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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been sending out messages trying to get a little chatting going on. If i sent you the message belowe ladies, would you block or reply???

hello,

well what can i say thats not been said before???

I have small assets and sex is not my gift from god. Bet no one has opened up with that before? lol lol lol

So really what do I have to offer to grab your attention and of course keep it. Well Id like to think im funny and can make you laugh. Thats what a girl is after. Just like the cliche of its not size that matters but its what you do with it. The same as a girl looks for a guy who can make her laugh lol lol. I'll try!!!

So where can we start...hopefully MSN chat. would that be ok with you?

In your reply to this please say yes to msn and make my night.

And to get your mind pumping:

Bath or shower?

knickers or thongs?

M&S or Bravissimo?

Brad or Orlando?

Spain or France?

Coffee or Tea?

Tanlines or topless?

Bikini or swim suit?

Cubical shower or open planned?

Theres a starter for 10 or whatever lol lol

Please reply!!!!

Gxxx

PLease let me know what you would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you sent me that now, I'd delete it as it's obviously a message you are going to copy and paste to anyone that you're interested in.

Try to tailor your message to the recipient. What is it about that person that has caught your eye? is there anything in their profile which you can spark a conversation from?

Also... don't beg for a response, that just spacks of desperation.

I think, if you search in the swinging area of the forum you'll find there are some threads with lots of hints, tips and advice to help single guys get a head start on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would reply with a no thanks, certainly wouldn’t block people just for sending one message, the mere mention of MSN in a first message, or an attached mobile number, usually results in NO, even more so if the person sending it has cybersex or phone sex as an interest.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Either delete or send a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IT WOULD JUST BE A NO THANKS,WOULDN'T BLOCK YOU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been sending out messages trying to get a little chatting going on. If i sent you the message belowe ladies, would you block or reply???

hello,

well what can i say thats not been said before???

I would not block, however, for many women (and men) confidence is so much more sexy than looks or the promise of being taken out for dinner or whatever. Confidence is cerebral, suggestive, hinting at the unknown, the unpredictable... and to me that is incredibly attractive. So, I would suggest you send a message that suggests confidence in your ability rather than putting yourself down. Does that sound ok to you?

I have small assets and sex is not my gift from god. Bet no one has opened up with that before? lol lol lol

So really what do I have to offer to grab your attention and of course keep it. Well Id like to think im funny and can make you laugh. Thats what a girl is after. Just like the cliche of its not size that matters but its what you do with it. The same as a girl looks for a guy who can make her laugh lol lol. I'll try!!!

So where can we start...hopefully MSN chat. would that be ok with you?

In your reply to this please say yes to msn and make my night.

And to get your mind pumping:

Bath or shower?

knickers or thongs?

M&S or Bravissimo?

Brad or Orlando?

Spain or France?

Coffee or Tea?

Tanlines or topless?

Bikini or swim suit?

Cubical shower or open planned?

Theres a starter for 10 or whatever lol lol

Please reply!!!!

Gxxx

PLease let me know what you would do"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been sending out messages trying to get a little chatting going on. If i sent you the message belowe ladies, would you block or reply???

hello,

well what can i say thats not been said before???

I have small assets and sex is not my gift from god. Bet no one has opened up with that before? lol lol lol

So really what do I have to offer to grab your attention and of course keep it. Well Id like to think im funny and can make you laugh. Thats what a girl is after. Just like the cliche of its not size that matters but its what you do with it. The same as a girl looks for a guy who can make her laugh lol lol. I'll try!!!

So where can we start...hopefully MSN chat. would that be ok with you?

In your reply to this please say yes to msn and make my night.

And to get your mind pumping:

Bath or shower?

knickers or thongs?

M&S or Bravissimo?

Brad or Orlando?

Spain or France?

Coffee or Tea?

Tanlines or topless?

Bikini or swim suit?

Cubical shower or open planned?

Theres a starter for 10 or whatever lol lol

Please reply!!!!

Gxxx

PLease let me know what you would do"

ooops that was meant to go here lol...

well what can i say thats not been said before???

I would not block, however, for many women (and men) confidence is so much more sexy than looks or the promise of being taken out for dinner or whatever. Confidence is cerebral, suggestive, hinting at the unknown, the unpredictable... and to me that is incredibly attractive. So, I would suggest you send a message that suggests confidence in your ability rather than putting yourself down. Does that sound ok to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is unsolicited, and I have already mentioned in my profile that (i) I am not looking for more playmates; (ii) I no longer have time for chat/phone/meet/whatever; (iii) and that I will not respond to unsolicited message from now on; all in the first paragraph of my profile; then yes!

Reason: The sender has either not read my profile properly, or he is chancing it. Either way would have result in a delete and block, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd delete it without reply. As stated above, spend a little time reading the profiles of the people you're interested in and not just look at the pretty pictures. Try out your questionnaire on a girl in a pub and at the end ask her if she'd like to fuck you now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and the message appears to be a cut-and-paste job lacking in personal touches.

