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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

We're swingles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaggers.

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By *ittle-Miss-NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Worksop

Why arent you a swinger????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already given you one

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A label that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

we are not allowed to be disrespectful, but as you say you are not a swinger, as you are single.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"
sex goddess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to sway this way, and that way !

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

How you doing Fire Crotch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im doing alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you need a label?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

yeah, why aren't us Singlies swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels are for jam !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God Knows What i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh but your part of the swinging lifestyle so drop the word swinging and call yourself a lifestyler...... simples innit

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Why do people on here get their backs up when others tell them what they are or are not???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy shaggers

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

No driving couples aren't swingers either as they have no car keys to put into a bowl

It's a pretty high bar to be an official swinger, some say you have to pass an induction ceremony involving one trouser leg being rolled half way up

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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we are not allowed to be disrespectful, but as you say you are not a swinger, as you are single."

I have my own definition of "swinger" and I agree with this....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people on here get their backs up when others tell them what they are or are not???

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I'm not annoyed, this is just for fun. In the grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fun seeker x your life, live it! no labels required xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet up with couples/singles etc and go to clubs then yes! If you're on here just to chat then no! That's like me saying I'm a golfer for chatting on a golfing forum with no intention of striking a ball! But really who cares?......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're swingles. "

I like that too. It's kind of sweet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?

we are not allowed to be disrespectful, but as you say you are not a swinger, as you are single."

That's ok, I really don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

Who are these silly sods who believe they are the swinger police ?

Who appointed them x sad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am just me here for a chat and a laugh and will enjoy the company of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're swingles. "

I like this. Sounds better than sex maniacs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt give a toss what the 'swingers' think.

theres so much variety in the meets(even those over the internet) that there isnt any real definition

from the 1on1s,threesomes,gangbangs..I can only say YaY!(and some normal meets with no sex)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

As Wikipedia and the OED seem to think that the definition of swingers include single people, I think this is one of those words that will eventually evolve into having a broader meaning than originally thought.

However, anyone who would rather argue definitions about a word than meet and bonk each others brains out is probably a touch too pedantic for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see things as 'swingers and singles who join in the swinging lifestyle.'

Does it really matter about lables?

We're all just open minded adults who have lowered our barriers but not our standards.

Have fun. That's what we're all here for, surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you need a label?"

No one does. It's just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a swingle and proud my new staus! Love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

Happy Hussy...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am single and describe myself as a tart, slut, loose woman, sex addict, random fucker, some describe me as a self gratifying bastard, and I don't argue,

I don't want to put the effort in to build a relationship, so use men for my self gratification

If I chose a label for myself, it would be

The village bike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use labels for a reason. Not many people buy the tins of food with no label on. You could have been hoping for beans and end up with prunes.

That is exactly why people use labels. You wouldn't meet someone not having a clue what they are would you.

The definition of swinging is partner swapping BUT you can call yourself what you want as long as its honest.

This is all my own opinion not fact!!!!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Erm any chance of a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be the village bike, but your not a man!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Overall I think "a rose by any other name would smell as sweet". It really doesn't matter as long as it remains fun. I'm having the best time ever. I'm a very happy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm any chance of a shag "

dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People use labels for a reason. Not many people buy the tins of food with no label on. You could have been hoping for beans and end up with prunes.

That is exactly why people use labels. You wouldn't meet someone not having a clue what they are would you.

The definition of swinging is partner swapping BUT you can call yourself what you want as long as its honest.

This is all my own opinion not fact!!!! "

You are lovely xxxx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why do people on here get their backs up when others tell them what they are or are not???

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Lord knows but some obviously do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is all my own opinion not fact!!!!

You are lovely xxxx"

Are you being sarcastic after my post?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people on here get their backs up when others tell them what they are or are not???

Lord knows but some obviously do! "

See above...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People use labels for a reason. Not many people buy the tins of food with no label on. You could have been hoping for beans and end up with prunes.

That is exactly why people use labels. You wouldn't meet someone not having a clue what they are would you.

The definition of swinging is partner swapping BUT you can call yourself what you want as long as its honest.

This is all my own opinion not fact!!!! "

sentient beings, ie, humans, can communicate, if you have a label it takes away flexibility, its just a lazy way to pick things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is all my own opinion not fact!!!!

