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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, I agree.

there is just no need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sits back with popcorn...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

respect difference and you will enjoy the scene better.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

each to their own.... respect people who are honest both on their profile and their messages.

If we all had the same tastes life would be boring! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it just makes it look as if they are hung up about their size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is threads like this that cause trouble, just read, and either like or dislike, but dragging it up is not nice or helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so one group of people put down another group of people to make themselves look better..

is that why you just made a negative point about one group of people to gain thumbs up from another?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"each to their own.... respect people who are honest both on their profile and their messages.

If we all had the same tastes life would be boring! x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sits back with popcorn... "

have I just signed my own death warrant, It's meant with good intent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat) "

I know exactly what you mean. Though it is by know means limited to BBWs. Aggressive profiles are incredibly unappealing, even more so when they attack the reader for potentially having preferences that means they won't be a suitable match.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"No, I agree.

there is just no need"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Those types of comments don't affect me in the slightest, it's their profile, it could be worded better I agree, but hey ho

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ahhhhh goes and checks profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

I know exactly what you mean. Though it is by know means limited to BBWs. Aggressive profiles are incredibly unappealing, even more so when they attack the reader for potentially having preferences that means they won't be a suitable match."

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Screams insecurity to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I checked my profile too, not guilty!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

In fairness as a plus size woman I've never put that as I appeal to a wide range of men that have met slim women as well as larger women...so why put something that would deter them from messaging

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

I just hate the phrase "jog on" that's usually enough on its own to make me... ummm... jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone think it got anything to do with the woman having partners that expect them to change?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In fairness as a plus size woman I've never put that as I appeal to a wide range of men that have met slim women as well as larger women...so why put something that would deter them from messaging "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat) "

who suggested you was a bad person for not liking fat women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what about all the profiles that state they aren't interested in anyone OVER a certain size?

Profile text is just that - someones profile!!

If they like/don't like are interested/not interested in certain things then they should be able to put what they like on THEIR profile

Everyone is here for their own reasons and looking for what it is they want - how else are they going to make it known if they don't put it in their profile text?

If you see a profile with something that doesn't interest you/puts you off or generally don't agree with, then delete, block on move along - just because the profile is there doesn't mean you have to communicate with them

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Screams insecurity to me "

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't understand putting down others to explain who you are. However, if they are just saying "I'm big and if that's not your thing move on" I can't see what's wrong with that.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Sits back with popcorn... "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"In fairness as a plus size woman I've never put that as I appeal to a wide range of men that have met slim women as well as larger women...so why put something that would deter them from messaging

"

Wooo hoo I got a thumbs up lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I don't understand putting down others to explain who you are. However, if they are just saying "I'm big and if that's not your thing move on" I can't see what's wrong with that."

I meet so many in business who self elevate, not on their merit but by highlighting the failings of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand putting down others to explain who you are. However, if they are just saying "I'm big and if that's not your thing move on" I can't see what's wrong with that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Screams insecurity to me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Screams insecurity to me

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one."

most of us have our own insecurities, I think a lot of big women put things like, if you don't like big women jog on etc in the hope men will mail them to tell them how gorgeous they are and how they don't like skinny women anyway

*fab disclaimer*

that's only my opinion though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol "

Are bigger women not allowed preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol

Are bigger women not allowed preferences?"

in my experience fat and fat don't go

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Screams insecurity to me

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one.

most of us have our own insecurities, I think a lot of big women put things like, if you don't like big women jog on etc in the hope men will mail them to tell them how gorgeous they are and how they don't like skinny women anyway

*fab disclaimer*

that's only my opinion though "

I think you are gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Screams insecurity to me

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one.

most of us have our own insecurities, I think a lot of big women put things like, if you don't like big women jog on etc in the hope men will mail them to tell them how gorgeous they are and how they don't like skinny women anyway

*fab disclaimer*

that's only my opinion though

I think you are gorgeous "

you calling me fat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to be sassy and failing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Screams insecurity to me

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just hate the phrase "jog on" that's usually enough on its own to make me... ummm... jog on "
maybe as I larger lady its something she has been meaning to start!! A new years resolution that she never gets around to

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Screams insecurity to me

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one.

most of us have our own insecurities, I think a lot of big women put things like, if you don't like big women jog on etc in the hope men will mail them to tell them how gorgeous they are and how they don't like skinny women anyway

*fab disclaimer*

that's only my opinion though

I think you are gorgeous

you calling me fat? "

No I'm calling you gorgeous stop getting insecure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

I know exactly what you mean. Though it is by know means limited to BBWs. Aggressive profiles are incredibly unappealing, even more so when they attack the reader for potentially having preferences that means they won't be a suitable match."

