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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I the only person who gets irritated when people don't read your profile. My profile clearly states I can't meet at day only at night yet I still get people ask for day meets. Yes, because my commitments will just disappear for you! Um no :/

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

Yep ... get's my goat too ... 4 letter word springs to mind ... starts with T ends with T and sounds like diplomat ... which I quite clearly am not !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep ... get's my goat too ... 4 letter word springs to mind ... starts with T ends with T and sounds like diplomat ... which I quite clearly am not !!!! "

ha that made me chuckle!

I think some men think the only day commitments you can have is work. Um no some people have walking talking commitments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a guy and clearly state straight! And I get loads of men Aghhh gets to me too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a guy and clearly state straight! And I get loads of men Aghhh gets to me too x"

I hear that from a lot of men!

Also to my previous post that's not me saying only men do it but I only get men message me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person who gets irritated when people don't read your profile. My profile clearly states I can't meet at day only at night yet I still get people ask for day meets. Yes, because my commitments will just disappear for you! Um no :/ "

Maybe they are too busy stalking the honey monster at night?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only person who gets irritated when people don't read your profile. My profile clearly states I can't meet at day only at night yet I still get people ask for day meets. Yes, because my commitments will just disappear for you! Um no :/

Maybe they are too busy stalking the honey monster at night? "

well I am sure they could hang up their hunting hat for one night to hang out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a guy and clearly state straight! And I get loads of men Aghhh gets to me too x

I hear that from a lot of men!

Also to my previous post that's not me saying only men do it but I only get men message me! "

not defending the first liner "fancy a shag" merchants but I find that not everything a person writes on their profile is written in stone, there are sometimes gray areas that you discover after chatting for a while ....It can be confusing at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umm I'm sure think that was a dig to all men well I get it too and does my head in as not been on here long so get all excited I got message and then its a MAN!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Umm I'm sure think that was a dig to all men well I get it too and does my head in as not been on here long so get all excited I got message and then its a MAN!! Lol"

Must be quite a anti-climax no pun intended

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a guy and clearly state straight! And I get loads of men Aghhh gets to me too x

I hear that from a lot of men!

Also to my previous post that's not me saying only men do it but I only get men message me!

not defending the first liner "fancy a shag" merchants but I find that not everything a person writes on their profile is written in stone, there are sometimes gray areas that you discover after chatting for a while ....It can be confusing at times "

yes I totally agree but then I think you should message possibly saying "can you never meet in the day or are there some instances where a day meet may be possible?" I would accept that better as its a question showing they have read my profile its when it appears they've not even read it I am bothered with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person who gets irritated when people don't read your profile. My profile clearly states I can't meet at day only at night yet I still get people ask for day meets. Yes, because my commitments will just disappear for you! Um no :/ "

So do you fancy meeting up today in the daytime ;p

Oh come on someone had to put it...might as well be me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only person who gets irritated when people don't read your profile. My profile clearly states I can't meet at day only at night yet I still get people ask for day meets. Yes, because my commitments will just disappear for you! Um no :/

So do you fancy meeting up today in the daytime ;p

Oh come on someone had to put it...might as well be me hahaha "

cheeky git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's irritating and funny. We have " Read the entire profile please. You might actually learn something about us. " at the top of our profile page. We just tell people " No Thanks, we're not interested "

Besides, we're not sure we would want to meet anyone that " can't " or " won't " read or comprehend what's in our profile. "

I delete messages that appear they haven't even read my profile if they can't take the time to read my profile I am not taking the time to talk to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's irritating and funny. We have " Read the entire profile please. You might actually learn something about us. " at the top of our profile page. We just tell these people " No Thanks, we're not interested "

Besides, we're not sure we would want to meet anyone that won't take the time read or comprehend what's written in our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a guy and clearly state straight! And I get loads of men Aghhh gets to me too x

I hear that from a lot of men!