You are lovely xxxx

Are you being sarcastic after my post? "

No. Not being sarcastic. I had a peek at your photos and you are beautiful xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How you doing Fire Crotch "

I've made a little change to my profile, just for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Overall I think "a rose by any other name would smell as sweet". It really doesn't matter as long as it remains fun. I'm having the best time ever. I'm a very happy me "

There's your label. "happy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is all my own opinion not fact!!!!

You are lovely xxxx

Are you being sarcastic after my post?

No. Not being sarcastic. I had a peek at your photos and you are beautiful xxx"

Awe thank you. Now I'm the embarrassed one

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Well swingers is a better name for.... "People who want no strings attached sex and don't want to get bogged down with a relationship"

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"How you doing Fire Crotch

I've made a little change to my profile, just for you "

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is all my own opinion not fact!!!!

You are lovely xxxx

Are you being sarcastic after my post?

No. Not being sarcastic. I had a peek at your photos and you are beautiful xxx

Awe thank you. Now I'm the embarrassed one "

No need to be x wish I was in Ayrshire.....mmmm bus/ferry £44 return mmmm xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh cancel the ferry! No looky for single men your husband is a lucky guy. Jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the problem is, when you drop labels, no one knows what they are getting.

have said it before

swinging has moved on from the archetypical 'keys in the bowl wife swapping' so no longer just means couples HOWEVER.... it cant just be described as people with liberal attitudes to sex and easy virtue, as that would then throw the lifestyle open to those that go out of a weekend and get d*unk, end up down a back alley giving a blowey to the first bloke that didnt recoil at their puke smelling breath (and obviously the opposite also counts).

but then, as swingles, it also cant be contained to those that go to swinging clubs, as not all do, or are interested in doing so.

also, not all swingles are on this site, so it really is a very difficult thing to define within solid perameters.

i really should wake up in a less thoughtful mood as i have jst typed all that then thought 'why? nobody cares anyway' lol

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"We see things as 'swingers and singles who join in the swinging lifestyle.'

Does it really matter about lables?

We're all just open minded adults who have lowered our barriers but not our standards.

Have fun. That's what we're all here for, surely?"

I said on another thread that "nympho recreational sex beast" doesn't slide off the tongue as easily as swinger and "single who joins in the swinging lifestyle" is even more of a mouthful

I'll stick with "swinger" as a convenient label, but I'm quite a bit more than that in day to day life

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"the problem is, when you drop labels, no one knows what they are getting.

have said it before

swinging has moved on from the archetypical 'keys in the bowl wife swapping' so no longer just means couples HOWEVER.... it cant just be described as people with liberal attitudes to sex and easy virtue, as that would then throw the lifestyle open to those that go out of a weekend and get d*unk, end up down a back alley giving a blowey to the first bloke that didnt recoil at their puke smelling breath (and obviously the opposite also counts).

but then, as swingles, it also cant be contained to those that go to swinging clubs, as not all do, or are interested in doing so.

also, not all swingles are on this site, so it really is a very difficult thing to define within solid perameters.

i really should wake up in a less thoughtful mood as i have jst typed all that then thought 'why? nobody cares anyway' lol"

I give this a Bravo out of 10.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"the problem is, when you drop labels, no one knows what they are getting.

have said it before

swinging has moved on from the archetypical 'keys in the bowl wife swapping' so no longer just means couples HOWEVER.... it cant just be described as people with liberal attitudes to sex and easy virtue, as that would then throw the lifestyle open to those that go out of a weekend and get d*unk, end up down a back alley giving a blowey to the first bloke that didnt recoil at their puke smelling breath (and obviously the opposite also counts).

but then, as swingles, it also cant be contained to those that go to swinging clubs, as not all do, or are interested in doing so.

also, not all swingles are on this site, so it really is a very difficult thing to define within solid perameters.

i really should wake up in a less thoughtful mood as i have jst typed all that then thought 'why? nobody cares anyway' lol"

Lol. It's a good logic chain. Thank you for taking the time. Language is ever evolving so "swingers" could encompass all of us enjoying an alternative sexual lifestyle. I'll quote the "gay" here as an example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roundabouters

(Swings and roundabouts)

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I'm just horny. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if I'm a swinger or not. But as long as I'm having fun I don't care what label I'm given.