Absolutely agree - Negativity and Aggressiveness in a profile is a real turn off - although it's very eye opening to the personas behind the profile!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Trying to be sassy and failing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Screams insecurity to me

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one.

most of us have our own insecurities, I think a lot of big women put things like, if you don't like big women jog on etc in the hope men will mail them to tell them how gorgeous they are and how they don't like skinny women anyway

*fab disclaimer*

that's only my opinion though

I think you are gorgeous

you calling me fat?

No I'm calling you gorgeous stop getting insecure "

if you don't like my insecurity jog on

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooopsy.mine said jog on,but i didnt mean it in a nasty aggressive way.i have changed it now.do i get a tick?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Why do they call them Chubby Chasers??

We dont run!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't understand putting down others to explain who you are. However, if they are just saying "I'm big and if that's not your thing move on" I can't see what's wrong with that.

I meet so many in business who self elevate, not on their merit but by highlighting the failings of others.

"

I've experienced that too but it doesn't make sense to me there either.

The whole explaining I am fat thing wasn't working very well so having some body shots is useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat) "

Yes! And now removed from my hotlist

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Screams insecurity to me

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one.

most of us have our own insecurities, I think a lot of big women put things like, if you don't like big women jog on etc in the hope men will mail them to tell them how gorgeous they are and how they don't like skinny women anyway

*fab disclaimer*

that's only my opinion though

I think you are gorgeous

you calling me fat?

No I'm calling you gorgeous stop getting insecure

if you don't like my insecurity jog on "

Look I'm fat I don't jog...I walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat) "

Totally get what you mean. I am a bigger girl and I accept that some will like me and some won't...some will also like both me and women much slimmer than me. I have no issues with that, and I'm not going to slate women that are different to me...I just try to focus on the nice messages I get and have as much fun as I can with those that do like fat birds like me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

Totally get what you mean. I am a bigger girl and I accept that some will like me and some won't...some will also like both me and women much slimmer than me. I have no issues with that, and I'm not going to slate women that are different to me...I just try to focus on the nice messages I get and have as much fun as I can with those that do like fat birds like me!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

Totally get what you mean. I am a bigger girl and I accept that some will like me and some won't...some will also like both me and women much slimmer than me. I have no issues with that, and I'm not going to slate women that are different to me...I just try to focus on the nice messages I get and have as much fun as I can with those that do like fat birds like me!"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat) "

I agree I think that too. Also those that state no ompah loompahs. Respect is a lost word for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than a fat bird with ruffled feathers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sits back with popcorn... "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I just hate the phrase "jog on" that's usually enough on its own to make me... ummm... jog on "

Me too!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I understand people have preferences it's when people become abusive exercising their preferences

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I understand people have preferences it's when people become abusive exercising their preferences "

That annoy me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always down to being insecure, I prefer to be upfront about being fat from the start, saves people finding out after chatting for a while and wasting peoples time, that's my reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is a lot of big woman get so sick of the abuse from men on here and it can turn you bitter

the amount of men who mail me and when they don't get what they want they reply with things like well your a fat cunt anyway and I can do better than you down the pub it does make you wonder, what the hell did you mail me for them, though im not the type of person to have a ranty profile, I never have even when I had a profile worth reading lol I can understand why some women put things like.... im a big women if you don't like bugger off, I don't think it means they are bitter in real life just sick of the abuse on here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Screams insecurity to me

Insecurity is rife within the swinging world and those whose quest for the 'sticking plaster' fix is a journey that will be a rocky one."

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Not always down to being insecure, I prefer to be upfront about being fat from the start, saves people finding out after chatting for a while and wasting peoples time, that's my reason "

Thats fair enough!

But thats not what the OP was about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem is a lot of big woman get so sick of the abuse from men on here and it can turn you bitter

the amount of men who mail me and when they don't get what they want they reply with things like well your a fat cunt anyway and I can do better than you down the pub it does make you wonder, what the hell did you mail me for them,

I don't think it means they are bitter in real life just sick of the abuse on here "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think the problem is a lot of big woman get so sick of the abuse from men on here and it can turn you bitter

the amount of men who mail me and when they don't get what they want they reply with things like well your a fat cunt anyway and I can do better than you down the pub it does make you wonder, what the hell did you mail me for them, though im not the type of person to have a ranty profile, I never have even when I had a profile worth reading lol I can understand why some women put things like.... im a big women if you don't like bugger off, I don't think it means they are bitter in real life just sick of the abuse on here "

I know what you mean, I've had those messages too, but if you become bitter you won't be to anyone's taste is how I look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not always down to being insecure, I prefer to be upfront about being fat from the start, saves people finding out after chatting for a while and wasting peoples time, that's my reason

Thats fair enough!

