that can add to stress levels which in turn puts you off even more xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd get a good nights sleep, then have a bit of a pampering day, followed by a lot of foreplay with hubby but hold back from having full sex till perhaps the next night. I find that somethimes when I'm not in the mood, if I initiate some naughtiness, I'm soon feeling very sexy! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Zoe i feel a spa break on my own might help x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Thanks Zoe i feel a spa break on my own might help x"

Yes - definitely - i went away for 3 days at the end of january on my own and it really does you good - a bit of r & r! Z

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By *ooseLipsWoman
over a year ago

Durham-ish


"Can anyone recommend a herbal remedy to boost my non existant sex drive. Seriously sooner goto bed with a good book.

Suppose it could be the dreaded change of life lol. Genuine replies would be appreciated as hubby is not impressed."

Why dont you and hubs go out on a date..

Book a room somewhere, plan to meet in the bar, send him down first and change into something sexy, watch his face when you show up..

Might help to kick start something

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Manks thanks to you all for the advice, guess everyone feels burnt out now and again. x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

if it is the change.hrt should make a difference.it also helps with the tiredness.

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Take a holiday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol read the spray tan thread i recomend piriton and vodka love it mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ginger works for me. Theres horny goat pills. Brisk walks sometimes help too.

Good luck! Keep us posted when you find something that works

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How about a trip to the doctors to get a check over it could be something simplexxgood luckxx

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By *ooseLipsWoman
over a year ago

Durham-ish


"Ginger works for me. Theres horny goat pills. Brisk walks sometimes help too.

Good luck! Keep us posted when you find something that works "

Ginger I've heard that b4, but not orally

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Flagging sex drive???????????

What is that and how old are you before it hits?????

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"How about a trip to the doctors to get a check over it could be something simplexxgood luckxx"

Simple as in lack of maybe????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flagging sex drive???????????

What is that and how old are you before it hits?????"

Psssssst Debs, with your slave he should be fanning you, not flagging, simple typo tho, dont worry about it

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Flagging sex drive???????????

What is that and how old are you before it hits?????

Psssssst Debs, with your slave he should be fanning you, not flagging, simple typo tho, dont worry about it "

He already sorted me fannying out love , llolololololo

xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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