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast


"I'm not sure if I'm a swinger or not. But as long as I'm having fun I don't care what label I'm given."

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"As Wikipedia and the OED seem to think that the definition of swingers include single people, I think this is one of those words that will eventually evolve into having a broader meaning than originally thought.

However, anyone who would rather argue definitions about a word than meet and bonk each others brains out is probably a touch too pedantic for me. "

Bullseye, yhatse, dingdingding, nail on head!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

I don't have a label. I don't need a label. I don't want a label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

Your quite simply "playing the field" as they say.

Now it just depends on the type of "field players" you like.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Hehe, I like swingle, it's cute, then we can all go swingling!

Failing that - just 'Horny'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about hedonist, sounds cool with enough margin to mean what ever you want it to mean, so part time hedonist, stunt man, and international jewel thief is my new label like it or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about hedonist, sounds cool with enough margin to mean what ever you want it to mean, so part time hedonist, stunt man, and international jewel thief is my new label like it or not lol "

Ahhh the wonderful philosophy of hedonism. All creatures are hedonists by nature, even newborns .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut? Works for men and women.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I agree.....swinging imo is a couple swopping or having extra people to play with......singles are just greedy.....(me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slut? Works for men and women."

sums it up, perfectly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabsluts it is then! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who gives a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slut? Works for men and women.

sums it up, perfectly x"

I'm an insatiable slut whore. It's not hard for me to live up to my label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

Agree

I'm single I'm not a swinger

I just like young men

And there's plenty of victims on here I can choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

Your beautiful

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Slut? Works for men and women."

I so hate that word, instant turnoff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough. It's out there now! single? Casual sex with virtual strangers? Slut. Fact!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I have not read your profile so don't know what you are looking for.....but for me, swingers are looking for group sex.

If people are looking for 1-2-1 then I would say it isn't what is called swinging but I bet they are having as much fun anyway

This is just my definition.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Tough. It's out there now! single? Casual sex with virtual strangers? Slut. Fact! "

Disagree. Question of attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the top of your post describes you perfectly touchoclass woman.

' nuff said.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Yawn.

I didn't lose my open mind, diverse taste & sexual appetite when i got divorced. I just got rid of the muppet & his last name.

To those claiming singles arnt swingers don't do 3sums with them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont care what im labelled as long as im enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God Knows What i am "
HOT DAMN HOT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like really tasty packet of sweets

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yawn.

I didn't lose my open mind, diverse taste & sexual appetite when i got divorced. I just got rid of the muppet & his last name.

To those claiming singles arnt swingers don't do 3sums with them then "

I am guessing this could be for me.

I did say it is mt own definition, no one else has to agree....but by my own definition group sex is swinging.

When we first starting on this site we were told we were not "true" swingers either because we don't swop partners....but it didn't bother us what people thought as long as we are having fun....we didn't get defensive either

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Must admit when we joined this site many years ago we were surprised to see single people here. We quickly realised that this is not a wife swapping site (not sure if they exist but they probably do). This is a site for people to come and have sex with others. Not sure of the definition of “a swinger” but we love this site so wouldn’t go to a wife swap site even if there is one. There are plenty of sites for singles looking for 1 to 1 sex and this is one of them. Its here to be used as the members see fit and we just love it. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us swingles should go on strike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont care what im labelled as long as im enjoying it "

Me either. And I'm really enjoying fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single, like to meet just socially, or just chat on here but I do meet and have met different guys for sex, so I'm a swingle

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

[Removed by poster at 02/11/13 14:20:47]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ruggers essentially has the key, and i mention it when the topic comes up..it is group sex

(whether same room or separate)

a couple who swap partners..as opposed to those who are 'wifeswappers' is a fine definition to me

those that can include themselves in group sex scenarios are a fine definition(even if they dont physically participate)

those only interested in one to one meetings, might not be considered as swingy as others

then there is the cyberswingers..and theres no harm in that, but they gotta know their place on the scene lol

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"Yawn.

I didn't lose my open mind, diverse taste & sexual appetite when i got divorced. I just got rid of the muppet & his last name.

To those claiming singles arnt swingers don't do 3sums with them then

I am guessing this could be for me.

I did say it is mt own definition, no one else has to agree....but by my own definition group sex is swinging.