Also to my previous post that's not me saying only men do it but I only get men message me!

not defending the first liner "fancy a shag" merchants but I find that not everything a person writes on their profile is written in stone, there are sometimes gray areas that you discover after chatting for a while ....It can be confusing at times

yes I totally agree but then I think you should message possibly saying "can you never meet in the day or are there some instances where a day meet may be possible?" I would accept that better as its a question showing they have read my profile its when it appears they've not even read it I am bothered with "

I agree totally, its only after chatting that you discover there are some gray areas but you are right its better to read a profile but sometimes reading a profile might put you off messaging someone when in fact you should, I have started to message more now but including something about it being a shame "you are to far away" or whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, we just delete messages if it's clear they haven't read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading profiles is an art that a lot of fabsters haven't quite managed

Oh well. They wasted a message with me as they just get a no thanks. Or something worse if it takes my fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have same problem,all the info is on my profile yet always asked the opposite,as they haven't read it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt bother me just makes me laugh...the ive read your profile and would you like to meet messages.

Obviously you didnt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person who gets irritated when people don't read your profile. My profile clearly states I can't meet at day only at night yet I still get people ask for day meets. Yes, because my commitments will just disappear for you! Um no :/ "

Get it all the time

heyho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My problem is..i read the profiles. Then, i cant message because im not what they are looking for. And that is the majority of profiles on here.

So, im stuck in a limbo.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket


"Am I the only person who gets irritated when people don't read your profile. My profile clearly states I can't meet at day only at night yet I still get people ask for day meets. Yes, because my commitments will just disappear for you! Um no :/ "

You are looking for miracles here as most men on here don't read profiles (maybe they can't read!). They just perve on the profile pics and if they like what they see, they message.

Asking most men to think with their heads and not their cocks is beyond the reach of some, so I'm afraid you'll be getting lots more fuckwits asking you for daytime meets.... sowwwwwwwy

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don't understand not reading profiles. People who you are not wanting to meet (clearly says) contact you, do they think you are going to change your mind?

Sorry our profile is there for a reason - respect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why get irritated. If they don't read it use that to hekp you decide if you want to meet them. Or go looking for who you want to meet.

People don't bother reading mine, which is one reason why it's a shit profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also why I don't have pics.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I was mailed for a second time by someone who I had turned down and who did not fit my preferences. He either had forgotten he had mailed me 2 months previously or he was trying it on. I turned him down again as he'd clearly not read my profile - again. His response was that no one would read a profile that long. Now the parts of my profile which he clearly did not fit in with were very near the beginning so evidently 40 - 50 words was a little too taxing for him.

This is partly why it is long. It acts as a kind of numpty filter for those who just want to look at pretty pictures rather than engage grey matter.

So when guys have evidently not read my profile I can simply say no thank you as I know they are not for me.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i just delete the message and forget about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have just had this happen, a couple messaged us, if they had read our profile they would know that we wouldn't be interested but still messaged

We messaged sayin we wouldn't be interested got a nasty reply back n then blocked us

If people read profiles it would save them a lot of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why get irritated. If they don't read it use that to hekp you decide if you want to meet them. Or go looking for who you want to meet.

People don't bother reading mine, which is one reason why it's a shit profile. "

Read yours. And you just have your initial as a headline! ...=S in morse code!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why get irritated. If they don't read it use that to hekp you decide if you want to meet them. Or go looking for who you want to meet.

People don't bother reading mine, which is one reason why it's a shit profile.

Read yours. And you just have your initial as a headline! ...=S in morse code! "

Is it really? Ooh I didn't know that! I feel quite intelligent now, in a dopey kind of way.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

For those that don't read my profile I just block them when they have messaged me asking if I meet young fit men of 22 when my filters are set at a lot higher.

The ones that don't read of my lack of free time but assume I am free tonight. Or ask what I am doing Saturday night. My reply is being mum as normal. I do get fed up but understand some will not read. Delete and block.

Fruit x

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