But thats not what the OP was about...

"

I realise that but there was a couple of comments from others about it being down to insecurities, apologies, was just airing my reason for it being in my profile, won't do it again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem is a lot of big woman get so sick of the abuse from men on here and it can turn you bitter

the amount of men who mail me and when they don't get what they want they reply with things like well your a fat cunt anyway and I can do better than you down the pub it does make you wonder, what the hell did you mail me for them,

i just like to point out that i am 18/20 and not model material.i am not having a go at slim ppl.

I don't think it means they are bitter in real life just sick of the abuse on here

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh get get things like even my dog would not fuck you....I do wonder

A. What have they been smoking/drinking

B. Have they had a mental health assessment recently

C....it's their mentality

I just move on,....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Not always down to being insecure, I prefer to be upfront about being fat from the start, saves people finding out after chatting for a while and wasting peoples time, that's my reason

Thats fair enough!

But thats not what the OP was about...

I realise that but there was a couple of comments from others about it being down to insecurities, apologies, was just airing my reason for it being in my profile, won't do it again! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh get get things like even my dog would not fuck you....I do wonder

A. What have they been smoking/drinking

B. Have they had a mental health assessment recently

C....it's their mentality

I just move on,...."

oh I got told once I was nothing but a two bit used whore who only came on here cause I cant pull in real life

then, get this

about a month later the same guy, who obviously forgot he had mailed me before, mailed me asking if I wanted to meet

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Oh get get things like even my dog would not fuck you....I do wonder

A. What have they been smoking/drinking

B. Have they had a mental health assessment recently

C....it's their mentality

I just move on,....

oh I got told once I was nothing but a two bit used whore who only came on here cause I cant pull in real life

then, get this

about a month later the same guy, who obviously forgot he had mailed me before, mailed me asking if I wanted to meet "

Did you meet him??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences it's when people become abusive exercising their preferences "

Exactly...we all like different things, but because someone might not like us/what we like it doesn't mean we have to be nasty about it. I have a pretty long (maybe boring) profile, but I don't think I slate anyone on it, just state who I am and what I like/dislike...hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem is a lot of big woman get so sick of the abuse from men on here and it can turn you bitter

the amount of men who mail me and when they don't get what they want they reply with things like well your a fat cunt anyway and I can do better than you down the pub it does make you wonder, what the hell did you mail me for them, though im not the type of person to have a ranty profile, I never have even when I had a profile worth reading lol I can understand why some women put things like.... im a big women if you don't like bugger off, I don't think it means they are bitter in real life just sick of the abuse on here "

Why take it so seriously? men just get annoyed because you say no thanks.

i have had nasty messages when i said no thanks, not just because i am fat though, too hairy, too old. if they dont say it to your face they will say it behind your back anyway.

some of the men who have messaged me i dont like but i am not nasty enough to say so, i try to be nice, even when they arent so nice about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh get get things like even my dog would not fuck you....I do wonder

A. What have they been smoking/drinking

B. Have they had a mental health assessment recently

C....it's their mentality

I just move on,....

oh I got told once I was nothing but a two bit used whore who only came on here cause I cant pull in real life

then, get this

about a month later the same guy, who obviously forgot he had mailed me before, mailed me asking if I wanted to meet "

Have had similar. A guy I'd said no to a few times must have taken offence and messaged to say he'd meet me...if I lost weight. I declined his kind offer and thought that'd be the last of it, but still get messaged off him almost once a month for a meet. I just delete now but makes me chuckle

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't get abusive messages.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

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"

Thats fair enough!

But thats not what the OP was about...

I realise that but there was a couple of comments from others about it being down to insecurities, apologies, was just airing my reason for it being in my profile, won't do it again! "

Maybe you should read what the OP wrote....

Because unless you have just changed your profile, you are not one of the women he was talking about!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I don't get abusive messages. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem is a lot of big woman get so sick of the abuse from men on here and it can turn you bitter

the amount of men who mail me and when they don't get what they want they reply with things like well your a fat cunt anyway and I can do better than you down the pub it does make you wonder, what the hell did you mail me for them, though im not the type of person to have a ranty profile, I never have even when I had a profile worth reading lol I can understand why some women put things like.... im a big women if you don't like bugger off, I don't think it means they are bitter in real life just sick of the abuse on here

Why take it so seriously? men just get annoyed because you say no thanks.

i have had nasty messages when i said no thanks, not just because i am fat though, too hairy, too old. if they dont say it to your face they will say it behind your back anyway.

some of the men who have messaged me i dont like but i am not nasty enough to say so, i try to be nice, even when they arent so nice about me.