When we first starting on this site we were told we were not "true" swingers either because we don't swop partners....but it didn't bother us what people thought as long as we are having fun....we didn't get defensive either "

It's not aimed at any one

It is the couples that go on about how singles are not swingers but then want me to join them for a ffm, & yet if a male were to approach them... different story.

You either accept singles as swingers and engage in more sum sex with them or dont, Gender has no influence there.

@Rdf I haven't even looked at you profile so have no idea if you meet with singles/men/women and I don't need to know.

I stand by what I said.

If couples think singles are not swingers then they shouldn't approach them for ffm or mmf. That is my thinking.

I was a swinger when married, I was a swinger after my divorce and just because I am genuinely single, I'm still a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought this would be such a hot topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yawn.

I didn't lose my open mind, diverse taste & sexual appetite when i got divorced. I just got rid of the muppet & his last name.

To those claiming singles arnt swingers don't do 3sums with them then

I am guessing this could be for me.

I did say it is mt own definition, no one else has to agree....but by my own definition group sex is swinging.

When we first starting on this site we were told we were not "true" swingers either because we don't swop partners....but it didn't bother us what people thought as long as we are having fun....we didn't get defensive either

It's not aimed at any one

It is the couples that go on about how singles are not swingers but then want me to join them for a ffm, & yet if a male were to approach them... different story.

You either accept singles as swingers and engage in more sum sex with them or dont, Gender has no influence there.

@Rdf I haven't even looked at you profile so have no idea if you meet with singles/men/women and I don't need to know.

I stand by what I said.

If couples think singles are not swingers then they shouldn't approach them for ffm or mmf. That is my thinking.

I was a swinger when married, I was a swinger after my divorce and just because I am genuinely single, I'm still a swinger. "

best comment I have read to date

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Our name is a big giveaway and as you posted just after our post I didn't think that you may be talking about people who mail you.

I am not sure what the gender thing is about though but no matter.

Whatever peoples definition is fine as it makes no difference to how we all use the site.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I swing both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?

Your beautiful "

One day sweet man...I'm coming to get you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets start a revolution, all us swingles rise up! lets see how the couples do when they fancy a fmm or mmf. strike I say

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Couldn't agree more. ?..xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Lets start a revolution, all us swingles rise up! lets see how the couples do when they fancy a fmm or mmf. strike I say "

They would just play with each other like they do the rest of the time they are not having group sex

We didn't get defensive when someone told us we are not "true" swingers so I am not sure why you singles are getting so defensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lately, there seem to have been a lot of "couples" claiming that "singles can't be swingers"...

So they've finally persuade me that it's time to give up and stop swinging...

Seems that us single bi-females are just not wanted ...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?

No driving couples aren't swingers either as they have no car keys to put into a bowl

It's a pretty high bar to be an official swinger, some say you have to pass an induction ceremony involving one trouser leg being rolled half way up"
that has made me chuckle lol love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just lately, there seem to have been a lot of "couples" claiming that "singles can't be swingers"...

So they've finally persuade me that it's time to give up and stop swinging...

Seems that us single bi-females are just not wanted ...!!!

"

well..as I feel sorry ur leaving, I should suggest we start a couples profile..I'll just tell prospective meets ur stuck in traffic and we've to go ahead till u might arrive

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By *dd269Man
over a year ago

Clee

He's one of the seven dwarfs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God Knows What i am "

Stunning

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

well..as I feel sorry ur leaving, I should suggest we start a couples profile..I'll just tell prospective meets ur stuck in traffic and we've to go ahead till u might arrive"

Always grasping an opportunity but that was quick even for you

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By *dd269Man
over a year ago

Clee

Happy, Grumpy, Dozey, Sleepy, Sneezey, and err gropey & sleazy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm single and I like sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

well..as I feel sorry ur leaving, I should suggest we start a couples profile..I'll just tell prospective meets ur stuck in traffic and we've to go ahead till u might arrive

Always grasping an opportunity but that was quick even for you "

she put out the signal..I had to oblige...plus she keeps sending me wet fanny pics

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By *exystargirlWoman
over a year ago

Warrington

"singles can't be swingers"

Singles can but not for a long period of time, only short bursts. As in coming out of a relationship, confidence boost etc.

I've had many breaks on here, dating wise and clear my head. As i think being single longterm only plays with your head with how alot can be on here, often men want to date a women on here, which might work for some but not for me.