Adding to what I have mentioned previously, all in all, it screams lack of attention to detail to me, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete it as in the end it is that most hated of message, a cut n' paste circular, however witty it was meant to be. The forum is the place for that kind of thing...

Hang on....

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Well no-one gets a cut and paste message from me - coz I can`t cut and paste I thought it was something you did with scissors and a tube of Uhu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow that's a long message to send out. I usually read a profile and send a message saying i am interested and comment about what part of the persons profile i like and which picture if any looks good. Iy isn't easy knowing what to put but i am assuming if someone reads and deletes they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block timewasters...pretend friends ...

and those i have no wish to know..

re contact etc.......those who have ignored profile. etc .

gone.end of.

SIMPLES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block timewasters...pretend friends ...

and those i have no wish to know..

re contact etc.......those who have ignored profile. etc .

gone.end of.

SIMPLES "

Well your profile says not meeting so i wouldn't message you to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if a girl sent that to me I'd think she was a bit odd. If a girl sent that to you would you not think the same?

Sounds unnatural, and a touch on the desperate side. No need to hit 'em with your flaws, that certainly won't get you anywhere... and I don't think telling them what they want is going to help either, they know what they want not you.

What other people have said about making it personal is generally going to get you more response. Don't over think the messages (obviously give them some thought) but what I really mean is, picture yourself having just met them in the supermarket or something, make it sound a bit more off the cuff without being perverse. I have found this gets more response personally. Not that I am the best or worst at this, just my opinions though!

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By *luffybbbWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I would also delete as it is obviously copied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block timewasters...pretend friends ...

and those i have no wish to know..

re contact etc.......those who have ignored profile. etc .

gone.end of.

SIMPLES

Well your profile says not meeting so i wouldn't message you to meet."

Yerrrrrrrrrrrrr

A man who can read ]

full marks hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block timewasters...pretend friends ...

and those i have no wish to know..

re contact etc.......those who have ignored profile. etc .

gone.end of.

SIMPLES

Well your profile says not meeting so i wouldn't message you to meet."

Nice chest though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well your profile says not meeting so i wouldn't message you to meet."

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And mine does too, so if and when I do get a message like that, I would delete and block for certain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it is unsolicited, and I have already mentioned in my profile that (i) I am not looking for more playmates; (ii) I no longer have time for chat/phone/meet/whatever; (iii) and that I will not respond to unsolicited message from now on; all in the first paragraph of my profile; then yes!

Reason: The sender has either not read my profile properly, or he is chancing it. Either way would have result in a delete and block, sorry! "

I'm with Pearl on this one, I'd do the same.

Although I prefer sub males if I were meeting that's what I want to do: meet not cyber!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt block you but probably wouldnt answer, its obviously something you will send to everyone, prefer someone to make an effort to send a message to me as in what my profile says etc, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ok if I got a message like that I would laugh at it if im honest

I would'nt respond as people have said its so clearly cut n paste

Not worth a block though,its not as if you've been abusive in any way

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By *wned EmCouple
over a year ago

nuneaton

I wouldn't reply if you messaged this profile as you clearly would not have read it.

I would reply if you messaged our couples profile but with a cut and paste standardised 'not looking to meet anyone new' message. I don't bother deleting messages as they disappear off the message list eventually anyway. I only block if people are becoming annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As lots have said nothing personal, same message to everybody.

No thanks. But wouldn't block.

Unless I got it again and again after a saying No thanks.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

There is a phrase I was once told and its very true for places like fab and that is Originality brings rewards. Bit of effort and you will reap its benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its better to ignore than block cos it drives em potty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block if people are becoming annoying."

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The trouble is that I am easily annoyed, hence the delete and block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its better to ignore than block cos it drives em potty... "

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Really?

I learn something new everyday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its better to ignore than block cos it drives em potty...

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Really?

I learn something new everyday! "

Id only block you if you asked nicely....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its better to ignore than block cos it drives em potty...

.

Really?

I learn something new everyday!

Id only block you if you asked nicely.... "

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I don't believe I have done anything to deserve that, yet!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Its better to ignore than block cos it drives em potty...

.

Really?

I learn something new everyday!

Id only block you if you asked nicely....

.

I don't believe I have done anything to deserve that, yet! "

I luves to block, unblock, reblock and unblock again.......then when it all seems to have stopped i block again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with Pearl on this one, I'd do the same.

Although I prefer sub males if I were meeting that's what I want to do: meet not cyber!"

.

It further confirms my earlier comment that the person did not pay any attention to details in my profile if I were to receive such a message - way too young, and miles away meaning the chance of a meet is near to zilch!

Definitely delete and block!

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