"

some people are just more sensitive than others, you cant help your personality, I would never get upset by someone on a internet site I have never met, but some people do

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I don't get abusive messages. "

the benefit of having a lubed up Goliath poised for the chuff entry of any fool that dared.......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't get abusive messages.

the benefit of having a lubed up Goliath poised for the chuff entry of any fool that dared......."

The Goliath called 'spiked ripper'?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't get abusive messages.

the benefit of having a lubed up Goliath poised for the chuff entry of any fool that dared......."

Wouldn't it be more frightening without the lube?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I don't get abusive messages.

the benefit of having a lubed up Goliath poised for the chuff entry of any fool that dared.......

Wouldn't it be more frightening without the lube?"

she does have a heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is threads like this that cause trouble, just read, and either like or dislike, but dragging it up is not nice or helpful."

I disagree, I think threads like this one educate people as to how passing random negative comments affect others and your chances of a meet!...I mean who really wants to meet someone who's that bitchy and insecure??

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't get abusive messages.

the benefit of having a lubed up Goliath poised for the chuff entry of any fool that dared......."

lubed?!! Not always.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 02/11/13 21:07:22]

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't get abusive messages.

the benefit of having a lubed up Goliath poised for the chuff entry of any fool that dared.......

Wouldn't it be more frightening without the lube?"

...and there you go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

peering above the parapet and I think it's safe for my tin hat to come off. Think everyone took the post with the intention I meant. FRANSUMMERPARTIES hit the nail on the head.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't get abusive messages.

the benefit of having a lubed up Goliath poised for the chuff entry of any fool that dared.......

Wouldn't it be more frightening without the lube?

she does have a heart "

There you go with the assumptions again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"peering above the parapet and I think it's safe for my tin hat to come off. Think everyone took the post with the intention I meant. FRANSUMMERPARTIES hit the nail on the head. "

but that is the point of a profile, so you can get a feel for someone straight away, that's why i never get why people ask for help with their profile, surely people want to read what they have to say not what everyone tells them will attract people?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"peering above the parapet and I think it's safe for my tin hat to come off. Think everyone took the post with the intention I meant. FRANSUMMERPARTIES hit the nail on the head. "

You've got ninety posts to go before you know whether you can take that hat off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"peering above the parapet and I think it's safe for my tin hat to come off. Think everyone took the post with the intention I meant. FRANSUMMERPARTIES hit the nail on the head.

You've got ninety posts to go before you know whether you can take that hat off. "

I'll maybe just undo the chin strap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol "

Why? Are you saying that BBW's should only go with chubby guys?? What a daft statement, in your eyes then as a slim woman I should only go with slim guys, so not true as I like someone for their personality not size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol

Are bigger women not allowed preferences?"

It's more logistics I find! 2 massive tummys don't allow for meeting of the genitalia!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol

Are bigger women not allowed preferences?

It's more logistics I find! 2 massive tummys don't allow for meeting of the genitalia! "

Some positions work better than others. I meet men with big tums and the sleek, slender men. Where there's a willy there's a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not always down to being insecure, I prefer to be upfront about being fat from the start, saves people finding out after chatting for a while and wasting peoples time, that's my reason

Thats fair enough!

But thats not what the OP was about...

I realise that but there was a couple of comments from others about it being down to insecurities, apologies, was just airing my reason for it being in my profile, won't do it again! "

I think however it was being suggested that those profiles by BBW's who have derogatory statements about slim people are insecure so you have no need to apologise for saying you are a size 22 on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol

Are bigger women not allowed preferences?

It's more logistics I find! 2 massive tummys don't allow for meeting of the genitalia!

Some positions work better than others. I meet men with big tums and the sleek, slender men. Where there's a willy there's a way.