Might sound crazy but it'd be a long while before i told a guy i was dating about swinging and even then i'd liked as a fem friend for a ffm first.

I just wouldn't be comfortable with a future partner being on here until i could fully trust him and that takes time. again thats my _iew point, many have done different and had no issues and solid relationships, as they have found their soul mate and life is a open book. The sods lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Suggestions please?"

do your thing......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the 'singles can't be swingers' on the face of it as there is no partner to swap, but for me personally that's just cos I haven't got a partner. If I were to get into a relationship I really do think I'd still want to be a part of this lifestyle, just with him too. Guess what I'm trying to say is surely being a swinger is a mindset rather than a relationship status? Or maybe I'm just a swinger in training

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're swingles. "

This lol

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By *exystargirlWoman
over a year ago

Warrington


"I get the 'singles can't be swingers' on the face of it as there is no partner to swap, but for me personally that's just cos I haven't got a partner. If I were to get into a relationship I really do think I'd still want to be a part of this lifestyle, just with him too. Guess what I'm trying to say is surely being a swinger is a mindset rather than a relationship status? Or maybe I'm just a swinger in training "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we are classed as swingers when we full swap with another couple, what do we become known as when we have a MMF 3some, by definition we can no longer be swingers as the male doesnt bring a female partner, so are we a couple that has invited a swingle for fun or can we call it swingtriplet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the group sex definition is a red herring, as there are plenty of couples around where they meet separately, so where does the group aspect come into it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I often wish there was a "like" button on here. So many interesting and funny comments. Thank you everyone for contributing. There's no one answer. Forums were invented for debate. I think we've done very well.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think the group sex definition is a red herring, as there are plenty of couples around where they meet separately, so where does the group aspect come into it?"

most of the time there will be a voyeuristic element, and thus sexual gratification for not even being at the scene of the shagging..so in effect, its becomes a group thing

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Swinger-A person who indulges in promiscuous sex.

So it matters not your relationship status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wish there was a "like" button on here. So many interesting and funny comments. Thank you everyone for contributing. There's no one answer. Forums were invented for debate. I think we've done very well. "

slaps hot arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often wish there was a "like" button on here. So many interesting and funny comments. Thank you everyone for contributing. There's no one answer. Forums were invented for debate. I think we've done very well.

slaps hot arse"

Oooo thank you....pull my hair a bit too would you?

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By *aradiseClub50Woman
over a year ago

Loughborough zouch


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?"

Why? Aren't singles part of what couples look for when wanting FFM or MMF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chill and do what floats your boat and let everybody else do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?

Why? Aren't singles part of what couples look for when wanting FFM or MMF"

Exactly, if there was no singles there would be no variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wish there was a "like" button on here. So many interesting and funny comments. Thank you everyone for contributing. There's no one answer. Forums were invented for debate. I think we've done very well.

slaps hot arse

Oooo thank you....pull my hair a bit too would you? "

I slapped my own hot arse FFS! its not all about U...urs is ok though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often wish there was a "like" button on here. So many interesting and funny comments. Thank you everyone for contributing. There's no one answer. Forums were invented for debate. I think we've done very well.

slaps hot arse

Oooo thank you....pull my hair a bit too would you?

I slapped my own hot arse FFS! its not all about U...urs is ok though "

Doh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinger-A person who indulges in promiscuous sex.

So it matters not your relationship status.

"

so, you go out on a saturday night, get d*unk, pick up a laydee from a bar, take her home

this makes one a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evidently I'm not a swinger. Therefore I must have a label. Suggestions please?

Why? Aren't singles part of what couples look for when wanting FFM or MMF

Exactly, if there was no singles there would be no variety "

erm....couples meeting with couples means twice the variety than meting a single person, so that doesnt work lol.

i agree, without swingles, the lifestyle would not be the same, good or bad, as said, there is no point looking for one definition as it doesnt exist.

swingers (for couples)

swingles (for singles)

think that works very well, if people feel they HAVE to have a label.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Swinger-A person who indulges in promiscuous sex.

So it matters not your relationship status.

so, you go out on a saturday night, get d*unk, pick up a laydee from a bar, take her home

this makes one a swinger?"

If you do it on a regular basis,with a variety of laydees.

According to the dictionary.

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