"

Indeed there is! Unless it's a 3" one! And yes I've met him haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i merely point out i am 18/20 so they dont die of shock.lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"i merely point out i am 18/20 so they dont die of shock.lol"

But you look smaller than me. Maybe my clothes are just generously cut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams the only club that does bbbbwwww nights/themes

I won't why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change the record please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it is the tone of a confident woman who knows what she wants and also knows how many dickheads are about if you dont spell it out to them.

say it as it is then there is no confusion

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I go where I please

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Chams the only club that does bbbbwwww nights/themes

I won't why "

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just state I'm not skinny or young then people can make their own choices I'd never slate skinnier people jeez I'd love to be one, just think people should know what I'm like that's all, certainly don't claim to be a BBW that's for sure I'm just overweight, all my own doing to lol no one to blame but myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chams the only club that does bbbbwwww nights/themes

I won't why

What do you mean? "

.

Use the green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are always gonna have an itchy trigger finger for a certain type of individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chams the only club that does bbbbwwww nights/themes

I won't why "

you won't why what?

f**k me i sound pissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't specify my size at all on my profile but I have full body pics and face pics on show so people can make their own minds up about whether to contact me or not. some people like to make it known on their profiles that they are bbw etc then that is upto them each to their own and if your not looking for bigger ladies then I don't see why it worries you what they put on their profile in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change the record please! "

Ermmmm....no!

but if the threads bore you, you don't have to take part!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat) "

Tad confused.... Is it what they are saying ? Or the way they have worded it ? That you take offence to?

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I understand and respect what the OP is saying, I am a larger lady and respect not everyone likes that, just like I am not keen on hairy men, ginger men, etc.....

We all have a preference and shouldn't be judged for it!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

Tad confused.... Is it what they are saying ? Or the way they have worded it ? That you take offence to? "

send reinforcements we're going to advance ....,.send three and fourpence we're going to a dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

Tad confused.... Is it what they are saying ? Or the way they have worded it ? That you take offence to?

send reinforcements we're going to advance ....,.send three and fourpence we're going to a dance "

Now even more confussed !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

Tad confused.... Is it what they are saying ? Or the way they have worded it ? That you take offence to?

send reinforcements we're going to advance ....,.send three and fourpence we're going to a dance

Now even more confussed !!!! "

the send reinforcements quote is reference something akin to chinese whispers where a message got changed after being sent from the front line to the head quarters.

My post in a nut shell refers to people (In this instance BBW, but I know it's common place on other profiles) having negative comments about what other people may find attractive/appealing, i.e. Slim/athletic ladies. In my opinion your profile should be about you and what you are looking for not what the reader is looking for, if you aren't their cup of tea then they should move on.

We all have preferences, and shouldn't be made to feel like we are being sexist/sizest/racist etc for stating them.

I do appreciate there are quite a few misogynistic guys out there that can't just read a profile and move in without being "see you next tuesdays".

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat) "
we agree! Are some very strange profiles out there, and frankly offensive to others. Think it is insecurities which are at the root of this, but seems bizzare to us! Ps no you're not a bad person expressing your preferances, and you havn't resorted to abuse stating that like some do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat) "

Havnt read the thread but im guessin most people say people can have prefrences ect but im sure if a "stick insect" said on their profile that if people r lookin for "big-fat-fattys" then they need to look elsewhere then people would not be sayin the same!!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol "

yea because chubby and chubby is a shite combination! More chaffing than sex! Had disasterous meets where two fatties are like weebles. I never have a problem with larger ladies tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

Havnt read the thread but im guessin most people say people can have prefrences ect but im sure if a "stick insect" said on their profile that if people r lookin for "big-fat-fattys" then they need to look elsewhere then people would not be sayin the same!!"

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I've stumbled across a few profiles of self professed BBW's that insist on writing things like "if your looking for stick insects/skinny/stick thin woman then jog on, do one, etc". To me this seems a little offensive to woman of a slighter frame and to the type of people who's preference they suite. Am I such a bad person because larger ladies aren't my type (I am now donning my tin hat)

Havnt read the thread but im guessin most people say people can have prefrences ect but im sure if a "stick insect" said on their profile that if people r lookin for "big-fat-fattys" then they need to look elsewhere then people would not be sayin the same!! "
exactly! Its not so much the preferences its the fact some on their profiles slate others in an offensive manner. Why some woman feel the need to do this is beyond me. We shouldnt have to justify our exsistance in this way. Is crazy!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I just find it hard to be humble.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

What's the collective noun for trolls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the collective noun for trolls?"

Slate - a slate of trolls

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What's the collective noun for trolls?

Slate - a slate of trolls "

Not an Underbridge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just find it hard to be humble."

I love your profile granny strumpet...short and sweet..just like you I'm guessing!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Funniest one I'd seen to be fair was im a bbw but I don't do chubby guys! Lol "

How dare fat birds have preferences? The absolute cheek of it! Don't they know they should be grateful for any attention?

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